Male Bonding Through the Use of Butt Plugs

When Mutual Enjoyment of Butt Plugging is Shared

I've often said in this blog that many straight men enjoy butt plugging, and for most men, it's obvious that gays enjoy anal sex. Some do. Some don't. But in a way, when two men can share their enjoyment of butt plugging, it doesn't matter if they're both straight, both gay, or straight and gay. I feel that I have made several straight male friends through our mutual enjoyment of butt plugging. I do also believe that because these men have embraced the anal part of their sexuality, they can appreciate what gay men have known all along. Further, once a straight man can get over the societal taboos that have otherwise prevented him from admitting that he likes anal stimulation, he is not so freaked out about gay men.

I have no interest in having sex with a straight man, but that doesn't mean that we can't enjoy showing each other our plugged butts. There are even times when two straight men or other combination can help one another with deep plugging and anal play. Of course, we can't really know in the videos, whether a guy is really straight, but I've seen overwhelming evidence of straight guys talking about how they love anal sex. I've also read their disclaimers that they're not gay and wouldn't want to have sex with a guy. And that's fine. Sexual porn and sexual fetishes make for some interesting and mutually enjoyable bedfellows (so to speak).

The guy in this picture is probably mutually attractive to both gay and straight men. Gay men, like me, of course, will enjoy his beautiful face, his rigid cock, and his ass. But I've had straight guys tell me that they get turned on by seeing other guys plugging.

And you just know the guy getting serviced by the woman in the next picture is enjoying himself.

But let's not forget about the anal straight guys and the women who love them. It can also be a mutually satisfying pastime for a woman to "peg" her husband or boyfriend.

Butt...I digress. I've been writing back and forth with men who really love being plugged. A couple of them are gay, a few more call themselves "heteroflexible," and some just say they're straight. I'm currently waiting with anticipation of receiving the selfies from my latest straight, butt-plugging friend, but until then, I've found some good pics, as you can see in this post.

Enjoy...

My bet is that these are plugging buddies, though they may not be gay.

Ahhh...just think what this guy is feeling.

In the meantime, I've searched a little every day to bring you the plugging vids and picts that I like. There are sites that feature women, and these are wonderful. Men and women can now equally enjoy plugging; but as the theme of this post suggests, plugging can break down the barriers between men, no matter their sexuality. I think it's a great time to be alive, to be able to share so much lucious sexuality through the magic of the Internet. And so, my search goes on.

Remember that I write this blog while plugged. After plugging now for almost a year, I've struck a balance in my diet and while I sometimes cheat and have foods that cause chaos with my plugging, it doesn't take long to bring it back into alignment. I don't, however, ever see the possibility of wearing one of the hollow plugs out in public.

I get all my vids from the Internet, and the sites thoughtfully provide the embed codes for use by other sites, like this one. Thanks to Gay Demon and BestMaleBlogs, traffic to this site has exploded.

Butt Plugged All the Time....and Still Able to Live Normally

I'm able to stay plugged and still focus on everyday life...

If you're the kind of man, like me, who really wants to live plugged 24/7, you might doubt that you'd be able to concentrate on everyday life, still being able to live "normally" going to work, getting a good night's sleep, doing all the things you normally would do without a butt plug in your ass. I've read that some guys are afraid they won't be able to sleep if they have a butt plug in their ass, or wouldn't be able to concentrate at work, or maybe get caught in a situation where they're unable to take care of the plug for BMs and such while at work.

Some of these are legitimate concerns, but after having been plugged now for at least seven months, I can tell you that you can live normally, concentrate on your work, carry on conversations, and do all the activities you do without being plugged. Of course there are exceptions and there are times when I have to remove my plug. I've covered the more obvious reasons in other posts. But I can assure you that while you never get used to being plugged (there's always that sexual haze of pleasure at every moment in a plugged life), it becomes so routine to feel the plug in my ass, feel the sphincter loosen and tighten as I move that it becomes a chronic awareness and something that you can easily ignore when necessary.

For example, I like to hang out at a local coffee shop and visit with the locals in the small tourist town where I live. People come and go in the coffee shop. I get introduced or greet people I know, have discussions on everything from the weather to literature and art, carry on conversations, drink coffee, and no one is the wiser; but at certain moments while visiting, I just clinch my ass for a moment and enjoy the secret pleasure of being plugged.

When I'm working I can put in several hours without once being distracted by the plug; and yet I know it's there. And when I stand up to take a break, it just lovely. Now, I do work at home, so I'm not faced with the same difficulty of taking care of butt business should it arise, as those of you might, who work in an office or facility where bathroom time is not quite so convenient or private.

Some guys say they carry small zip-lock baggies with lube, just in case their plug dries out. But I would like to suggest that you choose your permanent-wear plug with great care, for material, size, and above all comfort. Glass or steel certainly negates the need for frequent lubing. In fact, I'm almost to the point where I use just a drop or two of lube and can go twelve or more hours without the least bit irritation. I use a plug that is also not overly large in my rectum, leaving room for gas and other buildup. The shape as well is important. No need to repeat the kind of plug I have found that never irritates, and over time, I no longer have the initial kinds of issues with "weary butt" that I used to have when beginning this living plugged journey several months ago.

Living a normal life, while staying plugged is possible and preferable to living a normal life without being plugged—that is, if have a plug in your ass as much as possible is something that interests you. One last detail before I end this post. Yesterday, I overdid the butt plugging porn (see the last video in this post) and got so horny, I just had to masturbate, so I combined that with my shower. I kept the plug in place at shot my load, but I did not remove the plug afterward. A lot of guys want to immediately take the plug out after ejaculating, and thus end their plugging/jackoff session. Keep that plug in, and you will be rewarded with afterglow for several hours, before your prostate, ass, and cock settle back down.

All pics and vids come from the Internet from sites that make it possible to use them elsewhere; or more often, now, fellow pluggers send me pics to use.





Talk about an eager bottom and delicious anal play...sent me to the bathroom to beat my meat!

The Secret World of Butt Plugging

Who secretly wears butt plugs on a daily basis?

Any time you do a google search for butt plugging there are thousands of results that come back for the person to consider. But in a way, finding out the kinds of people who secretly wear butt plugs among their family and friends, out in public and sleep with them is another matter. In the few months that I have been doing this blog and in reading various forums, I have been surprised at statements like these that open discussions:

"I'm a straight guy...and my wife doesn't know I wear a butt plug..."

"I've often wondered...who is wearing a butt plug right now?"

"I'm definitely not gay, but I really like playing with my ass...Is this normal?"

Many men have responded to my blog who like the idea of "living plugged" as I have coined the phrase, and most of these have been straight guys. To be equal about this, even more women, I think, are into butt plugging than men are, but I get the feeling that men are coming around at a rapid rate. And, as I have said, several times, the purpose of this blog is to encourage all men to explore their anal sexuality. It is surprising when I think about it that so many women love anal play, but I understand that if they're being fucked in the vagina when they've got a plug in their ass, the feelings drive them crazy. It's easier to understand about men, because we have prostates, and getting the prostate massaged from the inside often results in ejaculations of a stronger nature than those that come from masturbating our cocks. And so, men who have partners that don't care for anal stimulation have begun to secretly plug without their partners knowing.

So, straight men who are not gay, whose wives or GFs don't like anal have begun to secretly use butt plugs and dildos. But gay men whose partners are not thrilled with anal also secretly wear butt plugs. I'm one of these. My partner of almost 22 years is just not into anal sex, and there's nothing wrong with that. But after many years of not being anal with my partner, I have finally begun to wear a plug every day, every night, everywhere and every when—and I just love it.

Taken all together, then, the secret world of butt plugging includes straight men and women, as well as gay men and, no doubt lesbians. The secret part comes from those who get a thrill from being secretly plugged or feel a need to wear plugs without anyone else knowing. This blog might be a place where secret pluggers can find one another. 

Even though I'm decidedly and proudly gay, I am thrilled to think that straight guys are so comfortable with their masculinity that they not only don't feel threatened by the idea that anal play is somehow "gay" and they don't mind sharing their plugging affection with others. 

Bear in mind that I get pics and vids directly from the Internet. In all cases, those that I use are there for taking, and the sites make embedding vids possible by providing the html codes for it. I do not knowingly "steal" any pictures or vids. Also, this is not a monetized site. I don't do it for the money but for the sheer dedication to plugging and for fun. I also appreciate those men who have sent me pictures of their plugged asses for use here.