Be on the Lookout for Men Wearing Butt Plugs in Your Neighborhood

I'm now a Butt Plug Spy

You can become a butt plug detective, too!

Even when I first tried a butt plug back in the 1990s, I was fascinated by the encouragement on the box it came in, to wear it safely for long periods of time. It even said, "Go out and play tennis!" And actually, once I inserted the plug and it settled into my rectum, and the sphincter closed around the shaft, it did feel good, and from that moment, I wondered how long I could wear the plug. It was one of those classic shaped plugs, like a cone with a rubber base.  Back then I wasn't aware of any different materials and I wore that plug off and on for weeks, but of course I did have difficulty wearing it for more than a few hours at a time. I did wear it on a driving trip to my son's wedding and had to stop a couple of hundred miles down the road and remove it. And then the night I arrived at my destination, I slept in it and had weird dreams. But by then, I was able to work around the irritation of the rubber base on my anal opening.

Now that's just a little ancient history of my butt plugging fun almost twenty years ago!

I started up again around December 2012, and by April of 2013, I had found a plug design and glass material that went in, stayed in, and was always comfortable. Since that time, I have become a man's butt man. Yes, I'm gay, and I like to look at men's butts as they pass by in my neighborhood, as I go shopping, and as guys come into the restaurants. Name a place and I'm on duty as a butt plug detective, hoping to spy the give-away outline of a plug in a man's ass. I like to look at young men's asses, old men's butts, fat, thin, and in between. I like the shape of men's butts, and if you're straight, sorry, but I'm going to be looking at your butt, as well, as you walk away or pass within my sight. You probably won't know that your butt is being stared at, or if you're verging on psychic, you might feel a tingling sensation right there in the middle of your butt hole  as I focus my attention on your ass.

Men don't have to be naked, either, for me to enjoy looking.

Now I have to confess that I just don't know why I like living every day and night with a plug in my ass. I just do. It has a pacifier effect, I suppose. It concentrates my focus as I walk and stand outside talking to passersby. I've never understood the "fullness" some butt pluggers talk about, but it could be the "solidly plugged" feeling I get when I'm wearing a plug dry. I like the nice hard feeling the glass shaft has keeping my sphincter partly open, and when I clinch at night in bed, it sends signals to my cock to stiffen. Some nights I keep my cock hard and pull the foreskin back and thumb the head of my cock, to keep it pulsing, almost to orgasm, but I back off and go through the cycle again. During the day the foreskin stays slick. 

Again,  I urge all men to get in touch with your butt hole, your sphincter, your prostate from the inside, your rectum; fill it with a plug, and go play tennis!

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Butt Plug Issues

Why Can't I Keep My Butt Plug In?

Over the course of the last two years, on numerous sex forums that I keep up with, I've noticed that many men are not getting the memo about how to comfortably wear a butt plug, except for short term fuck sessions.

They say that after awhile they feel discomfort, their skin gets irritated, they can't sit down for various reasons, but the number one complaint is they can't keep the butt plug in; they have to wear straps, and otherwise force that sucker to stay in place. Others have freaked out because the plug goes up into the rectum, on its way to dark hole of Calcutta.

Reasons for discomfort
I'm sorry, but I am not convinced that silicone plugs can be as comfortable as glass and metal when it comes to skin irritation around the anal opening. It takes frequent lubing to keep the base and shaft of the silicon plug from rubbing you the wrong way. If you've not tried metal or glass, consider switching.

The shape and size of the butt plug can also cause discomfort. If you're going to go long term, say twelve hours, you cannot wear a plug that is going to take up a lot of space in your rectum. Simply put, you're going to suffer gas buildup, fecal crowding, and get your prostate massaged TOO MUCH.

If your ass is greedy and wants bigger and bigger plugs, go for it, but you will not be able to use those monsters when you go out dancing, bike riding, doing yard work, and going shopping.

Consider the base of the butt plug. Any design, where the plug is glass, metal, or silicone where the base of the plug sits perpendicular to the butt cheeks is going to cause irritation. I personally think a base on a plug that is shoved up a man's ass is sexy as hell looking, but those designs will irritate the longer you try to wear them. So far, a circular base that fits between the butt cheeks like a coin in a slot is the best I have found. Second to that (for me) is the NJOY plugs with their oval base. And finally a ball base or a T-shaped base might allow comfort for a longer period of time.

Reasons for plugs falling out, or climbing into the rectum

Guys, this plug will not stay in, nor will similarly designed
plugs.

A DILDO is NOT a butt plug. Dildos are designed for maximum butt fucking. And I have to admit, a big dildo can be pleasurable for a short term butt pounding. But the reason why a dildo is not good for long term wear is there is no shaft, around which the sphincter can squeeze shut to hold the dildo in place. But that also goes for a poorly designed butt plug that doesn't have enough differential between the size of the bulb that goes inside the rectum and the size of the shaft. There should be at least a 2:1 ratio between the widest part of the plug that goes inside the rectum and the shaft, which is held in place by the sphincter muscles. A two-inch bulb should have no more than a one-inch shaft.

The plug will not fall out if there is this ratio between the bulb and the shaft—unless of course your sphincters are stretched and "ruined" from fisting and huge dildo fucks. I know that some guys want to destroy the ass, and that's fine, but it's not if you're going to wear a plug when you go out for the evening or sit at work plugged.

And finally, too much lube can allow the circle base to slip inside and go past the sphincter and begin its climb into your body. Early on, I had a couple of crises when I was using too much lube—so much lube, in fact, that I had to wear double the briefs and boxers to keep the oily stain from soaking through and showing on my jeans.

Too much prostate massage

You will eventually feel overwhelmed if the design of your plug keeps pressing against the prostate without relief. At the very least, you'll keep feeling like you have to pee. More pleasurably but kind of messy is you'll keep leaking precum into your underwear. When that happens to me, I like to collect it on my finger and lick it up.

As most of you probably know, I have found long-term plugging Nirvana with this plug, here. It has an angled head, which I wear away from the prostate. The differential between the head of the plug and the shaft is 2:1, and the ring base fits between my butt cheeks like a coin in a slot. It's surprisingly easy to sit down on, which almost looks counter-intuitive. Also note that the ring base also has a 2:1 differential to the shaft.

No, I am not advocating for this plug above all others for long-term plugging. But I am advocating for this design or something similar. You might feel hesitant to wear glass in your ass. Try metal instead.

But I digress. The overall design of plugs that are ideal for long-term wear of twelve or more hours has an angled head, so that you can wear it away from your prostate, has a shaft that is twice as narrow as the bulb that goes inside the rectum, and has either a ring base (not a round base that sits perpendicular to your butt cheeks), an oval base, a ball base, or a T-base. And any of these need to be likewise twice as big as the shaft.

Living Plugged Evolution

Three Phases of Living plugged

So far, now into one year and eight months of living plugged, I've experienced three phases of staying plugged 24/7/365 (with minor exceptions here and there). I don't remember the exact number of months I stayed in one phase and then drifted into another phase. But so far there have been three:

1. Learning to live plugged
In this phase I had to learn how to control my digestion, had several near crises when I was out in public with my plug in place and ended up having to do clean up in a public toilet. I learned which foods rushed through my system and which ones were slower to digest. I also went through three different plugs. Actually I tried out five different plugs, including the months from December 2012 through April 2013, where I first got a silicone plug shaped like a cone. My next plug was the stainless steel NJOY, which is when I began plugging 24/7. This was followed by a blue glass plug with a ring base.

2. Settling in comfortably plugged
In this phase I went from the blue plug (it's head was only 1.5 inches in diameter with a thin shaft) to the Devi Prisms glass plug, with a 2 inch head, but still a thin shaft. About one-half-inch to three-quarter inches in diameter. I used this one through most of this phase, but I knew my ass could take a bigger plug. As it turned out, I went to the Icicles #14 plug. The only difference was that the shaft was one-inch in diameter and the head was still only two inches. However, I discovered that the fatter shaft, continually keeping my sphincter open a full inch provided the greatest pleasure. Once the head gets past the sphincter the only thing it stimulates with any real feeling is the prostate; but living plugged requires that I turn the angled head away from the prostate, and so essentially, the most pleasure and feeling came from the shaft.

In this phase was when I wore a pair of briefs next to my ass, and on top of that I wore a pair of boxers. I did this, because in this phase I was lubing with both water-based gel and silicone based lube. In this phase, I also perfected my dosage of Imodium to keep my digestion slow, so that my BMs were nice and firm and big. You can feel it move out of the rectum, and the tissue comes away clean.

3. The Icicles #14 plug with the larger shaft
This phase overlaps the second phase, and I attribute this phase to the perfect shape and size of the Icicles #14. A reader wrote to tell me that he was disappointed, because after awhile he said he could barely tell the plug was there, and I'm supposing that he wanted to feel stimulated to near orgasm all the time. Each of us likes to use butt plugs for different reasons. In the short-term use, it seems to me that the whole point of using a plug is to stimulate the anus and prostate during sex, so that ejaculation is powerful and intense. For maybe 12-hour plugging or sleeping plugged, the point is still to massage the prostate, and so when wearing the Icicles, the NJOY or other similarly shaped plug (with an angled head) you could say that the user is "edging" and will end this longer-term plugging session with an ejaculation.

But when I'm living plugged, the point of ejaculation is completely irrelevant. There's just something about having a plug in my ass, no matter what I'm doing that brings the more subtle pleasure. Further, in this third phase, I have gone dry (or almost dry), now into my third month. In this phase, keeping my dosage of Imodium up and watching what I eat, I have such clean BMs that I more often than not don't even have to do an enema; so in this phase, you could say that keeping the glass plug in my ass has become the most natural. By now the glass plug is home in my ass and there are no issues. I can tell by certain feelings that a BM is imminent, and the sooner that I take care of that, the easier it is to replug without much clean up. Nine times out of ten the plug comes out of my ass clean and dry, and it goes right back in after my business with just a lick of spit. My rectum is never uncomfortable with the dry plug.

Phase 4?
Who knows what's next in living plugged. I have never tired of keeping a plug in my ass and I'm reminded of being plugged throughout the day and night. There's a bit of a secret thrill of going about my day with a plug in my ass and talking to people, sitting in restaurants, the theater, walking, driving that just keeps me going. I'm sure that a psychiatrist would have a field-day with my desire to keep the plug inside of me. I'm also sure that anti-gay and anti-anal preachers would like to claim that I now have to stay plugged. But that is not the case. I cannot really tell you why this is the most lovely thing to be plugged all the time. I'm sure it could also be called a festish, but really...so what?

Plugged Solid

I can't stop talking about dry plugging!

As many of you know, I've been living plugged now for coming up on two whole years. I've related the feelings and techniques of staying plugged over the course of that time. This is of course only my experiences with plugging and what I have learned from other guys who have written to me.

In October, I took a ten-day road trip, covering three-thousand miles, and I elected NOT to be plugged during that time. In a way it was a good time to find out if I had done permanent stretching to my sphincter and anal opening. I was never worried, because even after all this time living plugged, I never had a problem retaining an enema during my clean out periods during the day. But I did find that even after ten days of being deliberately unplugged, the two-inch head of my Icicles #14 glass plug went in easily. It was certainly not like the first time I had tried a two-inch plug. Back then, I thought I was never going to get it in without a great deal of pain. I'm not into pain.

Nonetheless, the plug went back into my hungry hole, and the whole family of butt, cock, sphincter, and prostate, welcomed the plug back after that absence.

For most of the time that I have been living plugged, I was always careful to use lube, having read how the rectum is not self-lubricating. And during that time, I wrote about how intense was the feeling when I would stand up from a sitting position when the plug shaft moved slightly due to the lube, giving me a real intense thrill in my sphincter. There were other feelings that combined with the lube, the plug did to me that felt really good. They never got old hat, so to speak, and living plugged throughout the day and night came with a whole spectrum of hot zingers.

This pretty butt just make me want
to take a bite of it, plug and all!

And then, shortly before my trip, I decided to cut way down on the lube, which I did, finally graduating to spit as the only "lube" that I used, and that was mainly to get the glass plug back in after a BM or cleaning...whatever.

Now, during the rest of October (twenty-one days) that I have been plugged again 24/7, I have to report that I don't use lube at all, just a little spit on the plug to get it past the shaved skin at the anal opening. One reader told me that he'd never used lube for his NJOY pure plug either.

So now, after a BM and if necessary an enema, I attempt to dry the anal opening before inserting the plug. Nor do I lathe on the spit to the plug, either. I just lick it slightly, and with my cheeks spread I slip the plug into my rectum. As I said in a previous post, what I achieve with a dry plugging is that once the plug is in place, it is solidly in place. I get a faint reminder of the plug because my sphincter is spread to one inch (the diameter of the shaft). And this solidly plugged feeling is different from the lubed plug feeling. I like it. I especially like to finger my ass around the plug ring, which is the only part of the plug that stays outside the body, and really, with the ring base, even part of the base is enthusiastically intruding on the sphincter.

As usual, I am hard writing about this, and I divide my conscious awareness between my head and my butt/cock as I write.

Constant readers might be aware that I don't post nearly as much as I did during the first year of this blog. My main concern is that I just don't have that much to report that is too different from the other posts. Just remember, and try to imagine, what it must feel like to be constantly plugged, night and day, so that you do EVERYTHING wearing a plug. Next time I take such a long road trip, I will be plugged.

The Eggplant…

Dry-Boning, Part 2

New Sensations from Dry-Boning

Over the course of the last 550 days (how long I've been living plugged), I have had a chance to experiment with the dynamics of living plugged. I did take ten days off to make a trip without a plug, but I'm back on schedule. What that ten-day experience without a plug in my ass showed me was that it would take a while longer for my relaxed sphincter to return to a very tight state. After the ten days without a plug the 2-inch diameter plug went in easily. I remember back in April 2013, when I first got a glass plug that was two-inches in diameter, I was about ready to give up and go back to my 1.5 inch plug, because the 2-inch plug was so intimidating.

You Go, Boy!

It wasn't long after wearing that plug, the Prisms glass plug, that I wanted something just a bit bigger in both the egg and the shaft. I was unable to find a bigger glass egg, so I "settled" for the Icicles #14, which I found in my local adult toy store. The shaft was 1-inch in diameter, but the egg was still only two inches. This was about six months into living plugged, and I learned that much of the thrill of being plugged was in the action on the sphincter—not the prostate.

And then well into my second year of living plugged, I experimented with reducing the amount of lube I used, as well as the kind I used. I had been wearing a pair of briefs and a pair of boxers because of the oil the lube leaked out of my drawers. So I switched to various water-based lubes and finally settled for aloe gel. Expert pluggers will tell you that water-based lubes will not last as long as silicon/oil based lubes, and it is true. Thereafter I began cutting down on the aloe, getting dryer and dryer as I went. Experts will also tell you that the anus does not lubricate itself, and while that is true, one needs far less lube with glass or steel plugs than they do with silicone and other such plugs.

I wrote a short article about "dry-boning" and using minimal amounts of aloe gel. And now, following my ten-day vacation from plugging, I am here to tell you that I have gone completely dry on the lube. The sensation of the plug in my unlubed ass is very "there." I was spitting on the head of the plug to get it past my shaved ass skin, but I noticed that as the head went into the anus the skin inside and the slickness of the glass allowed me to get the plug into my rectum, and the sensation of being really PLUGGED SOLID gave me an instant erection. The "hurts so good" sensation is also there, and last night, I couldn't keep my mind off the plug and the sensation of dry boning. I do not recommend that you try this unless you are living plugged. The sphincter has to be somewhat permanently relaxed to receive the plug, and I feel (although I don't know because I haven't tried it) that the friction and resistance would be damaging using anything but gloriously, naturally slick glass or stainless steel.

Need I say more? Also note the gigantic phallic symbol on
the building to the right of the butt plug.

An Aside: Did you see the worlds largest butt plug erected in Paris by the American Artist who claimed it was a minimalist Christmas Tree. About all it had in common with a Christmas tree was its color. No one bought the artist's attempt to fool the public, and vandals later deflated it. Towler Road had a comment from a heterosexual plugger who maintains that it's not just the gay men who are supporting the billion dollar butt plug industry but a lot of straight men who are in touch with their anal side, and to that I say, right on!

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Unplugged for a Road Trip

Giving Up My Butt Plug on Vacation

It was a difficult decision to break my plugging streak by leaving my butt plug at home when I went on a recent ten-day road trip. I wouldn't have if I had been traveling alone, but my partner of 22 years was with me, and he doesn't know that I plug. I didn't want to carry the obvious kinds of supplies that I would need in case of emergency, needing to clean up in case my digestion interfered with my plugging, as it sometimes does. Further, we were going to be eating a wide variety of foods on the road, lacing them with unhealthy snacks, and quite a few sodas—all of which was going to upset my routine.

It was the right decision. For example on the leg of the trip from Natchez, Mississippi, through Louisiana and on into central Texas in one day, I became bloated and gassy (fried food, sodas, unhealthy snacks, and stress from driving unfamiliar roads), and being bloated and gassy is anathema to staying plugged.

On the other hand, when I make the same trip to our new home when we move, I will make the road trip and my partner will fly. That will give me the opportunity to maintain my plug as needed with the right kind of supplies on hand.

The real reason for this post, however, is to describe what it was like to be unplugged after having been plugged 24/7/365 for the last year and a half. I was surprised that I didn't miss plugging in a visceral way. Yes, the desire to be plugged never left me, as I thought about our activities and how much better it would have been to feel the plug working my rectum and sphincter, but I forgot about it quite often for long stretches. We did a lot of uphill and downhill walking, and on shorter day trips I have always enjoyed feeling the plug inside as I drive. Clinching an empty hole was not nearly as enjoyable as clinching with my butt plug in place. As one of my friends said, my butt was going to protest: "Butt, butt, I wants it!" kind of like Gollum and his precious. And then there was trying to get to sleep without the Teddy Bear effect of being comfortably plugged. I got up numerous times during the night and felt a little funny without the plug.

Note the hollow sleeve that the double dong is
inserted into...hot!

The most interesting thing to me, however, was whether the two-inch diameter was going to be like using it the first time when I finally got home and inserted it. I figured that my hole is probably a little stretched normally, because the shaft of the plug keeps my sphincter open an inch all the time. That may not sound like much, but when the sphincter is used to being forced open without relief I wondered if it would slowly, over the ten days return to its former tight clinch. During the trip, I stuck my fingers in my ass and measured how easy or difficult it was to insert them. I was surprised that being unplugged for ten days in a row did not significantly reduce the somewhat loose feeling of the sphincter, and on the evening we got home, the first order of business, once we unloaded the car was to do an enema cleanse and get plugged.

Hot butt!

While there was some resistance to the two-inch diameter of the head of the plug, it went in easy, and once that was past the sphincter, it popped back into place, with an audible sigh and welcoming hug from my butt, as it closed around the plug. Another effect was that I stayed semi-hard throughout that first night and into the next day. So now I have been replugged three 24-hour days and everything is back to normal—plugged and happy.

When I next make this trip by car by myself, I will attempt to stay plugged. I also like to keep my dick out of my pants and keep it hard by edging it, which always makes the miles fly by.

I've also sometimes tempted fate by keeping my cock out of my pants when I stop at rest areas, covering it with only my shirttail as I head into the men's room. But that's the subject of another kind of blog. As I write this, I'm plugged and I think again, as I have over the past year and a half, living plugged is just plain enjoyable, a private kind of thrill that makes ordinary activities more enjoyable.

You'll need to go into full screen mode to enjoy this video. The guy is using an Aneros stimulator. He's having a full-body orgasm (and incidentally probably messing up his sheets!)


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Dry-Boning with a Butt Plug

Using my Butt Plug Dry, part 2

As I indicated in one of my recent posts, I've been experimenting with using my glass butt plug without lube, and now a few weeks into this experiment, I can say that while it's not for the faint of heart or the really sensitive anus, dry-boning has some distinct advantages and differences than using lube.

I think I'm coining a phrase here: dry-boning. It comes from my much younger days when I had a slew of fuck buddies, and I got fucked often enough that I generally only had to have spit before I could take a cock up my ass. The phrase also uses "boning" to mean getting fucked by a hard cock. But in my case, now, I dry-bone with my plug.

The first difference is that without lube, the movement of the plug, specifically the shaft, is restricted. In one sense, I'm giving up that delicious sensation when I stand up from sitting for awhile, that I get when the plug shaft slips slightly. That is a real zing! And likewise, sitting back down, the shaft is pushed up slightly. When the plug is dry, though, the sphincter seals itself around the dry plug tighter, and there's no slipping of the shaft up or down in the sphincter. This is an advantage because it really seals my butt shut. I'm truly plugged. It's even difficult to let a fart escape. The disadvantage is also the same thing: it's difficult to let a fart escape. So I do have to remove the plug a little more often to relieve the pressure.

The second difference is that I get a harder more definite squeeze on the plug when I clinch, and if you're a guy who gets fucked a lot, you know what I'm talking about when I mention the delicious pain when the sphincter is used a lot. It's not a hurtful pain but a kind of never-ending feeling of a hard cock lodged in my ass.

I keep my anal opening shaved, which means that while it's smooth, it's also not alleviated by hair to provide a little bit of slip, nor do I get any uncomfortable hair pulls. Clean up is of course much better with a shaved ass. Now, let me be clear. I couldn't get a completely dry glass plug in my ass without either using spit or running the plug under water just before insertion. But that does not act as a lube, since it quickly dissipates once the plug is in place. I also think, but your experience may be different, that only smooth glass or steel would make dry-boning possible without horrible irritation. So I would not recommend even trying a silicon plug without lube. There would be too much friction and removing it after, say, a couple of hours, would really hurt, if not also tear the sensitive butt tissue inside the rectum.

Riding Red Plug:

Men Pleasuring Themselves with Anal Toys

Men Pleasuring Themselves and Each Other

I've chosen a series of photos from the web that shows how men (gay and straight) can derive unique and very erotic pleasure from butt plugs, dildos, and double dongs. Take a look and enjoy...

I like to see what's going on in photos like this one. This guy is watching gay porn while enjoying the pleasure of a dildo. I like the way he's trying to get maximum pleasure by spreading his legs. But I also like the fact that he naked only from the waist down and is wearing shoes. Notice also the arch in his back. This is just a real intense self-pleasuring moment for him. What do you think he's thinking about? I bet his mind is totally blank and all his focus is on his anus.

In this luscious photo we have a guy who has given some thought about his back door. Splitting the seam in jeans to allow cock and dildo access is extremely sexy to me. And he is obviously enjoying stretching his hole. Nice butt, too. This picture just has that raw male energy when it comes to anal pleasuring.

I like this photo because of the guy in the middle. Just a group of guys enjoying some naked, erotic pleasure, but the guy in the middle is the one using his friends to position himself, legs spread wide and resting them on the other guys, while he drives a dildo up his ass. Is their buzz cuts indicative that they're soldiers? I can fantasize, can't I? And the look on the middle guy's face tells me he enjoys pleasuring himself while his buddies look on.

Aside from the fact that the guy with the butt plug has a sweet ass, flawless skin, and a nice little ass, I like it because he's revealing his little secret for his friend to discover, once he pulls those jeans down. This is another sexy pose to me. Maybe he wore the plug on his trip to meet his friend. Maybe they just happened to feel a spark for a little sex in some public place, and voila! He reveals his plugged butt.

I've never had the pleasure of sharing a double dong with a guy, but this is male bonding at its sexiest. It would be neat to see a video of such a cooperative effort on both their parts as they get into position and each takes an end of the dong up his ass...and then begin the fucking motion. Each guy pushing against the dong would simultaneously drive it into the ass of the other. I also wonder if the ultimate goal is to get the dong inside so deep that they can jam their butts together!






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Living Plugged 24/7 Requires Daily Planning

You have to plan for contingencies every day

Some men have written to tell me that they're also trying to live plugged or plug long-term, and in the discussions I've had with those men I decided to relate how living plugged 24/7 does require planning for contingencies every day.

For example, my partner and I went out to dinner the other night, and before we left the house, I did a check of my plug to see if it came out clean. This is a good indication that I'm not about to need to have a BM or take care of "build up" in my rectum. Besides dinner, we were also going to go grocery shopping. Our choice of food that night was Chinese. And rice is a good dish to eat (for me), since white rice contributes to a slow digestion. However, we had fried rice, and I added an egg roll. My past experience with this kind of meal led me to believe that I wouldn't face a crisis shortly after eating while we were grocery shopping.

But shortly after eating and arriving at the grocery store, I felt a build-up of gas and some bloating. If it didn't get any worse, I felt I could make it through shopping. But the intensity increased, so I had to use the store's restroom. It might have been a disaster had I not planned on how I would handle a clean-up of both myself and the plug, be able to re-insert the plug and go about shopping. First, when I entered the bathroom I took two wet paper towels with me into the stall. This way I wouldn't have to depend on the cheap toilet tissue and still leave any residue on the plug. So after I pulled it out while in the stall, I was relieved to see that there was no buildup and I was not in danger of having a messy incident. But with the wet towels, I was able to clean the glass plug until it was nice and shiny, as well as running my fingers inside my rectum to also make sure there wasn't anything unwanted in there. I used the second wet towel to clean my fingers. As some of you may know, I can wear the glass (metal would work too) almost dry, so to reinsert the plug all I had to do was use a little spit, push it back in and continue shopping. It turned out that I merely needed to alleviate the gas buildup and was able to finish grocery shopping.

Better planning would have been to put a soaking wet paper towel along with some coconut oil in a small plastic bag, but the principle is the same.

When we go to the movies, of course, I have extra time at home to do an enema and make sure my rectum is nice and clean before heading out for the evening. While I sit all day at my computer, the reclining seats in the theater often force the ring base of the plug further into my rectum than my desk chair does at home, and I have learned that when I suddenly feel a bit of discomfort, as if I have to evacuate that it is usually nothing more than the top arc of the ring sliding deeper into my rectum and causing the sphincter to open.  In such a case, I keep my belt a little looser and can slip my hand into the back of my pants, take hold of the ring base and pull it out just a little. And yes, I have had to do cleanup in the theater restrooms at one time or another, but usually its the same as the grocery store experience.

This is important to note. It is not a good idea when going out for the evening our out in public for more than two or three hours to use too much lube. This is what causes the ring base to go into the sphincter too easily. In my case, the dryer the plug the better. The thing about glass and steel plugs, over the silicon plugs is that I can get by with a dry hole and feel no discomfort whatsoever.

Further staying plugged as I have coming up on eighteen months is that I get to know what each kind of feeling means, and if I feel a roiling in my stomach and an enema still leaves me feeling "vulnerable" to an incident, I simply leave the plug out for two or three hours. This allows the rectum to adjust. If I have to have a BM, then I just wait until it is time. If I have had an inefficient enema and I know my rectum is not really clean, then I wait until it is. The rectum doesn't carry poop in it like a storage compartment. It stays clean most of the time, until the digestion is complete and it's time to evacuate.

Some guys have been reluctant to monitor their bowel habits or to prevent "the runs" for example by making sure that the food they eat will not contribute to that condition. In my case (after some research) I discovered that in my case I need to slow down digestion by taking Imodium every day. This ensures a good firm BM in the mornings, and if I have a clean one and the toilet paper comes away clean, then I know I can simply re-insert the plug after a morning BM and go well into the afternoon before any maintenance is required.

Note the angled head.
Toward the prostate (short-term)
Away from the prostate (long-term)

I have even been gone from home the entire day, driving to a distant destination, doing whatever I do, and driving home, without feeling any discomfort from the plug. Different sitting surfaces have different effects on the way the plug behaves. The most important part of the plug is first the base. The ring base is the best thing I have found to make plugging completely discomfort free. And by a ring base, I don't mean a round base that sits perpendicular to my butt cheeks, but parallel to my butt cheeks and fits between them, so that only the bottom arc of the ring shows. See the picture on this site in the right column. That's my ass plugged with a ring base. The second most important part of the plug I wear for long term plugging is, oddly enough, the shaft. This is what provides continual activity to my sphincter and what provides the little thrills of feeling throughout the day. Finally, the NJOY-shaped bulb that sits at an angle on the shaft is very important to living plugged. Wear the angled head AWAY from the prostate for daily/nightly wear. Turn the angled head toward the prostate when you want to massage the prostate during sex. Discipline yourself to eat the foods that won't cause "irritable bowel" and sudden need to evacuate. If lettuce runs through you like shit through a goose, then find another green substitute that won't act so quickly on your digestion. Staying "regular" is essential to living plugged. A firm stool is also essential to keeping a clean rectum. Imodium reduces the water content of the stool. At least that's what I use. It works for me.

That marvelous gape!

Playing with My Plugged Rectum

Fingering My Ass While Plugged

One thing about living plugged 24/7/365 is that there's never a time (except rarely) when my ass isn't plugged. Sometimes of course when I sit down for a BM I momentarily forget, and then realize I have to remove the plug first. At those times, I like to run my finger around the ring, get into the upper arc of the ring and then feel of my anal opening, which is shut around the shaft. You can do this with a plug with a base that sits perpendicular to your anal opening, but it's quite a bit more intimate and interesting when you use a ring base. I've tried to describe this as how the ring fits between the butt cheeks, and how the upper arc of the ring is pushing against the sphincter.

Look at the Guy's Expression. He likes the way
that ass feels.

I like to push my finger(s) into the rectum, parallel to the shaft, and see how far I can get my finger...sometimes touching the plug "egg", past the sphincter. With glass (or metal) this is really easy to do, and it feels good, both to my finger tips, which gets to feel the interior of my anal opening as well as feels good to my ass.

But of course the very best time to play with my ass is when I'm in bed, right after a shower and a good enema, when I could push the entire plug, ring base and all past the sphincter and feel it disappear into my rectum. At such times it's a bit scary, because it seems that the plug wants to travel deep into my body and go exploring in the upper reaches of the sigmoid area. Once I had to rush to the bathroom and squat on the floor, digging into my ass with one finger and snag the ring base. But back to the fingering. You need to imagine just how the egg, shaft, and ring base work. The ring is parallel to my butt cheeks, and so at the very least, the upper arc of the ring is pushing against the lower sphincter area. So getting a finger in there just past the top of the ring is the real thrill. I have spent several hours at night getting no sleep but playing with my rectum, twisting the plug around and around inside, getting an extreme erection and then jacking off.

Nice Activity, here

The rest of the 24 hours in a day is spent just feeling my butt plugged. Nothing more, just plugged. Staying plugged is also a great way to keep the anal opening ready for a good fuck. Straight guys could wear a plug all day, and then have their wife or GF peg them good and hard, and then reinsert the plug and fall asleep with a goony grin. But any guy can enjoy the constant feeling of a nice hard object in their ass. Since I've been wearing a plug nonstop since April of 2013, I can assure you that while the sphincter is still tight enough to hold an enema, getting a two-inch plug past the sphincter has become very easy. I'm sure if I laid off being plugged, say, for a month, things would get back to normal. As it is, though, I can get three fingers in my ass with no trouble and wiggle the fingers inside. I'm not interested in fisting, but if I were, staying plugged would be a good way to get ready for it.

I may have used this Aneros video before, but I just love the intensity of his anal play.

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