Keep Mixing It Up

 What I mean by mixing it up is all about using different techniques to stay cleaned out verging on constipation, and the amount of lube, plug material, and diet.

I'm heading into 36 hours non-stop plugging. Understand that I usually give myself a break between evacuations, cleanup, and sometimes showering without a plug. But this time, I've unplugged for bowel movements about four times in the last 36 hours and wiped or douched and immediately replugged with no more than five or ten minutes during this process. 

What has changed? Just one thing. I'm still eating the same foods, still doing minimal cleanup, doing enemas a bit, but just to see if the water comes out clear. If it does back in goes the plug. I have been taking around two antidiarrheal, 2 mg tablets in a 24-hour cycle. The picture is of a generic brand of Imodium that I take, which contains exactly the same ingredients as the much more costly name brand. "Lopermide HCL" is the ingredient. I ordered this product from Life Sciences Pharmacy. This bottle contains 300 tablets. You go buy the same name brand product and you will pay around $6 for 12 tablets. I think I paid around $17.00 US for 300 tablets with this generic brand.

I'm monitoring my plugging in four-hour increments. At the end of four hours I walk around, squeezing my rectal muscles, sticking my butt out, and otherwise exercising my anus to see if I have to evacuate, or if it feels like I have to.  The one thing I have changed over this past few days is the amount of generic Imodium I'm taking. The product literature says not to exceed 4 tablets in 24 hours, so I've limited my intake to only 2 tablets in 24 hours. I've also researched this "Lopermide HCL" for long-term effects and, essentially, there are none. I've always had a busy, noisy gut and many foods give me gas, but with a change in diet years ago and watching the intake of certain leafy green vegetables, along with cutting out gas-causing vegetables, I now have a quiet gut. I've eliminated cokes and other sodas almost exclusively. I only drink a soda with an occasional hamburger when I go out to eat. I usually also cut my burger and other meal in half and take the rest home. 

You do what you have to do, just recognize that living plugged involves keeping your rectum plugged and that you have to share it with times when you evacuate waste. There's no way around this. You can wear a wedding band without ever taking it off, and it is made from material that the skin will accommodate without any side effects. You can't wear a carnival ring you might have won at a carnival because they're made out of inferior material. That's the same principle I use with my plugs: either metal or glass. Silicone is just not there yet as a material that won't affect your body in some way. But you decide; how much are you willing to give up to stay plugged as long as possible? If you have to constantly relube a silicone-based plug and you don't mind doing it, then that is perfectly fine. Just make sure that you're using high quality material, no matter which one it is.

My body would not accommodate silver metal in my rectum. But it doesn't have a problem with medical grade stainless steel. And Borosilicate glass is the best (for me), because it is strong, cleans up well, and never deteriorates. It is the type of glass that cookware is made of and can be vessels for food in an oven. It's great for cold and hot play.

As I have said many times, but which always comes back to me every day and every night, but especially in the warmer months, I am truly living my solo sexual bliss at home. During the warmer weather I stay butt naked in the house, slip out the back door into the back yard when the leaves on the bushes around the perimeter block views of me standing outside and taking a hands-free piss, masturbating in the sunlight (usually not to completion), and doing a few small jobs completely naked, and yes plugged. At night I feel more emboldened and can even go outdoors beyond the back yard.

In other places where I have lived I have actually taken night-time naked walks in my neighborhood. I don't do that here in the South, however, where people do seem to be a lot more modest at least about nudity. For example I went to the emergency room some months back with a constant pain in my stomach. Neither the nurses nor the doctor wanted me to change into a hospital gown (you know, like the one that you wear and your butt is exposed?) They kept me fully dressed and put monitoring patches on my skin on my chest and abdomen without allowing the nurse, or whoever, to actually see my skin!!! I would have very willingly disrobed and let it all hang out and I did in other states where only a minority of people actually go to church every Sunday. But not so, here, so I don't take naked strolls in my neighborhood, here in the South.

For me being naked and plugged is a non-stop solo-sexual experience that gives me blissful feelings of well-being and happiness, no matter what other shit hits the fan of life. I readily and unabashedly admit that I have always been a sexualized person. Even as a child I wanted to go naked, to the great shock and consternation of my mother, whom I no doubt freaked out when I asked her if I could go outside and play naked.

Growing up on a farm, I witnessed sex in their own way from every variety of animal we had on the farm, including pigs, cows, horses, dogs, rabbits, and cats—chickens? Not so much. The horses have the best looking, huge dongs on any animal, and they will develop a hard-on just standing in the field. So will I. On the farm I used to walk around with my dick out and play with myself, and I would do it in front of my cousins when they visited me or I visited them. We all knew not to tell our parents. Years later it was funny to hear one of my elderly aunts and my father laughing about the time that they got into a pissing contest, on who could pee into the spout of a teapot. My father obviously won that bet. They laughed pretty hard about that particular memory...but hey, humans and animals all have their sexuality, whether it's on display or hidden from everyone but our partners, and even then most of us have our own further hidden sexuality that we just don't share readily with anyone. That is why I love living alone right now. I would of course jump at the chance to live with my husband again, but we're working in different states and that's not going to change any time, soon. I also will not cheat on him, and so solo sexuality is the best solution to any of that. 

Naked

Plugged

Edging

Nothing else need interfere with that, and I can still get all my work done with very good concentration. I'm a self-employed person, and I work at home. I occasionally have clients come for long-term sessions when a project is coming to completion. I'm dressed during those times, but more than likely also plugged and secretly enjoying myself.

 

Balls Deep

My Butt Plug is My Pacifier

 The main reason why I live plugged...

My butt plug is my pacifier, quite literally, and has a lot of the same comfort giving features that a baby gets from a pacifier. My plug has butt feel, just as a pacifier satisfies mouth feel. Some users describe this as a comfortable feeling of fullness, but I never quite got that description. It's not like a load in your bottom that you need to get rid of, so maybe "fullness" not quite a good description of why a butt plug is comforting to wear. Now, of course, I am talking about wearing a plug as many hours in a day/night as I possibly can. I don't "use" a butt plug to fuck myself with, but on the other hand, it is a lot like have a dick in my butt that doesn't get soft like a dude's cock after he comes in my ass. 

 

I think a lot of men who like to be fucked would prefer to keep the cock in their asses after sex, but a real flesh cock will deflate and slip out, even if both men agree to try to keep the cock in the ass after climax. It is an unachievable fantasy. But you take a plug and you can sleep with it in your ass all night long, get up the next morning, take a dump and stick it right back in and wear it throughout the day. It's especially nice to walk around with a plug in my rectum. While it moves with my body and my body accommodates its never relenting hardness, the action on the prostate and the sphincter keep things interesting.

 

But even as I'm drifting off to sleep, and I'm clenching my ass to get the feeling in both my sphincter and my cock (the waves of nerve tingling) I want to sing a butt plug lullaby to myself, because it really is a unique and indescribable pleasure that fosters a feeling of well being. As I wake up in the morning, the first thing I enjoy is feeling the plug inside. Taking a piss with a plug in my rectum is also nice. Sometimes I step outside and masturbate for a little while just to enjoy the morning erection and to play with and the challenge to actually piss through the hard on.  Can't be done, but it's fun to try. I don't usually complete to ejaculation. While that can be intense I prefer to keep the horniness going, and yes it is being horny.

 

But living plugged and feeling the hard slick glass plug fill my rectum,  to keep my sphincter forced open, is the main reason I live plugged. I truly never want to take it out for even an instant. It is so much a part of my psychological make up after having it in me for ten years I actually mourn having it out for more than a few minutes at a time. If I have to go several hours during the day with it out, I crave getting it back in when I can, and I always sleep much better and much deeper with the plug in my rectum at night.

 

I absolutely love my butt plug, my portable cock, my pacifier, and the fact that I can do it all the time in a crowd in a restaurant, in the stores on the streets, in the post office in my car during rush hour, among friends at a party, even with my husband of thirty years (alas we're living in different states right now due to work)——and nobody knows. I've only shared the fact that I am wearing a plug with strangers who are of course gay like me. I'm usually met with indifference, so I know that they don't know the pleasures of living plugged. My goal is for this post to be viewed a million times and it's getting close. I'm the most enthusiastic butt plugger man you will ever meet, but I am always glad to read other like me who live plugged, and my hat is off to those who have been doing it for thirty years or more...