How to Stay Plugged—Well, Forever!

This post is for those of you, men and women, who want to stay plugged...24/7/365...

But who don't want a permanent plug, which can end up being messy and unsanitary and requires a lot more cleanup. The plug to the right is a so-called permanent anal plug, which literally means that you can insert it and leave it and poop through the hollow tunnel and use the rod to cap off the plug when not pooping. I wouldn't spend the time or money on this plug (I've never used it so no I have no experience with it). But your poop would have to be almost liquid to fit through the tunnel and the irritation of the anal opening would be limiting on use.

I'm talking about living plugged 24/7/365 with a bit of reality thrown in (hint: you have to remove the plug to have BMs, clean the plug, lube it, and re-insert). You will have to go anywhere from less than an hour to a couple of hours a day without the plug inside. You simply have to take care of business.

You do know this is tongue-in-cheek, right?

Besides, using a regular butt plug (of a certain design and material) is much simpler than trying to "install" a permanent butt plug.

I went through a months-long period when I moved from the southwest to the deep south when I had to interrupt my butt plugging, by that time I had been close to being plugged 24/7/365 for four years. To get this out of the way quickly, the change of diet, digestion, and work all culminated in a perfect storm where I simply could not enjoy living plugged. You need to know your own body and be willing to make changes in diet and habits before you can realistically live with a plug in your rectum 90 percent of the time. I'm talking about a regular plug, not one of those complicated and high-maintenance "permanent plugs." Here is an article that tends to support my experience, although it's a bit more "timid" in helping readers set goals for long-term plugging:https://loveplugs.co/blogs/news/the-myths-and-facts-of-extended-butt-plug-wear?comment=26715258926#comments. As I said it's accurate and informative.

So, once I adjusted my diet (it's now mainly rice-based, steamed, not fried:add veggies, meat, seasonings) I can virtually take a dump and with just a bit of clean up (shallow enema just for the rectum), I can reinsert the plug in record time. For example I have had my plug in my rectum for over 24 hours without once removing it for relubing, clean up, or a BM. I woke up this morning expecting that in about an hour I would feel pressure of an impending BM, but it never came, so I was inspired to write this post about it, with the centerpiece being diet. As I've said, I also use Imodium to curb loose BMs and simethicone to reduce gas buildup. And as a result, the plug rests in the rectum, and simply fills the rectum and me with joy and peace. A butt plug in the rectum is like a sunny day in Spring, running naked through a field of wild-flowers—okay, okay, it's a little different than that. So, to live plugged every day forever, you have to have a sensible diet. If you don't you'll be fighting to stay plugged; you have to choose a design and material (and size) that is enjoyable and comfortable but neither so big or so small that you defeat the idea of living plugged.

If the plug is too small, you won't even know it's there. If it's too big, you will be filling your entire rectum with plug and leave no room for the rectum to breathe. Gas buildup will become unbearable (hence the simethicone), and your discomfort will ruin the pleasure. I simply would not use silicone. Re-lubing will require a lot more maintenance, and you should really study the shapes of plug that fit the rectum structure. Men have prostates and a plug that is designed to massage the prostate is angled. It is not just a cone. And here's the "aha!" moment, to wear a plug forever, you need to turn the head of the plug away from the prostate, because continually massaging the prostate only sounds good in theory. In practice you will probably want to ejaculate, and once you ejaculate (if you are not seasoned) all you will want to do is remove the plug. So, once you have a good diet and a wonderfully designed plug (the base should also never become irritating), made of the right material (sorry it's either glass or steel) prepare for the moment of the fabulous journey of living plugged, and then slowly insert the well-lubed plug into your rectum; let the sphincter close around the shaft, and then just leave it alone. Leave it alone. Just get dressed and go out for the evening. Sleep in the plug every night. Only remove it for maintenance and BMs and get it back in there as soon as possible. But never never never think you have to "live through" any discomfort. You'll ruin the experience.

Right now, I'm in my sixth year. Along the way, I've had bumps in the road, one long period when I couldn't plug, but right now I'm plugged. My rectum is delighted, and so am I. Happy living plugged. Oh, and NEVER feel anything but love for your lifestyle choice.

Just a good old fashioned anal fuck and an e-stimulation

I just enjoyed watching this video of raw anal fucking pleasure, but especially the pleasure the bottom is getting. He is also in control, as bottoms usually are. The top in this case is just providing a huge, fat horse to ride.


Just a good ole anal fuck!



I have always wanted to try e-stim, and I have seen really neat setups where the wiring is a lot less intrusive than the one around the head of the penis is the video, below. But I enjoyed watching this anyway, along with the fact that he has an e-stim butt plug working on him as well.

Independence

Freedom to plug and be naked...

Two of my favorite things have suddenly become accessible to me almost 24/7, now that I am living alone and have no regular visitors. I'm still active in my small community, but being retired makes it possible to spend a great deal of alone time at home.

I kind of just fell into staying naked all the time, and during a 24-hour day, if I deduct the time I'm outside or off on errands or dining out, attending meetings, etc. I estimate I am naked 18 hours a day, every day. I'm plugged probably close to 22 hours a day, since I can go out in public plugged.

Of course, Independence Day is more important to me than this, as a Viet Nam veteran, but like all soldiers, I fought for everyone's freedom and that means freedom of expression and lifestyle, and being naked and staying plugged is a part of who I am, what I thrive on, and what I love to do..

I am a military veteran and you simply will not find me supporting any regime in America that seeks to deprive anyone of doing what they love. And as my readers know, I am on a personal mission to get all men, gay and straight, young or old, to get in touch with and be good to the anal half of their sexuality. The prostate is accessible through the rectum for a reason. And whenever I speak of men, I also speak to women...go anal, as well. There's a lot of pleasure and sexual growth that can come from anal play. I embrace it all!

So, this morning, I had difficulty with my normal BM and had to go out into town unplugged and clothed, and the humidity was 86 degrees, and even though the temps were in the high 70s, it felt like the 80s: sorry, no idea what it was in celsius. I didn't like the empty rectum or the sticky clothing covering my body and especially my genitals and anus. During these warmer months, I sleep on top of the covers and only keep my back and shoulders covered, leaving the lower half of my body to luxuriate in the gentle cool breezes from the overhead fan, while I clinch and release my anal muscles and feel the twinge of the sphincter closing around the shaft of the butt plug. Clinch and release.

Showing My Plugged Butt to a Stranger

An Encounter in the Woods

I had taken a drive out to the river where I live, which has a series of boat docks, an amphitheater, picnic areas, covered shelters, and public restrooms. The trail down to the river runs through a thick wooded area, as well, and so there you have it—all this is a perfect recipe for a cruising area for sex. I had been here once before but did not know then that it was a very active cruising area, nor did I really have an interest in it, at the time, either.

But I had run across a few tidbits on the internet about this area as a cruising area, and recent posts were as new as the current month. So what possessed me was a desire to at least watch potential encounters, since I'd never been to a place like this in my life. It's a foreign notion to me to cruise an isolated area and actually engage in sex with a stranger. I can think of a thousand reasons these days why it's not safe, much less healthy due to the rife STDs out there. Let me disabuse you of the notion that I'm that ignorant or timid. I had always done my sex with a stranger encounters in the confines of adult video stores, a long time ago, just before AIDS struck the gay community. That was enough to finally get me out of that habit. 

So, I still went today to get a look. I was plugged, as usual, so this was wearing-a-butt-plug-in-public kind of thing, and it was soon to be "showing my plugged butt to a stranger." I parked and stepped outside my car near one of the restrooms and watched the comings and goings of several cars and muscle trucks, slowly moving around through the various parking lots, back and forth, and finally one particular pickup truck came by for the third time and parked near enough where I was standing that I could see the guy's face clearly in the driver's seat. He was alone, and then he drove slowly farther downriver to the area where you had to walk into the woods to get to the river. I followed. I also parked near him, and this time I got out and walked around, not too close, not too far from his vehicle. He soon got out and we mutually approached each other, exchanging careful greetings until it got down to..."so, what brings you out here?" I thought I would start the specifics and said, "I heard this was a cruising area for sex." And the guy confirmed that it was. We talked more specifically and he told me about several blow jobs he'd had and given in the last few days, and so I admitted that I liked to suck dick as well, but not to get fucked. And then I revealed my real desire at being frank.

"Besides," I said, "I live with a butt plug in my ass" all the time, and it keeps me satisfied on the anal side of my sexuality. He admitted that he had played with butt plugs but had never thought of the idea that one would want to stay plugged. I told him about my living plugged blog and continued to describe the beauty of living plugged. At this point I was not trying to sell him on the idea of living plugged, but later on, if we got to be better acquainted I would talk more about the advantages and joys of living plugged. We walked together into the woods, along a well worn trail and came to a wooden bridge. There we stopped and he described the three-way he'd had right there the day before.

I figured he was moving toward the idea that we also have sex, and I was getting nervous about that. I wasn't looking to actually have sex. "Do you want to see my butt plug?" I asked. I was not shy or nervous about exhibiting myself to a stranger, and I kind of liked the idea of baring my ass out in the woods, spreading my butt cheeks and having the guy lean over and take a look. He did more than that. He actually touched the plug. The donut ring was buried more than halfway into the anus, and I could have shoved it in the rest of the way and my sphincter would have closed around it like a person sinking into quicksand and disappearing. So, after that, I wanted to pull up my pants and not have to deal with the suck-dick part of the conversation. I hesitated, but I took his cock in my hand and massaged it a bit and squeezed it, and it would have been so easy to just lean over and suck it. That would have been a drastic change in the way I've lived my life, having a partner for over two decades, and even though I came close by just being out in a cruising area and allowing a stranger to feel inside my butt cheeks for the plug, I just could not go the rest of the way. He might have considered me a tease and rather abrupt when I told him I was nervous and was going to leave and think about things. Besides I saw that he was sporting a wedding band and if he was straight and married to a woman...well, it speaks volumes of irony on both my part and his.


Bathing with a tunnel plug in the ass…great idea!

Living Plugged Gets Better and Better

From the First Plug to Now...

Someone in a sex forum recently observed that long-term plugging didn't make sense. This person said, "long-term plugging...why? You get used to the sensations and it will become boring." I'm well into my sixth year of almost constant plugging, except for a chunk of time I had to give it up when I moved from the Southwest US to the Deep South and had a difficult time readjusting my diet habits. I also worked in construction for about six months when I couldn't take care of some of the potential personal issues that might occur on the job site. But during those six years, from 2013 to now living plugged, living 80 percent of the time with a plug in my rectum, night, day, at home, out in public never gets old, never stops being so satisfying that I continue to sigh with contentment.

So, instead of becoming boring, living plugged actually improves over time. From the first time I ever inserted a butt plug (not a dildo) in my rectum, I knew right then that butt plugs were made in heaven and an eternity of hallelujahs awaited me to keep the plug inside me. That was maybe 20 years ago, and I only claim to have been living plugged, now for six years. That is to say that before 2013, when I actually started "living plugged", I was still butt plugging semi regularly. After all, I did actually wear out several of the older, cheaper-made rubber plugs. You'd have thought my rectum had tiny little teeth the way that first plug looked before I regretfully disposed of it. And woo-ee! rubber stains and looks unsightly...

Anyway, I have NEVER tired of the sensations that wearing a plug long-term provide me. They have even improved from those years when I would go ten, twelve hours and end up beating my meat in a fevered ejaculation climax that left me breathless, satisfied, and mildly disappointed in myself for giving in. And then I'd have to stay unplugged for a few days or more. But somewhere around the end of 2013 I started logging my plugged/unplugged schedule in a notebook, until I was able to see patterns emerging (what caused me to have to take the plug out and how long did it take to get it back in comfortably for long-term). And as I learned how to handle the issues that arose, staying plugged damned near 24/7/365, the experience of plugging continued to improve. While I'm healthy and able to do it, therefore, I see no reason to stop. There is a strong element of real addiction (because of the release of endorphins throughout the day and night) that I want to keep going. On the other hand, I have settled on a size and design of plug that makes it possible for me to stay plugged. Each man or woman will have to discover their own size, design, and material that suit them best. I don't want to ruin my anus and end up having to wear diapers as a result. I have no master or mistress to command how I use my body and my rectum, but again that is me and may not be you or you or you.

Readers may wonder, then, why I choose pictures that show (mostly men) wearing big-assed plugs and videos that show the plugs and other excessive items being shoved into hungry, gaping anuses. As may be obvious, however, a snug plug in a rectum that is meant to just stay there doesn't make for informative pictures and videos. So I choose vids and pictures that appeal to our sexy natures and in some cases curiosity and shock that something so huge can actually go into the human anus. But for me, living plugged and its private thrills is quite enough for me.

Living Alone Can Be an Advantage

Do Men Masturbate a Lot? The Same can be Asked of Women.
The personal intimacy of wearing a butt plug, part 2

I indicated I moved to the South in 2016 and until 2017 I lived by myself instead of with my husband, but for that year, I was getting used to a new place, state, and town, and frankly getting used to a different demographic of people, food, and culture. Here in the South, for example, it seems that 90 percent of everybody goes to church regularly. Nothing wrong with that, but it is different from where I came from in the Southwest, a desert city. And now my husband has moved back to the southwest, leaving me alone once again. He had commitments there that he couldn't shake, and so now we're living apart again. I don't want to spend much time on this, other than to say, I'm living alone, again, but this time it's going to be for a long time.

Sure, why not?

And I do have to say there is an advantage of living alone (I'm not lonely, however), and that is like most (many?) men, I can masturbate to my heart's content. I can do it in the living room while watching TV, I can do it outdoors at night in my back yard, I can do it while I'm cooking supper, or sitting down to the computer, and technically, I do masturbate all over the house almost every hour of the day and night that I'm home. And I also stay naked, now 90 percent of the time that I am home. But of course, anyone who reads this blog knows that I don't usually ejaculate. I just masturbate hands free most of the time. Oh, I love taking my cock in hand, pulling back the foreskin and feeling the taut stretching of the skin, which makes me constrict my anal muscles, which makes my sphincter tighten around the butt plug, which makes my cock surge, but in reality, what I do is "edge" keeping myself sexually aroused in a low-grade way.

And because I am now naked all the time as well, I keep towels on the sofas and chairs I use, because being in a state of low-grade arousal most of the time makes me leak precum, which I occasionally dip my fingers into and then lick it off my fingers.

This guy is just nuts, but to those who really don't
know. Yes, the tail is connected to a butt plug.

All this leads to say that I "masturbate" a lot while I am alone, and I am alone 24 hours a day, unless I go out in public or to meetings, or have clients over to my house. This also means that I am plugged a lot, and this goes back to what I posted last time, there is a personal intimacy that wearing my butt plug gives me—all the time. And it is enhanced by staying naked and leaking pre-cum and edging. All this makes me feel really good and happy and content, and just to write this makes me hard.

I think I would lose the intensity of my alone time, now, if I were to ejaculate very often. I most prefer just staying semi-hard and able to enjoy the intensity of my butt plug inside my rectum. It's the most "fun" I can have without smiling.

One of the guys whose intense anal sessions with huge dildos and massive plugs that I use quite a bit is heterosexual, but he has done so many ass plugging videos by himself that I have to assume that he is at it for hours every day. And I just love to watch this straight man enjoy his ass so much.

Here's another guy with a wicked, juicy anal session, and a wild snapping-shut gape:

The Personal Intimacy of My Butt Plug

From the Very First Time to Now...

This post is about my intense love of wearing a butt plug in my rectum.

Of course, when I first started experimenting with anal sex (way before I was in a relationship), and a guy wanted me to take his cock up my ass, I was fascinated with the process of the entire thing, and it felt great, once I got over my initial reluctance to give over that much power and allow him to pump with his own energy until he ejaculated, and I could feel his quivering thighs against my butt, and feel his cock contracting as he ejaculated, and then the quick pull out, leaving my own cock throbbing, so that I had to finish myself off, because I rarely was able to come from being fucked.

And in private, I continued to use dildos when I needed a cock up my ass and I was in my permanent relationship with my husband and could not ask him—he's not anal.

So at first I bought only dildos that looked like real cocks. I wanted them big and long and with a base I could set on the toilet lid and back into and pump up and down with my cock clapping my stomach until I came. Glory be!

But I kept seeing these non-cock-shaped anal toys, the butt plug and wondered why people even bothered with them, because they were not even like a real cock. And I can remember reading on the side of the box that once you inserted the plug (which wouldn't come out due to its shape) you could go shopping, play tennis, or just enjoy it.

That was twenty-five years ago. So I bought one, got it home, and eased the plug into my rectum, and then I just stood up and was delighted to feel it hug my rectum from the inside and pull my anus shut, as the sphincter closed around the shaft. I wiggled my ass, felt all kinds of sensations that were very intimate and personal, and then with shaking hands and the pleasure of anticipation, rather than working myself into an ejaculation, I got dressed. I remember, even as I sat on the bed and leaned over to tie my shoes, how the plug made my anus twinge with cascades of pleasant feelings. And from that very first time, I didn't want to remove the plug until I had to.

It was so intimate and personal and pleasurable, and made me feel good on an entirely different level, way beyond what comes with having sex. It was private and delicious to feel the plug in my rectum, and just knowing it was there sometimes just made me close my eyes and sigh with pleasure.

I've watched many men insert plugs in their rectums and elicit similar sentiments about how good it made them feel.

I don't mean to always reflect my butt plugging in graphic, sexual detail, except that I know it's more enjoyable for readers, but since my very first time of slipping a butt plug in my rectum and throughout the years as my use of plugs have subsided and resurged, I find new intimacies each time I start using a plug again; and with the last six years when I've been plugged more often than not plugged, I can tell it's something that will always inspire me to live plugged as much as I can.

Dry Boning

I'm dry-boning tonight...plugging "dry."

Which means I inserted my glass plug dry, without the aid of lube and I moistened the glass by licking it with spit. And that's it. Of course, it helps that I had been wearing my plug for 24 hours and had removed it for a BM. At that point I cleaned my bum, inserted two fingers with aloe gel and got as far into my rectum as I could to check for bits of fecal matter. There was none. I wiped the anus clean and then played with my rectum with my fingers, until the aloe had be absorbed into the anal tissues, leaving the area inside and out in a nice fleshy smooth state.

I simply would not recommend using any other plug material than glass or steel. No matter how smooth silicon is, there will be drag on the skin. There will be only a minimal amount of drag with the smooth glass or steel. Both are high-quality, hypoallergenic materials. And all it takes to removed the plug comfortably after an extended time in the rectum...say 12 hours or so, is to work a finger inside the anus with a little spit.

A dry plug in a dry rectum (actually "humid" and warm rectum) provides a different feel than a slick, lubed-up, slippery plug. Both are stimulating to the sphincter and prostate when you exercise your kegel muscles, which I do often and sometimes hold a clinch to the count of 60 seconds (an arbitrary time), which will yield a cascade of stimulation from the sphincter to the prostate to the frenum below the cock shaft. Be kind...I'm not taking the time to check all these terms, but if you're a guy, you're familiar with everything I've just said.

What is left to say?

In fact some male butt plugs are made with a little finger that sticks out from underneath the anus to the underside of the penis complex, to the frenum, which is also highly sensitive. With a dry plug and clinched muscles held for at least a minute, you will get an intense thrill, and even when you release your clinch, the feeling doesn't stop suddenly, but rather diminishes, like the last gasp of an ejaculation. But all this feeling is done from inside the rectum.

The dry plug hugs the flesh like a fist inside the rectum rather than slipping around inside, and you get this delicious feeling of intimacy with your plug, almost as if it is part of your body and not a foreign object that has been inserted and moved around in the rectum.

For a change of pace, the video I use tonight is a very well done self-suck, and turn the sound up, so you can hear the guy whimper with the pleasure he gives himself.

Waking Up Plugged

The pleasures of tossing and turning to go to sleep, and then waking up plugged...

It just doesn't get any better than this.

I sleep naked and plugged outside the covers with a slight breeze from the fan blowing over me. Right there, that's three positive ways to feel stimulated on many levels. 1) I'm a nudist, so being naked is always a pleasure (ok, unless it's frigging cold), and sleeping naked is as good as swimming naked. 2) Sleeping outside the covers allows the breeze to tickle the hairs all over my body, keeping the skin alive and alert to caresses. 3) Being plugged in bed means that every movement causes a cascade of feelings in the anus, the groin, and in my cock; so I get pleasure from tossing and turning during the night.

But I do eventually get to sleep, because before I know it, I am waking up from a restful night's sleep—even if getting to sleep is like having participated in an orgy of edging solo. How much more restful and beautiful is spending part of the night having sex before drifting off? And then there's that first moment of consciousness, and then that twinge in the butt, as I feel my sphincter(s) caress the plug. And the hard-on I wake up to needing to piss. All this is a pleasure.

Simple anal fingering technique for anal
masturbation

There are two themes that run through my blog about living plugged, and the pictures and videos I choose to include reveals both of them. First, men (gay or straight) can enjoy the sheer pleasure of anal play (male anal masturbation). Straight men are taught (implied, maybe) that to get in touch with the anal side of sexuality is too "gay", but that couldn't be further from the truth. Anal sexuality is at least half of the pleasure any man can enjoy from sex, and just maybe, fucking the prostate from inside the rectum is more powerful than when it is just used in the act of penetrating a partner and leaving it untouched while it does it's business. We've seen the work that massaging the prostate with an Aneros can do for a man, gay or straight, and this leads me to the second theme running through my blog about living plugged.

This plug show that the plug doesn't have to be
inserted deep to massage the prostate. The
prostate is just a finger depth away.

This second theme has to do in part about "living plugged". Why do I want to keep a plug in my rectum as much as possible? Why did I decide after inserting a plug in my ass for the very first time back in the 1990s that I never wanted to take it out? Prior to that I had bottomed in my relationships as much as I topped. And in fact, I did everything and enjoyed it. I also loved to suck cock. But all that is beside the point: what is it about wearing a butt plug that is different from just having sex for an hour here and there and then going empty the rest of the time?

I don't really understand it. But why do I like to keep a butt plug in my rectum? For one thing, I feel content from being washed in endorphins in the brain when I'm plugged. Every little tug on my rectum from the plug, every squeeze of my butt muscles, all that sets off a stream of endorphins. It's not an overwhelming endorphin bath to say the least, but it's enough to amp up my outlook on the day as I go about my business.

For example, just yesterday, I joined the neighbors outdoors on my street while we ate watermelon and visited for a couple of hours. I was plugged. I assumed they were not, and it wasn't just my little "secret" pleasure that made it pleasurable (although many pluggers do get real pleasure from being secretly plugged). It was the contentment of the plug in my rectum as I did such an ordinary thing. "Living Plugged" is the whole point of this blog and one I lay before all men, gay or straight. But just as important, maybe, is the whole idea of anal sexuality for all men. Staying plugged all the time is probably not nearly as practical for most men who still work and are out and about a lot more than I am. But at least all men can discover the joy and deep pleasure of anal penetration for moments or hours, in play with a partner or as part of a solo sex session. Dildos have their place, sure, as substitute cocks, but butt plugs are designed to stay put once they are inserted. And I KNOW that most men engage in self-sex regularly, when the wife or boyfriend is away and we have some private time. I don't mean to leave women out of this discussion, but for the most part, women are already much more in touch with their sexuality than men are. And I have to say it, straight men quite often deny themselves half of their sexuality by not exploring their rectum and anal masturbation.

One of Those Nights

Edging...to completion?

This is one of those nights that I just can't leave my dick alone while I've got the plug in my ass. It's hot down here in the deep south even for the end of May...90 something. I don't run the AC at night but I do have a fan moving the air around over the bed. I'm lying on top of the covers and my entire naked body is available to me to caress, my plugged ass to play with by sticking my finger in the crack and running my fingers around the ring base (the only part of the plug that is not sunken into my rectum). A quick note, the ring base is not as intrusive as those plugs with a big rectangular base that virtually covers the entire anus. The ring base (see my ass at the top right of this page) allows me to slip my fingers into the rectum, and play with the shaft and feel the tightness of the sphincter as it also closes around my fingers. It's hot and moist in there. If I keep this up, as my dick hardens and throbs, I just don't know if I can hold off coming.

I don't want to. I like edging, which is why I wear a butt plug 24/7/365—or as close to that as I can get. After six years of plugging, I know it's impossible to stay permanently plugged, so I just accept that there are times when I have to go without it. But this is one of those nights when I'm solidly plugged, my naked body feels fine as I caress it, and I'm keeping a semi-hard cock in between it getting hard and throbbing. I have to back off, and then return to squeezing the head of my cock, feeling my sphincter close around the butt plug shaft, with each squeeze.

I'm also calling this movie night. I found a 32 minute video of a guy who rides a 14-inch-long, 3-inch diameter dildo, going up and down, his ass swallowing the whole thing down to the base, and he keeps this up without once removing it. So sit back and relax. Stuff your ass with your own plug and follow along, feeling something similar to what he must be feeling as you watch.