How to Choose the Right Butt Plug for the Right Job

Choose a Butt Plug that Fits Your Needs...and Your Rump

We all know that choosing the right tool for the right job is essential, whether you're a mechanic, a carpenter, a film maker, or a computer programmer. But it is just as important that not all butts are the same, and choosing a butt plug that fits one man's ass might not be the right one for another man's ass. Our asses are as different as our cocks. And what we want from a butt plug is not the same, either. I prefer to just stay plugged, morning, noon, and night, so I don't want to go too large or too small. Another man might want to challenge himself and get the biggest plug ever made into his ass, and I understand where this urge comes from—once you discover the almost limitless joy of anal play.

Some men want to use a plug for a single sex session with his lover or a single JO session when the wife or boyfriend is gone for a few hours. In this case, you might consider several toys to add spice and variety as you go for that all important, mind-blowing climax. Some men will stick just about anything in their asses with the goal of stretching the anus, and some even eventually want to "ruin" their hole. I have no comment on just what it might be that you want from a plug or other device, but an NJOY 2.0 is not going to cause anal prolapse, nor is a giant silicone plug going to be good for long-term wear—that is if you're not seeking to be in pain for the duration.

Basically speaking there are three major materials that butt plugs are made of (don't confuse this with dildos): silicone, glass, and metal. But among these materials the sky is the limit on the shape. A good butt plug that won't shoot out of your ass when you sneeze or slip out when you walk or run has a wide flare just as it meets the shaft. The bases of the plugs also vary. Here are a few of the shapes of butt plugs, each having the three main parts: plug (bulb), shaft, and base:

 

Classic Butt Plug

Devi Glass Plug

Inflatable butt plug

MEO 24/7 Hollow Plug

NJOY 2.0 Stainless Steel Plug (weighs over a pound)

Billed as the World's Most Comfortable Butt Plug

With the exception of the inflatable plug in the selection above, all of these plugs are suitable for going long term, and they are also all suitable (including the inflatable) for masturbation or fuck sessions. But latex and silicone have the disadvantage of requiring frequent lubing, and even though I personally think there's nothing sexier than seeing a large base (like the classic) clinging to the outside of a man's plugged ass, the large base can eventually become irritating. I haven't personally worn the "World's Most Comfortable Plug (the last picture in this list, but I suspect that the rubber shaft and the base would become uncomfortable after a few hours, which then leaves us with the Devi (glass) and the NJOY (stainless steel). Note the base of both of these items. They don't irritate nearly as much as bases that sit perpendicular to the anal opening. Butt...again each man's ass is different. In fact the shape of the plug bulb on all of these is different, and the rectum will certainly also determine the best shape for your ass.

The MEO is not the only hollow plug on the market, but I have a friend who prefers it to all others; but alas, I don't dare attempt to wear a hollow plug!

I will address the Aneros phenomenon in another blog as soon as I learn more about it. There's an entire website devoted to Aneros users, which you might enjoy. It's basically a anal toy design that users swear will provide hands free orgasms, so I would suggest that these devices are not meant to be worn long term.

This guy makes it look easy!

The Study of Butt Plugging for the Long Term

Buttplug-ology...

No, I'm quite serious. Let's take a look at this nifty graphic of the male genital and sexual equipment, along with the all important rectum, where the butt plug will be installed:

The Male Genitalia and Sexual Equipment

For the purpose of installing a butt plug for long-term wear, what I like to call "living plugged," let's take a look at two points on this diagram. First, find the prostate gland. Note that it is just inside the rectum and sits above the penis complex. We know that the prostate can be accessed by a doctor's finger or a lover's finger and/or a device made for massaging it. Second, find the rectum. Shown here it is a "hollow" opening that runs all the way from the anus to the sigmoid colon. It's not really hollow of course, if you have ever pushed your fingers in there. You're met with a lot of warm flesh, but for our purposes, here, not that the rectum turns away (curves) along the back and up.

Now imagine a regular conical-shaped butt plug. If it is about four inches long, it will push its way into the rectum so that the rounded bottom of the cone will push against the prostate, but it will also push against the front wall of the rectum. Now consider the uniquely angled head of the NJOY and Devi Glass plug, or similar Icicles products.

First, imagine inserting the NJOY in with the angled head away from the prostate. Note that it will lie in the natural curvature of the rectum in a natural position. The oval base of the NJOY will be just outside the anus.

The same goes for the Devi Glass plug (or similar Icicles product). As is readily apparent the Devi plug can ben turned forward in the rectum so that the angled head directly massages the prostate or away from the prostate, so that it too fits into the natural curvature of the rectum. This latter positioning is what allows for living plugged. The Devi (in my opinion) is better for two reasons than the NJOY: the shaft and the ring base. The shaft of the Devi is about 3/4 inches wide and will give constant  sensations to the sphincter, exercising in gently in all positions, lying, sitting, standing, walking, etc. But at the same time 3/4 inches is not enough to over-stretch the anus. The second advantage, as I have said numerous times is the ring base. It has no sharp edges and slots between the butt cheeks to keep it nice and comfortable.

Of course, I am wearing my Devi as I sit here writing this blog entry. I feel just a gentle pressure on my anal opening where the top of the ring is pushing against it. The shaft is gently parting my sphincter, and I can feel it. If I clinch or twist on my chair...ahhhh. I get a twinge of delight. The head of the Devi is sitting away from my prostate and in the natural curve of the rectum, so it is all very comfortable, and at the same time, stimulating.

And that's it. Butt plugging for the long term. Now take a look at the diagram, again, and visualize the Devi installed in the rectum, away from the prostate. This is the long-term wear position.

About midway through this vid, the man uses a conical-shaped butt plug. Refer to the diagram to visualize how it will be massaging the prostate and well as stimulating the anus.

Butt Plugged—the First Year

A Year in the Life of a Dedicated Butt Plugger

NJOY 2.0

When I bought my first butt plug at the local adult toy store after having quit using them almost fifteen years earlier, I wasn't thinking of wearing a butt plug 365 days a year. And if I had given up on plugging after the purchase of the first butt plug, which was silicone and classically shaped because it irritate the anal opening to my ass, I wouldn't have made a lifestyle choice of living plugged.

I bought the first butt plug in December 2012. It took me a few tries to get it in. After some research, I discovered the NJOY stainless steel pure plug, and I chose the benign 1.5 inch diameter. This plug was a vast and thrilling change from the silicone plug, and I was amazed that I could go about twelve hours before the base began to irritate my anal opening (some men have no trouble with this at all). I once went twenty-four hours straight with the NJOY, but at the end of that time, I was in agony because of the base.

Devi Glass Plug

And so December became January and then February of 2013. I tried the Neptune blue glass plug, with approximately the same shape as the NJOY, except that the base was a circle and slots between the butt cheeks, rather than perpendicular to the shaft. Again, it was 1.5 inches in diameter, and sure enough, it was a beautiful experience. I was getting where I would go 12 hours plugged and 12 hours unplugged. Even though this was just about plugging nirvana, I wanted to try something just a little bigger, and so in April of 2013, I bought the Prisms Devi Glass Plug. It is two inches in diameter, has the same shape as the Neptune, including the ring base, but the shaft is bigger, and this was where I discovered the secret to living plugged. 

We all know that any feeling past the sphincter is blunted, because we don't have a lot of nerve endings in the rectum. About all we know is that something is in there when we're plugged. It is actually the shaft that is most stimulating, long lasting, and subjects us to a thrill a minute when plugged. Oh yeah, right, there is the prostate that can blow you away with feelings when massaged. But you can't live plugged if the prostate is continually massaged. Massaging the prostate is a great way to achieve an orgasm or enhance an orgasm, but I think most guys will agree that continual prostate massaging is just not possible or desirable.

A Dedicated Butt Plugged Friend Who Likes to Stay Plugged

So, in April of 2013 I discovered that I loved plugging so much and had read about long-term plugging, and discovered the buttplug lover blog, where the guy talked about it becoming a lifestyle to stay plugged, and I thought that was exactly what I wanted to do. I actually do have a rich and full life beyond living plugged, but I've never found another sexual kink so enjoyable to me as keeping a plug in my ass 24 hours a day, seven days a week, and now, eight months and counting. So thrilled was I with the prospect of living plugged that I wanted to share it with other guys, so I started this blog in May of 2013.

If I were summarize the health-giving aspects of living plugged, as well as the sexual haze that accompanies it, these would be the top of the list:

• My hemorrhoids were cleared up after about a month of wearing the glass plugs and have stayed cleared up.
• My anal opening is now smooth and clean.
• I get the feeling of being gently fucked all day long.
• I get bursts of feelings in my sphincter every time I move, sit, stand, walk, clinch, bend over, cough, or turn over in bed.
• Standing in line at the grocery store is no longer boring, and going plugged in public is a secret little thrill all its own.
• I can bring myself to instant hardness with a few long kegal clinches.
• My sphincter is continually exercised without being stretched out of shape. I can still hold an enema easily without leaking, while I brush my teeth and otherwise get ready for my shower.

I get hard every time I write an entry in this blog, knowing that I'm sharing the love of plugging with other men who have discovered the joy of anal play.

Don't ask me why this guy uses latex gloves, but he sure looks sexy in the cock ring and plug...

Plugged for Thanksgiving

Celebrating Thanksgiving with a Butt Plug in Place

Yeah, I know, it seems a little wrong to attend a Thanksgiving dinner among friends, family, and loved ones while wearing a butt plug. But since I am virtually living plugged 24/7/365, I could hardly stand the idea to unplug for the four-hour-long get-together.

Of course, I had to think long and hard about going to the dinner without a safety net—what if I needed to have a BM on an emergency basis? After all, eating whole mounds of food is what one usually does at Thanksgiving. Should I take a ziplock baggy with lube in it, in case I had to unplug, clean up, and re-plug? These are the kinds of questions that those of you who want to be plugged at work must face. I wouldn't have the convenience and real privacy of my own bathroom. Nonetheless, I went plugged, without a safety net. It kind of added to the fun.

Every year, for the past fifteen years, my partner and I have gone to a family friend's for Thanksgiving. We usually arrive at 3:30 p.m. and after dinner, there is always the usual gift-game, where we draw numbers, choose a gift, and then trade out for what we really want. The dinner begins at four and by the time the gift-game is over it's about eight p.m., when we usually take our leave.

This is a get-together that usually involves at least twenty people, mostly middle-aged to elderly, but there are always younger people there. So in I went, greeted all the familiar faces with a hug, shook hands with the men, sat around in various places and caught up on the news of the past year, talked about everything from sports teams to motorcycles—nothing I really had in common with anyone—and the whole time I could feel my plug as I stood, walked around, and sat on various surfaces.

Luckily, there were no twinges from my gut calling me to find the guest bathroom. I ate a moderate amount, and even had a dessert. So, I can now add this event to all the others I've attended while plugged in public.

Guy playing with an inflatable butt plug:

The Long-Term Effects of Living Plugged

Seven Months with a Butt Plug in My Ass...

A Living Plugged Friend (hollow MEO 24/7 plug)

I don't wish to misrepresent the actual facts, but I can say that I have virtually had a plug in my ass for at least 200 days and nights, the only breaks were when I had the flu (8 days) and a few partial days here and there when my digestion was just too much to deal with. Unlike some other long-term pluggers, however, I have used the same plug (substituting it for another similar one during one two-week period). So, essentially, I have used the Devi glass plug, with a 2-inch diameter and a ring base, all this time. The long term effects and my perspective have been interesting.

A couple of months into this journey of living plugged, I felt that I was nicely stimulated (mainly the sphincters and the anal opening) every waking hour, which was a delight to feel intensify when I stood up, sat down, bent over, walked, danced, coughed, laughed, or otherwise moved.

After seven months (which is how long it's been now), I get the same feelings, but there's something new going on. The plug has truly become a part of my ass. I never feel any discomfort, but I sure continue to feel the stimulation. Inside, past the sphincter, I do have a slight feeling of fulness, which a lot of butt pluggers describe as one of the thrills. And no...it doesn't feel like I have to shit. I recognize this call of nature when I feel a slight ache in my belly, which I suppose is the large intestine telling me it's time to evacuate. But I go most of the time without any particular feelings beyond my back door.

My routine for staying plugged is very simple. I usually try to have a regular bowel movement shortly after I get up in the morning; and if I'm a little constipated, I just give myself a shallow enema, sit down on the toilet and flush the rectum out. Sometimes, I fill my rectum with plain water and go about the other routines in the bath, including brushing my teeth, shaving, etc., holding the enema inside. I've found that hot water forces me to evacuate very quickly, so I use tepid to cold water. I also read about a guy who plugs while he's holding the water in his rectum. I've tried that once or twice, and it works fine, as well, to clean out the rectum. But you should be aware that deep enemas, which go past the sigmoid colon are mainly used by porn stars to get a very deep, squeaky clean anal channel. Doing this at home on a regular basis would have at least one deleterious effect: flushing the good probiotics in the intestine out and interfering with digestion. That's why I always only talk about the rectum (that first seven inches from the anal opening to the sigmoid colon). And since I know that digestion is taking place in the large intestine throughout the day and night, I've found that I need to slow down the digestion process enough that it doesn't interfere too often with keeping my plug in my ass.

This is only temporary gaping. The anus is quite healthy

Some men have asked about the long-term potential damage to the sphincter and if they will eventually become too lose, causing one to lose bowel control. I've chosen the Devi plug, because the shaft is a little less than 3/4 inches in diameter and while it keeps the sphincters open, it is not too much and only serves to exercise the sphincters. I've claimed that staying plugged actually helps improve the anus in several ways, and one of them has been the complete cure of hemorrhoids—at least in my case. After my bout with the flu, I did have some recurrence of a hemorrhoid, which left a spot of blood on the toilet paper. But when I could I plugged again, and that problem cleared up almost overnight. I used to be a poster boy for the burning, itching, twitching of the Preparation-H commercials, but no longer!

So, the true long-term effects in my case have been nothing short of complete anal health and of course a minute-by-minute thrill of living plugged.



Good plugging!

Male Bonding Through the Use of Butt Plugs

When Mutual Enjoyment of Butt Plugging is Shared

I've often said in this blog that many straight men enjoy butt plugging, and for most men, it's obvious that gays enjoy anal sex. Some do. Some don't. But in a way, when two men can share their enjoyment of butt plugging, it doesn't matter if they're both straight, both gay, or straight and gay. I feel that I have made several straight male friends through our mutual enjoyment of butt plugging. I do also believe that because these men have embraced the anal part of their sexuality, they can appreciate what gay men have known all along. Further, once a straight man can get over the societal taboos that have otherwise prevented him from admitting that he likes anal stimulation, he is not so freaked out about gay men.

I have no interest in having sex with a straight man, but that doesn't mean that we can't enjoy showing each other our plugged butts. There are even times when two straight men or other combination can help one another with deep plugging and anal play. Of course, we can't really know in the videos, whether a guy is really straight, but I've seen overwhelming evidence of straight guys talking about how they love anal sex. I've also read their disclaimers that they're not gay and wouldn't want to have sex with a guy. And that's fine. Sexual porn and sexual fetishes make for some interesting and mutually enjoyable bedfellows (so to speak).

The guy in this picture is probably mutually attractive to both gay and straight men. Gay men, like me, of course, will enjoy his beautiful face, his rigid cock, and his ass. But I've had straight guys tell me that they get turned on by seeing other guys plugging.

And you just know the guy getting serviced by the woman in the next picture is enjoying himself.

But let's not forget about the anal straight guys and the women who love them. It can also be a mutually satisfying pastime for a woman to "peg" her husband or boyfriend.

Butt...I digress. I've been writing back and forth with men who really love being plugged. A couple of them are gay, a few more call themselves "heteroflexible," and some just say they're straight. I'm currently waiting with anticipation of receiving the selfies from my latest straight, butt-plugging friend, but until then, I've found some good pics, as you can see in this post.

Enjoy...

My bet is that these are plugging buddies, though they may not be gay.

Ahhh...just think what this guy is feeling.

In the meantime, I've searched a little every day to bring you the plugging vids and picts that I like. There are sites that feature women, and these are wonderful. Men and women can now equally enjoy plugging; but as the theme of this post suggests, plugging can break down the barriers between men, no matter their sexuality. I think it's a great time to be alive, to be able to share so much lucious sexuality through the magic of the Internet. And so, my search goes on.

Remember that I write this blog while plugged. After plugging now for almost a year, I've struck a balance in my diet and while I sometimes cheat and have foods that cause chaos with my plugging, it doesn't take long to bring it back into alignment. I don't, however, ever see the possibility of wearing one of the hollow plugs out in public.

I get all my vids from the Internet, and the sites thoughtfully provide the embed codes for use by other sites, like this one. Thanks to Gay Demon and BestMaleBlogs, traffic to this site has exploded.

Butt Plugged All the Time....and Still Able to Live Normally

I'm able to stay plugged and still focus on everyday life...

If you're the kind of man, like me, who really wants to live plugged 24/7, you might doubt that you'd be able to concentrate on everyday life, still being able to live "normally" going to work, getting a good night's sleep, doing all the things you normally would do without a butt plug in your ass. I've read that some guys are afraid they won't be able to sleep if they have a butt plug in their ass, or wouldn't be able to concentrate at work, or maybe get caught in a situation where they're unable to take care of the plug for BMs and such while at work.

Some of these are legitimate concerns, but after having been plugged now for at least seven months, I can tell you that you can live normally, concentrate on your work, carry on conversations, and do all the activities you do without being plugged. Of course there are exceptions and there are times when I have to remove my plug. I've covered the more obvious reasons in other posts. But I can assure you that while you never get used to being plugged (there's always that sexual haze of pleasure at every moment in a plugged life), it becomes so routine to feel the plug in my ass, feel the sphincter loosen and tighten as I move that it becomes a chronic awareness and something that you can easily ignore when necessary.

For example, I like to hang out at a local coffee shop and visit with the locals in the small tourist town where I live. People come and go in the coffee shop. I get introduced or greet people I know, have discussions on everything from the weather to literature and art, carry on conversations, drink coffee, and no one is the wiser; but at certain moments while visiting, I just clinch my ass for a moment and enjoy the secret pleasure of being plugged.

When I'm working I can put in several hours without once being distracted by the plug; and yet I know it's there. And when I stand up to take a break, it just lovely. Now, I do work at home, so I'm not faced with the same difficulty of taking care of butt business should it arise, as those of you might, who work in an office or facility where bathroom time is not quite so convenient or private.

Some guys say they carry small zip-lock baggies with lube, just in case their plug dries out. But I would like to suggest that you choose your permanent-wear plug with great care, for material, size, and above all comfort. Glass or steel certainly negates the need for frequent lubing. In fact, I'm almost to the point where I use just a drop or two of lube and can go twelve or more hours without the least bit irritation. I use a plug that is also not overly large in my rectum, leaving room for gas and other buildup. The shape as well is important. No need to repeat the kind of plug I have found that never irritates, and over time, I no longer have the initial kinds of issues with "weary butt" that I used to have when beginning this living plugged journey several months ago.

Living a normal life, while staying plugged is possible and preferable to living a normal life without being plugged—that is, if have a plug in your ass as much as possible is something that interests you. One last detail before I end this post. Yesterday, I overdid the butt plugging porn (see the last video in this post) and got so horny, I just had to masturbate, so I combined that with my shower. I kept the plug in place at shot my load, but I did not remove the plug afterward. A lot of guys want to immediately take the plug out after ejaculating, and thus end their plugging/jackoff session. Keep that plug in, and you will be rewarded with afterglow for several hours, before your prostate, ass, and cock settle back down.

All pics and vids come from the Internet from sites that make it possible to use them elsewhere; or more often, now, fellow pluggers send me pics to use.





Talk about an eager bottom and delicious anal play...sent me to the bathroom to beat my meat!

The Secret World of Butt Plugging

Who secretly wears butt plugs on a daily basis?

Any time you do a google search for butt plugging there are thousands of results that come back for the person to consider. But in a way, finding out the kinds of people who secretly wear butt plugs among their family and friends, out in public and sleep with them is another matter. In the few months that I have been doing this blog and in reading various forums, I have been surprised at statements like these that open discussions:

"I'm a straight guy...and my wife doesn't know I wear a butt plug..."

"I've often wondered...who is wearing a butt plug right now?"

"I'm definitely not gay, but I really like playing with my ass...Is this normal?"

Many men have responded to my blog who like the idea of "living plugged" as I have coined the phrase, and most of these have been straight guys. To be equal about this, even more women, I think, are into butt plugging than men are, but I get the feeling that men are coming around at a rapid rate. And, as I have said, several times, the purpose of this blog is to encourage all men to explore their anal sexuality. It is surprising when I think about it that so many women love anal play, but I understand that if they're being fucked in the vagina when they've got a plug in their ass, the feelings drive them crazy. It's easier to understand about men, because we have prostates, and getting the prostate massaged from the inside often results in ejaculations of a stronger nature than those that come from masturbating our cocks. And so, men who have partners that don't care for anal stimulation have begun to secretly plug without their partners knowing.

So, straight men who are not gay, whose wives or GFs don't like anal have begun to secretly use butt plugs and dildos. But gay men whose partners are not thrilled with anal also secretly wear butt plugs. I'm one of these. My partner of almost 22 years is just not into anal sex, and there's nothing wrong with that. But after many years of not being anal with my partner, I have finally begun to wear a plug every day, every night, everywhere and every when—and I just love it.

Taken all together, then, the secret world of butt plugging includes straight men and women, as well as gay men and, no doubt lesbians. The secret part comes from those who get a thrill from being secretly plugged or feel a need to wear plugs without anyone else knowing. This blog might be a place where secret pluggers can find one another. 

Even though I'm decidedly and proudly gay, I am thrilled to think that straight guys are so comfortable with their masculinity that they not only don't feel threatened by the idea that anal play is somehow "gay" and they don't mind sharing their plugging affection with others. 

Bear in mind that I get pics and vids directly from the Internet. In all cases, those that I use are there for taking, and the sites make embedding vids possible by providing the html codes for it. I do not knowingly "steal" any pictures or vids. Also, this is not a monetized site. I don't do it for the money but for the sheer dedication to plugging and for fun. I also appreciate those men who have sent me pictures of their plugged asses for use here.

Warning: I am Wearing a Butt Plug Under My Clothes

The Secret Sexual Pleasure of Living Plugged...

In some ways, it's no easy feat to live plugged, almost continuously 24/7/365, but I am well on my way to completing my first year plugged virtually all the time. As I've stated before, I began using a butt plug after several years of doing without, and this time, it has turned into both a challenge and a dream to stay plugged day and night, no matter what is going on in my life. I think most of us masturbate in private and have our own little kinks and private pleasures. Discounting those of us who also like to masturbate in public places or engage in exhibitionist activities, I think the majority of men and women do things under their clothing that they like to keep secret, as an added thrill in their day. I'm thinking about men who like to wear panties and frilly underthings, for example, which you'd never expect of, say, a beefy construction worker. And of course, this really has nothing to do with gender identity.

So my secret sexual pleasure is to wear a butt plug all the time, including under my clothing as I go through my day. I'm such an ordinary looking man of middle age that living plugged is really easy to get away with. Just today, I had a nice lunch with my long term partner at a patio restaurant, and we chatted and laughed in the sunlight, visited with the waitress, and otherwise had a very normal time. But there I was enjoying the feel of my Devi Glass Plug firmly planted in my ass. We live in a small village that makes the bulk of its revenue from a world-wide tourist trade, and our house sits right on a very public street in the village, and when I am out on the sidewalk in front of the house, I've got my plug in place, and I greet the visitors as they pass by. Of course, I'm also enjoying the good looking men of every age and watching everyone and wondering what their secret pleasure might also be, including the chance that I strike up a conversation with a fellow butt plugger.

Beyond the village is a moderate sized city, where there is an adult toy and video store, where I get my lube. I order my butt plugs from the Internet. But from going in there and seeing the array of sex toys, including a wide variety of dildos and plugs, I figure that many people in the city and maybe even more like me in the village are secretly plugged under their clothes. In fact, as I have mentioned before, the staff in the adult store seem to be butt plug and dildo enthusiasts, and one male clerk said, "I guess we all wear butt plugs, now." He was surely helpful and focused on showing me exactly what kind of lube worked best in his opinion.

After almost a year, now, the plug has become part of my body. I had earlier said that I'm reminded I'm wearing it whenever I move, whether it is lying down, standing up, sitting, walking. And while this still occurs, my kegels have gotten much stronger and I hold them for longer duration, now, realizing that I'm not doing any damage to my rectum or my sphincter. And when I clinch hard and long, I can feel a kind of two-step surge, from my sphincter tightening around the shaft of the plug then surging into my cock. I could hardly fall asleep last night and brought myself to the precum stage before I finally relaxed and drifted off.

hands-free cum with dildo-1



Enjoy your day!

The Beauty of the Plugged Male Ass

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