Lifetime Living Plugged

 How Close Can You Get...

to being plugged for a lifetime?

The answer is the earlier you start, the longer you can live plugged, and while some people might ask why would you want to, the answer is because it's the healthiest thing you can do for your body. This includes digestive function, your anus opening health (never having hemorrhoids),  keeping your sphincter healthy and strong, (if you're male) keeping your prostate milked, and living with a sense of well being and sexual fulfillment. If you're a woman...all the above except for the prostate. I do applaud straight people who have gone anal for much of their sexuality. Just think how better off women would be if they did not accidentally get pregnant and have to deal with being an unplanned parent. I'm not advocating anything for intentional child bearing and raising a family. I applaud that, too.

Body Shame and Sex Shame

Unfortunately, we don't live in a world where sexuality, nudity, and body love are encouraged. Instead, worldwide, but perhaps mostly in the U.S., good old religion and social shame has kept us feeling guilty about anything having to do with our bodies, when it's paired with our most important sexual selves. And that's why I would like to see people start out young, get in touch with their anal area, as readily as they get involved exploring their penises and vaginas. When prepubescent people become privately interested in their sexuality and need information, parents should feel responsible for guiding them in their exploration without judgement. Just answer your children's questions frankly, as explicitly as is necessary without overburdening them with graphic details, and do it with love and leave it at that.

Keep it Out in the Open...No, really

Make butt plugs available in your household, right along with those ubiquitous shower enema systems. You'd be right in assuming that people have been taking care of their digestive issues forever by giving themselves enema. It's a useful process. (However, never use soap of any sort, nor chemicals. Basically use water like a bidet does. I go through periods of time when I simply don't do enemas. During those times, my digestion is at maximum peak performance and my evacuations are clean and I know my rectum is clear. BTW, the rectum stays empty until your body is ready to evacuate waste. You don't go around carrying a load in your rectum. The waste stays higher up in your gut as nutrients and other stuff is used by the body. When it is time, then the waste (and it is waste, which is why you're body is getting rid of it) moves down the gut and comes a calling on the rectal sphincter to open up and get ready to transport waste out of the body. This is not the anal-opening sphincter at all. That is why you can wear a plug and you don't feel like you have to shit. That's different and that is higher up in your system. 

Oh, yes, you get a full feeling when you're plugged, but it's a very nice comfort feeling, and with the sphincter staying closed around the shaft of the plug, it gets plenty of good blood flow action that prevents 'roids from forming. That's a major benefit of plugging.

When a child grows up in a household where he/she sees items they don't recognize, there will come a time when they want to know what something is for. If they ask, give them a name for it, so if they happen onto your collection of butt plugs, sex toys, give them only the answers they might be ready for at the time. Again, don't overburden them with too much information, too graphically, but don't berate or embarrass them for asking. 

I can recall as a kid,  when the neighbor boys introduced me to "jacking off" I did it to completion sitting next to them, but since this was before I had reached puberty, I didn't have any ejaculate, but I sure "got the feeling" the climax that the boys were teaching me to reach. After that, beating my meat to completion was a daily, and in some cases hourly occupation. I can't speak to what girls went through because my sisters never told me. Now, on my own, during these sessions, I also had ghostly feelings in my butt that I had no idea what they were, except when I reached climax my sphincter went to town contracting and relaxing, as the "feeling" shot through my entire genitalia system. The finger in the bath was next, along with smooth handles on objects within easy reach. 

Had I been lucky enough to have a parent who kept butt plugs, I could have discovered the joy of living plugged at an earlier age, and I could have also discovered the way to keep my rectum clean and the food I ate to keep my gut quiet. My household did have the enema bag openly displayed in the bathroom. Many years later I exchanged emails with a man who told me how he had gotten started with wearing a butt plug, and it was precisely because his father had given him enemas as a child. As he put it, he was then free to play with his nice, clean rectum. On his own, he discovered the perfect objects that he could use as a makeshift butt plug, even if he didn't have a word for it. All a parent needs to do is to not hide sexuality from their children. That doesn't mean a parent needs to initiate any discussion of sexuality with their children but to keep the doors open when their children ask questions. Nothing is more disrespectful to a child than to freak out when they ask their innocent questions and then causing the child distress and embarrassment and also feeling shame for just asking. 

I am against sexualizing children, but I am an advocate of being willing to talk about their questions when they arise. 

I feel that if you start out living plugged at an early age, you will have a full lifetime of personal joy and you will never feel so achingly lonely and left out when you don't have a partner, nor anxious and distraught if you don't automatically get a sex partner, of whatever description that might be. 

While I am in a long-distance relationship, but even when we were living together, I maintain a personal sexuality (as I'm sure he does) with masturbation and other activities. Now that I am living alone, of course, I stay naked as much as possible and plugged. It's called edging. And it's the essence of living plugged.

Wear a plug that is comfortable for you during the day, when you walk and sit and go shopping or out to dinner. I've had readers tell me that they find the devi glass plug with the ring base too uncomfortable to sit on (or the Icicles #14). They tell me that they now use the stainless steel Njoy or even silicone plugs. The bottom line is whatever makes your bottom happy.