The Deep Pleasure of Weary Butt

What is Weary Butt? Why is it pleasurable?

I'll just bet this guy will get "weary butt"!

Anyone reading this blog will eventually discover that I virtually live with a plug in my ass 24/7/365 and have been doing so since late 2013. Over these past four years, I have only written about "weary butt" in context to times when being plugged sometimes makes my butt feel weary. You know the feeling...everyone is weary at times. But "weary butt" is caused by wearing a plug and working it inside your ass a little more than enthusiastically than usual, or maybe for some during a long session where you stretch your ass with bigger and bigger plugs, for the sheer pleasure of it and afterwards your butt feels worn out for a while.

Guys who read this blog will also know what it's like to fuck or masturbate over the course of a day a lot more than usual, and maybe having a very tired (but extremely good feeling) cock that continues to throb after fucking or masturbating several times in a few hours. This continual throbbing that is slow to subside can also occur inside the butt. I get it sometimes when I have to do aggressive enemas to get myself cleaned out. After that, when I ram the plug back in my ass, I have weary butt and can feel the muscles throbbing, slowly subsiding. The plug during these times feels more present and I cannot forget for even a moment that I've got my Icicles #14 in my ass.

I can also imagine (although I've never had one) that the steel plugs that weigh more than a pound inside the ass might eventually cause weary butt from the sheer weight, constantly sitting on the inside of the sphincter and trying to come out. It won't of course, because of the size of the head vs. the slender shaft, and the way the sphincter is always trying to close when not "in use."

In this post, I'd like to talk about why I finally not only got used to occasional weary butt but have learned to enjoy it a great deal. It's like edging the cock. You know the feeling if you edge for hours or even all night or all day. The cock gets so hot (feverish) and sensitive that when you touch it after a while, it feels like you're just on the verge of a cum explosion, and the end for many after edging is to finally give in to the urge to masturbate to completion. That's what weary butt is for me, these days, like I've been edging my ass and the sphincter is throbbing and the prostate is thoroughly massaged and I'm on the edge of a cum explosion. But with edging the butt, I just let the pleasure of the feeling continue until it subsides. I don't cum very often. I prefer to keep myself on edge, so that when I go out in public with my butt plugged, it's just a private feeling for myself.

Now, I'd also like to assert that getting to the point of weary butt and what you've been doing to the inside of the rectum is very healthy, because you've worked those muscles and the flesh in your ass so that there's plenty of health-giving blood flow throughout the entire region.

Here's a really hot plugging, ass-fucking, gape inducing session...

Revisiting WHY butt plugs cure hemorrhoids

Can a butt plug really cure hemorrhoids?

Yes.

I was plagued with hemorrhoids after spending my entire adult working life sitting behind a desk. I also know from being told that truck drivers, for example, are prone to hemorrhoids, because they also do a lot of sitting. But after four years of living plugged 24/7/365, I haven't had a single hemmie.

If we had a tiny camera to show us what the anal opening (that scrunched up little pucker) is doing throughout the day, we would of course see that it opens and closes to allow turds to pass out of our bodies (or cocks to slide in), but more importantly, we would see that simply walking is going to cause that anal opening area to move and scrunch, and we also have muscles that we can contract that also cause some movement on the sphincter. Sitting all day would just cause that area to be scrunched up with no healthy movement. But another important point is to look closely at the anus opening on the left. See all that wrinkled skin? If you don't clean yourself thoroughly every day and during the day, guess what? It's going to collect waste matter, allow a perfect environment for bacteria and that will just exacerbate the problem.

The classic butt plug is so-called because of
its shape.

Some of my readers follow this blog looking for answers to their own hemorrhoids, and I thought their questions were important. First, I don't think it's necessary to be plugged 24/7/365. That's just my own delicious fetish. I remember that even when I tried my first plug over 20 years ago, the first thing I ever thought about was keeping the plug in my ass, because it felt so good.

And I tried, oh how I tried, but back then plugs were just these rubber things that look like the "classic" plug. I soon discovered I could easily sleep in this first plug, but I couldn't wear it for long once I was up and moving around. The problem was always the base. It was a rounded  thing like a stopper against my anal opening and no matter how soft the base was or how thick or how thin, it eventually dug into my anal opening skin between my butt cheeks. And eventually I just gave up using a butt plug at all. That was until 2013 when I eventually bought the icicles (after trying the modern classic and other plugs). My ass with the Icicles inserted is in the upper righthand corner of this blog post. That's my ass and it's sporting what I call the donut-shaped ring base that fits between my butt cheeks like a coin in a slot. It's fairly thick, smooth glass and it NEVER hurts.

Not only that, but the top of the ring (attached to the shaft) slips into the anal opening a little when I'm sitting and comes out a little when I stand, so it provides some massaging of the anal opening. But the glass plug has a shaft that's about 1.5 inches long, is about 3/4 inches in diameter and even when I'm sitting it holds the sphincter open, as the sphincter tries to close, and walking causes all kinds of cool movement. Thus the anal opening and sphincter are constantly being massaged. That is the key to reversing the effects of the hemorrhoids...blood flow, movement, massage, all done with such a smooth object there's never any discomfort. The Icicles is curved as well, I stick it in my butt with the curved head away from my prostate. Otherwise, I'd be getting a prostate massage all day long and that can be a bit uncomfortable after a while.

Because the butt plug works on the sphincter and the anal opening throughout the day the massage effect does wonders for eventually bringing the anal opening back to health, as if you're leading an active life and not a sedentary one. Of course, I am meticulous about enemas and cleanliness, as well. And, I have to say, if I have a bout of the runs or have eaten food that wants to go through me faster than normal, I have no qualms about going without my plug for the duration. Diet plays an important part too in keeping me regular. No lettuce for me. I make up for my greens with other vegetables. I also eat a high fiber diet, which helps to bulk up the waste and elimination is clean. And even though we call it a butt PLUG, it won't plug the hole and things can get messy.

Here's a simple video of a man inserting a butt plug...

Anal Stretching and Ruined Holes

While this is not for me, I enjoy looking at impossibly large butt plugs in guys' holes...

The rush of feeling on the sphincter must be intense!

I like to use my Icicles Glass plug absolutely dry (it'll get moist inside the rectum, anyway, but it won't be lubed at all), which means I get extreme intense feeling of the sphincter, putting a kind of stress on it that maybe stretching does, a kind of hurts so good kind of feeling that makes me want to sit down on hard surfaces and rock back and forth to get that sphincter action. It's the kind of feeling that for the first couple of hours, the dry-plug effect doesn't go away and keeps me gently hard, and all I have to do to re-ignite the horniness is just pay attention to how it feels. I can currently feel my anal opening and the sphincter kind of throbbing, feel my cock engorging with blood, and a simple contraction of my ass muscles ties the two feelings together, with a surge of feeling all down in that area.

I also currently have my cock and balls hanging out of my pants, just covered with  the shirttails, and I can walk outside near the sidewalk of my house and know that just a puff of wind might reveal my cock to anyone passing by. No...I'm not brave enough to take a walk down the street with my cock showing, at least not during the day. But also being plugged adds to the thrill. The precum builds up under my foreskin, and of course I don't let that go to waste. I just dip my finger into my foreskin and get the precum on my finger. I like to suck on it or wipe it on my lips.

But I digress. Anal stretching and ruined holes. I like to see them. I've featured one guy's ruined ass on this blog in the past, so a good thumb through of this blog site archives will reveal him. You will have no doubt when you see his ass, opened and gaping so clearly that you could fist him and not even touch the sides of his anus.



And here is a simple act of anal masturbation with a rod and bumps that got me so hard I nearly gave in to beating my meat, but I didn't want to go that far. I wanted it to last:

I'm Back and Still Plugged

After Four Years of living plugged...

I can still say that I need that plug in my ass all day, all night, 24/7/365.

Cute Kid, nice big butt, love the look of that
plug jammed in there, too.

I apologize for my long hiatus from posting in this blog. As I indicated in my last blog in July 2016, I moved halfway across the country, and it has taken me this long to get settled, to meet new friends, acclimate myself to an entirely different cuisine than my body was used to and I have to say that staying regular is the key to staying plugged. Otherwise there can be nasty and quite embarrassing public crises.

Those of you who have followed me in the past might want to know how I have managed to keep up the enthusiasm for living plugged. After all, it makes sense that like a hot bath, once you've sat in it for awhile, you get used to the heat, and then the heat slowly cools. And that is exactly what has happened to staying plugged. I got used to it and haven't discovered any new angles to write about. It's just there in my ass, so I really haven't had anything new to add to such a post as this. I'm as used to having a plug in my ass as I am to having a cock. And you know that you never get tired of your cock. I still haven't found the very best enema equipment, and of course ideally it would be some sort of hook-up in the shower, where you could slowly push a long flexible hose past the sigmoid colon and on into the small intestine and keep the warm water flowing the deeper you go (never soapy—you don't want to kill the good bacteria). There's an excellent adult toy shop near me, and I have visited a few times, and I finally got around to buying a large plug. But try as I might, I've never been able to get that sucker in, and so I've stuck with my glass plug.

Nice, clean, hairless, naked ass with just that simple
ring announcing what's in his ass. Nice shot to include the
cock ring. But I also like an ass with curly-hair, right up
to the opening.

Nor have I bought an NJOY Pure Plug 2.0. Now that would fit, but I still don't think I could keep it in without discomfort, but only because of the base oval, with the rather sharp edge that digs into the skin of my butt cheeks. I was hoping, and still do that NJOY would eventually improve on that one niggling problem. To me, though, the way the NJOY looks in a man's ass is just about the sexiest look I can think of. You know what he's got stuck in his ass by the simple, clean ring on the outside. And from what I've read the NJOY 2.0 is a pound of steel, so you know what kind of thrill he's getting having that thing inside, the weight, the fullness, and almost zero chance that it's going to come out accidentally because of the very narrow shaft.

I'm glad to see that in my absence from posting that the blog still gets dozens of hits a day.

Here's a hairy-ass with steel plug play:

I Moved Halfway Across the Country

I stayed unplugged, until now...

Because I was under a lot of stress, packing, moving, unpacking, and getting used to a different kind of food that I'm used to, I had to stay unplugged. It is obvious that the body states can interfere with the pleasure of plugging, and a different kind of food can make a difference. So, rather than fighting it, I just stayed unplugged. In fact, the stress was so high that I only masturbated once, and that was at night on my front porch. I was naked, except for a t-shirt, and it was time to mark my territory in my new house. I've masturbated on every new car I've ever bought as well, a kind of claiming it as mine.

But since that masturbation, I have been remarkably un-horny. But this morning, a little over a month to the day that I moved in, my body said it was time to re-plug. I was a bit hesitant, but after an enema that didn't produce much, I barely lubed my ass opening and plugged dry. I allowed for the anal shrinkage that had occurred over the past month, and I took it slowly. There was very little pain, and once the plug popped past my sphincter, I drove my plug home where it belongs.

It feels great to be plugged again. I'm getting hard. I have opportunities in my new home to stay naked, as well as to be naked in my back yard without much fear of the neighbors seeing me. I now live in a lush, green environment, and my back yard is very private. Now that I'm plugged, I can wander around in my yard with my cock out of my pants and play with my dick and masturbate if I want, which I will.

This is a short post. It's just to celebrate my return to living plugged. I hope everyone has missed my posts!

Huge plug in man’s ass:

92mm Plug

Butt Plug in Public, Reprise

Public Butt Plugging is the Most Popular Topic

After almost a half-million hits on this blog, it is evident that most of you are interested in and often like to wear a butt plug in public. Living plugged means that I do it in public every day when I'm out and about town. Sometimes I don't even think about what I'm doing. It just is, but I don't quite ever forget that I'm wearing a plug, and I like to look around at all the people, men and women, and wonder who else just might be wearing a plug. From what I gather from the porn sites I visit with the search tag butt plug, it seems that women, more than men wear butt plugs. And this is also born out in the fact that women use sex toys almost twice as much as men do.

But I've been vindicated time and again on this blog to meet men who love to plug, play with their asses, and quite a few straight men can freely enjoy anal stimulation, as much as gay men do. In fact, some of the wildest anal pluggers who get deeply involved in extreme plugging and anal play are straight men. Good for you!

But, back to public plugging. Most times, it's a little private secret that pluggers have about the fact that they're out and about with a plug firmly embedded in their butts. It's a secret thrill, and maybe that's part of the overall thrill of doing it. It is for me. I've been traveling frequently for the past year, and I can tell you when I stop for gas off the Interstate and go into a busy travel center, I'm super aware of my plug, and it gives me a thrill to feel the plug as I navigate through the men's restroom, stand at the urinal next to some guy and take a piss, as he is doing and toward the end, clinch my ass to feel the plug, or to be seated in a truck stop coffee shop, clinching my butt plug, deep, and watch the asses of the guys as they walk by...are they plugged? I like to think that some of them are.

What'cha think? Southern Good Ole Boy?

I've been traveling to the deep South in the last few months, and it's fun to see that even there they have roadside adult stores. In fact, I think I read that the South is one of the largest consumers of gay porn of all the states. So even in a state, where you might think that there's a great deal of religious suppression, it's not enough to deter many people from sex toys.

So yeah, even traveling long hours by car, I live plugged, and get a thrill each time I stop for gas and mingle among the travelers, sit in a restaurant and feel my lovely plug, tight in my ass, and even when I'm travel weary, I enjoy the interaction with the clerk at the motel I stop at for the night, bone weary though I may be, I enjoy feeling my plug, now hot from my body heat.

Traveling for hours, I can also tell you that the plug gets kind of road weary and grungy (though not with fecal matter), just being in my ass in the same position for so many miles. I enjoy pulling it out in the motel room and running my fingers around inside my ass, because it is so gaping and accessible. And I enjoy giving the glass plug a nice hot bath with soapy water, cleaning up my rectum with a good flush enema, then kissing the plug and putting it back in my ass where it belongs as I lie in the strange bed for that night and fall asleep.

Being plugged in public all the time has moments when I might be talking to someone and suddenly realize I'm plugged, grin inwardly, and keep on talking. I've been to the doctor plugged, hair salon, grocery store, the theater, restaurants, parties, barbecues. I sit on hard surfaces, soft surfaces, lean against the walls with my plug, and in each instance the sensations are different.

On the Road Again!

Took another trip plugged...

I wouldn't be revisiting this subject, if it wasn't for the progress I made on this second 1200 mile trip plugged. I don't remember if I talked about the weary butt I got traveling butt plugged on the first trip, where things became a bit uncomfortable after a few hours on the road, so that I had to stop, walk around, or actually go into a restroom and do a little massaging on my anal opening. Driving plugged for 800 miles did tend to cause discomfort after a long while.

On this second trip, I experienced a lot less discomfort, and it might have been that I was more aware of getting in a good enema before I left and then watched what I ate, as well as keeping the plug moist with aloe, more than I normally would have, since I love the dry plugging sensation.

And after I arrived at my destination on the afternoon of the second day of travel, and through the six days I was there, I was able to stay plugged. On the last trip I had to take a break from plugging, since my digestive system simply did not cooperate. Again, I watched what I ate a lot more on this second trip. Duh...of course keeping the digestive tract free of digesting food is the key. And the kinds of foods that are digesting is also paramount. Stay a little constipated, then flush it out the next time you do an enema.

I also noticed, after driving for about 300 miles before using a restroom and removing the plug for clean up and re-insertion, the plug (but especially the wide shaft) caused me to gape a lot more than it does at home, where I get up and walk around a lot more. Sitting in the same position in the car with my foot on the gas, and sinking into the seat at a certain position, must cause the bulb on the plug and the shaft to sit at such an angle that it stretches the sphincter open. For example, when I stopped for gas and used the restroom to check, after I pulled the plug out, I was gaping about three finger widths. Well, maybe "gaping" is not correct, because the sphincter was closed, but when I moistened the ass with a little aloe and played with my ass, while sitting on the toilet, I was loose enough to easily slide three fingers into the anal opening.

Another effect is that the inside of my rectum was a lot softer, and when I pushed the plug back into place there was a decidedly more intense feeling, as the flesh closed around the bulb and the sphincter closed around the shaft. Gave me a hardon as I walked back out into the store area of the truck stop, freshly re-plugged and ready to get back on the road.

Further...the return trip and another 1200 miles was the best ever. I simply did not need to remove the plug anywhere along the drive, and by the time I walked into my home after eight hours that day, I did not remove the plug. I didn't remove it until the next day, so I must have gone 24 hours plugged without the usual 5-10 minute break to clean and maintain the plug.

Here's a video I just discovered. This guy takes the longest dildo I have ever seen, and it makes you wonder where on earth it goes inside his body!

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Migrating butt plug

Warning: Don't try this unless you take precautions

I have a glass butt plug with a ring base (donut shaped) for easy gripping when I want to remove it, and the base is right at two-inches in diameter, so there's rarely a chance that it will slip inside my rectum. It's safe to say that all plugs are designed with a wide base precisely for that reason—to keep the plug from slipping inside the rectum.

A few times at night before I have fallen asleep, I have enjoyed pushing the ring base past the sphincter, deliberately, so that I get the entire plug inside my rectum, but I usually get up soon thereafter and squat on the toilet to expel it past the sphincter. It's a pleasurable sensation to push the base into the rectum, but it is also very very dangerous. I have always been able to retrieve it, because I didn't leave it in there too long, and even if it slipped a little deeper, I could get my finger through the base and pull it out.

But last night, I decided to see just how far the plug would travel inside my rectum if I didn't take it out, but here's the important detail on this experiment: I secured a string about 10 inches long to the ring base, and even though the whole plug, including the base, was past my sphincter, I left the string outside my body.

During that time, I really enjoyed feeling the whole plug inside, I rolled over, sat up, walked around, lay on my stomach, and after a bit of just lying there, I stuck my finger in my ass, and the ring base was not accessible. I knew I could pull the string and retrieve it, but I wasn't through experimenting.

And then I fell asleep for about three hours. When I awoke (with the whole plug still completely inside my rectum), I reached for the string. Before I went to sleep, there was ten inches of string outside my body, but when I located the string, I realized there was only two inches still outside my body. I had a raging harden, as well, because whatever the hard, glass plug was doing in my rectum, it was stimulating me while I slept. And it had been migrating deeper inside of me.

I stood up and gave a gentle tug on the string. There was absolutely no give, because the plug had migrated past the sigmoid sphincter (about 7 inches inside the rectum) and was lodged, probably at an angle as it entered the large intestine.

Nice to see a man squirm when he's plugged

I didn't panic. Instead I enjoyed the feeling. It's quite different than always having the sphincter stretched open and the base between my butt cheeks. It was a distinctly different sensation. I could barely feel the plug, except with I clinched strongly and all my muscles tightened around the plug.

So, the experiment showed that a plug will definitely migrate deeper into the body if it is not prevented from doing so by the base of the plug. This is how embarrassing trips to the emergency room occur.

To remove the plug, I had to be very gentle but firm, in pulling the plug back out with the string. I slowly inched the plug downward until it reached the rectum, and then I could control the expulsion by doing what you do when you're expelling waste. By the time it got close enough to stick my finger into the butt, I just removed it using the ring, instead of the string. And then I examined the glass plug. It was clean as a whistle. I gave myself an enema, just in case I might have pulled stuff down with the plug (the enema expulsion was just clear water) and after washing the plug to its clear, slick state, I reinserted it and let the base do its job, and slept for the rest of the night.

I won't be doing this again any time soon. While the sensations were interesting and it felt kind of neat to the have plug up in my ass about twelve inches (8 inches of string and 4 inches of plug), I prefer the feel of the shaft of the plug keeping my sphincter stretched open at about an inch in diameter and the head of the plug gently contacting my prostate. After all that is what plugs are for, that is for men. But now I know I could easily accommodate one of those long dongs.

A metal ball inserted without a net so to speak.

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How Long Can You Safely Wear a Butt Plug?

Long-Term Butt Plug Wear

I'm now in my fourth year wearing a butt plug every day and every night. I usually take it out only long enough for a BM, shower, and to relieve bloating. Then I insert it right back inside. Noting that my goal is not to be "permanently" plugged, where I NEVER remove it, as some wearers attempt, even doing their BMs through the plug opening, I would still say it is safe to wear a butt plug for at least 24 hours before removing it for a BM; and then it should be understood that you will put it right back in and go for another hours' long wear.

So the best answer to the question, "How long can you safely wear a butt plug?" is you can wear it forever without serious damage to your rectum, anal opening, sphincter, and in the case of men, to the prostate. However, you can seriously damage your ass and internal tissue if you force a plug inside, wear one that is simply too big, and of the wrong material.

Guys, I know that once you get in touch with your anal sexuality (even if you're straight), it's quite tempting to keep going bigger and deeper, because it really does feel good to be fucked in the ass, have your prostate massaged, and feel everything around your anal opening being stretched. But this is where you have to control your urge, once you begin enjoying anal sex to go to extremes. Some guys go to extremes, and I've shown videos on this blog where guys have flat-out stretched themselves so that they can drive a foot and leg up their asses. Although I refuse to be judgmental about this extreme sort of butt and anal play, it's not for me. So, you are the one to make your anal play safe. But you can wear a butt plug 24/7/365 and do no damage whatsoever.

After almost three years of doing this blog, I see that the most searched term in butt plugging is "wearing a butt plug in public." Like me, if you live plugged, it goes without saying that I wear a butt plug in public whenever I go out, whether it's to the movies, the grocery story, parties, the doctor, meetings, etc. I cannot imagine using a butt plug, however, that causes me pain, irritation, or damage by being in a situation where I have to keep wearing it because there's no place to put it when I'm out in public, if it's not in my ass. Alas, for my viewing pleasure, the vast majority of butt pluggers out in public are women. While that makes for nice viewing for straight men and lesbians, I've love to see vids of guys wearing their butt plugs in public. Of course, since we usually go out in public totally dressed, there could be more guys wearing plugs than one might think.

Anyway, I'm having a great day with my plug buried solid in my ass with no issues of discomfort. That's why I stick to my glass Icicles #14. Not even the base irritates in any way.


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Butt Plugging and the Dynamics of Being a Bottom

Bottoms Control the Action

Although it has been traditional to assume that a male sexual bottom is the passive partner in man on man fucking, let's take another look.

I know this post might not be appropriate for my straight male readers who like to plug their butts, use dildos and have their GFs peg them, but you might be interested to see why a male sexual bottom controls the action when two men are fucking.

Prostate milking with metal dildo:

milking my cock with a big metal dildo pressing my prostate


First, think of what the top is doing. He is using his cock in the ass of his male partner. It could even be that he assumes the missionary top position, or dog style. Each position is one of power over the passive partner. But there's a bit of a fallacy here. All the top is doing is moving his cock in and out of the man's anus. His pleasure is derived from the feel of his cock inside the man's ass, increasing his rhythm until he ejaculates.



Now, think of what the bottom is doing. Is he simply taking the cock in his ass and just lying there? Is he simply accepting the man's cock in the doggy position, and letting the top do all the work? Get all the pleasure?

In fact, the bottom is more active than the top. He controls his kegals so that his sphincter closes and opens to the cock. With really tight control, the bottom can cause the top to have to push harder to get his cock inside, or he can open his sphincter and let the bottom jam his cock as far as its length will allow. And once the top's cock is inside the anus, the bottom can milk the cock in kegal action. When the bottom is on top of the man, he can also rock and rise and fall on the top's cock giving himself more pleasure than the top is getting, because the bottom is getting his prostate massaged, and the top is not.



I prefer the bottom role, although my partner and I do not engage in anal sex, so it's more of what I used to do. However, where living plugged comes in is that over the last three years of living plugged, I have strengthened my anal muscles to a degree that I never have until now. Last night before going to sleep, I clamped my sphincter down on the shaft of the Icicles #14, which has a one-inch diameter shaft. And I held that position for one minute at a time, keeping the squeeze on, then releasing. Over time, all the feeling transferred to my cock, because at the same time that I was squeezing my sphincter around the shaft of the plug, my prostate was getting massaged. My entire anal area inside and out was exploding with feeling. Living plugged 24/7 means that I can do this off and on during the day and night, and it's invisible to anyone around me. I can do this walking, sitting, lying down.