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What Does it Feel Like to "Live" Plugged?

Does Living Plugged get Boring?

No.

From sometime in 2013 when I started this blog until right, now, today, I've had a butt plug in my rectum most of the time. I've estimated the plug-free time as less than 10 percent, but it doesn't matter. The point is during these seven years (I actually started in late 2012), I have truly been living plugged. So without repeating myself, I'd like to describe as best I can what it actually feels like to live plugged and answer anyone who might wonder if living plugged gets boring.

Here's the first interesting physical fact. Although I know when I have a plug in my rectum and when I don't, much of the time I don't feel anything physical from it. It doesn't take much to initiate a plugged-butt response, though, like simply changing positions in bed, getting up from a chair, etc. The plug I wear can virtually disappear from any physical manifestation. There is not a single part of this particular plug that causes discomfort. It's made of glass and it takes only a minute or two after inserting it into my rectum for it to become exactly the same temperature as my body, and you know how it feels to be in a shower with the water temperature in tune with your own. You almost can't feel the water. When everything is calm in my digestive system and I'm hours away from having to eliminate waste, nor have gas, I can't feel the plug. While there are virtually no nerve endings inside the rectum, there are three potential points of contact with the plug where I can quickly be reminded that I'm plugged—the anus and sphincter area (which is drenched with nerves), the prostate, and the sigmoid bend (the transition between the rectum and the area above it that holds the feces until it is ready to be evacuated).

So, when I get up in the morning and have had coffee and done my stretching exercises, fed the cats, and otherwise awakened my body, I begin to feel pressure above the plug where the sigmoid colon is ready to expel waste. It's not an uncomfortable feeling, just manifesting in a general sense of pressure. When I do my morning piss, and let the urine flow, there comes a point when I do a kegal clinch to stop the urination process. At that moment, of course, since the plug is lying against the prostate but not massaging it, I get my second physical sensation to the prostate, triggered by the muscle clench and is passed on to the penis. It's what guys feel as they begin to grow an erection. And almost autonomically, my sphincters contract, and flood my anus with feelings.

Throughout the day, I sit on hard surfaces, lean against a counter or table, etc. to get a little thrill-feel in my ass with the plug inside; otherwise, I've sometimes been walking down the street and for a moment wonder if I actually have the plug inserted. I've had to reach back with my hand, like I'm going to pull the underwear out of the crack of my ass and just feel for the plug's ring base.

So that's what it feels like in general broad strokes to live plugged; of course that doesn't describe the absolute feeling of well-being and satisfaction of having the plug in my rectum, as a real part of my body, which without it makes me feel empty and slightly ill at ease. I can sleep without the plug, but it's so very comforting to be plugged at night, kind of like sleeping with a Teddy bear.

And does it ever get boring to live plugged? Once I finally worked out the kinks in staying plugged (digestion, physical issues that include staying clean) the answer is NO. It's boring not to be plugged, and when I have to stay unplugged for whatever reason, I can't wait to get the plug back in. And the act, itself, of inserting the plug is something I savor.

Tunnel plug (near the end of the vid) that gives a great view inside the rectum:

Seven Years Living Plugged, Part Two

I didn't know there was going to be two parts...

But I just wanted to continue to write about how staying plugged for seven years has been as fulfilling as anything else I've ever done, and I can assure you that living plugged is a solo-sex activity that's better than having a partner in many ways. I have a partner, but we're separated by distance and circumstance and so living plugged is a great alternative; add edging as a result of staying plugged, and staying naked now that I live by myself, and I have room for very satisfying solo sex activity.

So today I'm having what has to be the very best plugging conditions. I last ate anything substantial last night, around 9 p.m. It is now 5 p.m. the next afternoon. I did a douche this morning to clean my rectum and managed to get rid of a bit of waste. Then I douched until the water came out clear. Then I slid my glass plug into my rectum completely dry. That is one of the advantages of glass or stainless steel. You can't do that with silicon. So now about 8 hours later, the plug is still in my rectum, feeling tight in there, but completely without discomfort. My gut is quiet and whenever I clinch, it sets off a chain reaction: sphincter pleasure, plug pushes against prostate, cock surges.

And since I'm anonymous, I will also admit that on days like this when I'm feeling really sexed up, I go out in public with my underwear tucked under my balls, which lifts the balls and cock. I keep my jeans unzipped and when I can I pull my balls and cock out, which are only slightly covered by my shirt tails. I went shopping at (where else) Wal-mart with my cock and balls out of my pants, slightly covered by my shirttails and spent about 2 hours shopping, smiling at customers, clinching my sphincter and feeling my plug the whole time. Next I went to the post office and walked on the sidewalk with my shirttails slightly flapping, and if anyone had been paying attention...well.

I have not stayed hard throughout the day, but getting hard on-demand. I'm hard as I write this, my cock and balls are out of my pants, precum is oozing  into my foreskin, and when I stand up and pull it back, my hand gets slick, and I bring it to my face and rub it into my beard (a day's growth I should say).

And on this perfect day, I will just stay plugged and not even attempt a bowel movement. It just feels too good to be plugged when all the conditions are perfect. You can also call this kind of day when I'm edging, because my focus stays on my ass and genitals, and I give a lot of time to viewing gay porn. I think I will add three videos to this post. Number three is breathtaking for gaping and what's hidden inside the guy's rectum.

Finally, I was thinking back to when I was a preteen and had learned to masturbate and then when I started to actually have something to ejaculate, I used to walk around on the farm with my cock out, feeling assured that when I was out checking the crops, irrigating, or even hoeing weeds in the field, I could jack-off and anyone in the farmyard or driving by on the road beyond the fence probably couldn't tell just what I was doing.

Seven Years of Living Plugged

What I've learned about staying plugged with fewer issues...

Back in 2012, I purchased a butt plug for the first time since the mid 1990s, and I almost instantly knew I wanted to try living with a plug in my ass most of the time for as many years as I could. It's now seven years later and I have learned how to confront and solve many plugging issues. They fall into three vague categories:

1. Digestion and cleanliness
2. Best butt plug design and material
3. Staying consistent and steady in practice

I suppose a college professor couldn't make this sound any dryer than I just have. So let's overlay this post with the fact that I'm doing all this (the issues solutions) because I just plain love having a butt plug inside my rectum as close to 24 hours a day as I can. It means I sleep in my plug, I work in the yard and clean house wearing it, I go out shopping and run errands while being plugged, and I go to parties and the movies and out to dinner, and attend meetings, while interacting with my friends and I feel the butt plug in my rectum the whole time—and nobody knows.

1. Digestion and Cleanliness

When I first started out I was simultaneously faced with several facts: I had hemorrhoids that made even contemplating wearing a butt plug cringeworthy; the conventional designs and materials of butt plugs had evolved tremendously since the 1990s and I quickly found out that the old traffic cone, silicone based plug with a round base simply was not made for comfort beyond a couple of hours. I needed a plug that did not exacerbate my hemorrhoids as I was trying to stay plugged, and I needed to settle on the best way to solve my Irritable Bowel Syndrome, avoid getting gas from much of what I ate, and slowing down my digestion so that I wouldn't have runny or too soft stools. I discovered the best way to keep a plug clean was for my turds to be consistently firm and move from above the sigmoid colon through the rectum out out the anus without leaving a lot of waste to be cleaned out of the rectum.

2. Best Butt Plug Design and Material

I tried three different materials: silicone, steel, and glass. I quickly intuited that medical-grade stainless steel would be the cleanest and safest to use, but the designs were mainly just hard versions of the silicone-based plugs. One stainless steel plug stood out from the rest—the NJOY Pure Plug, which fit all the design issues that would turn the head toward (or away from) the prostate for either a prostate massage or long-term wear. but the NJOY had one fatal design flaw. While the base was ideally turned parallel with the butt cheeks, as opposed to perpendicular, the designer must have assumed that the rather sharp edge of the base would have no effect. But during many weeks in 2012 as I was trying to wear the plug for 12 or more hours, the base tortured the tender skin near the anus, where the base was pulled from the business end being held in place inside by the closure of the sphincters. Everything else about this marvelous plug was perfect, but alas, I had to give up on it because the oval base sacrificed absolute comfort to aesthetic design.

But note how the base has an edge all around the oval. So when I found a glass version of the NJOY (same basic shape) I gave it a try. I went through three glass versions and settled for the Devi Plug (or the Icicles #14). Same thing. The difference between them and the NJOY is the donut-shaped ring as the base and a much wider shaft between the egg and the ring. The larger shaft keeps the sphincters forced open more and exercises the sphincters as I walk, sit, or sleep in a passive way. I believe that the shaft on the glass plug is what created a simulated "active" lifestyle and thus increased blood flow to the anus where the hemorrhoids formed and hardened. Within a few months of use, my 'roids were gone. The NJOY weighs about a pound, the Devi weighs about 9 ounces. The eggs on both are around 2 inches at their widest point. The shaft on the Devis is between .75 inches to just under an inch. The sphincter closes around the narrowest part, which is still larger than the NJOY shaft. The larger diameter on the glass plug is also why it's more exciting to wear, because it exercises the sphincters almost continuously, and that is where a lot of nerve endings reside.

Both the glass and steel stay much cleaner (fecal matter if there is any in the rectum during wear) and they clean off well with warm, soapy water. Almost 90 percent of the time when I pull out the Devi glass plug for my bowel movement, it comes out clean (except for a cloudy appearance from whatever lube has settled on it, and whatever natural substance that lines the rectum.

Finally (and no, I'm not showing a graphic of it) my diet consists of a lot of rice, very little greasy foods, mainly fish and chicken and a damned good hamburger about once a week. The more fats and sugars I eat the faster waste moves through my system, so I try to keep those to a minimum.

It wasn't until year six that I began to learn that one should not give oneself too many deep enema cleanses for two reasons: first, an enema attempts to clean out more than the rectum and just ends up interfering with the normal digestive activities of the colon and the large and small intestines; second, it destroys the good bacteria that you need for complete digestion. Also, if you introduce water into your digestive tract you end up softening the stool, which ends up making your turds too soft, with a tendency to dirty up your rectum when it's time to evacuate. Because I have a naturally fast digestive system (IBS for one), I also supplement my diet with Imodium AD (or an anti-diarrheal), and Simethicone for gas. Don't overdo the Simethicone, just cut down on foods that give you gas.

Instead of enemas, I've learned to do shallow (rectum only) douches. With a douche you use a small amount of water—about a half cup. Shoot it into the rectum with a short wand. Evacuate the water right after squirting it into your rectum; don't hold it in. Repeat at least twice until you expel clear water. Your rectum is clean. And you can re-insert your plug.

3. Staying Consistent and Steady in Practice

Once I was able to choose the best design for a plug, learn how to douche rather than give myself massive enemas, and watch my diet, I still had to decide if I just wanted to use a butt plug like a dildo and use it for masturbation sessions, or if I wanted to be almost monkish about living plugged. In other words, too many videos show men using a butt plug to "get ready for getting fucked" or use the plug as a dildo, which was never meant to be worn for any length of time—talk about stretching out your man hole; 24 hours a day would probably do harm to your sphincters and your rectum. And while I sometimes masturbate all the way to ejaculation, I do have to say that I am rather monk-like in my devotion to just keeping my plug in my rectum and living with it. The joy and gratification I get is immeasurable.

My "husband"/partner is no longer living with me, and I doubt if we'll ever live together again. Don't fret, we still love each other, but he's got health issues that prevents him from enjoying sex and issues that prevents him from living here in this higher humidity climate rather than the high desert. And as I've said, I also no longer care about having sex with other men. I'm sexual and "celibate" at the same time, and it pleases me just as it is.

What Men Do in Private

What Men Do in Public

If the Internet has provided ordinary people with anything, it has given all of us a chance to reveal our innermost private lives in a very public way—if we choose to. I have always been a very sexual person, but I've generally done my most basic sexual expression in private, but especially what I really do when I'm by myself and have a chance to indulge my most personal expressions. It's very different when I express my sexual fantasies with a partner. How I express myself with him is a lot more tame.

And yet, what all of us can now view on the Internet is what our private selves do through the videos that someone else has made. And what I see is that even my most private self-expression is tame in comparison to many many others.

I'm of course most fascinated with private videos that other men have made when they are by themselves. I like to study their setups, usually appearing to be in their bathrooms or other places where they have power and water. For me, it's very boring to watch a whole video of a man lying naked on a bed and just moving his hand up and down his cock and coming on his chest. That's masturbation 101. But I'd say nearly a hundred percent of us do that most of the time. The interest for me in in watching the simple masturbation is just the variations in cock size and body type.

I've read articles and data-dump analyses that show I'm not alone. The latest information from an analytics firm (Uncovering sexual preferences by data-mining sex-toy sales) who studied the sales of sex toys and sexy clothing, using data from a UK company indicates that men buy more butt plugs and dildos than women do and they are usually larger than those that women buy. In fact, 35% of men who purchase anything from such businesses buy butt plugs. How they knew this I don't know, but gay men and straight men purchase butt plugs at about the same rate, and only partnered men buy a smaller percentage of plugs than do single men. The data come from over a million purchases.

So, what men do in private when they're sexually expressing themselves can get very interesting—and I thought using butt plugs and cock rings and letting my cock get swollen and red and throbbing before finally coming was pretty darn private. I finally put a porn site on my Roku, so I can sit in my living room naked and watch men fucking each other. Sitting there with my butt plugged and my cock erect and dripping cum ate into my bed time, and I finally quit watching around two in the morning. As a result, I've been thinking sexually all day, rather than working on a real project, and it has had far more to do with sex between men in both private and public than me merely wearing my plug. Of course, my partner is no longer here, but I'm not going to have sex with a stranger. It would ruin our perfect record of monogamy, although we both masturbate in private and talk with each other on the phone.

One of my desires but one that I can never do (back injury as a teen) is self-suck. Here is a vid with amazing close-up and a cum shot right into his open mouth.



two-foot long “slink” in anus

Butt Frenzy

An afternoon of butt porn

I just can't help but get caught up in porn for a few hours every once in awhile...I usually don't watch much, except to find picts and vids for my blog. Most of the time I'm content to live plugged and go about my normal routines. Yard work is always a lot more pleasurable with a plug, which is what I've been doing today. My battery powered mower needed a recharge and so I decided to do a new post.

As I walked up and down the yard, maneuvering the mower, I had to apply some muscle, turning the thing, bending to avoid branches, working up a sweat and feeling my plug and ass crack get wet with butt sweat. Sometimes I don't want to pull a limp and wet-feeling dollar bill from my wallet during the summer; for some reason I have a very temperature-hot butt and it steams up everything in my wallet. I doubt that just being plugged raises my butt temperature, but maybe it does...who knows? Hehehe...

As I said in a previous post, I've been able to stay naked and plugged now that my mate has moved away and I really don't get many surprise visitors. I know when I have to be dressed (but still plugged) for a client. I work at home and sometimes I show the client what I'm doing as I work on their project on the computer.

Anyway, so I got caught up after mowing in watching all this butt porn—a kind of butt frenzy as one of the contributors said, and so, really, the video for today is a good indicator of just how frenzied some men are about taking very large butt plugs up their butts. All I can do is just watch and enjoy the visuals, because there's no way I'm going to work my hole open that big. I prefer just to stay plugged and edge almost 24/7. Someone pointed out that living plugged as I do has to have a sexual element to it, and I suppose it does, although much of those 24 hours/day are focused on my work, housework, even ordinary TV watching, but I'm never more than a butt squeeze away from a thrill and always right inside my consciousness I'm plugged and it is so wonderful, a kind of additional component to my body. I've got a longish foreskin and because of plugging it stays slick inside with precum all the time—a kind of coin purse, where I can slip my finger into and draw out a taste now and then.

Summertime Butt Plugging

May, June, July, August...Plugged and Naked

These were heady, sweaty, horny, cummy days. Got to do a bit of traveling nicely plugged out of town this summer, and it put my anus through its paces to have a plug in my rectum for 100 and 200 mile round trips, but especially needing to be creative to keep myself lubed and my weary butt feeling good. It does put a kind of near crisis on my butt to sit for several hours while driving, but when I discovered the joy of lubing with Carmac lip balm (bought it in a pinch when I was on the road), which has a menthol like component—woo! ee! Hot and cool at the same time.

I've heard of guys sticking ginger root up their asses, too, for the same effect. I've just about used up the container of lip balm, because my ass lips needed a lot more than my mouth lips ever did. In a way it had a soothing effect on my weary butt, and I'll tell you that my sphincter and anal opening got a real workout this summer. 

I mowed the grass while plugged, could feel the sweat dripping down my back and running into my butt crack, and just salting up my anus where the base of the plug stopped the sweat from getting inside my butt. My balls also got all sweaty and muggy outdoors with 70+ percent humidity on days where the heat index was in the triple digits, and when I was done for the day, I would come it and strip bare, and lay sweaty and horny on the bed and masturbate, feeling the plug get sucked into my rectum and press against my prostate, and when I came it was intense. I just let the cum pool on my stomach, and then turned on my side and took a nap. Or, I'd get up in the night to pee and ended up playing with myself to full erection, and just splashing that semen all over the place.

During all these sweaty masturbation sessions, I never once removed my plug, and once my throbbing cock subsided to flaccid, I left the plug inside. You have to develop a tolerance for that super sensitive time after you come to keep the plug inside. The initial response is to get the plug out as soon as you can. But DON'T. The rewards of a continued flush and throbbing ass is well worth the almost unbearable sensitivity.

Besides being continually plugged during the hot, humid days, and hot humid nights, and through many ejaculations, I was naked the whole time I was indoors, and I wished I could be naked outdoors, but I don't live near a nude beach or resort. But being naked and plugged almost continually since April, now over a third of a year has been some of the best days of my life, when it comes to feeling free and unfettered.

Good kegel action in this video.

Plugging is a Kind of Sedation

Plugs vs. Dildos

Before I ever started using butt plugs regularly, I sought the best cock-looking dildos I could find, including the veins and everything; also the one that felt the most like a cock, with a kind of hardness that gave just a little just like real man-meat would. Just as in the videos that I often include in these posts, where men are shoving everything they can think of into their butts and self-fucking, going for that to-the-moon cum shot.

And even though many men like to use butt plugs like dildos, either for the fucking sensation plus cum at the end, or to stretch their man-cunts for fucking a real man later on, butt plugs were really invented to be worn for some length of time. In fact, the conical or bulbous shape of the head of the plug is meant to go into the rectum and the flared end of the head is meant to get past the sphincter and have the sphincter close around it. The shaft is usually much narrower, therefore than the wide end of the head. So in reality, you're not going to get stretched out very much, if that is your intent.

At least if you used a normal, reasonably sized butt plug. So dildos are really best for getting that anal stretch for an upcoming fuck session. Or, these days you can get huge plugs that were never meant to be worn for some length of time, just conquered by the user.

After a few years of living plugged with my two-inch diameter plug and 3/4 inch shaft, I truly thought I could go up an inch in size from two to three inches. I was able to get the plug into my rectum and go past the sphincter, but when I stood up, the thing shot out of like it was ejected from the inside like a bullet. I haven't had the thing in me since then.

This is not me, hehehe...

That was probably into my 4th year of living plugged. and I discovered that I really wasn't interested in going bigger. I've enjoyed living plugged at a more vanilla rate that other men, I guess.

But we're all different and have different kinks when it comes to our sexual expression and enjoyment.

Living with a butt plug in my rectum 24/7/365 is a kind of sedation for me, and the most I want out of the plug is for it to stay in my rectum morning, noon, and night, indoors and outdoors, in private and in public. As with sedatives, I get a feeling of well-being and contentment with my plug in my rectum, always there, always feeling comfortable. On nights when I have to go to bed without a plug (usually a result of an indiscretion at dinner when I'm feeling stuffed), I find it difficult to fall asleep, and I usually end up sitting up until I feel less stuffed and can insert the plug. And then the sedation, contentment, pleasure, and a feeling of well-being washes over me, and I get back into bed and fall asleep. I'm going to a gathering of professionals this evening and the local paper will be there to gather information about the group, as well as to interview some of us. I plan on being plugged for the event, and if I'm interviewed, I can secretly acknowledge the plug in my rectum with a little squeeze of the kegals.

And ever mindful of endless ways to self-sex...

Naked and Plugged

Naked Since April

What it would look like if people just went naked

I don't know how long this is going to last, but I have essentially been naked 24/7 for a hundred days, and of course I've essentially been plugged 24/7 for 2,500 days. That is not to claim that I haven't put on clothes to run errands, attend meetings, or gone out into my front yard to pick up the paper. Nor is it to claim that I have gone without a plug without breaks. I have been both clothed and plug-less for a few hours at a time, or in the case of plugging a few days or even a couple of weeks at a time, but I still maintain a 90% naked and plugged rate over time. And I think I have been a nudist all my life and always, always got naked wherever and whenever I had a chance.

If I were asked why it is "important" to somehow make a big deal out of being naked or plugged, I would have no response, except that I know of other nudists who feel the same way, or they also like to talk about how far away they have been away from their clothes, without a chance of getting dressed quickly. And about the longevity of being plugged, again it was my decision to live plugged back in late 2012. Prior to that I had only worn plugs more or less regularly since 1994, when I bought my first one—25 years ago. Prior to that I was into wearing cock rings as much as I could. Meh...so what can I say? I've had my kink on for much of my life.

Get right down to it, I can recall being a wanna-be nudist since pre-school, and I can remember asking my mother if I could go play outside naked. I've been playing with my dick just about as long as that, and I confess that being solo sexual is my go to secret thing when I am alone. I will no doubt be pseudo-sexual as an old man. I also hope I will be plugged up to the time I die and let whoever processes my body figure out what the hell I was doing with a butt plug in my rectum.

Mmm...mmm...mmm! Honey!

Quite rightly I had a reader who wondered what else I do besides being plugged and now staying naked. Well the answer is everything I've ever done before, which includes having a full time job and a career, having a "husband" or lover, keeping up with my relatives, attending funerals and Thanksgiving dinners, meeting and working with clients. But when my "husband" moved back to where we came from to take care of his own quite substantial real estate holdings, I was left alone with my pets, and I just kind of fell into not getting dressed during the day, which meant that I was naked all the time, since I've always slept naked.

Traveling Plugged

By Car

This photo is complements of
a reader of my blog, and I
thank him. There are more.

I would never consider trying to use an airline and stay plugged when I travel. There are just too many risks, even though I don't believe my glass plug would be detectable by the security scanners or make a beep. But I usually do travel with my plug firmly in my rectum whenever I travel by car. The longest single mileage I have traveled in one day plugged is about six hundred miles, and then getting up the next day and doing it again, to complete a 1200-mile road trip.

I talked about this when I moved from New Mexico to Mississippi a few years ago, and even though I was wearing my Devi Glass plug, there were a couple of hours during both of those days when my butt got weary sitting on my plug. I think the key to comfort however is to be prepared to lube as soon as it starts feeling a little uncomfortable. The shape and material of my plug are the absolute best for comfort, but sitting for hours and hours does take its toll.

I was reminded about traveling plugged when I did it today, without giving myself adequate safe guards, like what if I get gas so intense it makes me very uncomfortable and farting continues to hamper my plugging. What if I have to defecate because of that and didn't bring adequate wet towels to clean up with in a public restroom?

I only traveled a distance of fifty miles today, one way, but at one point I had to stop at a travel center, use the restroom and...the best thing I could think of was to purchase some lip balm, which is probably petroleum based—not ideal because I like to use only water-based lubes. But in an emergency I had to go with the petrolium-based lip balm.

So I went into a restaurant restroom and opened up the balm, got a little on a finger and ran the finger around the plug getting between the shaft and the skin inside the anus. I didn't count on the lip balm being "medicated" with an ointment containing something like menthol.

I sat down to enjoy my coffee and pie and...oh...my! my anus felt warm and warmer and even though it was initially uncomfortable I soon began to enjoy the heated up sensation, which quickly subsided leaving my skin feeling cool right there in the anal opening. I'll probably do a bit more tonight when I go to bed. But then I don't recommend using something that's really meant for external use (ONLY) as the label says.

Anyway, I plan to travel plugged whenever I drive, and I always do in town when I go out.