I really love watching this guy get so much pleasure out of his anal self-fuck with a dildo
Be sure to look past this first video...There's more.
This guy is very very calm about get a slow, steady fuck from a fuck machine.This blog is all about living plugged—wearing a butt plug as many hours a day/night as possible, and going out in public wearing a plug, being at home, sleeping at night, wearing a butt plug.
Be sure to look past this first video...There's more.
This guy is very very calm about get a slow, steady fuck from a fuck machine.to being plugged for a lifetime?
The answer is the earlier you start, the longer you can live plugged, and while some people might ask why would you want to, the answer is because it's the healthiest thing you can do for your body. This includes digestive function, your anus opening health (never having hemorrhoids), keeping your sphincter healthy and strong, (if you're male) keeping your prostate milked, and living with a sense of well being and sexual fulfillment. If you're a woman...all the above except for the prostate. I do applaud straight people who have gone anal for much of their sexuality. Just think how better off women would be if they did not accidentally get pregnant and have to deal with being an unplanned parent. I'm not advocating anything for intentional child bearing and raising a family. I applaud that, too.
Body Shame and Sex Shame
Unfortunately, we don't live in a world where sexuality, nudity, and body love are encouraged. Instead, worldwide, but perhaps mostly in the U.S., good old religion and social shame has kept us feeling guilty about anything having to do with our bodies, when it's paired with our most important sexual selves. And that's why I would like to see people start out young, get in touch with their anal area, as readily as they get involved exploring their penises and vaginas. When prepubescent people become privately interested in their sexuality and need information, parents should feel responsible for guiding them in their exploration without judgement. Just answer your children's questions frankly, as explicitly as is necessary without overburdening them with graphic details, and do it with love and leave it at that.
Keep it Out in the Open...No, really
Make butt plugs available in your household, right along with those ubiquitous shower enema systems. You'd be right in assuming that people have been taking care of their digestive issues forever by giving themselves enema. It's a useful process. (However, never use soap of any sort, nor chemicals. Basically use water like a bidet does. I go through periods of time when I simply don't do enemas. During those times, my digestion is at maximum peak performance and my evacuations are clean and I know my rectum is clear. BTW, the rectum stays empty until your body is ready to evacuate waste. You don't go around carrying a load in your rectum. The waste stays higher up in your gut as nutrients and other stuff is used by the body. When it is time, then the waste (and it is waste, which is why you're body is getting rid of it) moves down the gut and comes a calling on the rectal sphincter to open up and get ready to transport waste out of the body. This is not the anal-opening sphincter at all. That is why you can wear a plug and you don't feel like you have to shit. That's different and that is higher up in your system.
Oh, yes, you get a full feeling when you're plugged, but it's a very nice comfort feeling, and with the sphincter staying closed around the shaft of the plug, it gets plenty of good blood flow action that prevents 'roids from forming. That's a major benefit of plugging.
When a child grows up in a household where he/she sees items they don't recognize, there will come a time when they want to know what something is for. If they ask, give them a name for it, so if they happen onto your collection of butt plugs, sex toys, give them only the answers they might be ready for at the time. Again, don't overburden them with too much information, too graphically, but don't berate or embarrass them for asking.
I can recall as a kid, when the neighbor boys introduced me to "jacking off" I did it to completion sitting next to them, but since this was before I had reached puberty, I didn't have any ejaculate, but I sure "got the feeling" the climax that the boys were teaching me to reach. After that, beating my meat to completion was a daily, and in some cases hourly occupation. I can't speak to what girls went through because my sisters never told me. Now, on my own, during these sessions, I also had ghostly feelings in my butt that I had no idea what they were, except when I reached climax my sphincter went to town contracting and relaxing, as the "feeling" shot through my entire genitalia system. The finger in the bath was next, along with smooth handles on objects within easy reach.
Had I been lucky enough to have a parent who kept butt plugs, I could have discovered the joy of living plugged at an earlier age, and I could have also discovered the way to keep my rectum clean and the food I ate to keep my gut quiet. My household did have the enema bag openly displayed in the bathroom. Many years later I exchanged emails with a man who told me how he had gotten started with wearing a butt plug, and it was precisely because his father had given him enemas as a child. As he put it, he was then free to play with his nice, clean rectum. On his own, he discovered the perfect objects that he could use as a makeshift butt plug, even if he didn't have a word for it. All a parent needs to do is to not hide sexuality from their children. That doesn't mean a parent needs to initiate any discussion of sexuality with their children but to keep the doors open when their children ask questions. Nothing is more disrespectful to a child than to freak out when they ask their innocent questions and then causing the child distress and embarrassment and also feeling shame for just asking.
I am against sexualizing children, but I am an advocate of being willing to talk about their questions when they arise.
I feel that if you start out living plugged at an early age, you will have a full lifetime of personal joy and you will never feel so achingly lonely and left out when you don't have a partner, nor anxious and distraught if you don't automatically get a sex partner, of whatever description that might be.
While I am in a long-distance relationship, but even when we were living together, I maintain a personal sexuality (as I'm sure he does) with masturbation and other activities. Now that I am living alone, of course, I stay naked as much as possible and plugged. It's called edging. And it's the essence of living plugged.
Wear a plug that is comfortable for you during the day, when you walk and sit and go shopping or out to dinner. I've had readers tell me that they find the devi glass plug with the ring base too uncomfortable to sit on (or the Icicles #14). They tell me that they now use the stainless steel Njoy or even silicone plugs. The bottom line is whatever makes your bottom happy.
I've never, not once, ever gotten tired or bored wearing a butt plug.
One reason plugging never gets old is because my body state is rarely the same from one day to the next. There is something that might be different today than yesterday. My sphincter never disappoints me, in that it is so full of nerve endings and has so many different "messages" depending on what is happening inside the rectum or outside. As an experiment to see if my sphincter was getting "worn out" as a result of living plugged now for ten years. I held an enema in my rectum while I showered, masturbated, shaved (my cock and balls) and then stepped out of the shower and dried off. I admit that one thing that I needed to do because of the way holding the warm water in my rectum felt (with the sphincter tightly closed automatically) was to masturbate. I don't do this very often, because I like to never stop the feeling of edging, but that morning, I was so hard and it felt so good to pump my cock while I was soapy in the shower and felt the sphincter squeezed shut against the enema that I just pumped the hell out of my cock and let the jizz puddle in my hand, which I then slurped up tasting my cum like a teenager!
And now just writing about this makes me feel everything physically, again.
I've now been living plugged for ten years, and if you add all the years prior to that when I wore a butt plug a lot, I'm sure that ten years describes just how long my ass has gone plugged, and that includes out in public. But even with all that real life experience, I do have to be careful much of the time, because my body is subject to bouts of digestive issues, times when I've eaten the wrong foods, and time when my stool might not be as firm as I like.
But always with a butt plug—specifically my glass 5 inch long plug with the ring base and two-inch diameter egg on the end of the nice fat shaft that keeps my sphincter open about an inch.
I live down in the deep south and I'm really getting tired of the endless cold and rain of winter, which lasts longer than you might expect in the south. I will be naked most of the time this spring and summer and on into the fall, and I will be plugged.
At the bottom of the chart you will see the reddish areas that represent the pelvic floor muscles that run under the prostate and at the base of the penis and on the other side of the anal opening runs under the rectum.
The exercise(s) that I recommend come as naturally as walking. First insert your best long-term wear butt plug. The kind that doesn't need to be strapped in, the one that pops into place and the rectum is constantly trying to pull it inside your body, which is prevented only by the size of the base of the plug. Did you know that if you were to fall asleep with a plug with little or no base, during your sleep the plug would just be pulled farther and farther into your rectum, then past the second sphincter and on into your guts.
But I digress, once the plug is positioned with the base outside the anal opening. Stand up, get dressed, and head outdoors. You're going to take the "Kegel Walk." You can choose to walk and compress and release your anal opening over and over as you walk, or you can choose to compress your muscles and stride along without release the clinch. You will not believe how wonderful it feels! Just don't let the pleasure show too much on your face, or people will wonder what drug you're on! The beauty is you're getting your serotonin infusion.
So here I am. It’s 9 a.m. on a cold Sunday morning. I’ve been plugged since about 2:30 p.m. the day before. I slid the plug back in after my editing client left yesterday. I had been plugged all the night before and much of the day before, and removed the plug about an hour and a half before my client came to my house to work on her book. And so, almost as soon as she was gone, I stripped naked, had a successful bowel movement, checked for cleanliness in the rectum by inserting the plug and working it around, and then pulling it out. It came out clean, so I washed it to a sparkling, crystal clarity, put just a bit of lube around my anus and reinserted the plug. So it’s been in my ass for almost 20 solid hours.
As I lay in bed this morning, awakened by a raging erection, I realized that I was getting way to much pleasure out of the plug as I lay naked, under the warm bed covers. So I held my butt cheeks stretched open and did some rapid kegel muscle exercises, feeling the base of the plug pulled against my sphincter, and feeling the sphincter squeezing hard against the shaft of the plug. The thing is, the glass plug is so wonderfully slick and smooth that none of this is uncomfortable, and I realized that the real intense pleasure of the butt plug has more to do with the intense feelings taking place in the sphincter than in having the prostate massaged. And I also realized that the reason I have always enjoying being fucked in the ass by my partner is because his cock keeps the sphincter open to the diameter of his engorged and hard and fleshy cock. That is what is echoed in staying plugged. While the shaft of the plug is much smaller than a male cock, the shaft on my plug is about ¾ inches in diameter, and as I move or sit or suck the plug into my rectum, the sphincter is alive with sensation; while it is not as intense as being fucked, it is perfect for constant stimulation.
So, what percentage of any group of at least a hundred people are actually wearing a plug in public. I used to engage in this percentage/group question about which guys were gay like me, and any more, I know that in a group of a hundred men I can probably pick out twenty who might be gay. But those who might be plugged..including women? 5/100? 1/100? 10? 20?
This is the year my plugging turns ten complete years. I started back in 2012 and here it is finally ten years later. I think for most of those years I've had the same glass plug, as well. Which goes to show that they're hard to wear out. I broke one when I dropped it from about four feet above a tile floor and it broke into a thousand pieces. But essentially this thing never wears out and is just as clear and crystalline as the day I opened it at the Post Office and couldn't wait til I got home, so I opened it in the car right out front of the post office and admired it in the sunlight.
I've had an especially horny day, been naked all day with the heater on in various rooms and have only been outside to pee in the yard and to get really cold really fast! The think I like about the glass plug is you can put it in the refrigerator or in a glass of ice water and stick it cold in the rectum...I do NOT recommend that it gets so cold that your skin would stick to it. You can also stick it in warm by running hot water over it for a couple of minutes, or less. Glass cools or heats up fairly quickly. But unlike metal it accommodates to the body temperature pretty fast, so it's just a short-lived thrill to stick it in cold.
This is also well into ten years since I've had even the slightest hemorrhoid; so I think the doctor that invented the anal probe over a hundred years ago (back in the 1800s) was onto something. I've featured pictures of a box of them several times in these posts.
Anyway, fellow pluggers and sister pluggers enjoy the new year. If you can't get out in public make staying at home pleasurable with a plug in your rectum. We've all got one.
But it's just simply how it feels in there, your whole backside hugging the plug, your sphincter trying to close and just keeping you subtly stimulated, where you get a ghostly hint of prostate massage. I wear my curved plug so that the tip of the plug is actually away from the prostate. Of course if I rock hard back and forth, sitting on a hard surface, I can drive the head of the plug into the prostate, leak precum or even ejaculate hands free inside my underwear and go around feeling the cum drying and get a whiff of that manly scent.
It was just about this time of the year in 2012, when I got my first butt plug after a hiatus of about 15 years. But even back in 1997, I was wearing a plug often, and even drove my first longish car trip over a thousand miles, while plugged. But yeah, the plugs from 1997 were downright rustic compared to the materials and design of today. My entire back end was raw and throbbing by the time I pulled into my destination after a thousand miles of staying plugged. I let it sit out a few hours before I went to bed that night in the hotel room, while I had dinner and relaxed from the trip. And then, I just rammed that plug back in my rectum and slept like a baby.
I'm also naked, which is another state I love to be in. And yes, I do keep a towel on my chair surfaces so that I leak precum on the towel and not the chair. I can't help but having a semi-hardon when I'm plugged and writing this blog. Thanks to all my readers over these last nine years, who have told me they appreciate my blog posts and in turn you inspire me to keep the blog going.
I have no doubt that living plugged is beneficial in ways both overt and subtle. I have written about this before in this blog, but after almost 10 years of blogging about butt plugs, it is inevitable that I will cover the same topics—I hope each time with new perspectives. Be aware, however, that wearing a butt plug in the rectum upwards of 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year is different from using a butt plug in ways that might not be beneficial.
These are the "other" ways a butt plug is used, and since I don't use my plug like that, I can't speak to the benefits, but I can certainly understand the pleasure (how ever temporary it might be).