Living Plugged Increases Happiness
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An awkward "selfie" of my butt, while I'm
lying in bed taking a nap. My plug is
buried too deep to show, here. |
I've often written here that wearing a butt plug (for me) is kind of addicting, makes me feel good, and it's gotten to the point that I really sleep much better when I'm plugged and naked. I finally realized that wearing a butt plug actually alters brain chemistry and floods my brain with elevated levels of the good stuff—serotonin. Health food stores across the country routinely carry a supplement called "tryptophan" and it is known to increase the levels of serotonin in the brain. Serotonin is the happiness "drug" that rises when we're engaged in pleasant behavior, and for me, being naked and plugged do that. However, wearing a butt plug was recommended by doctors even as early as the late 1800s, as they thought it decreased hysteria, and they were right. There is a distinct connection between what goes on in the butt and what goes on in the brain. Not to belabor the point, but scientists have also discovered that generally happy people have different fecal bacteria in the gut than generally unhappy people, and there are now actual fecal transplants to help change the moods and attitude of unhappy, cantankerous, and nasty people.
Over the last nine years and almost six months of living plugged, I've also learned to glean enjoyment from being secretly plugged and to not feel guilty, let's say if I'm talking to my grandmother, a sibling, a friend, or a stranger. I say "guilt" but it's more akin to that feeling that it's somehow "wrong" to wear a butt plug in public or anytime. I've long ago passed that societal taboo that anything that deals with nudity, genitalia, sex, or gaining pleasure from playing with my butt is wrong or that wearing a plug and talking with grandma at the same time is somehow wronging them.So I will once again sign off with extolling the pleasure of waking up with a plug in my ass and somehow wanting to express how good it feels to live plugged.
I encounter this frustrating tendency in heterosexual men all the time, where even suggesting a prostate massage tool like an Aneros device causes a round of "Oh, I'm not sticking anything in there" grandstanding and macho posturing. It is pretty sad that what amounts to merely a bunch of (very nice) nerve endings are so roundly rejected due to upbringing and societal pressures, not to mention likely deep insecurities as to a man's virility and sexual prowess. Kinda pathetic, really. Humans as a species still have a long way to go! (Glad to be counted as one of the enlightened!)
ReplyDeleteThere are a bunch of non-sexualized butt plug videos on You Tube of all places...dozens of them, and the video I included in this post is one of them. I kind of think that men using butt plugs is increasing. I was in a sex shop not too long ago, and I was looking for new butt plugs. Something for one of my edging sessions that can last hours and hours if not days. The store didn't have anything that caught my imagination, so I ended up talking to the store clerk for quite awhile and eventually got around to telling him that I was plugged right then, and told him about staying plugged. I got the feeling that he was straight, and yet his response about wearing a plug all the time was something like, "I think we all do now." I left the store feeling thrilled that just maybe men being plugged is more common than I had dared to think. Of course, he works in a sex shop, so he's not turned off by all kinds of sex. Still, it made my day.
ReplyDeleteIt’s unfortunate but you’re both correct. Unfortunately, our society norms don’t jive with anal play in general and certainly not for heterosexual males. I personally identify as heterosexual (though bi-curious) and struggle with it myself. It’s the reason I don’t like cumming with my plugs in. I immediately get immersed in feelings of guilt which weight heavy on me. Everything we learnt growing up told us it was wrong and as silly as it seems that’s a hard barrier to break down now. I’m still working on that day to day. One thing I can say though with absolutely certainty is nothing brings me more enjoyment then being plugged or sliding a cock shaped dildo in and out of my greedy hole. It’s the filling sensation, the depth, the stroking of the prostate. Nothing makes my cock stand at attention more. Hands-free orgasms are by far the most rewarding and pleasurable orgasms I have ever had. Unfortunately, so many are denying themselves so much pleasure. I think plugging makes me a better person. It’s good for the soul. - Sissy Ty
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