Self-sucking

 I love self-sucking videos, where the guy can swallow himself whole up to the balls. And here is a 47 minute video that I just couldn't stop watching. It was a nice way to spend some of my thanksgiving before heading out to friends for TG dinner.

Enjoy

Getting Fucked all Night

 Anally Fucked...that is. 

We can mean both anal and vaginal fucking, but for my purpose, here, I will focus on being anally fucked. If you're a man or a woman, you can get anally fucked. To be fucked all night or all day and night, a human cock is just not convenient or doable. Cocks get soft and keeping it in the ass when it's soft is probably not doable and definitely no desirable. So our choice remains one of these:

Dildo (usually shaped like an erect cock, and quite often containing the balls as well, or a base). Now it is possible I suppose to rig some kind of strap that can be used to keep the dildo in the anus and make it possible to wear to bed. The base should keep the dildo from going on a trip into the depths of the intestines, past the rectum and on into the large intestine.

And perphaps one of the real advantages of a dildo shaped like a cock is to prepare the sphincter to be flexible and welcoming of a live hot cock for a good fuck me stupid session.

 

Anal probe, which is also a dildo of sorts (made of glass, silicone, or steel) but just vaguely like a cock or just a shaft or series of balls or...something. The double dong these two women are using is a fascinating toy for two. Men can use it as well, or a man and a woman.

There are also probes that are just different shapes. But in the case of both the cock-like dildo or an anal probe, they're usually the most fun when used for a single long fuck session, either solo or in pairs, and will satisfy the horniest of appetites up to and including what we hope is an orgasm that is full of fluids and cum and sweat. But then sleep sets in and I highly doubt dildos or probes are convenient to wear all night long or all night and all day.

Butt Plug. The butt plug, however, of all the anal toys is designed to be worn in the rectum, hands free, strap free, easily kept trapped in place by the bottom of the business end of the plug, connected to a thinner shaft and protected from escaping into the rectum by a flared base of some sort. The plugs shown in the image to the left are all well designed to be inserted and to stay in place. Note that the business end of each plug is rounded and wide at the bottom, is connected to a shaft that is long enough to go into the rectum past the sphincter, but also to accept the spincter closing around the shaft, and being outside the anal opening between the butt cheeks, connected to the flared base. These plugs look like they're made of silicon and to wear them for long periods would require plenty of lube administered frequently (as needed) to prevent drying out. A glass or steel butt plug will not need to be lubed but once in a long while. Cleanup and smell is minimal with glass or steel, but might get baked into the silicone and, over time will discolor and smell.

Now about being fucked all night...This is precisely the job of a butt plug, designed for maximum comfort and not meant to be used as a dildo requiring the in-out movement of fucking. Instead, as you move around in bed or on a chair or stand up, walk, bend over, or just squeeze your ass muscles, you get a strong feeling of a hard cock in your ass. You'll almost surely wake up to the pleasant sensation of having gotten a good fuck throughout the night, hands free, and if you're like me, you will have leaked precum throughout the night. Sleeping naked is also an enhancement to wearing the plug. You have access to your cock in the middle of the night or your vagina, and you can always play with the ass to feel of the plug. Wearing a plug continually 24/7/365 ensures healthly blood flow and reduces or eliminates hemorrhoids.

Living my Bliss

 A Mild Fall

The weather is just right for staying naked inside and outside the house where I live in north-east Mississippi. And this has been a very nice fall season, unlike the other five we've had since I moved here. And so I have been able to live my bliss for at least eight months straight. That is living naked 24/7 and plugged 24/7. I've said a million times I don't know why I love being naked and plugged, but it keeps me in a blissful state of mind and spirit, and even though I rarely engage in viewing porn, I sometimes look at videos of people who are taking selfies of themselves walking naked outdoors. I don't really care if they finish themselves off by coming or not. It's just being naked and plugged that I enjoy watching.

 

Also, my bliss is staying plugged as long and consistently as I can, which I've been doing for ten years. This year 2022, but especially with all this excellent weather (rain doesn't bother me) for so many months in a row, I have virtually lived totally naked and plugged. The only exception to being naked is when I actually have to go into public for shopping and meetings and working with clients, but even then I am usually plugged.

I've been having an exchange of comments in these posts with men and women who are actually giving my recommended glass plug a try. I want to hear more. See the previous two posts. I use either an Icicles #14 or a Devi Prism borosillicate glass plug. Boroscillicate is the kind of glass that is used in baking dishes and is very strong and will actually only break if hammered or dropped onto a hard surface.

I enjoyed watching this young man who is just doing exactly what I like, being naked outdoors and plugged. Simple as that...

Going out in public plugged

 I do this all the time

But I'm not nearly so dramatic about it.  

for the first time in a long time, I removed my plug before going to a cookout in the country with friends. I did not drive, so I decided that if I had a IBS issue with the food (shit through a goose syndrome) that I'd rather not have to do a massive clean up in the guest bath right off the living room, where some people would be watching the Sunday football games (this is the South after all).

I enjoyed myself, but at the same time mourned not having my plug. I think if I had to state one main reason why I do live with a plug in my rectum 90 percent of the time, it would have to be the hormonal release of endorphins, or the increase in endorphin activity that gives me a sense of well being and satisfaction at the same time. Hence, now, NOT being plugged is like turning off the spigot of hormonal flooding. Sure I can live with it; it's not quite like withdrawal symptoms. I even smoked for decades before quitting. I'm glad I quit. Haven't wanted a cigarette at all now for four years; but I used to dread trying to quit knowing I would feel depressed withdrawing from the nicotine. 

As soon as I got home from the cookout, I dug around in my rectum with a wipe soaked with hydrogen peroxide and lotion and saw that it was clean, so in went the plug where it's been ever since, except for poop breaks and cleanup if it's necessary. The cookout was Sunday; got home around 6 p.m. and it's now Tuesday morning. I'm plugged, naked, but later I will dress and go check the mail. Maybe even do a little shopping, plugged, of course.

Enjoy the vid...as I said he's a little bit dramatic about it, I think to reminds viewers that he's wearing his plug. My inner satisfaction when I'm out in public is probably not nearly as visual to viewers. But a private secret is just what it is...not public. Sure I wiggle my butt a little more than if I didn't have a plug in my rectum, but who can resist that?

Number 1 Recommended Plug for Living Plugged

An In-Depth Look into the Icicles #14 Borosillicate Glass Plug

An alternative is the Devi Glass Plug (same thing, different name) 

This is the only plug I've worn for the last ten years while I enjoy living plugged (having a plug in my rectum for almost 90% of the time, 24/7/365x10 approximately 87,760 hours). It is that comfortable. But some people say it's uncomfortable to sit on and that may be true. For maximum comfort, even while sitting, the plug should be worn with the head of the plug toward the back of the body and not toward the abdomen. This is essential, because a look at the rectum itself will show that it is also likewise angled in the body, and only moves into place above the anal opening for waste elimination. As the graphic below shows the head of the plug is worn AWAY from the prostate, thus also allowing a more complete insertion of the plug. Obviously, then, as the man sits down and the ring on the surface of the chair is pushed further into the rectum, the prostate will not present any resistance. But if the man wants a prostate massage (not recommended as a long-term-wear activity), the plug can be worn with the head facing toward the prostate).

 

Successful Continuous Plugging Hour by Hour, Day by Day...

The Rhythm of the Body 

Staying plugged ten, twenty, thirty hours with minor interruptions for body functions is effortless if you attune yourself to your body's changing rhythm. Over the ten years I've been living plugged, I allow for unavoidable changes in the body rhythm and don't fight it when my body insists on cleansing itself. It can take all day, some days, for me to finish evacuating as thoroughly as my body insists, and it's useless to fight the body. 

Of course I mourn the hours on such days that my rectum is empty and my plug is waiting in the bathroom cleaned and clear and ready for rectum. The clear glass of my plug and anal flesh  belong together as naturally as a ring on a finger, a comfortable pair of shoes on my feet.

But to stay plugged 90 percent of the time over the course of a year, I eat the kinds of foods that don't cause digestive distress, foods that are slow to digest, that are low in gas, and I take my daily doses of Immodium. I also do not douche very deep. It is really only  to keep the rectum clean between bowel movements. Your body will not fill the rectum up with poop until it is ready to be released. If you insist on too much douching, you will keep your digestive system from forming solid stool. 

Get used to body-waste elimination. Every animal on earth has to do this. You're no different, unless you are not a physical being. And man do I love having a physical body to enjoy the intense pleasure of living plugged. Our physical bodies are equipped with sensory receptors of one kind or another on every square inch of our bodies. We have concentrations of nerve endings in all the right places in our butts to keep us informed of our physical state of being. You will feel pain if something is not right. You will feel pleasure in the same area when all is right and good. A plug in my rectum provides pleasure to me all day and all night; it provides a feeling of well being.

Keep in mind that the rectum is empty and clean most of the time, but once or twice a day (or less), stool comes into the rectum from the colon and the rectum stores it. You feel this as a the need to take a poop and when you do, you eliminate the stool. At this point with just a little bit of clean up, you can insert the plug and keep it there until the colon once again empties the stool into the rectum. THE SECRET TO STAYING PLUGGED is to slow down the digestion and use fiber and Imodium to help form firm stools. That way you're not constantly trying to poop, and when you do the stool doesn't coat the rectum, the stool comes out clean.

Even the living micro-organisms in our digestive tracts are necessary for good health and provide the feelings of well being, which is why you do not want to destroy those organisms with soap. They play a role in digestion and other  functions.

Women. You need to help your male counterparts get past the wrong-headed notions that anal is bad or not "manly". 

Men. You need to experience the joy of getting fucked or use toys that will do the same thing. I'm gay, but I wasn't always in tune with my ass and the internal P spot. Living plugged is better than getting fucked for a short half hour every few days. Right now, my husband is living in a different place. I live alone. I stay plugged.

I even went to the doctor the other day plugged for a scan of my abdominal region. He didn't need to do a colonoscopy, so he never knew that I had a plug in my rectum the whole time. Now, I wouldn't wear a metal plug because of those metal detectors you have to walk through in some places. I don't think they can detect glass.

What I've learned in ten years of living plugged

 Living plugged means keeping a plug in your rectum as close to 24/7/365 as possible.

The latest stats I have on this past 30 days is having my plug out of my rectum for a total of an hour in each 24-hour period. And for 30 days, that's 30 hours without a plug and 690 hours with a plug in my rectum. 30 days is 720 hours. It's very difficult to extrapolate this out for ten years because that's a long time in a human's life. That takes me back to the year 2012, when I started wearing my butt plug as much as I could. This was after experimenting with it for several months and finding the best plug for my particular butt cheek depth (being able to sit on hard surfaces and not drive the plug much deeper into my rectum, being able to control my digestion through diet, learning what foods to avoid, what quantities of consumption, and the magic pill.

Loperamide Hydrochloride Mechanism Of Action

IMODIUM^® products contain an active ingredient called loperamide hydrochloride, which works to slow the movement of your intestines. Loperamide binds to a molecule (receptor) in the gut wall. It slows the digestion of food but does not prevent bowel movements. I use a pill form that contains loperamide and is a generic.

So I have lived for ten years with a very quiet gut, virtually no gas and only unexpected diarrhea after eating something I shouldn't. I've had to give up extremely fatty foods, but especially foods that are high in animal fat. It's a fact of life, I'm afraid that to live plugged you will have to monitor what you eat, and recognize (or learn) just what your own body is equipped to handle. I have what is known as irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) and without the particular diet with lots of rice, lintels, and very few vegetables that cause gas I tend toward a loose stool. So my diet has to include foods that digest slowly and the magic pill that helps absorb water and salt.

I could talk about plug design (configuration) and material till the cows come home, but I don't think this message is getting through as well as it could. The ideal configuration is a bulb (like an egg) on a shaft, and a base that doesn't dig into the butt cheeks. The shaft should be at least half the diameter of the widest part of the bulb (or egg) and should be long enough to allow the shaft to be both inside the rectum and outside the rectum (or longer than the entire sphincter ring of muscle. There should be a definite seating of the sphincter around the shaft. If the shaft is too short the plug will have a tendency to be forced out of the anus.

The plug should not be shaped like a cock. That's more fit for a dildo. You don't really want to have a fucking action (in and out) if you're living plugged. The plug should be hugged tightly by the entire rectum and the sphincter should clinch around the shaft.

You might be able to live plugged with a silicon plug, but I highly doubt that you will be able to insert it and forget it, because it will call for frequent lubrication. Silicon and rubber are materials that are still porous enough to absorb lube over time and then get "dry" in the rectum and cause irritation. The only two materials for true long-term comfort are either medical grade stainless steel or borscilicate glass. I've been using plugs since the mid 1990s (off and on) and I have tried everything, including dildoes, vibrating plugs and dildoes, silicon and other forms of rubber. Also realize that only glass and steel do not break down over time and you don't need anything staying in your rectum that is going to send micro elements into your blood stream.

Living plugged is meant to have a plug in your rectum and to leave it alone. Let it do its work, and while that might be very subtle, the rewards of the fact that your rectum is always plugged will be sufficient to give you thrills throughout the day and night and at times drive you to raging erections...all hands free. Living plugged also means that I (you will have to decide for yourself) don't ejaculate very often. Instead I simply edge and sigh with pleasure. 

And in case you missed the time I posted about the plug as being better than a real human cock, I'll repeat it here. A well designed butt plug, made out of the best material, that has no  design faults that causes any type of irritation is superior to a cock in your ass, except when it isn't. I still love being fucked—but there always comes the moment, shortly after we ejaculate when the cock has to leave the rectum. This is such a short time after being first inserted that you'll spend less time fucking than you will eating a good meal. Living with a plug in your rectum allows you to be "fucked" while you eat, to be fucked as you walk around, go shopping, drive your car, ride a bike, or sit and watch TV, sleep, shower, be naked or clothed.

Anal Flesh Loves Glass

 Smooth Glass and Anal Flesh are a Perfect Relationship...

Oh the anticipation

I should know, because I've had the pleasure of feeling how glass and anal flesh work together. It doesn't matter if there's lube or not. The anus accepts my glass plug and hugs it lovingly without lube, without the irritation of friction. In the picture to the left, I see that the guy has a bit of anticipation gaping going on, ready for the plug. The same could be said of stainless steel. The tiniest bit of lube on the tip of the plug as I insert it into my clean rectum changes the dynamic enough for the plug to move freely against the flesh, and with glass, the lube will last for hours. No other materials are truly non-porous. All other materials (including silicon) require lube and should be used freely (but don't use a silicon-based lube on a silicon plug or dildo). All other man-made materials will break down over time...perhaps even stainless steel. But glass is easily a thousand-year substance. 

If you attempt to go big on the bulb that goes into your ass, you might also make sure that you choose a plug that has a somewhat longish shaft (say at least 2 inches long. I have a 3-inch diameter plug (at the widest point) but the shaft is so short that there's barely enough room to accommodate the sphincter so that right inside the anus past the sphincter is the bottom of the bulb, and both times I've managed to get the thing inside, it blows out of my ass so hard I could shoot a burglar in the face if I aimed my ass at the door. The bottom photo of the plug with the right-angle curved base looks intriguing. I can see how this might not stay inside the anus very deep and would not be a good one for long-term, hands-free wear. But it sure looks like it would feel good.

I'm having the longest run ever of not having to do enemas to clean my rectum. I'm currently doing a combination of Imodium tablets throughout the day (no more than three in one day), as well as foods that slow down digestion, and I use a creamy lotion to coat the anal opening so that the  firm turds move out of the anus without leaving skid marks, if you know what I mean.  If I squat to defecate and there's not so much as a feeling that there's going to be a movement, I just push the freshly washed plug right back in. I'm talking about very long term success with having the plug out of my ass for only a few minutes every few hours. Been going this way for at least two weeks, meaning that these days, my 24/7 plugging is up there around 99% of the time...woops just writing that made my cock twinge. I think I will probably stand out in my back yard today, naked, and masturbate to completion. Getting some precum inside my foreskin over writing that.

I just discovered (or re-discovered) pornmd.com...very straight forward search and choice of straight vs gay content. I'm finding lots of good images of plugged men. I tend to favor men because I'm gay, but as the women who read my blog know, I often show women plugging as well. The plugged butt is of course my focus in this blog. If I were to split off and do a nudity blog, as well, it would probably feature a lot of public nudity scenes. 

I love being naked almost as much as I love living plugged, and during these warmer months, of course, I am naked damned near 24/7 as well, and mourn when I have to get dressed to go out (plugged of course) to shop or attend meetings and events.

 This guy is wearing a butt plug, but you won't see that until over halfway through the video. This one made me laugh, because of his facial expressions. The sound is muted. I also like the fact that he truly looks like he's enjoying the plug in his ass.

 

This next video is of a mild-mannered appearing nude gardener who I enjoyed watching because he was nude and apparently just working in his garden on a nice sunny day. He has the camera set back far enough that you can see his entire body, along with his garden and the work he is doing. But there's a surprise about halfway through the 11-minute plus vid, because he suddenly presents his butt to the camera and inserts a metal butt plug. We get to watch him insert it and then continue working. This is precisely what I like doing on good days in the yard. Right now I'm naked and plugged and getting ready to go outdoors to trim back some vines and bushes, and I will keep the visuals of this nice young man's body as he also works nude in mind.

 

I'm Not into Scatology

But a fact of life in living with a butt plug in my rectum is having to deal with the brown stuff...

In other words, I don't really like having to deal with bowel movements, but it is a natural part of being a physical being (in a human's case another mammal on this planet). But there it is. And I don't like the occasional times when I have to deep clean my butt plug. I use a boroscilicate plug (laboratory grade glass), which is strong and dependable, but which will shatter into a million pieces if I drop it onto a hard tile floor. I don't fear that my butt plug will suddenly break from the pressure of me wearing it and moving around freely, even running or playing tennis, riding a bicycle, or sitting on hard surfaces. I prefer this because of two strong reasons. First, cleanup is easy and thorough, and if I want I can sterilize the plug in the dishwasher. I could microwave it if I wanted a hot plug going into my ass (I don't). The point is the borosilicate material is ideal for butt plugs. The best, though I've never found a perfectly designed butt plug in metal is medical grade stainless steel. The second reason glass or steel is best is because, unlike silicon plugs, my plug does not absorb butt odors, shite odors and does not stain over time. 

Back before glass and steel plugs, and really before silicon plugs, I actually had a rubber plug that I wore all the time, or as long as I could stand it before it rubbed my anal opening raw or irritated it. It was a flesh pink when I first got it, but it became a kaleidoscopic pattern of colors in the pink to tan spectrum, and it began to peel away like old skin. It was a sad day when I threw it into the trash, and it was actually ten or so years before I found the newer plugs and kept trying out the various materials and designs until I happened onto the Devi plug (or the Icicles #14) which I have now had for ten years. I've got a back up one in case I drop the one that now resides in my rectum. 

I know that many guys who are into wearing plugs have a much wider range of sizes and styles than I do. But once my plug is slammed home in my rectum, and it's so comfortable with or without lube that I can actually forget it's there, I see no reason to keep messing with the plug or changing it out or stretching my anus. I'm not training to take big cocks. Even when my husband and I were living in the same state, rather than this new arrangement where our jobs keep us apart, we never had anal sex. We just 69-ed and drank each other's cum. In fact, for at least four years when I started living plugged, he had no clue that I was plugged when were were sucking each other off in bed. He has an even greater aversion to anal than I ever had. No. I'd rather keep a hard glass plug in my rectum than have a man's cock in my ass. I know...it's unimaginable when you might live for getting fucked. I don't. I live for having a plug in my rectum, for an entirely different universe of reasons, other than sex and ejaculation.

In this blog in other posts in the comments, I've discussed the idea with at least one of my readers that I no longer have to remove the plug even after I masturbate and ejaculate. My anus throbs for awhile after I cum, but I've incorporated that feeling into my edging. I edge, as I have said 24/7/365. Much of it is subconscious, of course, since even for hours at a time, I forget that I'm plugged...really...and actually have to feel the bit of ring that sits just between my butt cheeks. Or of course, I can squeeze my muscles and feel the sphincter close around the one-inch-diameter shaft.

This is one of those nights when I couldn't get to sleep. I worked in the yard for four days straight and have been hitting the sack around 9 or 10, which I did tonight, as well. But my libido kicked in, as I tossed and turned feeling the plug in my rectum and my cock twerking like it was performing on America's Got Talented Cock. So I got up, took a piss outdoors in the dark between my house and my neighbor's house, and turned my computer back on. I decided I'm going to ramble.

I think back to when I was a pre-pubescent kid and learned to masturbate from an older boy. I didn't have any "jizz" when I reached a climax, but I sure "got the feeling" that he talked about when he showed me how to jack off. After that, I was a fiend, and decided that every time I had to piss I would also jack off afterwards, and in the months that followed I experimented with places, positions, and standing over a hand-held mirror and watched myself from below my balls. And then when I started getting semen, I probably coated every square acre of the farm I grew up on with my cum. You have total freedom on a farm and can get away with jacking off while you're driving a tractor or walking the row-beds and chopping weeds, or skinny dipping in the irrigation pond. And correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems like every farm boy I ever knew was into their cocks and taking them out and playing with them when we were together, and sometimes even experimenting with sex with each other, before most of them finally got girl friends. 

I simply wouldn't trade growing up on a farm for anything in the world, despite the many lonely days, even during the summer when we were expected to work the farm with our dads and forego those summers just playing, with no real jobs as teenagers. I had work to do every day of the year on the farm. We had crops and cows, and chickens, and pigs, and rabbits that had to be attended to. We also had dogs and cats, and despite having sisters, I was the only son, and so I had to work as soon as I got home from school. My sisters did, too, of course, but it was mostly household duties.

So when I was a teenager and on into college and even in the military, sex meant fucking to completion with a partner for the momentary reward of the ejaculation and the throbbing as I emptied my semen, either into my lover's mouth or ass or the yard or my chest. It wasn't until I was with my last lover that I lived in two sexual worlds. One was with him and our having sex and the other was my invisible sexuality with my dick and what I did with it under my clothes. Before the joy of wearing a butt plug, then living plugged, my most secret thing was to wear a cock ring as much as I could. Yes, my cock was often swollen and deliciously sore. But as soon as my secret sexuality involved the butt plug, my focus migrated to my anal parts and my backside. It's not that I like my cock any less than I always have; it's just that being plugged is a deep-seated psychological drenching of pheromones in my brain on a constant basis; my feeling of well being is much much stronger than my feeling of doubt and worry, and no matter what is going on in my life, part of me is always at peace and feeling joy and a bit horny.

And if you're younger than fifty and you fear that you will lose your sexuality as you grow "old" I will tell you that, if anything, it increases, you just have to be open to other ways of getting satisfaction. Being plugged is the most effective way I have ever discovered. 

I enjoy the secret pleasure of being plugged in public and visiting with neighbors and having dinner with friends, or being in meetings among my fellow workers (although this is not frequent as I now work at home).

HEMORRHOIDS CAN BE DEVASTATING AND PAINFUL

And you have a choice or three on how to cure them... 

 

I suffered for many years with hemorrhoids, but they were only mildly bloody, mostly itchy and made me afraid that I had come to the end of my anal-sex life. From the time I entered college until the end of my career as a writer-editor in a corporate setting, I lived a sedentary lifestyle. Oh yes, I still worked in the yard for hours at a time, I still was active within certain bounds. I walked a lot, rode a bicycle, swam, and did other things that probably counteracted my desk job. 

But at one point, I simply felt my anal-sex life was over because it hurt to be fucked or was at least very unpleasant. Even clean up after bowel movements was painful and never very efficient. I had to use hemorrhoid creams and wipes along with other methods. I was, however, never as bad off as say truck drivers or my boss at work who eventually had little rubber bands placed around his hemmies, so that they eventually necrophied and fell off. I would think that would feel like little teeth, but that's another post altogether.

And I have to say I am recently aware of someone who is essentially a truck driver who had hemorrhoids so bad, he had to have surgery. He was bleeding and so much so that he had to have infusions of iron. Which made him sick. And he also said that the surgery was the most painful post-op experience of his life. I also happen to know that this person is not great on diet and is also sick a lot with other things. But aside from a change in diet and supplemental exercise, his options were surgery—or what I would never propose to him—wearing a butt plug.

I did not realize back when I started wearing a butt plug and experimenting with materials and sizes and shapes that doctors had invented butt plugs (anal probes, whatever) for precisely the reasons that people should wear the modern equivalents...doctors claimed that anal probes could alleviate stress and depression...and...wait for it...hemorrhoids. 

I can attest to the undeniable fact that wearing a butt plug regularly (once I had settled on the glass egg with the thick shaft and the ring base) is what cured my hemorrhoids. Period. My anus and the opening is now as nice and pink and healthy as it was when I was a teenager, and god only knows that I can keep a plug in my ass all day and all night and have not suffered from hemorrhoids for at least ten years. Getting to the point where you can wear a plug even with hemorrhoids has the most to do with material. For goodness sake do not try to wear a silicon plug. No matter how smooth it may feel it is not as good as glass or metal (medical grade stainless steel). And when you first get started use a lot of lube, but don't just use motor oil or something. (Just kidding there). Use a body safe lube.