Dry Butt Plugging is Great

I wear my plug dry...

I know I'm revisiting this subject, and I also know that experienced butt pluggers usually lead with the advice to frequently lube the anus, since the rectum is not self lubricating. And I would tend to agree that lube is an important consideration when using plugs and dildos, and even getting fucked in the ass by a real cock. We do not want the anal skin, especially the sphincter and inside to tear or suffer stress. But wearing a glass (or steel) plug for the sake of living plugged is quite different.

I usually clean my rectum after a BM with a tissue containing aloe vera, a water based "lube" that is also healing to sensitive skin. Once that is done and I wipe the area clean and dry it, I then make sure that my glass plug is also clean, freshly washed with soap and water, and that it is therefore nice and naturally slick. I do have to squat so that my shaved butt cheeks pull apart, allowing access to my anal opening. I press the dry but naturally slick head of the glass plug against my freshly clean and dry anal opening. Once the tip of the plug begins to push the sphincter open, I continue a slow but firm pressure, and I can tell you that feeling the cold glass enter my sphincter and rectum completely dry is a pleasure in itself. Once I get the wide part of the plug into the sphincter opening (two full inches) the final push into the rectum is slick and smooth, and I can feel it pop into place.

The next feeling is having all the parts, including the sphincter muscles and the walls of the rectum close around the plug, welcoming it home and creating a solid plug. During the day, I can easily fart around the plug but nothing is getting out of the ass except gas.

Shortly after re-plugging, when my rectum is clean, I can hardly think of anything else except the wonderful feeling of being solidly plugged. Readers of this blog will recall that I also enjoyed a lubed ass, since the plug would move up when I sat down and slip down (but never out) when I stood up. That was a great feeling, as well. But I like the dry feel, the solid placement of the plug. It doesn't move up and down independent of the natural movement of the flesh around it. I can actually stay plugged without maintenance a lot longer, and really only remove the plug for any reason about every 12 hours, even longer.

New subject. A straight guy who calls himself "Research" has been a favorite of mine. He has conducted reviews of anal plugs and other toys for at least three years for EdenFantasies. But I recently ran across a video he did of himself using anal toys, and so I have skipped the order of the vids I have lined up to show his video. This is a straight guy who really gets into anal play, and it bears out what I have been saying: straight men should be able to enjoy the pleasure of anal play on their own asses. It doesn't mean you're not really straight; I quickly add that this has nothing to do with the absolute beauty of gay men who are also into anal play. I'm one of those. Anyway, here is "Resarch's" video for your pleasure:

Living Plugged Means...

I'm plugged during the holidays

There might be something some men who like to plug might find wrong with being plugged for the holidays, like sitting in church for Religious holiday programs, lighting the tree and other iconic religious activities, even opening presents on Christmas morning with the family, a lover, relatives, friends.

His plug is barely detectable
But it looks really good

But to live plugged, one just has to carry on with a butt plug in the ass, even at times of prayer, caroling, opening gifts. At least that's how I feel about staying plugged at such times. My partner of twenty-three years and I lovingly opened gifts this morning, our eyes tearing up at the special significance of this gift or that. I was plugged. I enjoyed even that moment. Later we will be joining other family for the big Christmas even, including Christmas dinner, opening gifts, hugging one another, and all the usual holiday events. I'll hug the elderly ladies in the family, shake hands with the men, all while being plugged. That's just the way it is to "live plugged."

This will be my third Christmas wearing a butt plug during this time. In December of 2012, of course, I was trying to stay plugged as much as possible, but I hadn't quite found the right butt plug and had not worked out the issues of IBS. But by Christmas of 2013, it was all good. By then I had been living plugged 24/7 for nine months. And by this Christmas of 2014, of course, I've been plugged 24/7/365 for a year and nine months. Recall I unplugged for a 10-day road trip to see how I fared and how difficult it would be as soon as I got back to re-insert the two-inch diameter plug. I also wanted to see if my sphincter grew as tight as it had been before I started wearing a butt plug regularly.

Som guys WANT to be stretched permanently. I never want to lose the ability to hold an enema in as I shave or brush my teeth, so I realized that my man hole was stretched somewhat and didn't tighten back to its former tightness when I didn't wear a plug for ten days. It will either take more time unplugged for that to happen, or I have permanently loosened my sphincter just a little bit.

Nonetheless, I love how I can remove the plug for a BM and the man hole feels soft and yielding to the touch of my fingers, and readily accepts three fingers for the ritual exploration.

So this holiday season I am celebrating my secret plugging life. I just plain love it. One reader says that he doesn't see the point of staying plugged because after a few hours it's just a non experience. I understand that. During much of the day, I'm just plugged. It's comfortable and there are not sensual tinges to remind me that I'm plugged, but for me that is not the point. Living plugged is almost a lifestyle choice, one that I enjoy. I've read of men who have plugged for fifty years, who are now elderly, or middle aged men who started thirty years ago and claim that they are more or less plugged 24/7. Some straight men who are long-term pluggers cite the same reasons as I do for enjoying it. After a year and nine months as this point, I'm just as thrilled and giddy with a plug in my ass as I was in April of 2013 when I started this journey.

This vid is a full length movie! Enjoy.

Butt Plugs and Exercising

How I use my butt plug to exercise.

I'm a little overweight and I have some groin fat that is difficult to get rid of once it shows up. It's the kind of padding above the cock and balls that tends to hide the magnificence of a man's genitals. The cock looks smaller than it is, and I use my nice, hard glass plug to enhance my groin and ass exercises. It would probably also work with a silicon plug, and in a way it involves kegal exercises, but more than that it draws the muscles beneath the groin fat in and out.

Nothing takes the place of strong strides when walking, or stretching out while running, but without that or without a daily regimen of walking and running, I use the pleasures that come from being constantly plugged to encourage me to exercise my abdominal and groin muscles. Once again, if you are reading this, try to move your consciousness down into your genital area, ass, and front—and feel that plug in your ass. Imagine as you walk that the longer, harder strides you take, the more exercise you will get to the soft areas that need to be exercised. The glass in the ass will not yield, and with a one-inch diameter shaft, when you're walking you can clinch the muscles around the plug. First it feels intensely great, but it also strengthens the butt muscles, and walking while clinched, relaxed, clinched, also encourages faster walking. I also like to stand in place and do what appears to people walking past that I am merely stretching, bending, and otherwise loosening my muscles, when in fact, I am putting hard pressure and hard stretching on my groin. The plug enhances those feelings, much better than nothing in the ass.

Spread those legs. I've noted that men who are really into wearing butt plugs like to stick their rears out and go into positions that spread the butt cheeks, as if getting ready to be fucked. With the butt plug in place, you're already being fucked. They (we) also like to open our legs wide, showing off our hard cocks and low-hanging ball sacs. For the onlooker, it's a visual thrill to see a man with a hard cock with his legs wide open; for the man doing that, it's definitely beneficial to moving all those muscles, both stretching them and contracting them as he opens and closes his legs.

Even when I get out of bed in the morning, clinching my abdominal and ass muscles motivates me to exaggerate my movements. Every exaggerated movement feels wonderful with the plug working inside of me. When I'm driving in my car, I can rock my pelvis forward and back, clinch, relax, clinch, and it feels great. It also works the groin area.

I like to squat down, spreading my butt cheeks and feel the plug being pulled into my ass. The ring base, of course prevents it from disappearing into my rectum, and the pressure on the sphincter not only feels great, but it also is beneficial to the muscles.

When I sit down or stand up, I clinch and work my pelvic muscles, and so every movement enhances the feelings of being plugged. When I sit down to shit, I love knowing that I first have to pull the two-inch wide plug through my anal opening, where it will stretch out the sphincter to two inches. That's easily three fingers wide. Nowadays, when I pass waste, I'm often surprised that I barely feel the true size of the BM (usually nice two-inch torpedo-shaped and six and eight-inches long) and I'm done. A little clean up and I ram the plug home for the next 12 or so hours.

The point is, I constantly use my plug to motivate me to exaggerate all my movements having to do with the lower trunk and that delicious crotch between my legs.

I just love knowing that when you leave a guy alone at home, he's going to masturbate and otherwise come up with some way to work that ass, like the guy in the video. Yummm...

Exploring the Man Hole

I mean the rectum...

What I love about this (yeah,
besides the dildo action) is
the shaved naked look.

Before I took a shower today, I did some careful and close shaving to my cock, balls, and anus. I know some guys like the fur and some guys like how much more naked you feel when you're shaved. I'm one of the latter. Bald as a badger. I enjoyed removing the plug and just really getting my fingers into my rectum after I shaved my man hole. I spent quite a bit of time exploring the hole and feeling around inside.

It was really sexy that my fingers came out clean, and that's after having the plug in overnight and through the afternoon. It's been said that the rectum isn't self lubing, and while that is no doubt true, I often run a finger full of aloe vera in there when I'm prepping my rectum for an enema. Once I've expelled the water (I never use anything but water in my enema), and dry my anal opening off, wash the glass plug and dry it off, there's enough aloe still in my rectum, I suppose, that even 12 hours later my rectum is still "wet." And when the plug comes out clean, and I can't feel any turd up inside, I can just stick the plug back in and go for another ten or so hours.

Off and on in these posts I've tackled the graphic facts of plugging, including the inevitable natural process of defecating. This is unavoidable, so you have to get used to the fact that you're going to have to deal with the brown stuff now and then if you're going to live plugged. No, I don't like it, but the glass plug cleans up easily.

Just....yummy!

Anyway, you also can't have loose bowels, and you definitely can't wear a plug when you have the runs. I know the name implies that you can, but you will have crises if you go out in public plugged and with the runs.

Pay attention to your gut, too, the part of the intestines that might hurt or feel uncomfortable when a BM is imminent. Don't attempt to stay plugged if your gut is trying to tell you something. Tonight, I'm going out (plugged) to have enchiladas. I can assure you that there's danger of a crisis; but I can't help but enjoy and tempt the gods as a result of eating Mexican food.

At any rate, I had a good shaving session before my shower. I enjoyed toying with my man hole and rectum, I enjoyed the enema, and now I'm enjoying my plug sitting up in there, feeling the sphincter attempt to close around the one-inch shaft, and I'm enjoying the tingle of an erection, along with a little leaking of precum.

Be on the Lookout for Men Wearing Butt Plugs in Your Neighborhood

I'm now a Butt Plug Spy

You can become a butt plug detective, too!

Even when I first tried a butt plug back in the 1990s, I was fascinated by the encouragement on the box it came in, to wear it safely for long periods of time. It even said, "Go out and play tennis!" And actually, once I inserted the plug and it settled into my rectum, and the sphincter closed around the shaft, it did feel good, and from that moment, I wondered how long I could wear the plug. It was one of those classic shaped plugs, like a cone with a rubber base.  Back then I wasn't aware of any different materials and I wore that plug off and on for weeks, but of course I did have difficulty wearing it for more than a few hours at a time. I did wear it on a driving trip to my son's wedding and had to stop a couple of hundred miles down the road and remove it. And then the night I arrived at my destination, I slept in it and had weird dreams. But by then, I was able to work around the irritation of the rubber base on my anal opening.

Now that's just a little ancient history of my butt plugging fun almost twenty years ago!

I started up again around December 2012, and by April of 2013, I had found a plug design and glass material that went in, stayed in, and was always comfortable. Since that time, I have become a man's butt man. Yes, I'm gay, and I like to look at men's butts as they pass by in my neighborhood, as I go shopping, and as guys come into the restaurants. Name a place and I'm on duty as a butt plug detective, hoping to spy the give-away outline of a plug in a man's ass. I like to look at young men's asses, old men's butts, fat, thin, and in between. I like the shape of men's butts, and if you're straight, sorry, but I'm going to be looking at your butt, as well, as you walk away or pass within my sight. You probably won't know that your butt is being stared at, or if you're verging on psychic, you might feel a tingling sensation right there in the middle of your butt hole  as I focus my attention on your ass.

Men don't have to be naked, either, for me to enjoy looking.

Now I have to confess that I just don't know why I like living every day and night with a plug in my ass. I just do. It has a pacifier effect, I suppose. It concentrates my focus as I walk and stand outside talking to passersby. I've never understood the "fullness" some butt pluggers talk about, but it could be the "solidly plugged" feeling I get when I'm wearing a plug dry. I like the nice hard feeling the glass shaft has keeping my sphincter partly open, and when I clinch at night in bed, it sends signals to my cock to stiffen. Some nights I keep my cock hard and pull the foreskin back and thumb the head of my cock, to keep it pulsing, almost to orgasm, but I back off and go through the cycle again. During the day the foreskin stays slick. 

Again,  I urge all men to get in touch with your butt hole, your sphincter, your prostate from the inside, your rectum; fill it with a plug, and go play tennis!

Estim and butt plug combo vid:

Butt Plug Issues

Why Can't I Keep My Butt Plug In?

Over the course of the last two years, on numerous sex forums that I keep up with, I've noticed that many men are not getting the memo about how to comfortably wear a butt plug, except for short term fuck sessions.

They say that after awhile they feel discomfort, their skin gets irritated, they can't sit down for various reasons, but the number one complaint is they can't keep the butt plug in; they have to wear straps, and otherwise force that sucker to stay in place. Others have freaked out because the plug goes up into the rectum, on its way to dark hole of Calcutta.

Reasons for discomfort
I'm sorry, but I am not convinced that silicone plugs can be as comfortable as glass and metal when it comes to skin irritation around the anal opening. It takes frequent lubing to keep the base and shaft of the silicon plug from rubbing you the wrong way. If you've not tried metal or glass, consider switching.

The shape and size of the butt plug can also cause discomfort. If you're going to go long term, say twelve hours, you cannot wear a plug that is going to take up a lot of space in your rectum. Simply put, you're going to suffer gas buildup, fecal crowding, and get your prostate massaged TOO MUCH.

If your ass is greedy and wants bigger and bigger plugs, go for it, but you will not be able to use those monsters when you go out dancing, bike riding, doing yard work, and going shopping.

Consider the base of the butt plug. Any design, where the plug is glass, metal, or silicone where the base of the plug sits perpendicular to the butt cheeks is going to cause irritation. I personally think a base on a plug that is shoved up a man's ass is sexy as hell looking, but those designs will irritate the longer you try to wear them. So far, a circular base that fits between the butt cheeks like a coin in a slot is the best I have found. Second to that (for me) is the NJOY plugs with their oval base. And finally a ball base or a T-shaped base might allow comfort for a longer period of time.

Reasons for plugs falling out, or climbing into the rectum

Guys, this plug will not stay in, nor will similarly designed
plugs.

A DILDO is NOT a butt plug. Dildos are designed for maximum butt fucking. And I have to admit, a big dildo can be pleasurable for a short term butt pounding. But the reason why a dildo is not good for long term wear is there is no shaft, around which the sphincter can squeeze shut to hold the dildo in place. But that also goes for a poorly designed butt plug that doesn't have enough differential between the size of the bulb that goes inside the rectum and the size of the shaft. There should be at least a 2:1 ratio between the widest part of the plug that goes inside the rectum and the shaft, which is held in place by the sphincter muscles. A two-inch bulb should have no more than a one-inch shaft.

The plug will not fall out if there is this ratio between the bulb and the shaft—unless of course your sphincters are stretched and "ruined" from fisting and huge dildo fucks. I know that some guys want to destroy the ass, and that's fine, but it's not if you're going to wear a plug when you go out for the evening or sit at work plugged.

And finally, too much lube can allow the circle base to slip inside and go past the sphincter and begin its climb into your body. Early on, I had a couple of crises when I was using too much lube—so much lube, in fact, that I had to wear double the briefs and boxers to keep the oily stain from soaking through and showing on my jeans.

Too much prostate massage

You will eventually feel overwhelmed if the design of your plug keeps pressing against the prostate without relief. At the very least, you'll keep feeling like you have to pee. More pleasurably but kind of messy is you'll keep leaking precum into your underwear. When that happens to me, I like to collect it on my finger and lick it up.

As most of you probably know, I have found long-term plugging Nirvana with this plug, here. It has an angled head, which I wear away from the prostate. The differential between the head of the plug and the shaft is 2:1, and the ring base fits between my butt cheeks like a coin in a slot. It's surprisingly easy to sit down on, which almost looks counter-intuitive. Also note that the ring base also has a 2:1 differential to the shaft.

No, I am not advocating for this plug above all others for long-term plugging. But I am advocating for this design or something similar. You might feel hesitant to wear glass in your ass. Try metal instead.

But I digress. The overall design of plugs that are ideal for long-term wear of twelve or more hours has an angled head, so that you can wear it away from your prostate, has a shaft that is twice as narrow as the bulb that goes inside the rectum, and has either a ring base (not a round base that sits perpendicular to your butt cheeks), an oval base, a ball base, or a T-base. And any of these need to be likewise twice as big as the shaft.

Living Plugged Evolution

Three Phases of Living plugged

So far, now into one year and eight months of living plugged, I've experienced three phases of staying plugged 24/7/365 (with minor exceptions here and there). I don't remember the exact number of months I stayed in one phase and then drifted into another phase. But so far there have been three:

1. Learning to live plugged
In this phase I had to learn how to control my digestion, had several near crises when I was out in public with my plug in place and ended up having to do clean up in a public toilet. I learned which foods rushed through my system and which ones were slower to digest. I also went through three different plugs. Actually I tried out five different plugs, including the months from December 2012 through April 2013, where I first got a silicone plug shaped like a cone. My next plug was the stainless steel NJOY, which is when I began plugging 24/7. This was followed by a blue glass plug with a ring base.

2. Settling in comfortably plugged
In this phase I went from the blue plug (it's head was only 1.5 inches in diameter with a thin shaft) to the Devi Prisms glass plug, with a 2 inch head, but still a thin shaft. About one-half-inch to three-quarter inches in diameter. I used this one through most of this phase, but I knew my ass could take a bigger plug. As it turned out, I went to the Icicles #14 plug. The only difference was that the shaft was one-inch in diameter and the head was still only two inches. However, I discovered that the fatter shaft, continually keeping my sphincter open a full inch provided the greatest pleasure. Once the head gets past the sphincter the only thing it stimulates with any real feeling is the prostate; but living plugged requires that I turn the angled head away from the prostate, and so essentially, the most pleasure and feeling came from the shaft.

In this phase was when I wore a pair of briefs next to my ass, and on top of that I wore a pair of boxers. I did this, because in this phase I was lubing with both water-based gel and silicone based lube. In this phase, I also perfected my dosage of Imodium to keep my digestion slow, so that my BMs were nice and firm and big. You can feel it move out of the rectum, and the tissue comes away clean.

3. The Icicles #14 plug with the larger shaft
This phase overlaps the second phase, and I attribute this phase to the perfect shape and size of the Icicles #14. A reader wrote to tell me that he was disappointed, because after awhile he said he could barely tell the plug was there, and I'm supposing that he wanted to feel stimulated to near orgasm all the time. Each of us likes to use butt plugs for different reasons. In the short-term use, it seems to me that the whole point of using a plug is to stimulate the anus and prostate during sex, so that ejaculation is powerful and intense. For maybe 12-hour plugging or sleeping plugged, the point is still to massage the prostate, and so when wearing the Icicles, the NJOY or other similarly shaped plug (with an angled head) you could say that the user is "edging" and will end this longer-term plugging session with an ejaculation.

But when I'm living plugged, the point of ejaculation is completely irrelevant. There's just something about having a plug in my ass, no matter what I'm doing that brings the more subtle pleasure. Further, in this third phase, I have gone dry (or almost dry), now into my third month. In this phase, keeping my dosage of Imodium up and watching what I eat, I have such clean BMs that I more often than not don't even have to do an enema; so in this phase, you could say that keeping the glass plug in my ass has become the most natural. By now the glass plug is home in my ass and there are no issues. I can tell by certain feelings that a BM is imminent, and the sooner that I take care of that, the easier it is to replug without much clean up. Nine times out of ten the plug comes out of my ass clean and dry, and it goes right back in after my business with just a lick of spit. My rectum is never uncomfortable with the dry plug.

Phase 4?
Who knows what's next in living plugged. I have never tired of keeping a plug in my ass and I'm reminded of being plugged throughout the day and night. There's a bit of a secret thrill of going about my day with a plug in my ass and talking to people, sitting in restaurants, the theater, walking, driving that just keeps me going. I'm sure that a psychiatrist would have a field-day with my desire to keep the plug inside of me. I'm also sure that anti-gay and anti-anal preachers would like to claim that I now have to stay plugged. But that is not the case. I cannot really tell you why this is the most lovely thing to be plugged all the time. I'm sure it could also be called a festish, but really...so what?

Plugged Solid

I can't stop talking about dry plugging!

As many of you know, I've been living plugged now for coming up on two whole years. I've related the feelings and techniques of staying plugged over the course of that time. This is of course only my experiences with plugging and what I have learned from other guys who have written to me.

In October, I took a ten-day road trip, covering three-thousand miles, and I elected NOT to be plugged during that time. In a way it was a good time to find out if I had done permanent stretching to my sphincter and anal opening. I was never worried, because even after all this time living plugged, I never had a problem retaining an enema during my clean out periods during the day. But I did find that even after ten days of being deliberately unplugged, the two-inch head of my Icicles #14 glass plug went in easily. It was certainly not like the first time I had tried a two-inch plug. Back then, I thought I was never going to get it in without a great deal of pain. I'm not into pain.

Nonetheless, the plug went back into my hungry hole, and the whole family of butt, cock, sphincter, and prostate, welcomed the plug back after that absence.

For most of the time that I have been living plugged, I was always careful to use lube, having read how the rectum is not self-lubricating. And during that time, I wrote about how intense was the feeling when I would stand up from a sitting position when the plug shaft moved slightly due to the lube, giving me a real intense thrill in my sphincter. There were other feelings that combined with the lube, the plug did to me that felt really good. They never got old hat, so to speak, and living plugged throughout the day and night came with a whole spectrum of hot zingers.

This pretty butt just make me want
to take a bite of it, plug and all!

And then, shortly before my trip, I decided to cut way down on the lube, which I did, finally graduating to spit as the only "lube" that I used, and that was mainly to get the glass plug back in after a BM or cleaning...whatever.

Now, during the rest of October (twenty-one days) that I have been plugged again 24/7, I have to report that I don't use lube at all, just a little spit on the plug to get it past the shaved skin at the anal opening. One reader told me that he'd never used lube for his NJOY pure plug either.

So now, after a BM and if necessary an enema, I attempt to dry the anal opening before inserting the plug. Nor do I lathe on the spit to the plug, either. I just lick it slightly, and with my cheeks spread I slip the plug into my rectum. As I said in a previous post, what I achieve with a dry plugging is that once the plug is in place, it is solidly in place. I get a faint reminder of the plug because my sphincter is spread to one inch (the diameter of the shaft). And this solidly plugged feeling is different from the lubed plug feeling. I like it. I especially like to finger my ass around the plug ring, which is the only part of the plug that stays outside the body, and really, with the ring base, even part of the base is enthusiastically intruding on the sphincter.

As usual, I am hard writing about this, and I divide my conscious awareness between my head and my butt/cock as I write.

Constant readers might be aware that I don't post nearly as much as I did during the first year of this blog. My main concern is that I just don't have that much to report that is too different from the other posts. Just remember, and try to imagine, what it must feel like to be constantly plugged, night and day, so that you do EVERYTHING wearing a plug. Next time I take such a long road trip, I will be plugged.

The Eggplant…

Dry-Boning, Part 2

New Sensations from Dry-Boning

Over the course of the last 550 days (how long I've been living plugged), I have had a chance to experiment with the dynamics of living plugged. I did take ten days off to make a trip without a plug, but I'm back on schedule. What that ten-day experience without a plug in my ass showed me was that it would take a while longer for my relaxed sphincter to return to a very tight state. After the ten days without a plug the 2-inch diameter plug went in easily. I remember back in April 2013, when I first got a glass plug that was two-inches in diameter, I was about ready to give up and go back to my 1.5 inch plug, because the 2-inch plug was so intimidating.

You Go, Boy!

It wasn't long after wearing that plug, the Prisms glass plug, that I wanted something just a bit bigger in both the egg and the shaft. I was unable to find a bigger glass egg, so I "settled" for the Icicles #14, which I found in my local adult toy store. The shaft was 1-inch in diameter, but the egg was still only two inches. This was about six months into living plugged, and I learned that much of the thrill of being plugged was in the action on the sphincter—not the prostate.

And then well into my second year of living plugged, I experimented with reducing the amount of lube I used, as well as the kind I used. I had been wearing a pair of briefs and a pair of boxers because of the oil the lube leaked out of my drawers. So I switched to various water-based lubes and finally settled for aloe gel. Expert pluggers will tell you that water-based lubes will not last as long as silicon/oil based lubes, and it is true. Thereafter I began cutting down on the aloe, getting dryer and dryer as I went. Experts will also tell you that the anus does not lubricate itself, and while that is true, one needs far less lube with glass or steel plugs than they do with silicone and other such plugs.

I wrote a short article about "dry-boning" and using minimal amounts of aloe gel. And now, following my ten-day vacation from plugging, I am here to tell you that I have gone completely dry on the lube. The sensation of the plug in my unlubed ass is very "there." I was spitting on the head of the plug to get it past my shaved ass skin, but I noticed that as the head went into the anus the skin inside and the slickness of the glass allowed me to get the plug into my rectum, and the sensation of being really PLUGGED SOLID gave me an instant erection. The "hurts so good" sensation is also there, and last night, I couldn't keep my mind off the plug and the sensation of dry boning. I do not recommend that you try this unless you are living plugged. The sphincter has to be somewhat permanently relaxed to receive the plug, and I feel (although I don't know because I haven't tried it) that the friction and resistance would be damaging using anything but gloriously, naturally slick glass or stainless steel.

Need I say more? Also note the gigantic phallic symbol on
the building to the right of the butt plug.

An Aside: Did you see the worlds largest butt plug erected in Paris by the American Artist who claimed it was a minimalist Christmas Tree. About all it had in common with a Christmas tree was its color. No one bought the artist's attempt to fool the public, and vandals later deflated it. Towler Road had a comment from a heterosexual plugger who maintains that it's not just the gay men who are supporting the billion dollar butt plug industry but a lot of straight men who are in touch with their anal side, and to that I say, right on!

butt plug action:

Unplugged for a Road Trip

Giving Up My Butt Plug on Vacation

It was a difficult decision to break my plugging streak by leaving my butt plug at home when I went on a recent ten-day road trip. I wouldn't have if I had been traveling alone, but my partner of 22 years was with me, and he doesn't know that I plug. I didn't want to carry the obvious kinds of supplies that I would need in case of emergency, needing to clean up in case my digestion interfered with my plugging, as it sometimes does. Further, we were going to be eating a wide variety of foods on the road, lacing them with unhealthy snacks, and quite a few sodas—all of which was going to upset my routine.

It was the right decision. For example on the leg of the trip from Natchez, Mississippi, through Louisiana and on into central Texas in one day, I became bloated and gassy (fried food, sodas, unhealthy snacks, and stress from driving unfamiliar roads), and being bloated and gassy is anathema to staying plugged.

On the other hand, when I make the same trip to our new home when we move, I will make the road trip and my partner will fly. That will give me the opportunity to maintain my plug as needed with the right kind of supplies on hand.

The real reason for this post, however, is to describe what it was like to be unplugged after having been plugged 24/7/365 for the last year and a half. I was surprised that I didn't miss plugging in a visceral way. Yes, the desire to be plugged never left me, as I thought about our activities and how much better it would have been to feel the plug working my rectum and sphincter, but I forgot about it quite often for long stretches. We did a lot of uphill and downhill walking, and on shorter day trips I have always enjoyed feeling the plug inside as I drive. Clinching an empty hole was not nearly as enjoyable as clinching with my butt plug in place. As one of my friends said, my butt was going to protest: "Butt, butt, I wants it!" kind of like Gollum and his precious. And then there was trying to get to sleep without the Teddy Bear effect of being comfortably plugged. I got up numerous times during the night and felt a little funny without the plug.

Note the hollow sleeve that the double dong is
inserted into...hot!

The most interesting thing to me, however, was whether the two-inch diameter was going to be like using it the first time when I finally got home and inserted it. I figured that my hole is probably a little stretched normally, because the shaft of the plug keeps my sphincter open an inch all the time. That may not sound like much, but when the sphincter is used to being forced open without relief I wondered if it would slowly, over the ten days return to its former tight clinch. During the trip, I stuck my fingers in my ass and measured how easy or difficult it was to insert them. I was surprised that being unplugged for ten days in a row did not significantly reduce the somewhat loose feeling of the sphincter, and on the evening we got home, the first order of business, once we unloaded the car was to do an enema cleanse and get plugged.

Hot butt!

While there was some resistance to the two-inch diameter of the head of the plug, it went in easy, and once that was past the sphincter, it popped back into place, with an audible sigh and welcoming hug from my butt, as it closed around the plug. Another effect was that I stayed semi-hard throughout that first night and into the next day. So now I have been replugged three 24-hour days and everything is back to normal—plugged and happy.

When I next make this trip by car by myself, I will attempt to stay plugged. I also like to keep my dick out of my pants and keep it hard by edging it, which always makes the miles fly by.

I've also sometimes tempted fate by keeping my cock out of my pants when I stop at rest areas, covering it with only my shirttail as I head into the men's room. But that's the subject of another kind of blog. As I write this, I'm plugged and I think again, as I have over the past year and a half, living plugged is just plain enjoyable, a private kind of thrill that makes ordinary activities more enjoyable.

You'll need to go into full screen mode to enjoy this video. The guy is using an Aneros stimulator. He's having a full-body orgasm (and incidentally probably messing up his sheets!)


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