What Men Do in Private

What Men Do in Public

If the Internet has provided ordinary people with anything, it has given all of us a chance to reveal our innermost private lives in a very public way—if we choose to. I have always been a very sexual person, but I've generally done my most basic sexual expression in private, but especially what I really do when I'm by myself and have a chance to indulge my most personal expressions. It's very different when I express my sexual fantasies with a partner. How I express myself with him is a lot more tame.

And yet, what all of us can now view on the Internet is what our private selves do through the videos that someone else has made. And what I see is that even my most private self-expression is tame in comparison to many many others.

I'm of course most fascinated with private videos that other men have made when they are by themselves. I like to study their setups, usually appearing to be in their bathrooms or other places where they have power and water. For me, it's very boring to watch a whole video of a man lying naked on a bed and just moving his hand up and down his cock and coming on his chest. That's masturbation 101. But I'd say nearly a hundred percent of us do that most of the time. The interest for me in in watching the simple masturbation is just the variations in cock size and body type.

I've read articles and data-dump analyses that show I'm not alone. The latest information from an analytics firm (Uncovering sexual preferences by data-mining sex-toy sales) who studied the sales of sex toys and sexy clothing, using data from a UK company indicates that men buy more butt plugs and dildos than women do and they are usually larger than those that women buy. In fact, 35% of men who purchase anything from such businesses buy butt plugs. How they knew this I don't know, but gay men and straight men purchase butt plugs at about the same rate, and only partnered men buy a smaller percentage of plugs than do single men. The data come from over a million purchases.

So, what men do in private when they're sexually expressing themselves can get very interesting—and I thought using butt plugs and cock rings and letting my cock get swollen and red and throbbing before finally coming was pretty darn private. I finally put a porn site on my Roku, so I can sit in my living room naked and watch men fucking each other. Sitting there with my butt plugged and my cock erect and dripping cum ate into my bed time, and I finally quit watching around two in the morning. As a result, I've been thinking sexually all day, rather than working on a real project, and it has had far more to do with sex between men in both private and public than me merely wearing my plug. Of course, my partner is no longer here, but I'm not going to have sex with a stranger. It would ruin our perfect record of monogamy, although we both masturbate in private and talk with each other on the phone.

One of my desires but one that I can never do (back injury as a teen) is self-suck. Here is a vid with amazing close-up and a cum shot right into his open mouth.



two-foot long “slink” in anus