Living Plugged Pros and Cons

I'm just attempting to list the pros and cons of living plugged

Before I begin, I might add that what might be a "con" for me might be a "pro" for someone else.

Disadvantages of "living plugged" (Cons):

• You have to take the plug out to pass waste. I would love to never had to remove the plug.
• So-called permanent plugs simply do not work to get rid of waste.
• You have to regulate what you eat to stay regular, so your stool is not too soft or like "the runs".
• If your bowel movements are not predictable and are troublesome, you have to be very careful in public when being plugged. You should always have a plan for cleanup in a public restroom.
• You have to do enemas to a) clean out the rectum or b) start a bowel movement when you're on the verge of being too constipated, which actually might cause issues in the intestines.
• You have to (should) remove the plug to go through security at airports—otherwise you might get caught and humiliated. Of course someone who loves to cause shock might revel in being "caught" wearing a butt plug (hehehe).
• At the moment, I can't think of any other disadvantages, but I leave this line open to add any that come to mind...

This is how I "dress" at home most
of the time, but also with a plug
in my rectum—and I don't smoke.

Advantages of Living Plugged (Pros):

• You can "edge" 24/7/365. No, it never gets boring, even though I've read where some people think it might. They don't know because they've not tried living plugged, actually.
• You can quickly bring yourself to arousal on demand, simply by clinching your anal muscles...and if you're male easily get an erection.
• You can fuck someone while plugged and when you clinch and thrust, you're catapulted into a new, more intense level of orgasm.
• You can orgasm, and if you don't remove the plug (this takes practice to not remove it) it takes longer for the feelings of the orgasm to subside.
• Sleeping plugged will guarantee erections off and on throughout the night. I can wake up any time and quickly masturbate to completion, because I'm already primed. Sleeping naked while plugged also allows me to come in the bed with the sheets thrown back without having to remove PJs or underwear.
• I have not had a single hemorrhoid since living plugged, starting back in 2012. The right butt plug cures hemorrhoids. The first anal plugs were invented for that and other health reasons. The right plug is smooth, non-porous, and the best ones are either glass or medical grade stainless steel. Glass or steel require very little clean up, do not stain, and never build up a smell over time. It takes very little lube for glass or steel plugs, and it is possible to plug dry. (At the moment, as I write this) I have been dry-plugged now for 21 hours and have not removed the plug at all.
• Living plugged means that your sphincter is always being exercised in a good way, which causes healthy blood flow in the anus and sphincter area (hence, lack of hemorrhoids, for one).
• Since living plugged exercises the sphincter, you get intense rushes of good feelings whenever you sit, stand, move, walk, run, sit on hard surfaces, bend over in stores to look at items on lower shelves, or simply add a little twist to your stride.
• Sitting on hard chairs in a cafe allows me to invisibly "masturbate" by simple, subtle movements on the chair. I would not use this method to masturbate to completion, however.
• Living 24/7/365 (provisionally true) keeps me satisfied every moment in a way that not being plugged doesn't. Understand that 24/7/365 is only true in the sense that I'm close to that goal but like infinity, I can never quite reach the goal. It recedes every time I have to take the plug out and get over a bout of the runs, take care of excessive constipation, etc. (see cons).
• Having my sphincter stimulated moment by moment is actually the first and greatest pleasure of being plugged.
• Being able to have an erection on command and feel the erection is the second greatest pleasure of being plugged.
• Just knowing that I have a plug in my rectum and vaguely feeling its fullness is the third greatest pleasure of being plugged. I exercise my mind's eye, too, to "see" the plug in my rectum.
• Edging 24/7/365 is another continuous pleasure. My uncut cock stays slick with precum much of the time.
• Showering while plugged is enjoyable, because that is the time when I play with my cock the most. I keep my sphincter clinched and that keeps me hard.
• I withhold ejaculating for days at a time, which adds to the pleasure moment by moment (this is edging)
• Living plugged and removing it only when absolutely necessary and avoiding ejaculation is a kind of sexual self-discipline that actually increases my self-pleasure moment by moment.
• Going to restaurants, grocery stores, walking down the street, attending parties, and other gatherings while wearing a plug in my rectum makes all these activities privately naughty. It's akin to the feeling, I believe, of what it is to masturbate under the table in cafes, but a lot less messy, and a whole lot less dangerous.

Rambling and Graphic, updated 9/23/20

Near Midnight, Temperature 48° F Outside

I was enjoying the stuffed feeling in my rectum of my butt plug while I was waiting for sleep to overtake me tonight. I was lying in bed naked—except for thick, white socks and my work boots. Yeah, I sleep like that just under a blanket but not between the sheets. When I have to get up to pee, these days (late April, central Mississippi), I don't want to get into my flimsy little house shoes, because I like to go outside and stand in my driveway, just within the darker shadows of my house and piss while looking out on the street.

Naked.

And plugged.

I decided I would play with my cock, get it hard before peeing and just see what kind of activity near midnight there was, just beyond my street and off in the near distance of a cross street. I live just one house from the corner.

A car came from the south on the cross street, headed north, its headlights momentarily lighting up the intersection. Then darkness. Then someone walking up from the south also headed north, but I waited in my driveway hoping the guy would turn onto my street and pass by me standing in the shadow of my house. Would he notice my ghostly whiteness near midnight? Naked. Waiting, watching? I actually hoped he would come my way and notice me, and tonight I would not have shrunk back. I would have liked to see if he would glance quickly away as he passed by, or if he would stare into the darkness of the shadow of my house and try to decide if someone was standing there.

Late April is about the earliest I feel really comfortable outdoors while naked. Tonight it was a little too chilly, though, and so after I peed, I went back to bed. As the warmth washed over me, I enjoyed contracting my anal muscles to feel the sphincter squeeze the butt plug shaft and let me feel the almost painful, delightful twinge. You can do it without a butt plug and get similar twinges that feel great, but with the plug you get the added benefit of feeling the rectum hug the plug head and feel it ever so slightly engage the prostate. I do have to specify that I wear the icicles #14 with the titled head, shaped like an egg and about the size of a hen's egg (2.5 inches long, 2 inches in diameter at the widest part of the egg. When the head of the plug is pointing toward the belly button inside the rectum, you get much more prostate action, and you can feel the twinge move into your cock. But for long-term (permanent living plugged 24/7/365) wear I usually keep the head tilted away from the prostate.

Update, September 23, 2020

We're quickly coming up on the scariest American presidential election since the Civil War and we're still in the midst of the Covid Pandemic, and I can't sleep, and I wanted to find some porn to make me horny. Yes, I'm plugged and I'm waiting on the arrival of my second ever metal hitch combo plug and cock ring. I had the exact one quite a few years ago but could not get the steel ball into my rectum. I feel I can now, since I can easily get my two-inch diameter plug in my ass, and the ball on the combo plug is only 1.5 inches.

I don't want to masturbate or remove my plug right now, but I have just found the hottest self-suck vid where the guy comes three times in his mouth. It's after the first video below. Enjoy. Self-sucking is an impossible dream for me. I have a fused spine right at the base of my spine, and two major sports injuries as a kid made it impossible for me to even touch my toes. Oh well.

Questions from a Reader

One of my readers has asked good questions about plugging...

I'm delighted to answer:

1) Are there ideal sitting positions for remaining plugged all day? I have a rather shallow ass so my Devi glass handle sticks out just a bit too far to make sitting comfortable! The ring presses into my anus too hard when sitting. I've tried sitting forward on the edge of my chair for some relief. This aspect ruins driving while plugged for me any distance more than ten minutes away.

This is a very good question about being able to sit all day while being plugged. I can sit all day, drive all day, sit on hard chairs, soft chairs, while wearing the Devi plug. It does have to do with the size and shape of the plug that you are using, but as you point out it also has to do with the depth between the butt cheeks. The ring base on the devi glass plug is just about two inches in diameter. The overall length of the devi is about 4.5 inches with two inches of that outside the anus. Well, actually, the ring base is just a bit into the anal opening. But between my anal opening and the depth of my butt cheeks is over two inches, which allows me to sit without the pressure you're talking about. So there really isn't a sitting position that you might be able to use.

You should try other plugs, and I suggest the NJOY Pure Plug (shown above). It's very short, and notice that the ring base is actually an oval. If your rectum can handle the diameter of the egg to be 2 inches, get the NJOY 2.0. It's the same shape, and design of the devi, except for the oval base. It is made of medical grade stainless steel and weighs almost a pound! I can't wear it. Note that that oval has a very distinct edge. Unfortunately, that digs into my butt-cheek skin and puts me in agony after a very short few hours. Other plugs? Look for Doc Johnson, but do try to get a long enough shaft so that the head of the plug can get all the way into the rectum and the sphincter can close around the shaft.

2) You may have covered this - which foods are the best binders? Rice? Potatoes? Which are the worst! (I have definitely decided that trail mix presents problems!) I have concluded that the best defense is simply to really clean inside well every morning, so I make time for doing that by getting up a half hour earlier.

If you ever get diarrhea, the foods that are recommended to treat it is dry toast, rice, saltine crackers. They absorb the moisture in the lower intestines and firm up the waste, so that by the time it reaches the rectum the stool is well formed. I also regularly take Immodium AD, but a generic brand like Berkley/Jensen, which is more cost effective. You can get a box of two bottles for a total of 192 caplets for less than...um...ten dollars? If I have eaten too much fat, or other foods that might trigger diarrhea, I take from two to four caplets. Four will actually cause constipation, which is what I go for on a temporary basis, when I want to keep the plug tight in my rectum and mow the grass, walk, run errands, and attend theatre, etc. I do not want to have to worry about taking care of myself in a public restroom with loose stool. But just as important is that I eat a lot of rice-based meals and not much spicy seasonings that you might find in Chinese rice dishes.

I try to avoid too deep of an enema to avoid stirring up the unformed waste past the sigmoid colon. I try to do shallow enemas just inside the rectum, where the plug lives. Around 90 percent of the time, the plug comes out clean when I do my bathroom duties. The point is, if you inject too much water into your intestines, you can expect accidents and surprises if you do not empty out sufficiently.

Notice the tail attached to the plug?

3) Any fun games we can use the Divi's ring for? (The Boss Silicone Stopper Butt Plug #4 also has a cool ring embedded in its base!).

Okay, if you're feeling really adventurous and your intestines are quite deeply cleaned out, and you haven't eaten anything for at least twelve hours, this is what I have done a couple of times and loved it, but it would be very scary and might even require a trip to the emergency room if you don't do it right...

I just love the look of this man's fuckable ass.
You could get your whole fist through there.

I attach a string to the ring base, by folding the string in half (start with a string that's at least 48 inches long), so that you end up with 24-inch long double strand. Loop the string through the ring, by running the loop into the "donut" hole and and wrapping it around the ring, pulling the string back through the loop in the string and pulling it tight, so that you end up with the string dangling from the ring base. And then here is the fun part...insert the plug into your rectum, and when you get to the ring base, keep working it past the sphincter, until the entire plug is inside the rectum. Remember that the ring base is the same diameter as the egg, so it will be easy to get it all inside. You will feel the sphincter close tightly around the entire plug: egg, shaft, and ring. This will leave the twenty-four inches of string outside your body. Now I've only slept with the plug inserted like this, and the idea is that once you are relaxed enough to sleep, the plug will begin its journey on into your body, deeper and deeper. It will travel past the sigmoid colon and on into your intestines. 

I have woken up and felt for the string and realized that most of it is now inside my body, and getting hold of the string is the only thing that will allow me to pull the plug back out. When there is only a couple or four inches of string still outside my anus, I know that the plug has traveled into my intestines at least twenty inches. Since there are very few nerve endings in the intestines, you feel very little, but as you pull on the string, you can feel the plug coming down, closer and closer to the anal opening. By the time you can stick a finger into the rectum and hook it around the ring base, you can play with the sensation of retrieving the "lost" plug.

I cannot emphasize enough that you must absolutely make sure that the string is secure in the ring base and that the string is as strong as twine. You can also tie the dangling string to a cock ring and wear it so you can sleep with confidence.

I love the ring base, because it doesn't get in the way of me sliding my fingers into my anus along the shaft.

You can also attach a furry tail to the ring and run it through a hole in your pants and walk around in public and make people wonder just where the tail is attached. You can get away with a lot of hanky sexual panky by just dressing the part of an animal like it's just a fun thing to do, and yet have that wonderful, beautiful plug riding around in your rectum!

You and your partner can each wear a devi plug and attach them to each other with a long string so that if you walk too far apart, you'll both get a sensation in your butts. You might even lay naked on the bed and have a tug of war and see who can hold the plug inside while simultaneously pulling your partner's plug out. If anything, this will arouse you both and you'll fuck like monkeys, once one of you wins the tug of war.

There are now two vids below. One involves closeups of inserting various butt plugs.

Waning Ability

I'm still living plugged, but I've lost my ability to come up with anything more, for now for new posts.

Guys, both gay and straight; women both gay and straight—all of you who like to wear a butt plug either occasionally or all the time as I do. I apologize for not keeping up with my posts, but I can't think of anything new. It could also be that I'm awfully busy these days, since I am now getting local clients where I live to help them with their communications—that is their commercial applications, and it's rather intense.

Just know that at any given time of the day or night, while I'm at home behind closed doors, I'm naked and plugged; when I'm out in public, I'm plugged.

This is not me, here, but I kind of like it, because this man looks much older than what I visualize as my readers, much older than me, as well, I think, and it inspires me to see him obviously enjoying himself.

One day I will post again.

Everyone stay safe with the virus that is lurking in our midst.

Love to all my fellow pluggers!

Reynolds

Waking up Plugged

The first thing I'm conscious of when I wake up...

is the plug in my rectum. Not only do I have morning wood but I can feel my anal sphincter slowly pulsing on the shaft of the butt plug. It's a pleasure to run my hand into my butt crack and my fingers along the glass shaft as it runs into the rectum. Having been plugged all night, of course, the plug is exactly my body temperature, and later, when I pull it out for a bm it is hot to the touch and stays warm for several minutes. Also imagine that because it's glass (metal would be just as good) the plug comes out clean enough to kiss. A slow digestion and firm stool has everything to do with keeping the inserted plug clean, even while in the rectum.

And yes, I often kiss my butt plug when I remove it or just before I re-insert it. That's how much of an affinity I have for it. It's my personal talisman, my juju, a sacred charm of smooth, heavy glass, and my rectum is its sheath, its home.

I stay plugged after I get out of bed. I stay naked, as well, as I have my first cup of coffee and as I get on my computer and look at the news headlines. It's a lazy time of the day when my whole body comes awake, along with my mind.

So I'm sitting here, now, as I write this about waking up plugged. There is no distinct pressure on my rectum telling me it's time for my morning bm, so I continue to think about what I can say about living plugged that I haven't said already, and this morning I feel contemplative about the anal aspect of sexuality and the sheer physical aspect of the anus, but particularly the sphincter, the rectum, and for men the prostate.

It surely is a central core of nerve endings, and again, I go back to the idea that everyone has an ass, a hole, a sphincter, and a rectum. Men and women only differ from one thing in the rectum and that is the prostate. And we differ in front. So, men, even if you're heterosexual, you have simply got to get in touch with your anus, your butt hole. Sexually, you're missing out on half of the enjoyment; physically you have more nerves in the anal opening, sphincter, and the prostate than you have anywhere else on your whole body. Straight men, take note of the image to the left. There is nothing "gay" about this photo. It simply shows a man with an anal plug buried in his rectum, with a raging hardon, which he is gripping with his fist, and the other thing to note is that he is doing this to himself, for himself. This early in the morning, when I'm coming awake and yes, one of the times of day when I am most intimately in tune with my anus and my plug, I enjoy just viewing these kinds of images.



See bonus vid...handsfree cum with dildo fuck

It's Ba-a-a-ck In

I've now been re-plugged for three days...

And I want to share what I learned from the experience of having to be unplugged for four days and nights, beyond all that stuff about diet.

Readers might think that all I care about is having a plug in my rectum 24/7/365, and it's true that having to go without my plug taught me that it is very important to my feeling of happiness (on a personal, hourly, daily basis) that I do get to wear it. It is definitely something I care a great deal about, now that I live alone (even though I still have a long-time partner who is absent out of necessity for his health). He can't breathe in this Southern climate and his assets are still in another state, so he had moved back to manage his properties. We're fine being apart, and so I now enjoy the freedom of being naked and plugged at home, and I mean staying naked all the time. It adds to the non-stop edging I do. I usually only get dressed when I have to go out or have a client over.  But also because I'm alone, being plugged is kind of a way to keep from being lonely...everyone knows that you need time away from people and most people I think take advantage that to get in some really personal masturbation. For me, instead of masturbating, I enjoy the subtle sexuality of being naked and plugged.

So, I learned that I do not want to give up what I have now that I'm living alone and being able to be plugged and naked without worry that I need to compromise on that score has become important. But what else do I do? What else do I think about? I have ongoing projects that give me a third source of income (what people nowadays call a side hustle), along with two other main income streams. It only keeps me comfortable, but not rich. I don't care.

I stay busy mentally and physically, attend gatherings out in public and with friends, and I will be attending a church supper before Christmas, but I don't think I will chance being plugged, because it's dinner first and then two hours of singing. It's not the kind of food that will be slow to digest (fried fish and sweets), and I might suffer a surprise attack. I don't want to be having to unplug at the gathering and clean up and carry the plug around in my pants pocket. Always being aware of potential plugging issues when I'm out in public keeps me from being embarrassed, etc. For example I wouldn't travel across country by air, but I would drive cross country plugged. I've done that several times.

But in short, I learned that I can do without my plug when I have to and my body is the number one dictator of how long and how well I can be plugged. But true, I don't like being unplugged. I hope I die with a plug in my rectum...what a way to go out.

I'm actually horny, again, today, and the plug feels really solid in there without lube. And this deep-throat suck job video reminds me why I like to suck cock. Love the camera angle.

Un-plugged for four days and nights

This was a true test of my patience...

Only this morning have I been able to be plugged again after four days, and even when I plugged this morning around 6 a.m., I had to remove it again for yet another bowel movement.

It all started the other day when I felt extremely bloated and my entire gut felt really hard. Not only that, when I lay down on my left side (the side you're supposed to lie down on when you've eaten) I felt pain somewhere near the opening of the sigmoid colon, but I caution that without real pain receptors in the system inside the guts, it could have only felt localized. The pain was not severe, but it was enough for me to think that I might be overly constipated from my regimen of digestion-slowing food, along with taking too much Imodium. There's also this idea that your gut can become compacted and the constipation is severe and your feces becomes extremely hard.

So I reluctantly removed my beloved butt plug and started a program of stool softeners, high levels of dietary fiber and drinking plenty of liquids. It took these last four days to reach a feeling that I had finally defecated adequately to reinsert the butt plug into my rectum. This will go down into my posts as one of the longest periods I have gone without a plug in my rectum in seven years. This is one of those times when wearing a plug was just not possible—unless I was willing to make matters possibly worse with this bout of constipation.

Those of you who have read my blog for seven years know that when I started trying to wear a plug 24/7/365 I had issues with the runs, soft stools, and irritable bowel syndrome. Creating and regulating a different diet, along with taking Imodium (OTC generic) helped me to realize my dream of living plugged. And since April of this year, I have had the best consistency with waste elimination, perfect stools, and little or no gas, so that my plugging was pleasant and carefree.

But I have learned during that time that it's possible to overdo the white steamed rice in too many dishes. I learned from this experience that I do need to add dietary fiber to my diet, as well, and so from here on, I will be renovating my diet and experimenting with additional foods. The best advice I can give myself and others who might be having occasional difficulty like me is don't try to stay plugged if you're having to fight your digestive schedule. Instead, be patient and just live through the withdrawal symptoms of not having a plug in your rectum. I've had the plug in for a few hours and even now it's a bit uncomfortable. It could also be that I am coming down with something. It is colder now, rainy, and the weather is unpredictable. I go from being over-heated to chilled.

Wearing Two Butt Plugs Today at the Same Time

I'm horny as hell...

One of this things I like to do occasionally, and I have luckily never been caught is masturbate under the table at restaurants. The conditions have to be just right (could anyone see my exposed cock under my table from across the room? Are there little children running around who might see and be traumatized? If a waiter is standing at my table to take my order would he/she be able to see under the table?) I actually check these kinds of thing out, from habit, at almost every restaurant I ever go into, just in case I get into a little secret flashing. I have not done this since I moved to Mississippi in 2016, but I used to do it more than occasionally where I came from in New Mexico. And I know over the years that I have actually ejaculated under the tables in a crowded restaurant more than a dozen times. And so as I was watching gay porn this morning, which is something I don't do too often, I was getting very horny and I decided I would try to get one of my big plugs in my ass watching men get monster plugs in their asses, and even be able to stand up and walk around in them.

Call it what you will, but I went off the guardrails today. My horniness has been building up more than usual for about a week, and even though I've still got a plug in my ass, I failed with the large one, which is about twice the diameter of my Devi glass plug. So as I watched a few bukkake videos today, you know where guys get cum all over their faces and get fucked at the same time, I dug through the rest of my plug and cock ring collection and came up with a combination cock ring and plug. a fairly small silicone plug and ring, but the nice thing about it, is that once I had the ring around my cock and balls and slipped the silicone strap under my perineum and then stuck the butt plug in my rectum, I watched a few more vids, and I got a raging hard on, which I attribute in part to the cock ring and the tugging sensation it causes on the connected plug, under the perineum.

But I wasn't done yet! I wondered if I could just go ahead and insert my glass plug right behind the smaller silicone plug (the small plug wasn't going to get stuck in my rectum, or lost inside, because it's connected to the cock ring). The Devi glass plug slid right in behind the silicone plug and pushed it higher up into my rectum, thus also putting a lot more strain on the connected ring and the strap.

It took less than a minute for everything to settle down nicely and both plugs shared my rectum, one behind the other. I wore both plugs for around two hours, watched more porn, and finally the silicone ring began to irritate. Yes, as with plugs, metal is a better material for a cock ring. I've got one of those, as well, but it's a little too small, and I would be afraid if I ever got it on and got an erection, I wouldn't be able to get it off...

"Doc, honest I was taking a shower and slipped on this round metal ring, and it jumped right onto my cock and slid around my balls, and before I knew it, I was erect, and so...help me! It hurts so good, but..."

And then I removed first my Devi plug, gave it a kiss before putting it in the sink to be washed, and then I removed the silicone prostate massage plug, and finally removed the silicone ring. Everything was clean and slick without a hint of you know what. So I washed off the silicone plug and ring and put it back in the closet with my modest plug and ring collection, and of course I slid my beautiful glass plug back into my rectum and finished writing this post.

This is also a very hot hot cum/fuck video.

And believe this, guys, I didn't masturbate to ejaculation, and now I feel wonderful, plugged and ready to run some errands in town. Enjoy the video.

Wearing a Butt Plug 24/7/365 is an Endless Fuck

Anal Masturbation vs. Cock Masturbation

I think that's the difference I've been trying to understand  but never put into words. Having now been plugged 24/7/365 (approximately) for seven years, my cock masturbation has fallen off to almost zero, and it is very rare when I have a raging hard-on for me to take it in hand and jackoff to ejaculation. I do that sometimes, and I get a great deal of pleasure when I come. It's intense, probably more so because I have the plug in my rectum when I do. In fact, the intensity of the ejaculation sometimes makes me want to remove the plug for a little relief—but I don't!. Guys, you know how it is, once you ejaculate. Your dick becomes super sensitive and you can't usually continue to masturbate once you come. You don't want to. You're satisfied. Now, I'm not talking about teenage boys who could masturbate and ejaculate 50 times a day. That's just being that young and vigorous.

She is using my kind of butt plug: either the Icicles #14
or the Devi Glass plug.

So, by living plugged, anal masturbation (on a glacial scale) has become my preferred solo sex habit. While I don't ejaculate much semen or pre-cum, my cock head is slick most of the time as evidence that I'm excited, and it's a natural reaction. And cock masturbation is, well, unimportant. I'm not addressing those who use butt plugs as an enhancement to cock masturbation, and once they come, out comes the plug as well, and the toy is put away. Seven years of being continually plugged has changed my perspective and appreciation. As the title of this post says living plugged is a 24/7/365 endless fuck—of sorts. It's more like a drip-drip-drip of the happy hormone our brain produces during a regular fuck—endorphins.

When I'm plugged, my brain continually produces endorphins, just as it would if I were being fucked by a cock or fucking or masturbating with my cock. The grand difference is living plugged is quite a bit less explosive and transitory and the feeling of pleasure and happiness doesn't subside; it's always there at some level. I can also attest that I can continue to work and think rationally, get my chores done (hehehe...they're more pleasurable with my rectum plugged), sleep better at night, wake up feeling happy, and I surely enjoy walking and bending and sitting for those frequent little twinges in my butt and groin and cock.

Living plugged means anal masturbation 24/7, whereas cock masturbation lasts at best ten, twenty, or thirty minutes. And sometimes the "recovery" time from ejaculating puts men out of commission for a while, as well; not so with anal masturbation. I'm rarely out of commission, and I can also attest that living plugged, having a butt plug in my rectum is highly highly addictive. The brain becomes wired to need it. My plug is "me precious" like Gollum's ring is his precious. When I'm not plugged, "me wants it".  This addiction, however, is not harmful, mentally or physically, nor debilitating. Some addictions mean all you want to do is do that to which you're addicted to the exclusion of everything else. Not so with living plugged. I actually want to do more of everything.

Others have called it a secret pleasure, a kind of fun way to be "naughty", getting a thrill out of say attending a family dinner and no one at the table knows that you're plugged but you. Sure, I can see that, too. Nor is living plugged a gateway addiction to more intense and other addictions. I reject anything that supplants this addiction. Given a choice, living plugged is the thing that gives me the most pleasure most of the time. Nothing else does. Hey, I love my family, my husband, my cats, my friends, but living plugged is a kind of an inside thing, a hug from the inside, that goes all the way from my rectum to my brain.

Butt Plugged and Anally Masturbating at the Coffee Shop

Sitting on hard surfaces with a metal or glass plug...

Click on this picture to see that
the guy in the middle is wearing
an NJOY plug in public

The design of my particular plug, with the donut ring base that fits between my butt cheeks like a coin in a slot has benefits that occasionally are surprising and usually not evident when I'm seated on cushioned surfaces...Why? because sitting on a hard surface, like a wooden chair without a pad causes the plug to be pushed deeper into my rectum, and because of the diameter of the shaft on my plug (1-inch) causes the sphincters to be stimulated more than usual. It is almost counter-intuitive I think for those who choose silicone plugs that are "soft" to realize that metal and glass plugs can be equally comfortable, and for long-term wear, because of the lube issue, metal and glass are far superior. I simply don't use lube at all anymore. After washing my plug I simply use spit to re-insert it, and it just never gets uncomfortable..

So I spent two hours this morning at the coffee shop, in full view of everyone, even those I was talking to as I was plugged, actually engaging in anal masturbation. In other words, gently fucking myself using the plug as I sat there forcing the plug to massage my rectum, prostate, and anal opening, by barely moving my butt in the chair. You can of course do this with other plugs, while you're out in public.  But since I'm not into ejaculating in my clothes, I didn't fully engage the sensations. But it would have been possible to have a hands-free ejaculation, while sipping my coffee and smiling at those in the coffee shop.

Oh, yeah! That plug is in her ass, and those are really cool
leather pants.

Yep, I do like the secret thrill of feeling my butt plug while I'm in public, and those of you who have read my blog for several years also know that I like to edge more than ejaculate. Wearing a plug is the edging gift that keeps on giving. I also don't like to get all complex with wearing a plug long term and wondering how to keep it in. The head of the plug should be two and the shaft should be one, in a ratio of 2:1. That should take care of ever having to strap the plug in.  So, I leave you now until after Thanksgiving. I'll spend my TG plugged and probably naked most of the day. Maybe I'll relent and have something creamy in my potatoes this year. But I'll be plugged and content. Now let's see what I can find for our video today. I've been using Bing.com, since it has a very organized search system for porn images and videos. This is a short video, but I like the simplicity of the electro-shock plug, the way it looks.