Like an All-Day Cock
There were plenty of times when I spent the night with a man who had just fucked me, and a fantasy of mine was to sleep all night with his cock in my ass. But there was the impracticality of what to do with the rest of his body, as well as the fact that a freshly milked cock just doesn't stay hard. Later, I would discover that the solution to that all-night-cock-in-the-ass issue was easily solved. Use a butt plug.
I also enjoy running my fingers around the anal opening, where the lube is nice and slick, and my anal opening is hot and moist feeling. I use three different kinds of lubes that I switch on a day-to-day basis; my favorite is Rascal anal lube. It's runnier than the other two silicone-based lubes that I use, but for some reason, even when I can feel a BM coming on, the plug usually comes away clean. It doesn't dry out, and as lubes go, it's cheaper than others. I'll have to do a google search of Rascal anal lube and come up with more details.
At any rate, to me, it's all about keeping a plug up my hungry butt and going about my daily routines. I seldom masturbate, but I quite often edge until the precum drips into my shorts.
Here's a guy who reviews the Tantus Severin large plug. I love it when reviewers readily admit that they've tried the products they're reviewing. I also love the way this reviewer lovingly strokes the butt plug he's showing us:
Although I'm partial to my glass plug, which currently causes me zero comfort issues, I think I might like to challenge myself with the Severin.