Waking up Plugged

The first thing I'm conscious of when I wake up...

is the plug in my rectum. Not only do I have morning wood but I can feel my anal sphincter slowly pulsing on the shaft of the butt plug. It's a pleasure to run my hand into my butt crack and my fingers along the glass shaft as it runs into the rectum. Having been plugged all night, of course, the plug is exactly my body temperature, and later, when I pull it out for a bm it is hot to the touch and stays warm for several minutes. Also imagine that because it's glass (metal would be just as good) the plug comes out clean enough to kiss. A slow digestion and firm stool has everything to do with keeping the inserted plug clean, even while in the rectum.

And yes, I often kiss my butt plug when I remove it or just before I re-insert it. That's how much of an affinity I have for it. It's my personal talisman, my juju, a sacred charm of smooth, heavy glass, and my rectum is its sheath, its home.

I stay plugged after I get out of bed. I stay naked, as well, as I have my first cup of coffee and as I get on my computer and look at the news headlines. It's a lazy time of the day when my whole body comes awake, along with my mind.

So I'm sitting here, now, as I write this about waking up plugged. There is no distinct pressure on my rectum telling me it's time for my morning bm, so I continue to think about what I can say about living plugged that I haven't said already, and this morning I feel contemplative about the anal aspect of sexuality and the sheer physical aspect of the anus, but particularly the sphincter, the rectum, and for men the prostate.

It surely is a central core of nerve endings, and again, I go back to the idea that everyone has an ass, a hole, a sphincter, and a rectum. Men and women only differ from one thing in the rectum and that is the prostate. And we differ in front. So, men, even if you're heterosexual, you have simply got to get in touch with your anus, your butt hole. Sexually, you're missing out on half of the enjoyment; physically you have more nerves in the anal opening, sphincter, and the prostate than you have anywhere else on your whole body. Straight men, take note of the image to the left. There is nothing "gay" about this photo. It simply shows a man with an anal plug buried in his rectum, with a raging hardon, which he is gripping with his fist, and the other thing to note is that he is doing this to himself, for himself. This early in the morning, when I'm coming awake and yes, one of the times of day when I am most intimately in tune with my anus and my plug, I enjoy just viewing these kinds of images.



See bonus vid...handsfree cum with dildo fuck

It's Ba-a-a-ck In

I've now been re-plugged for three days...

And I want to share what I learned from the experience of having to be unplugged for four days and nights, beyond all that stuff about diet.

Readers might think that all I care about is having a plug in my rectum 24/7/365, and it's true that having to go without my plug taught me that it is very important to my feeling of happiness (on a personal, hourly, daily basis) that I do get to wear it. It is definitely something I care a great deal about, now that I live alone (even though I still have a long-time partner who is absent out of necessity for his health). He can't breathe in this Southern climate and his assets are still in another state, so he had moved back to manage his properties. We're fine being apart, and so I now enjoy the freedom of being naked and plugged at home, and I mean staying naked all the time. It adds to the non-stop edging I do. I usually only get dressed when I have to go out or have a client over.  But also because I'm alone, being plugged is kind of a way to keep from being lonely...everyone knows that you need time away from people and most people I think take advantage that to get in some really personal masturbation. For me, instead of masturbating, I enjoy the subtle sexuality of being naked and plugged.

So, I learned that I do not want to give up what I have now that I'm living alone and being able to be plugged and naked without worry that I need to compromise on that score has become important. But what else do I do? What else do I think about? I have ongoing projects that give me a third source of income (what people nowadays call a side hustle), along with two other main income streams. It only keeps me comfortable, but not rich. I don't care.

I stay busy mentally and physically, attend gatherings out in public and with friends, and I will be attending a church supper before Christmas, but I don't think I will chance being plugged, because it's dinner first and then two hours of singing. It's not the kind of food that will be slow to digest (fried fish and sweets), and I might suffer a surprise attack. I don't want to be having to unplug at the gathering and clean up and carry the plug around in my pants pocket. Always being aware of potential plugging issues when I'm out in public keeps me from being embarrassed, etc. For example I wouldn't travel across country by air, but I would drive cross country plugged. I've done that several times.

But in short, I learned that I can do without my plug when I have to and my body is the number one dictator of how long and how well I can be plugged. But true, I don't like being unplugged. I hope I die with a plug in my rectum...what a way to go out.

I'm actually horny, again, today, and the plug feels really solid in there without lube. And this deep-throat suck job video reminds me why I like to suck cock. Love the camera angle.

Un-plugged for four days and nights

This was a true test of my patience...

Only this morning have I been able to be plugged again after four days, and even when I plugged this morning around 6 a.m., I had to remove it again for yet another bowel movement.

It all started the other day when I felt extremely bloated and my entire gut felt really hard. Not only that, when I lay down on my left side (the side you're supposed to lie down on when you've eaten) I felt pain somewhere near the opening of the sigmoid colon, but I caution that without real pain receptors in the system inside the guts, it could have only felt localized. The pain was not severe, but it was enough for me to think that I might be overly constipated from my regimen of digestion-slowing food, along with taking too much Imodium. There's also this idea that your gut can become compacted and the constipation is severe and your feces becomes extremely hard.

So I reluctantly removed my beloved butt plug and started a program of stool softeners, high levels of dietary fiber and drinking plenty of liquids. It took these last four days to reach a feeling that I had finally defecated adequately to reinsert the butt plug into my rectum. This will go down into my posts as one of the longest periods I have gone without a plug in my rectum in seven years. This is one of those times when wearing a plug was just not possible—unless I was willing to make matters possibly worse with this bout of constipation.

Those of you who have read my blog for seven years know that when I started trying to wear a plug 24/7/365 I had issues with the runs, soft stools, and irritable bowel syndrome. Creating and regulating a different diet, along with taking Imodium (OTC generic) helped me to realize my dream of living plugged. And since April of this year, I have had the best consistency with waste elimination, perfect stools, and little or no gas, so that my plugging was pleasant and carefree.

But I have learned during that time that it's possible to overdo the white steamed rice in too many dishes. I learned from this experience that I do need to add dietary fiber to my diet, as well, and so from here on, I will be renovating my diet and experimenting with additional foods. The best advice I can give myself and others who might be having occasional difficulty like me is don't try to stay plugged if you're having to fight your digestive schedule. Instead, be patient and just live through the withdrawal symptoms of not having a plug in your rectum. I've had the plug in for a few hours and even now it's a bit uncomfortable. It could also be that I am coming down with something. It is colder now, rainy, and the weather is unpredictable. I go from being over-heated to chilled.

Wearing Two Butt Plugs Today at the Same Time

I'm horny as hell...

One of this things I like to do occasionally, and I have luckily never been caught is masturbate under the table at restaurants. The conditions have to be just right (could anyone see my exposed cock under my table from across the room? Are there little children running around who might see and be traumatized? If a waiter is standing at my table to take my order would he/she be able to see under the table?) I actually check these kinds of thing out, from habit, at almost every restaurant I ever go into, just in case I get into a little secret flashing. I have not done this since I moved to Mississippi in 2016, but I used to do it more than occasionally where I came from in New Mexico. And I know over the years that I have actually ejaculated under the tables in a crowded restaurant more than a dozen times. And so as I was watching gay porn this morning, which is something I don't do too often, I was getting very horny and I decided I would try to get one of my big plugs in my ass watching men get monster plugs in their asses, and even be able to stand up and walk around in them.

Call it what you will, but I went off the guardrails today. My horniness has been building up more than usual for about a week, and even though I've still got a plug in my ass, I failed with the large one, which is about twice the diameter of my Devi glass plug. So as I watched a few bukkake videos today, you know where guys get cum all over their faces and get fucked at the same time, I dug through the rest of my plug and cock ring collection and came up with a combination cock ring and plug. a fairly small silicone plug and ring, but the nice thing about it, is that once I had the ring around my cock and balls and slipped the silicone strap under my perineum and then stuck the butt plug in my rectum, I watched a few more vids, and I got a raging hard on, which I attribute in part to the cock ring and the tugging sensation it causes on the connected plug, under the perineum.

But I wasn't done yet! I wondered if I could just go ahead and insert my glass plug right behind the smaller silicone plug (the small plug wasn't going to get stuck in my rectum, or lost inside, because it's connected to the cock ring). The Devi glass plug slid right in behind the silicone plug and pushed it higher up into my rectum, thus also putting a lot more strain on the connected ring and the strap.

It took less than a minute for everything to settle down nicely and both plugs shared my rectum, one behind the other. I wore both plugs for around two hours, watched more porn, and finally the silicone ring began to irritate. Yes, as with plugs, metal is a better material for a cock ring. I've got one of those, as well, but it's a little too small, and I would be afraid if I ever got it on and got an erection, I wouldn't be able to get it off...

"Doc, honest I was taking a shower and slipped on this round metal ring, and it jumped right onto my cock and slid around my balls, and before I knew it, I was erect, and so...help me! It hurts so good, but..."

And then I removed first my Devi plug, gave it a kiss before putting it in the sink to be washed, and then I removed the silicone prostate massage plug, and finally removed the silicone ring. Everything was clean and slick without a hint of you know what. So I washed off the silicone plug and ring and put it back in the closet with my modest plug and ring collection, and of course I slid my beautiful glass plug back into my rectum and finished writing this post.

This is also a very hot hot cum/fuck video.

And believe this, guys, I didn't masturbate to ejaculation, and now I feel wonderful, plugged and ready to run some errands in town. Enjoy the video.

Wearing a Butt Plug 24/7/365 is an Endless Fuck

Anal Masturbation vs. Cock Masturbation

I think that's the difference I've been trying to understand  but never put into words. Having now been plugged 24/7/365 (approximately) for seven years, my cock masturbation has fallen off to almost zero, and it is very rare when I have a raging hard-on for me to take it in hand and jackoff to ejaculation. I do that sometimes, and I get a great deal of pleasure when I come. It's intense, probably more so because I have the plug in my rectum when I do. In fact, the intensity of the ejaculation sometimes makes me want to remove the plug for a little relief—but I don't!. Guys, you know how it is, once you ejaculate. Your dick becomes super sensitive and you can't usually continue to masturbate once you come. You don't want to. You're satisfied. Now, I'm not talking about teenage boys who could masturbate and ejaculate 50 times a day. That's just being that young and vigorous.

She is using my kind of butt plug: either the Icicles #14
or the Devi Glass plug.

So, by living plugged, anal masturbation (on a glacial scale) has become my preferred solo sex habit. While I don't ejaculate much semen or pre-cum, my cock head is slick most of the time as evidence that I'm excited, and it's a natural reaction. And cock masturbation is, well, unimportant. I'm not addressing those who use butt plugs as an enhancement to cock masturbation, and once they come, out comes the plug as well, and the toy is put away. Seven years of being continually plugged has changed my perspective and appreciation. As the title of this post says living plugged is a 24/7/365 endless fuck—of sorts. It's more like a drip-drip-drip of the happy hormone our brain produces during a regular fuck—endorphins.

When I'm plugged, my brain continually produces endorphins, just as it would if I were being fucked by a cock or fucking or masturbating with my cock. The grand difference is living plugged is quite a bit less explosive and transitory and the feeling of pleasure and happiness doesn't subside; it's always there at some level. I can also attest that I can continue to work and think rationally, get my chores done (hehehe...they're more pleasurable with my rectum plugged), sleep better at night, wake up feeling happy, and I surely enjoy walking and bending and sitting for those frequent little twinges in my butt and groin and cock.

Living plugged means anal masturbation 24/7, whereas cock masturbation lasts at best ten, twenty, or thirty minutes. And sometimes the "recovery" time from ejaculating puts men out of commission for a while, as well; not so with anal masturbation. I'm rarely out of commission, and I can also attest that living plugged, having a butt plug in my rectum is highly highly addictive. The brain becomes wired to need it. My plug is "me precious" like Gollum's ring is his precious. When I'm not plugged, "me wants it".  This addiction, however, is not harmful, mentally or physically, nor debilitating. Some addictions mean all you want to do is do that to which you're addicted to the exclusion of everything else. Not so with living plugged. I actually want to do more of everything.

Others have called it a secret pleasure, a kind of fun way to be "naughty", getting a thrill out of say attending a family dinner and no one at the table knows that you're plugged but you. Sure, I can see that, too. Nor is living plugged a gateway addiction to more intense and other addictions. I reject anything that supplants this addiction. Given a choice, living plugged is the thing that gives me the most pleasure most of the time. Nothing else does. Hey, I love my family, my husband, my cats, my friends, but living plugged is a kind of an inside thing, a hug from the inside, that goes all the way from my rectum to my brain.

Butt Plugged and Anally Masturbating at the Coffee Shop

Sitting on hard surfaces with a metal or glass plug...

Click on this picture to see that
the guy in the middle is wearing
an NJOY plug in public

The design of my particular plug, with the donut ring base that fits between my butt cheeks like a coin in a slot has benefits that occasionally are surprising and usually not evident when I'm seated on cushioned surfaces...Why? because sitting on a hard surface, like a wooden chair without a pad causes the plug to be pushed deeper into my rectum, and because of the diameter of the shaft on my plug (1-inch) causes the sphincters to be stimulated more than usual. It is almost counter-intuitive I think for those who choose silicone plugs that are "soft" to realize that metal and glass plugs can be equally comfortable, and for long-term wear, because of the lube issue, metal and glass are far superior. I simply don't use lube at all anymore. After washing my plug I simply use spit to re-insert it, and it just never gets uncomfortable..

So I spent two hours this morning at the coffee shop, in full view of everyone, even those I was talking to as I was plugged, actually engaging in anal masturbation. In other words, gently fucking myself using the plug as I sat there forcing the plug to massage my rectum, prostate, and anal opening, by barely moving my butt in the chair. You can of course do this with other plugs, while you're out in public.  But since I'm not into ejaculating in my clothes, I didn't fully engage the sensations. But it would have been possible to have a hands-free ejaculation, while sipping my coffee and smiling at those in the coffee shop.

Oh, yeah! That plug is in her ass, and those are really cool
leather pants.

Yep, I do like the secret thrill of feeling my butt plug while I'm in public, and those of you who have read my blog for several years also know that I like to edge more than ejaculate. Wearing a plug is the edging gift that keeps on giving. I also don't like to get all complex with wearing a plug long term and wondering how to keep it in. The head of the plug should be two and the shaft should be one, in a ratio of 2:1. That should take care of ever having to strap the plug in.  So, I leave you now until after Thanksgiving. I'll spend my TG plugged and probably naked most of the day. Maybe I'll relent and have something creamy in my potatoes this year. But I'll be plugged and content. Now let's see what I can find for our video today. I've been using Bing.com, since it has a very organized search system for porn images and videos. This is a short video, but I like the simplicity of the electro-shock plug, the way it looks.

Keep a Butt Plug in Your Rectum

Stay Plugged for Health and Happiness

I'm not kidding. This is for both women and men. The design idea of an anal plug, back in the late 1800s/early 20th century, were shaped eerily as they are today; in fact, the butt plug originated in the medical field. Information about the first plugs is scant, and for my purpose here, it is almost irrelevant except that butt plugs were designed (by doctors) to accomplish two things, primarily. The first was to cure hemorrhoids and the second was to reduce anxiety. There is a case that only occasionally appears during my search of the Internet about the 80 year old man (and this was probably 10 years ago when I first read it), whose daughter wrote to a forum wondering where she could get a new anal plug for her father. She said he dropped and broke it. He had been wearing it for fifty years, and she said it was to keep him regular. This was an interesting case, but it does indicate that I've been right that my own experience is reproducible.

I had no idea when I started wearing a butt plug regularly in 2012 that my quite painful, itchy, bloody hemorrhoids would be cured. In fact, I don't know why I thought I could even get a plug in my rectum because of the 'roids. But after several weeks of "living plugged" as I fantasized about, I did note that my anus was now a healthy pink and free of the little hard seed hemorrhoids as well as no longer bloody and itchy. But it may have been providential that I chose the right design without knowing it.

The first anal plugs designed by doctors has a much thicker shaft than most present day butt plugs, and I find that my glass plug with its 1-inch diameter shaft is probably part of the reason my hemorrhoids were healed, because that part of the anal opening and the anus was being regularly massaged as a result, even of sitting, because the shaft keeps the sphincters open and stimulated, whereas a skinny shaft will not have the same effect. But note...the claims made here, will show it cures piles (hemorrhoids) and constipation. But it also talks about helping to alleviate nervousness and a whole host of other issues that bedeviled people in the early 20th Century, as it does now, and with our sedentary lifestyle (most of us) we need to keep our rectums plugged like never before.

I didn't learn this next bit of information until just recently, within the last few months. I did not realize that for the most part the rectum stays empty of waste material until it is time to defecate. This means that unless you feel like you will be having a bowel movement soon, you can keep a butt plug in your rectum most of the time without fear of it becoming "dirty". Nothing moves into the rectum until it is time. For men, that means that your prostate is accessible most of the time for enjoyable prostate massage and anal intercourse. I also learned that giving yourself deep enemas is not a good idea when you're getting ready to have sex, because you're only stirring up trouble deeper within your digestive tract when it is unnecessary. You can give yourself a shallow, rectal enema to clean out little bits of fecal matter after a bowel movement, and then you can safely replug and go about your business for many hours. I have been using this method for about six months. I find I can stay plugged just as long with less fear of mess than I was when I gave myself frequent deep enemas.

Tunnel plugs have shown me that the rectum can be as clean as you'd ever want most of the time. Otherwise, if the rectum slowly filled up with you know what, wearing a tunnel plug would be impossible. Note that it is NOT the function of the rectum to store waste. That happens in the sigmoid colon, and giving enemas past the sigmoid colon unfortunately cleans out the good bacteria in your system that helps with digestion.

And as to my claim that wearing a plug as much as possible can help you stay happy, let's at least start with the idea of contentment. Being content is possibly the most basic form of happiness. Although "being content" can also be a negative state if it means not wanting to change something in your life, regardless of whether it is doing you harm or helping you.

No, I'm talking about contentment as a state of being where you sigh with satisfaction and can go about your day with a demeanor that others see and respond to. I can say that beyond using a butt plug as preparation for sex and stretching the anal opening, wearing a butt plug all the time is actually more in line with what butt plugs were designed for. In fact, if you want to stretch your anal opening, a dildo is a better alternative, but if you want to go about your day in a happy or contented way, or sleep well at night, being plugged is better than taking a sleep aid. Yes, of course, when you first lie down, you'll probably enjoy the new set of stimulations that go with the change in position from sitting or standing to lying prone, as all your muscles relax.

Since I first started wearing a butt plug permanently, so to speak, I can attest that it has improved the health of my anus, rectum, and digestive system; but more importantly, when I'm plugged, I'm content and happy. It turns a gray sky blue, so to speak, a drab day into a sunny day, a cold day into a warm one. As I was falling asleep last night, for example (I sleep naked) I just ever so gently exercised my legals and felt the stimulation to my sphincters, and I did so in a slow rhythmic way, knowing my rectum was plugged and all was right with my body.

Snapping butt hole gape

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What Does it Feel Like to "Live" Plugged?

Does Living Plugged get Boring?

No.

From sometime in 2013 when I started this blog until right, now, today, I've had a butt plug in my rectum most of the time. I've estimated the plug-free time as less than 10 percent, but it doesn't matter. The point is during these seven years (I actually started in late 2012), I have truly been living plugged. So without repeating myself, I'd like to describe as best I can what it actually feels like to live plugged and answer anyone who might wonder if living plugged gets boring.

Here's the first interesting physical fact. Although I know when I have a plug in my rectum and when I don't, much of the time I don't feel anything physical from it. It doesn't take much to initiate a plugged-butt response, though, like simply changing positions in bed, getting up from a chair, etc. The plug I wear can virtually disappear from any physical manifestation. There is not a single part of this particular plug that causes discomfort. It's made of glass and it takes only a minute or two after inserting it into my rectum for it to become exactly the same temperature as my body, and you know how it feels to be in a shower with the water temperature in tune with your own. You almost can't feel the water. When everything is calm in my digestive system and I'm hours away from having to eliminate waste, nor have gas, I can't feel the plug. While there are virtually no nerve endings inside the rectum, there are three potential points of contact with the plug where I can quickly be reminded that I'm plugged—the anus and sphincter area (which is drenched with nerves), the prostate, and the sigmoid bend (the transition between the rectum and the area above it that holds the feces until it is ready to be evacuated).

So, when I get up in the morning and have had coffee and done my stretching exercises, fed the cats, and otherwise awakened my body, I begin to feel pressure above the plug where the sigmoid colon is ready to expel waste. It's not an uncomfortable feeling, just manifesting in a general sense of pressure. When I do my morning piss, and let the urine flow, there comes a point when I do a kegal clinch to stop the urination process. At that moment, of course, since the plug is lying against the prostate but not massaging it, I get my second physical sensation to the prostate, triggered by the muscle clench and is passed on to the penis. It's what guys feel as they begin to grow an erection. And almost autonomically, my sphincters contract, and flood my anus with feelings.

Throughout the day, I sit on hard surfaces, lean against a counter or table, etc. to get a little thrill-feel in my ass with the plug inside; otherwise, I've sometimes been walking down the street and for a moment wonder if I actually have the plug inserted. I've had to reach back with my hand, like I'm going to pull the underwear out of the crack of my ass and just feel for the plug's ring base.

So that's what it feels like in general broad strokes to live plugged; of course that doesn't describe the absolute feeling of well-being and satisfaction of having the plug in my rectum, as a real part of my body, which without it makes me feel empty and slightly ill at ease. I can sleep without the plug, but it's so very comforting to be plugged at night, kind of like sleeping with a Teddy bear.

And does it ever get boring to live plugged? Once I finally worked out the kinks in staying plugged (digestion, physical issues that include staying clean) the answer is NO. It's boring not to be plugged, and when I have to stay unplugged for whatever reason, I can't wait to get the plug back in. And the act, itself, of inserting the plug is something I savor.

Tunnel plug (near the end of the vid) that gives a great view inside the rectum:

Seven Years Living Plugged, Part Two

I didn't know there was going to be two parts...

But I just wanted to continue to write about how staying plugged for seven years has been as fulfilling as anything else I've ever done, and I can assure you that living plugged is a solo-sex activity that's better than having a partner in many ways. I have a partner, but we're separated by distance and circumstance and so living plugged is a great alternative; add edging as a result of staying plugged, and staying naked now that I live by myself, and I have room for very satisfying solo sex activity.

So today I'm having what has to be the very best plugging conditions. I last ate anything substantial last night, around 9 p.m. It is now 5 p.m. the next afternoon. I did a douche this morning to clean my rectum and managed to get rid of a bit of waste. Then I douched until the water came out clear. Then I slid my glass plug into my rectum completely dry. That is one of the advantages of glass or stainless steel. You can't do that with silicon. So now about 8 hours later, the plug is still in my rectum, feeling tight in there, but completely without discomfort. My gut is quiet and whenever I clinch, it sets off a chain reaction: sphincter pleasure, plug pushes against prostate, cock surges.

And since I'm anonymous, I will also admit that on days like this when I'm feeling really sexed up, I go out in public with my underwear tucked under my balls, which lifts the balls and cock. I keep my jeans unzipped and when I can I pull my balls and cock out, which are only slightly covered by my shirt tails. I went shopping at (where else) Wal-mart with my cock and balls out of my pants, slightly covered by my shirttails and spent about 2 hours shopping, smiling at customers, clinching my sphincter and feeling my plug the whole time. Next I went to the post office and walked on the sidewalk with my shirttails slightly flapping, and if anyone had been paying attention...well.

I have not stayed hard throughout the day, but getting hard on-demand. I'm hard as I write this, my cock and balls are out of my pants, precum is oozing  into my foreskin, and when I stand up and pull it back, my hand gets slick, and I bring it to my face and rub it into my beard (a day's growth I should say).

And on this perfect day, I will just stay plugged and not even attempt a bowel movement. It just feels too good to be plugged when all the conditions are perfect. You can also call this kind of day when I'm edging, because my focus stays on my ass and genitals, and I give a lot of time to viewing gay porn. I think I will add three videos to this post. Number three is breathtaking for gaping and what's hidden inside the guy's rectum.

Finally, I was thinking back to when I was a preteen and had learned to masturbate and then when I started to actually have something to ejaculate, I used to walk around on the farm with my cock out, feeling assured that when I was out checking the crops, irrigating, or even hoeing weeds in the field, I could jack-off and anyone in the farmyard or driving by on the road beyond the fence probably couldn't tell just what I was doing.

Seven Years of Living Plugged

What I've learned about staying plugged with fewer issues...

Back in 2012, I purchased a butt plug for the first time since the mid 1990s, and I almost instantly knew I wanted to try living with a plug in my ass most of the time for as many years as I could. It's now seven years later and I have learned how to confront and solve many plugging issues. They fall into three vague categories:

1. Digestion and cleanliness
2. Best butt plug design and material
3. Staying consistent and steady in practice

I suppose a college professor couldn't make this sound any dryer than I just have. So let's overlay this post with the fact that I'm doing all this (the issues solutions) because I just plain love having a butt plug inside my rectum as close to 24 hours a day as I can. It means I sleep in my plug, I work in the yard and clean house wearing it, I go out shopping and run errands while being plugged, and I go to parties and the movies and out to dinner, and attend meetings, while interacting with my friends and I feel the butt plug in my rectum the whole time—and nobody knows.

1. Digestion and Cleanliness

When I first started out I was simultaneously faced with several facts: I had hemorrhoids that made even contemplating wearing a butt plug cringeworthy; the conventional designs and materials of butt plugs had evolved tremendously since the 1990s and I quickly found out that the old traffic cone, silicone based plug with a round base simply was not made for comfort beyond a couple of hours. I needed a plug that did not exacerbate my hemorrhoids as I was trying to stay plugged, and I needed to settle on the best way to solve my Irritable Bowel Syndrome, avoid getting gas from much of what I ate, and slowing down my digestion so that I wouldn't have runny or too soft stools. I discovered the best way to keep a plug clean was for my turds to be consistently firm and move from above the sigmoid colon through the rectum out out the anus without leaving a lot of waste to be cleaned out of the rectum.

2. Best Butt Plug Design and Material

I tried three different materials: silicone, steel, and glass. I quickly intuited that medical-grade stainless steel would be the cleanest and safest to use, but the designs were mainly just hard versions of the silicone-based plugs. One stainless steel plug stood out from the rest—the NJOY Pure Plug, which fit all the design issues that would turn the head toward (or away from) the prostate for either a prostate massage or long-term wear. but the NJOY had one fatal design flaw. While the base was ideally turned parallel with the butt cheeks, as opposed to perpendicular, the designer must have assumed that the rather sharp edge of the base would have no effect. But during many weeks in 2012 as I was trying to wear the plug for 12 or more hours, the base tortured the tender skin near the anus, where the base was pulled from the business end being held in place inside by the closure of the sphincters. Everything else about this marvelous plug was perfect, but alas, I had to give up on it because the oval base sacrificed absolute comfort to aesthetic design.

But note how the base has an edge all around the oval. So when I found a glass version of the NJOY (same basic shape) I gave it a try. I went through three glass versions and settled for the Devi Plug (or the Icicles #14). Same thing. The difference between them and the NJOY is the donut-shaped ring as the base and a much wider shaft between the egg and the ring. The larger shaft keeps the sphincters forced open more and exercises the sphincters as I walk, sit, or sleep in a passive way. I believe that the shaft on the glass plug is what created a simulated "active" lifestyle and thus increased blood flow to the anus where the hemorrhoids formed and hardened. Within a few months of use, my 'roids were gone. The NJOY weighs about a pound, the Devi weighs about 9 ounces. The eggs on both are around 2 inches at their widest point. The shaft on the Devis is between .75 inches to just under an inch. The sphincter closes around the narrowest part, which is still larger than the NJOY shaft. The larger diameter on the glass plug is also why it's more exciting to wear, because it exercises the sphincters almost continuously, and that is where a lot of nerve endings reside.

Both the glass and steel stay much cleaner (fecal matter if there is any in the rectum during wear) and they clean off well with warm, soapy water. Almost 90 percent of the time when I pull out the Devi glass plug for my bowel movement, it comes out clean (except for a cloudy appearance from whatever lube has settled on it, and whatever natural substance that lines the rectum.

Finally (and no, I'm not showing a graphic of it) my diet consists of a lot of rice, very little greasy foods, mainly fish and chicken and a damned good hamburger about once a week. The more fats and sugars I eat the faster waste moves through my system, so I try to keep those to a minimum.

It wasn't until year six that I began to learn that one should not give oneself too many deep enema cleanses for two reasons: first, an enema attempts to clean out more than the rectum and just ends up interfering with the normal digestive activities of the colon and the large and small intestines; second, it destroys the good bacteria that you need for complete digestion. Also, if you introduce water into your digestive tract you end up softening the stool, which ends up making your turds too soft, with a tendency to dirty up your rectum when it's time to evacuate. Because I have a naturally fast digestive system (IBS for one), I also supplement my diet with Imodium AD (or an anti-diarrheal), and Simethicone for gas. Don't overdo the Simethicone, just cut down on foods that give you gas.

Instead of enemas, I've learned to do shallow (rectum only) douches. With a douche you use a small amount of water—about a half cup. Shoot it into the rectum with a short wand. Evacuate the water right after squirting it into your rectum; don't hold it in. Repeat at least twice until you expel clear water. Your rectum is clean. And you can re-insert your plug.

3. Staying Consistent and Steady in Practice

Once I was able to choose the best design for a plug, learn how to douche rather than give myself massive enemas, and watch my diet, I still had to decide if I just wanted to use a butt plug like a dildo and use it for masturbation sessions, or if I wanted to be almost monkish about living plugged. In other words, too many videos show men using a butt plug to "get ready for getting fucked" or use the plug as a dildo, which was never meant to be worn for any length of time—talk about stretching out your man hole; 24 hours a day would probably do harm to your sphincters and your rectum. And while I sometimes masturbate all the way to ejaculation, I do have to say that I am rather monk-like in my devotion to just keeping my plug in my rectum and living with it. The joy and gratification I get is immeasurable.

My "husband"/partner is no longer living with me, and I doubt if we'll ever live together again. Don't fret, we still love each other, but he's got health issues that prevents him from enjoying sex and issues that prevents him from living here in this higher humidity climate rather than the high desert. And as I've said, I also no longer care about having sex with other men. I'm sexual and "celibate" at the same time, and it pleases me just as it is.

What Men Do in Private

What Men Do in Public

If the Internet has provided ordinary people with anything, it has given all of us a chance to reveal our innermost private lives in a very public way—if we choose to. I have always been a very sexual person, but I've generally done my most basic sexual expression in private, but especially what I really do when I'm by myself and have a chance to indulge my most personal expressions. It's very different when I express my sexual fantasies with a partner. How I express myself with him is a lot more tame.

And yet, what all of us can now view on the Internet is what our private selves do through the videos that someone else has made. And what I see is that even my most private self-expression is tame in comparison to many many others.

I'm of course most fascinated with private videos that other men have made when they are by themselves. I like to study their setups, usually appearing to be in their bathrooms or other places where they have power and water. For me, it's very boring to watch a whole video of a man lying naked on a bed and just moving his hand up and down his cock and coming on his chest. That's masturbation 101. But I'd say nearly a hundred percent of us do that most of the time. The interest for me in in watching the simple masturbation is just the variations in cock size and body type.

I've read articles and data-dump analyses that show I'm not alone. The latest information from an analytics firm (Uncovering sexual preferences by data-mining sex-toy sales) who studied the sales of sex toys and sexy clothing, using data from a UK company indicates that men buy more butt plugs and dildos than women do and they are usually larger than those that women buy. In fact, 35% of men who purchase anything from such businesses buy butt plugs. How they knew this I don't know, but gay men and straight men purchase butt plugs at about the same rate, and only partnered men buy a smaller percentage of plugs than do single men. The data come from over a million purchases.

So, what men do in private when they're sexually expressing themselves can get very interesting—and I thought using butt plugs and cock rings and letting my cock get swollen and red and throbbing before finally coming was pretty darn private. I finally put a porn site on my Roku, so I can sit in my living room naked and watch men fucking each other. Sitting there with my butt plugged and my cock erect and dripping cum ate into my bed time, and I finally quit watching around two in the morning. As a result, I've been thinking sexually all day, rather than working on a real project, and it has had far more to do with sex between men in both private and public than me merely wearing my plug. Of course, my partner is no longer here, but I'm not going to have sex with a stranger. It would ruin our perfect record of monogamy, although we both masturbate in private and talk with each other on the phone.

One of my desires but one that I can never do (back injury as a teen) is self-suck. Here is a vid with amazing close-up and a cum shot right into his open mouth.



two-foot long “slink” in anus

Butt Frenzy

An afternoon of butt porn

I just can't help but get caught up in porn for a few hours every once in awhile...I usually don't watch much, except to find picts and vids for my blog. Most of the time I'm content to live plugged and go about my normal routines. Yard work is always a lot more pleasurable with a plug, which is what I've been doing today. My battery powered mower needed a recharge and so I decided to do a new post.

As I walked up and down the yard, maneuvering the mower, I had to apply some muscle, turning the thing, bending to avoid branches, working up a sweat and feeling my plug and ass crack get wet with butt sweat. Sometimes I don't want to pull a limp and wet-feeling dollar bill from my wallet during the summer; for some reason I have a very temperature-hot butt and it steams up everything in my wallet. I doubt that just being plugged raises my butt temperature, but maybe it does...who knows? Hehehe...

As I said in a previous post, I've been able to stay naked and plugged now that my mate has moved away and I really don't get many surprise visitors. I know when I have to be dressed (but still plugged) for a client. I work at home and sometimes I show the client what I'm doing as I work on their project on the computer.

Anyway, so I got caught up after mowing in watching all this butt porn—a kind of butt frenzy as one of the contributors said, and so, really, the video for today is a good indicator of just how frenzied some men are about taking very large butt plugs up their butts. All I can do is just watch and enjoy the visuals, because there's no way I'm going to work my hole open that big. I prefer just to stay plugged and edge almost 24/7. Someone pointed out that living plugged as I do has to have a sexual element to it, and I suppose it does, although much of those 24 hours/day are focused on my work, housework, even ordinary TV watching, but I'm never more than a butt squeeze away from a thrill and always right inside my consciousness I'm plugged and it is so wonderful, a kind of additional component to my body. I've got a longish foreskin and because of plugging it stays slick inside with precum all the time—a kind of coin purse, where I can slip my finger into and draw out a taste now and then.

Summertime Butt Plugging

May, June, July, August...Plugged and Naked

These were heady, sweaty, horny, cummy days. Got to do a bit of traveling nicely plugged out of town this summer, and it put my anus through its paces to have a plug in my rectum for 100 and 200 mile round trips, but especially needing to be creative to keep myself lubed and my weary butt feeling good. It does put a kind of near crisis on my butt to sit for several hours while driving, but when I discovered the joy of lubing with Carmac lip balm (bought it in a pinch when I was on the road), which has a menthol like component—woo! ee! Hot and cool at the same time.

I've heard of guys sticking ginger root up their asses, too, for the same effect. I've just about used up the container of lip balm, because my ass lips needed a lot more than my mouth lips ever did. In a way it had a soothing effect on my weary butt, and I'll tell you that my sphincter and anal opening got a real workout this summer. 

I mowed the grass while plugged, could feel the sweat dripping down my back and running into my butt crack, and just salting up my anus where the base of the plug stopped the sweat from getting inside my butt. My balls also got all sweaty and muggy outdoors with 70+ percent humidity on days where the heat index was in the triple digits, and when I was done for the day, I would come it and strip bare, and lay sweaty and horny on the bed and masturbate, feeling the plug get sucked into my rectum and press against my prostate, and when I came it was intense. I just let the cum pool on my stomach, and then turned on my side and took a nap. Or, I'd get up in the night to pee and ended up playing with myself to full erection, and just splashing that semen all over the place.

During all these sweaty masturbation sessions, I never once removed my plug, and once my throbbing cock subsided to flaccid, I left the plug inside. You have to develop a tolerance for that super sensitive time after you come to keep the plug inside. The initial response is to get the plug out as soon as you can. But DON'T. The rewards of a continued flush and throbbing ass is well worth the almost unbearable sensitivity.

Besides being continually plugged during the hot, humid days, and hot humid nights, and through many ejaculations, I was naked the whole time I was indoors, and I wished I could be naked outdoors, but I don't live near a nude beach or resort. But being naked and plugged almost continually since April, now over a third of a year has been some of the best days of my life, when it comes to feeling free and unfettered.

Good kegel action in this video.

Plugging is a Kind of Sedation

Plugs vs. Dildos

Before I ever started using butt plugs regularly, I sought the best cock-looking dildos I could find, including the veins and everything; also the one that felt the most like a cock, with a kind of hardness that gave just a little just like real man-meat would. Just as in the videos that I often include in these posts, where men are shoving everything they can think of into their butts and self-fucking, going for that to-the-moon cum shot.

And even though many men like to use butt plugs like dildos, either for the fucking sensation plus cum at the end, or to stretch their man-cunts for fucking a real man later on, butt plugs were really invented to be worn for some length of time. In fact, the conical or bulbous shape of the head of the plug is meant to go into the rectum and the flared end of the head is meant to get past the sphincter and have the sphincter close around it. The shaft is usually much narrower, therefore than the wide end of the head. So in reality, you're not going to get stretched out very much, if that is your intent.

At least if you used a normal, reasonably sized butt plug. So dildos are really best for getting that anal stretch for an upcoming fuck session. Or, these days you can get huge plugs that were never meant to be worn for some length of time, just conquered by the user.

After a few years of living plugged with my two-inch diameter plug and 3/4 inch shaft, I truly thought I could go up an inch in size from two to three inches. I was able to get the plug into my rectum and go past the sphincter, but when I stood up, the thing shot out of like it was ejected from the inside like a bullet. I haven't had the thing in me since then.

This is not me, hehehe...

That was probably into my 4th year of living plugged. and I discovered that I really wasn't interested in going bigger. I've enjoyed living plugged at a more vanilla rate that other men, I guess.

But we're all different and have different kinks when it comes to our sexual expression and enjoyment.

Living with a butt plug in my rectum 24/7/365 is a kind of sedation for me, and the most I want out of the plug is for it to stay in my rectum morning, noon, and night, indoors and outdoors, in private and in public. As with sedatives, I get a feeling of well-being and contentment with my plug in my rectum, always there, always feeling comfortable. On nights when I have to go to bed without a plug (usually a result of an indiscretion at dinner when I'm feeling stuffed), I find it difficult to fall asleep, and I usually end up sitting up until I feel less stuffed and can insert the plug. And then the sedation, contentment, pleasure, and a feeling of well-being washes over me, and I get back into bed and fall asleep. I'm going to a gathering of professionals this evening and the local paper will be there to gather information about the group, as well as to interview some of us. I plan on being plugged for the event, and if I'm interviewed, I can secretly acknowledge the plug in my rectum with a little squeeze of the kegals.

And ever mindful of endless ways to self-sex...

Naked and Plugged

Naked Since April

What it would look like if people just went naked

I don't know how long this is going to last, but I have essentially been naked 24/7 for a hundred days, and of course I've essentially been plugged 24/7 for 2,500 days. That is not to claim that I haven't put on clothes to run errands, attend meetings, or gone out into my front yard to pick up the paper. Nor is it to claim that I have gone without a plug without breaks. I have been both clothed and plug-less for a few hours at a time, or in the case of plugging a few days or even a couple of weeks at a time, but I still maintain a 90% naked and plugged rate over time. And I think I have been a nudist all my life and always, always got naked wherever and whenever I had a chance.

If I were asked why it is "important" to somehow make a big deal out of being naked or plugged, I would have no response, except that I know of other nudists who feel the same way, or they also like to talk about how far away they have been away from their clothes, without a chance of getting dressed quickly. And about the longevity of being plugged, again it was my decision to live plugged back in late 2012. Prior to that I had only worn plugs more or less regularly since 1994, when I bought my first one—25 years ago. Prior to that I was into wearing cock rings as much as I could. Meh...so what can I say? I've had my kink on for much of my life.

Get right down to it, I can recall being a wanna-be nudist since pre-school, and I can remember asking my mother if I could go play outside naked. I've been playing with my dick just about as long as that, and I confess that being solo sexual is my go to secret thing when I am alone. I will no doubt be pseudo-sexual as an old man. I also hope I will be plugged up to the time I die and let whoever processes my body figure out what the hell I was doing with a butt plug in my rectum.

Mmm...mmm...mmm! Honey!

Quite rightly I had a reader who wondered what else I do besides being plugged and now staying naked. Well the answer is everything I've ever done before, which includes having a full time job and a career, having a "husband" or lover, keeping up with my relatives, attending funerals and Thanksgiving dinners, meeting and working with clients. But when my "husband" moved back to where we came from to take care of his own quite substantial real estate holdings, I was left alone with my pets, and I just kind of fell into not getting dressed during the day, which meant that I was naked all the time, since I've always slept naked.

Traveling Plugged

By Car

This photo is complements of
a reader of my blog, and I
thank him. There are more.

I would never consider trying to use an airline and stay plugged when I travel. There are just too many risks, even though I don't believe my glass plug would be detectable by the security scanners or make a beep. But I usually do travel with my plug firmly in my rectum whenever I travel by car. The longest single mileage I have traveled in one day plugged is about six hundred miles, and then getting up the next day and doing it again, to complete a 1200-mile road trip.

I talked about this when I moved from New Mexico to Mississippi a few years ago, and even though I was wearing my Devi Glass plug, there were a couple of hours during both of those days when my butt got weary sitting on my plug. I think the key to comfort however is to be prepared to lube as soon as it starts feeling a little uncomfortable. The shape and material of my plug are the absolute best for comfort, but sitting for hours and hours does take its toll.

I was reminded about traveling plugged when I did it today, without giving myself adequate safe guards, like what if I get gas so intense it makes me very uncomfortable and farting continues to hamper my plugging. What if I have to defecate because of that and didn't bring adequate wet towels to clean up with in a public restroom?

I only traveled a distance of fifty miles today, one way, but at one point I had to stop at a travel center, use the restroom and...the best thing I could think of was to purchase some lip balm, which is probably petroleum based—not ideal because I like to use only water-based lubes. But in an emergency I had to go with the petrolium-based lip balm.

So I went into a restaurant restroom and opened up the balm, got a little on a finger and ran the finger around the plug getting between the shaft and the skin inside the anus. I didn't count on the lip balm being "medicated" with an ointment containing something like menthol.

I sat down to enjoy my coffee and pie and...oh...my! my anus felt warm and warmer and even though it was initially uncomfortable I soon began to enjoy the heated up sensation, which quickly subsided leaving my skin feeling cool right there in the anal opening. I'll probably do a bit more tonight when I go to bed. But then I don't recommend using something that's really meant for external use (ONLY) as the label says.

Anyway, I plan to travel plugged whenever I drive, and I always do in town when I go out.