Q & A on PluggingI look in on butt plugging discussions as much as I can, sometimes just to participate in the discussions and sometimes to alert men to my blog. This blog is dedicated, as I have said, to getting all men to explore the anal side of their sexuality, which I believe is one of the healthiest things men can do to double their sexual experience with a partner, enhance private masturbation, and a good way to encourage anal physical health, as well, In the Q &A that follows, I have taken what I consider some of the most frequent questions I run into on the internet. I have chosen to put in my two cents on these questions because I often find that there's a great deal of misinformation out there, lack of knowledge, embarrassment (mainly from heterosexual men), and a need for frank and graphic details concerning these questions. But for a moment...all seriousness aside as we ponder this funny little picture of two babies:
So here are the questions, followed immediately by my answers. My answers might also be misinformed, so I add that this is based on my experience and listening in on the butt plugging discussions.
Straight men and anal—Is It Normal?
For how long is it safe to wear a butt plug?
Wearing a butt plug all day or all night—Is it safe?Many men don't like to go all day with a plug because they don't want to go into a situation where they might have an emergency, need a bathroom, or feel that if they're at work, they don't get the privacy they need to make adjustments, clean up, or relube. So for that kind of situation, we're talking about "safe" as in non-discovered and embarrassed; but as I said in the previous question it's safe to wear a butt plug 24/7. Some men claim that being plugged at night keeps them awake...yes...well, sure. It makes you horny. But I find drifting off to sleep with a plug in my ass is a pleasant experience.
Who is wearing a butt plug right now?
Who wears butt plugs outside or in public?Those who stay plugged as much as possible all wear their plugs outside and in public. It goes with the territory, and it adds a delicious bit of secret pleasure to the most mundane things, like standing in line at the grocery story. Who can be bored when you can stand there and stimulate your prostate or sphincter?
How do you keep a plug from falling out?
Do you ever feel guilty about wearing a butt plug?I never feel guilty about wearing one. If I went to church, I suppose I could but then if I did I'd probably enjoy it, instead. Just imagine talking to the pastor after church! But I don't mean to make light of this. It reminds me of the guilt rush I used to have when I first started masturbating. I would feel guilty right after I came and sometimes might even vow to never beat my meat again! But guess what, after awhile, there is no guilt rush. And at my current age, wearing a butt plug is such a pleasure and a never-ending kind of edging experience that I don't come to the end of a session. I read about a guy who admitted that he would buy a few butt plugs and enjoy himself for a few weeks or so, and then feel like he was doing something wrong and throw them all away. Being sexual is a good thing. Masturbating is a good thing. So, by extension living plugged is a good thing. It might be a secret, private thing, too, but then so is masturbation most of the time.
Some guys must have wonderful setups in their houses for sex play—and a lot of privacy—like this one.
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