Thursday, March 10, 2016

How Long Can You Safely Wear a Butt Plug?

Long-Term Butt Plug Wear

I'm now in my fourth year wearing a butt plug every day and every night. I usually take it out only long enough for a BM, shower, and to relieve bloating. Then I insert it right back inside. Noting that my goal is not to be "permanently" plugged, where I NEVER remove it, as some wearers attempt, even doing their BMs through the plug opening, I would still say it is safe to wear a butt plug for at least 24 hours before removing it for a BM; and then it should be understood that you will put it right back in and go for another hours' long wear.

So the best answer to the question, "How long can you safely wear a butt plug?" is you can wear it forever without serious damage to your rectum, anal opening, sphincter, and in the case of men, to the prostate. However, you can seriously damage your ass and internal tissue if you force a plug inside, wear one that is simply too big, and of the wrong material.

Guys, I know that once you get in touch with your anal sexuality (even if you're straight), it's quite tempting to keep going bigger and deeper, because it really does feel good to be fucked in the ass, have your prostate massaged, and feel everything around your anal opening being stretched. But this is where you have to control your urge, once you begin enjoying anal sex to go to extremes. Some guys go to extremes, and I've shown videos on this blog where guys have flat-out stretched themselves so that they can drive a foot and leg up their asses. Although I refuse to be judgmental about this extreme sort of butt and anal play, it's not for me. So, you are the one to make your anal play safe. But you can wear a butt plug 24/7/365 and do no damage whatsoever.

After almost three years of doing this blog, I see that the most searched term in butt plugging is "wearing a butt plug in public." Like me, if you live plugged, it goes without saying that I wear a butt plug in public whenever I go out, whether it's to the movies, the grocery story, parties, the doctor, meetings, etc. I cannot imagine using a butt plug, however, that causes me pain, irritation, or damage by being in a situation where I have to keep wearing it because there's no place to put it when I'm out in public, if it's not in my ass. Alas, for my viewing pleasure, the vast majority of butt pluggers out in public are women. While that makes for nice viewing for straight men and lesbians, I've love to see vids of guys wearing their butt plugs in public. Of course, since we usually go out in public totally dressed, there could be more guys wearing plugs than one might think.

Anyway, I'm having a great day with my plug buried solid in my ass with no issues of discomfort. That's why I stick to my glass Icicles #14. Not even the base irritates in any way.

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Monday, March 7, 2016

Butt Plugging and the Dynamics of Being a Bottom

Bottoms Control the Action

Although it has been traditional to assume that a male sexual bottom is the passive partner in man on man fucking, let's take another look.

I know this post might not be appropriate for my straight male readers who like to plug their butts, use dildos and have their GFs peg them, but you might be interested to see why a male sexual bottom controls the action when two men are fucking.

Prostate milking with metal dildo:

milking my cock with a big metal dildo pressing my prostate

First, think of what the top is doing. He is using his cock in the ass of his male partner. It could even be that he assumes the missionary top position, or dog style. Each position is one of power over the passive partner. But there's a bit of a fallacy here. All the top is doing is moving his cock in and out of the man's anus. His pleasure is derived from the feel of his cock inside the man's ass, increasing his rhythm until he ejaculates.

Now, think of what the bottom is doing. Is he simply taking the cock in his ass and just lying there? Is he simply accepting the man's cock in the doggy position, and letting the top do all the work? Get all the pleasure?

In fact, the bottom is more active than the top. He controls his kegals so that his sphincter closes and opens to the cock. With really tight control, the bottom can cause the top to have to push harder to get his cock inside, or he can open his sphincter and let the bottom jam his cock as far as its length will allow. And once the top's cock is inside the anus, the bottom can milk the cock in kegal action. When the bottom is on top of the man, he can also rock and rise and fall on the top's cock giving himself more pleasure than the top is getting, because the bottom is getting his prostate massaged, and the top is not.

I prefer the bottom role, although my partner and I do not engage in anal sex, so it's more of what I used to do. However, where living plugged comes in is that over the last three years of living plugged, I have strengthened my anal muscles to a degree that I never have until now. Last night before going to sleep, I clamped my sphincter down on the shaft of the Icicles #14, which has a one-inch diameter shaft. And I held that position for one minute at a time, keeping the squeeze on, then releasing. Over time, all the feeling transferred to my cock, because at the same time that I was squeezing my sphincter around the shaft of the plug, my prostate was getting massaged. My entire anal area inside and out was exploding with feeling. Living plugged 24/7 means that I can do this off and on during the day and night, and it's invisible to anyone around me. I can do this walking, sitting, lying down.