Going for a record

Staying Plugged

I believe I have set personal records for myself in these last 8 going on 9 years, which is living plugged with a plug in my rectum 90 percent of the time. And I say 90 percent because I have always willingly and necessarily taken my plug out to pass waste usually every 10 to 12 hours or so.

But lately, I've been trying to approach being constipated for two or more days at a time, and also reducing gas in my system that makes me feel bloated, so that I don't have to even remove the plug for 36 to 48 hours. I don't think I should even try to keep myself constipated longer than 72 hours, but right now this is all speculation. I always try to pay attention to my body, but especially my intestines and the rectum, because it is dangerous to become "impacted" with feces; further, being constipated for too long a time can also cause a change in mood, feeling of listlessness, etc.

I will immediately make adjustments if I begin to feel any gut pains, even discomfort, because why make myself sick or feel uncomfortable? That takes away from the enjoyment of having a plug in my rectum. Some readers have said that the plug I use is uncomfortable to them for sitting but that it's all right for sleeping, and for those readers, I do suggest being kind to your ass and getting shorter plugs. For me, it has never been a goal to stretch my ass beyond a certain point. I do not want to become incontinent, nor have a prolapsed rectum. So I keep my sphincter well toned but never wildly stretched out. I will not do fisting. I'm not judging it for others, but it's not for me. My goal is just to live plugged. I do sometimes fuck myself with a dildo, but not too often.

I'm enjoying "lockdown" because of the Covid issues. It gives me more time to stay naked and plugged and I can always tell someone who wants to visit that I'm not dressed and will see them a little later. My customers come over at scheduled times, and I meet with my working group at public places.

Plugged Forever

 Living Plugged, My Ninth Fall and Winter

It was back in the fall of 2012 when I finally had found the perfect plug for my butt to wear 24/7...the Devi glass plug, and a very similar design, which I eventually chose because it was more readily available at adult toy stores, the Icicles #14. 

As of today, I have had a plug in my rectum 90 percent of the time 24/7/365 for nine years—and there's nothing, nothing that gives me more private pleasure than this. And starting in April of 2019, when my partner had to leave Mississippi and move back to the desert where we lived, I have been naked more than dressed. That's seven months essentially without clothing 75 percent of the time...about 18 hours a day. And living naked has been a lifetime dream of mine since I can recall, probably as far back as four years old. 

The third pleasure is knowing that there are actually many people who love being naked and, like me, they often keep track of how many hours a day they are naked, how far away from clothing they can get, and how much pleasure it is. I think it is a lot more sexual in a deep way than "nudists" say it is. Old fashioned nudist camps like to claim how healthy it is to be naked, unfettered by textiles, and how wholesome it is to be among other nudists—as long as they don't look down at each other's genitals, as long as they don't sport erections. And I admit when I've been at a nude beach, etc. sex is really the farthest thing from the experience of being naked. So there is merit in what nudists say—to the outside world and to each other.

Even at home I rarely masturbate, rarely have an erection. And I can carry on through the day, naked and busy with mundane activities, including cleaning house, cooking, working in the back yard (that's utterly private), watching TV, working on my computer. But beyond nudity being a rather neutral state of sexuality, being naked and loving having my genitals showing and out, along with the feel of nakedness—that's the real pleasure. 

This is called either "Porky Pigging" or
shirt-cocking. Meaning you wear a shirt
but are naked below the waist.

Right now, because it's cold in the house, I'm wearing a sweatshirt that doesn't fall over and cover even the slightest bit of my genitals. I just stepped outside for a piss, wearing nothing but the sweatshirt to keep my back warm. This is called either "shirt cocking" or "Porky pigging". Look it up. It's a thing. It's a rather sexy look on a man, and I'm always glad to see that other people enjoy this as well. 

A reader submitted this photo of his
sweetly plugged ass

But through all this I am also plugged!

And just below the surface of my consciousness, I am sexually edging, denying myself the pleasure of a cum-squirting ejaculation. Instead, as now, I leak precum much of the time. It's a constant state. I often run a finger around inside my foreskin and enjoy a little finger coating of precum to suck on. Also, even though I am rarely hard, I can get hard by a simple anal contraction and set off a series of reactions, sphincter twinge, which in turn tightens around the shaft of the plug, which in turn pulls the plug into my rectum just enough to excite the prostate, which causes my cock to harden and the head to get hotter. And of course this all releases endorphins in my brain and I sigh with constant pleasure throughout the day and night. My secret pleasure, my secret sexuality. 

I really love the look of these butt plugs with
big bases, and the cock and balls hanging down

And finally, on this cold morning, what better way to get the blood flowing than a crazy ass bike ride showing a fat butt, butt plug, and pumped cock and balls...

Naked and Plugged on a Rainy Day

Edging in the Deep South

I've been in Mississippi now for over four years, and the weather every year has been noticeably different—especially in the summer, going into the fall. What is the same is a higher level of humidity than I am used to, so that rainy days are rarely cool and crisp, as they are in the desert. Instead, rainy days here are usually just soggy and muggy, especially in the summer. I've been disappointed in the fall, especially, because in the desert the fall is a cooler version of summer and going naked outdoors in the early morning in September in the desert is a delicious challenge to get naked and not get icy cold and rush to get dressed.

Not in my backyard!

But finally, today, after an all-night rain that diminished in the early afternoon, it settled into a pinpoint drizzle. And it was crisp and cool, around 65 degrees. It was a perfect time for me to work in the backyard, yep...naked and plugged. I was glad to see that the ground was finally wet enough to allow me to get a shovel under the exposed stumps of some bushes I had been whacking down, one branch at a time, simultaneously fighting with the vines that were woven among the branches of the bushes. I had filled up a deep wheelbarrow with my cuttings and I decided for fun I would just walk boldly across the back yard from my little alcove of bushes and expose myself to prying eyes.

They would of course have to be peering at me through a wall of bushes and vines or through the slats of the yard where I share a wooden fence with the neighbors. The night before I had checked on the legality of being naked on one's own property and discovered that the law was vaguely written. It talked about indecent exposure even on one's property, but indecent exposure means deliberately baring one's genitals for the intent of exposing them to onlookers. 

Any "onlookers" in the other property would have to be voyeurs. So I just walked around feeling spry and, well, butt naked. And from a distance 20 yards (?) I doubt anyone would have been able to see the little arc of glass from the donut base of my butt plug between my butt cheeks.

Nonetheless, what I enjoyed most was feeling the prickling icy droplets of drizzle on my back and butt and chest as I worked. Tomorrow I get my metal hitch plug and cock-ring combo.

A Chicken in Every Pot... A Buttplug in Every Rectum

A new study shows that buttplugs are gaining in popularity.

A new survey in France shows that the majority of people (both men and women) like using sex toys (What else do you expect from the sexually uninhibited French, eh?) But the report goes on to state that similar surveys have shown the same trends in other but the most sexually suppressed countries. Even in the United States it has been estimated that 45% of men and 50% of women like to use butt plugs—including straight men.

When I first started this blog back in 2013, I had said I was interested in helping all men (and women) choose to use buttplugs. After living plugged for eight years, I can attest to the fact that wearing a buttplug is probably one of the most healthy and health-giving things you can do for your body. It first and foremost increases your feelings of well being. I'm not necessarily talking about living plugged, which is what I do, but buttplugs are not just meant to prepare your anus for being fucked. If you're intent on stretching your anal opening to receive cock, a dildo is probably much better than a butt plug and you would use a dildo not long before having anal sex, because your sphincter will return to its normally tight state.

No a buttplug has a much higher calling than a tool for stretching the anal opening—this might belie what all those huge plugs have come to be used for, however, and so we might want to assign a different name to those football sized plugs. First, anal plugs were invented in the 1800s to be used precisely for curing hemorrhoids and constipation. See this Link. About half way down this article is the appropriate information about why anal plugs were invented and marketed.

Quote from 

The Dark, Twisted History Of The Butt Plug

They began as medical treatments. Then things got more fun.

by K. Thor Jensen

"Dr. Young’s Rectal Dilators from 1893 — are the first documented butt plugs we’ve been able to find. These obviously weren’t marketed as a sex toy — instead, they were meant to be prescribed by a doctor to cure a number of conditions. An article in “Medical News” from that same year quotes the good doctor in saying that “three-fourths of all the howling maniacs of the world” could be cured by taking one of these babies up the butthole. Obviously that’s a bit of an exaggeration, but the intense marketing made rectal dilators a hot commodity for almost half a century."

These anal dilators were sold well into the 1940s, and you can just bet that grandpa enjoyed his secret pleasures, kind of like grandma enjoyed the medicinal effects of her 100 proof "tonic". No wonder marriages lasted longer back then, grandpa had a butt plug up his ass and grandma was snockered.

But I digress. These things were sold ostensibly to cure two persistent problems: constipation and hemorrhoids. See the rest of the article about that.

And so because these dilators also gave pleasure, which the patients may not have wanted to admit to their doctor, butt plugs in one form or another have been around a long time. I'm going to name a few types of anal plugs that you might consider trying for both the cures they offer or, perhaps more importantly, the pleasure. Straight men...read on, as well. I just love the idea that some straight men are getting to know their anal sexuality, in addition to all the attention all men pay to their penises. When we all get into anal play, surely the prejudices that have plagued us will also diminish. It's not "gay" to love a butt plug in your rectum. It's simply a new aspect of sexuality.

1. Butt plugs that cure hemorrhoids... 

Any plug that has a shaft that is at least a half-inch to an inch in diameter. While the differential between the size of the business end of the plug and the shaft have a 2:1 ratio—to prevent the plug from sliding out.

The recommended material is non-porous (medical grade stainless steel or borsciliate glass, like the Icicles #14).

It may seem that a plug that just sits in the rectum cannot be contributing anything to a cure for hemorrhoids, but there is activity there with the sphincter and the blood flow in the anal opening. Unlike a sedentary situation without a butt plug, the plug activates the blood flow due to the various tensions on the sphincter and the anal muscles.

 

2. Butt plugs that can open the sphincter and allow fingers to be inserted, even cocks...

These are the tunnel plugs. I dare say you have to have a very reliable waste elimination cycle to wear these for longer than just a couple of hours. And if you're swimming (preferably naked), a tunnel plug will allow water to flow in and out, adding to the sensations. 

It doesn't matter what the material is, as long as it's safe, and remember if you use a silicone plug you cannot use a silicone-based lube. It will eat your plug up and destroy its finish.

This is the combo Metal asslock cock ring, 

with a 1.5 inch ball and a 2 inch cock ring.

Total weight is over a pound of pure steel.

3. Butt plug/cock ring combination...

Again I prefer a metal cock ring/butt plug combination because once you have the ring around the cock and the balls, and when you insert the plug (preferably a simple steel ball no less that 1.5 inches in diameter)...Mama! you'll feel trapped as the butt plug pulls the cock ring hard against your groin, and once the blood flow starts into the cock, you're going to get a major hard on at the same time that you're massaging the prostate (if you're male).

I had one of these in the early 2000s but the ball was too big for me back then. So, now that I've been used to a 2 inch glass plug, I ordered the one shown above and it's coming on Friday, September 25, 2020. I can't wait to revisit this monster. 

4. Classic shaped butt plugs...

These should probably only be used for sex sessions. Both men can wear one if they're sucking each other's dicks. One man can wear on if he's fucking his partner (male or female), and if the female is wearing a butt plug at the same time, she is essentially getting fucked in Both the rectum and the vagina...woah Mama! And the man is getting fucked by the dildo while he fucks his partner.

5. Butt plugs that should be called something else...

Because while they are designed to be used for only a little while, they are also designed to cause great stress to the sphincter muscle itself, sometimes break the muscle and allowing for prolapse eventually.

This is the Aneros Prostate massager. The left side
with the red dot will go under the perineum once the massager
is inserted into the rectum 

6. Butt plugs that are actually prostate massagers...

The only brand that comes to mind is the Aneros line of prostate massagers. They are generally plastic (I think). Watch a few videos of men wearing Aneros prostate massagers and you will see that one of these can send you to the moon and make you howl at the moon. 

With the development of the sex toy industry in the 1990s came just about something for everyone, and holding with my chicken in every pot and a butt plug in every rectum, enjoy these various plugs being employed: 

Recently added...

The Perfect, Breathtaking Shape of My Glass Buttplug

 My Tribute to the Icicles #14 (or the Devi)

The Thrill has Never Diminished

I've been living plugged for eight years and although I sometimes swap out plugs for an occasional masturbatory frenzy—which is very, very rare—the most perfect, most beautiful, most organic plug I wear in my rectum 24/7/365 is this plug, right here:

My usual disclaimer is that 24/7/365 is approximately 90% because of three possible situations where the plug is not possible to wear for a few hours or possibly even a few days:

1. Removal for bowel movement and cleaning. This is the least intrusive of the time-outs, and last no more than 30 minutes.

2. Removal for unexpected digestive issue that causes diarrhea. I might have been too eager to eat a dish that is usually not "safe", like too much ice cream, Mexican food, or other. This is a longer intrusion on wearing my plug that can last for several hours, due to the fact that my bowels have to completely clean out, followed by taking Imodium to combat the diarrhea.

3. The influenza or cold—or heaven forbid Covid-19—or other illness. This might be a once yearly issue or an issue that I have avoided for several years, but which is just not predictable. I mourn the loss of my plugging for several days because of this.

While I have not kept a journal of plugging, as I once did when I getting started, I've been plugged now for about 3,000 days, and if I assume a yearly cold or flu that lasts four days, that would be about 32 days out of 3,000 days, and if I subtract 2 hours a day (at the most) that's 6,000 hours or 250 days, out of eight years, or 72,000 hours (for a total of 282 days/3,000 days). That's just shy of 10% of the time out of 3,000 days that my rectum has devoid of my beautiful glass plug.

I know at least one of my readers has the same glass plug, but he cannot comfortably sit while wearing it and has to substitute a different plug. He has, as he describes it, a shallow butt. I have a deep butt, at least deep enough before the anal opening to accommodate the two-inch diameter donut as show on the end of the plug, above. It's also the plug showing of my ass in the upper right hand corner of this blog.

To be clear, if I were to travel by air, I would not be plugged and would have the plug in my checked luggage (and the inspectors can just find the plug and think what they will if they do). However, when I travel by car, I am plugged, no matter the distance. I can comfortably wear the plug for about 300 miles before I have to remove it and add lube. You would think just sitting there driving would not cause any discomfort, but be aware that the pressure on the base into the anal opening and the spinster does has the effect of stretching the sphincter a little harder than just walking around or sitting for short periods of time. So, when I remove it, my anal opening feels like I've been fucked and it's kind of soft and loose and tingly, and so I massage my anal opening with my fingers, adding a little lube or even medicated lip balm (Mama!). I walk around for a few minutes, and then before I get back in the car, I reassert the plug and head out for another 300 miles.

I have NEVER gotten used to the thrill of being plugged. It's never boring or old hat.

Part II My tribute to my Icicles #14/Devi plug. 

I have been wearing this particular plug (pictured here) for eight years, and attribute its comfort to the design and material. It's borsciliate glass, a kind of industrial strength glass used in cooking pots. It is all curves with no sharp edges, and so it is completely comfortable. The shape of the plug itself is exactly that of a hen's egg, and if you could slip the egg by itself into the rectum it would be hugged tight and comfortably there. But another perfect feature of this plug is the shaft upon which the egg sits. It is almost one inch in diameter, which means that when the plug is inserted, the shaft keeps the sphincter open and at the same time the sphincter's natural tendency is to stay closed, and so the effect is a constant pressure in a very comfortable way around the shaft of the plug. In fact, the rectum itself, with the closing motion of the sphincter actually pulls the plug into the body and is only stopped from completely entering by the donut on the other end of the shaft. It is also two inches in diameter just like the egg. Now note the picture of my ass at the top right of the page. Note that all you see is the donut. As you can see it is fitted between the butt cheeks like a coin in a slot and is not perpendicular to the butt cheeks. This design allows the donut to slide into place, as if you were pressing both palms together, and because the donut is so smooth and curved with no sharp edges, it is perfectly comfortable. 

But then note that at the base of the shaft, where the donut is attached, with the suction action of the plug being pulled into the anus, the top edge of the donut creates pressure against the anal opening, and it too contributes to the pressure on the sphincter. The plug stays right there. It will not try to slide out of the rectum because the egg is firmly snug on the inside of the rectum, just past the sphincter and the donut is firmly snug on the outside of the rectum, just before going into the sphincter. In fact, if you slide your finger into the anal opening, you can feel that an arc of the donut is actually within the sphincter, and if you have really slick lube, when you sit down, even more of the donut enters the sphincter muscle.

Sitting, standing, walking, running, bending cause continuous twinges of feelings all gathered right there in the anal opening and keeps that entire area live with feeling...well just like you were walking around with a cock in your ass. And because the material is smooth glass, it's like a hard cock in your ass.

As I said, this particular plug is a perfect design for maximum comfort and long term wear and to this day, right now, as I sit with my plug in my rectum, I am getting all the feelings without moving. I'm growing hard as a write this, and for eight years, 90% of the time having the plug in my rectum, I never get tired of the constant feeling.

To those of you who have written comments and especially to those of you who have been likewise living plugged, gay or straight, male or female, I so enjoy knowing that you are getting the same delicious feelings in the anus. For straight men, you can love yourself through your anus and because of the prostate massage. It is fully the other half of your sexuality. And I am sure that if you fuck your wife or girlfriend while being plugged, you get intense pleasure both in your cock and in your rectum. And if you are lucky enough to have a partner who will join you in enjoying your anal side, she might give you the intense pleasure of a strap on dildo and give your ass a real workout.

For those of you who are gay men like me, wearing a plug 24/7 can get no closer to sexual fulfillment with or without a partner. I rarely ever masturbate to completion, and I am in a constant state of partial erection, or when all is calm and I am not aroused, I am at peace. Everything is more pleasurable with a plug in my rectum. I mean...everything...from going out to dinner or a movie with friends, to sitting at home alone. Everything is so much brighter.

Living Naked and Plugged 24/7

I'm plugged. I'm naked. I'm living my life-long fantasy...

I can't remember a time in my life that I haven't wanted to go naked, rather than be dressed. Even when I would be traveling across country and I would get out on deserted highways, I'd look for places away from towns and farmhouses, where I could pull over and walk out into the countryside and have an hour or two of nudity, which would usually culminate in a hands-free ejaculation as I ran and jumped and and walked. I would look back to see just how far away from my car I would get, putting myself in danger of being caught butt naked if an unexpected person suddenly came out of nowhere.

That never happened. I've never been caught.

I was introduced to the idea of being naked when I was around four years old and this neighbor boy and I would play outdoors while our mothers were indoors visiting He would say, show me your honeybun and I would pull down my pants and he would kiss it, and then I would do the same. He got his "older than 4 years old" ideas from somewhere that I never thought to question back then.

This is how I stay dressed with work shoes and thick socks.
I love this look.

And from that age on, I can't remember a time I haven't yearned to live naked. Sometime when you get a chance look up this story of a man named Paul Winer of Quartsite, Az, who has lived naked for 55 years. He died in 2019, but his story just inspired me. He only wore a small covering over his genitals, even in his bookstore. If you're a nudist or if you just normally like the idea of unabashed nakedness, read his story.

I've added nudity to my plugging, and I cannot begin to describe how delicious every day and every night is. I do everything naked around the house and sometimes I can work in the back yard completely naked, but this is the Deep South and we have our share of insects. So I'm mainly nude in the house. As I write, of course, I am plugged.

Spring Yard Work, Naked and Plugged

Naked and Plugged

Now that it's Spring and the weather is warm, the bushes and vines and trees are full of foliage, and my large backyard has become a nudist haven for me. 

The yard is over a quarter of an acre, rectangular and on the east and west is blocked off from neighbors with high wooden fences, bushes and trees, and the back of the yard, toward the North is blocked from view by large trees undergrowth and vines. It looks onto a two-story apartment complex, but the way everything has grown up and filled in, people on the first floor can't see anything, and the same goes for the second floor, because of the way the tree branches have grown and filled with foliage. So I can work in the backyard through the summer and into the fall. My house on the South blocks any view of the backyard from the street.

I worked naked and plugged three different times yesterday, which included early morning to mid morning (before the sun rose higher than the trees on the east side of my back yard) and late afternoon before dusk, when the sun went below the trees on the west side of the yard. I've already been out several times this morning, but as I write this, it is coming up on 10 a.m., and while the sun is still not blasting the back yard, my back aches a little from the work I did yesterday. I will try to mow the front yard sometime today and return to the backyard after the sun has moved toward the west.

Aside from the farm I grew up on, through age eighteen, I have never lived in a place that allows me to go naked most of the time when I'm home. I'm looking forward, now to also try working in the rain, plugged and naked. 

I spray "Off!" on my arms and body, but at this time of year, I haven't seen many insects, no mosquitos, and luckily no poison ivy or poison oak, etc. Yes, this is the Deep South, but it's not quite like one might imagine with an extra helping of insects, snakes, bugs, and other pests. 

I've seen porcupine, raccoons, and other animals I'm not familiar with, here. Even a snake or two in the entire five years I've been here. So, unless something changes, this year might be the beginning of me staying naked outdoors (except for the front of my house). I would love to practice accidental exhibitionism, but I don't really want to get caught and freak out my neighbors.




Ten-minute butt plug vid, teen's first time.

Living Plugged Pros and Cons

I'm just attempting to list the pros and cons of living plugged

Before I begin, I might add that what might be a "con" for me might be a "pro" for someone else.

Disadvantages of "living plugged" (Cons):

• You have to take the plug out to pass waste. I would love to never had to remove the plug.
• So-called permanent plugs simply do not work to get rid of waste.
• You have to regulate what you eat to stay regular, so your stool is not too soft or like "the runs".
• If your bowel movements are not predictable and are troublesome, you have to be very careful in public when being plugged. You should always have a plan for cleanup in a public restroom.
• You have to do enemas to a) clean out the rectum or b) start a bowel movement when you're on the verge of being too constipated, which actually might cause issues in the intestines.
• You have to (should) remove the plug to go through security at airports—otherwise you might get caught and humiliated. Of course someone who loves to cause shock might revel in being "caught" wearing a butt plug (hehehe).
• At the moment, I can't think of any other disadvantages, but I leave this line open to add any that come to mind...

This is how I "dress" at home most
of the time, but also with a plug
in my rectum—and I don't smoke.

Advantages of Living Plugged (Pros):

• You can "edge" 24/7/365. No, it never gets boring, even though I've read where some people think it might. They don't know because they've not tried living plugged, actually.
• You can quickly bring yourself to arousal on demand, simply by clinching your anal muscles...and if you're male easily get an erection.
• You can fuck someone while plugged and when you clinch and thrust, you're catapulted into a new, more intense level of orgasm.
• You can orgasm, and if you don't remove the plug (this takes practice to not remove it) it takes longer for the feelings of the orgasm to subside.
• Sleeping plugged will guarantee erections off and on throughout the night. I can wake up any time and quickly masturbate to completion, because I'm already primed. Sleeping naked while plugged also allows me to come in the bed with the sheets thrown back without having to remove PJs or underwear.
• I have not had a single hemorrhoid since living plugged, starting back in 2012. The right butt plug cures hemorrhoids. The first anal plugs were invented for that and other health reasons. The right plug is smooth, non-porous, and the best ones are either glass or medical grade stainless steel. Glass or steel require very little clean up, do not stain, and never build up a smell over time. It takes very little lube for glass or steel plugs, and it is possible to plug dry. (At the moment, as I write this) I have been dry-plugged now for 21 hours and have not removed the plug at all.
• Living plugged means that your sphincter is always being exercised in a good way, which causes healthy blood flow in the anus and sphincter area (hence, lack of hemorrhoids, for one).
• Since living plugged exercises the sphincter, you get intense rushes of good feelings whenever you sit, stand, move, walk, run, sit on hard surfaces, bend over in stores to look at items on lower shelves, or simply add a little twist to your stride.
• Sitting on hard chairs in a cafe allows me to invisibly "masturbate" by simple, subtle movements on the chair. I would not use this method to masturbate to completion, however.
• Living 24/7/365 (provisionally true) keeps me satisfied every moment in a way that not being plugged doesn't. Understand that 24/7/365 is only true in the sense that I'm close to that goal but like infinity, I can never quite reach the goal. It recedes every time I have to take the plug out and get over a bout of the runs, take care of excessive constipation, etc. (see cons).
• Having my sphincter stimulated moment by moment is actually the first and greatest pleasure of being plugged.
• Being able to have an erection on command and feel the erection is the second greatest pleasure of being plugged.
• Just knowing that I have a plug in my rectum and vaguely feeling its fullness is the third greatest pleasure of being plugged. I exercise my mind's eye, too, to "see" the plug in my rectum.
• Edging 24/7/365 is another continuous pleasure. My uncut cock stays slick with precum much of the time.
• Showering while plugged is enjoyable, because that is the time when I play with my cock the most. I keep my sphincter clinched and that keeps me hard.
• I withhold ejaculating for days at a time, which adds to the pleasure moment by moment (this is edging)
• Living plugged and removing it only when absolutely necessary and avoiding ejaculation is a kind of sexual self-discipline that actually increases my self-pleasure moment by moment.
• Going to restaurants, grocery stores, walking down the street, attending parties, and other gatherings while wearing a plug in my rectum makes all these activities privately naughty. It's akin to the feeling, I believe, of what it is to masturbate under the table in cafes, but a lot less messy, and a whole lot less dangerous.

Rambling and Graphic, updated 9/23/20

Near Midnight, Temperature 48° F Outside

I was enjoying the stuffed feeling in my rectum of my butt plug while I was waiting for sleep to overtake me tonight. I was lying in bed naked—except for thick, white socks and my work boots. Yeah, I sleep like that just under a blanket but not between the sheets. When I have to get up to pee, these days (late April, central Mississippi), I don't want to get into my flimsy little house shoes, because I like to go outside and stand in my driveway, just within the darker shadows of my house and piss while looking out on the street.

Naked.

And plugged.

I decided I would play with my cock, get it hard before peeing and just see what kind of activity near midnight there was, just beyond my street and off in the near distance of a cross street. I live just one house from the corner.

A car came from the south on the cross street, headed north, its headlights momentarily lighting up the intersection. Then darkness. Then someone walking up from the south also headed north, but I waited in my driveway hoping the guy would turn onto my street and pass by me standing in the shadow of my house. Would he notice my ghostly whiteness near midnight? Naked. Waiting, watching? I actually hoped he would come my way and notice me, and tonight I would not have shrunk back. I would have liked to see if he would glance quickly away as he passed by, or if he would stare into the darkness of the shadow of my house and try to decide if someone was standing there.

Late April is about the earliest I feel really comfortable outdoors while naked. Tonight it was a little too chilly, though, and so after I peed, I went back to bed. As the warmth washed over me, I enjoyed contracting my anal muscles to feel the sphincter squeeze the butt plug shaft and let me feel the almost painful, delightful twinge. You can do it without a butt plug and get similar twinges that feel great, but with the plug you get the added benefit of feeling the rectum hug the plug head and feel it ever so slightly engage the prostate. I do have to specify that I wear the icicles #14 with the titled head, shaped like an egg and about the size of a hen's egg (2.5 inches long, 2 inches in diameter at the widest part of the egg. When the head of the plug is pointing toward the belly button inside the rectum, you get much more prostate action, and you can feel the twinge move into your cock. But for long-term (permanent living plugged 24/7/365) wear I usually keep the head tilted away from the prostate.

Update, September 23, 2020

We're quickly coming up on the scariest American presidential election since the Civil War and we're still in the midst of the Covid Pandemic, and I can't sleep, and I wanted to find some porn to make me horny. Yes, I'm plugged and I'm waiting on the arrival of my second ever metal hitch combo plug and cock ring. I had the exact one quite a few years ago but could not get the steel ball into my rectum. I feel I can now, since I can easily get my two-inch diameter plug in my ass, and the ball on the combo plug is only 1.5 inches.

I don't want to masturbate or remove my plug right now, but I have just found the hottest self-suck vid where the guy comes three times in his mouth. It's after the first video below. Enjoy. Self-sucking is an impossible dream for me. I have a fused spine right at the base of my spine, and two major sports injuries as a kid made it impossible for me to even touch my toes. Oh well.

Questions from a Reader

One of my readers has asked good questions about plugging...

I'm delighted to answer:

1) Are there ideal sitting positions for remaining plugged all day? I have a rather shallow ass so my Devi glass handle sticks out just a bit too far to make sitting comfortable! The ring presses into my anus too hard when sitting. I've tried sitting forward on the edge of my chair for some relief. This aspect ruins driving while plugged for me any distance more than ten minutes away.

This is a very good question about being able to sit all day while being plugged. I can sit all day, drive all day, sit on hard chairs, soft chairs, while wearing the Devi plug. It does have to do with the size and shape of the plug that you are using, but as you point out it also has to do with the depth between the butt cheeks. The ring base on the devi glass plug is just about two inches in diameter. The overall length of the devi is about 4.5 inches with two inches of that outside the anus. Well, actually, the ring base is just a bit into the anal opening. But between my anal opening and the depth of my butt cheeks is over two inches, which allows me to sit without the pressure you're talking about. So there really isn't a sitting position that you might be able to use.

You should try other plugs, and I suggest the NJOY Pure Plug (shown above). It's very short, and notice that the ring base is actually an oval. If your rectum can handle the diameter of the egg to be 2 inches, get the NJOY 2.0. It's the same shape, and design of the devi, except for the oval base. It is made of medical grade stainless steel and weighs almost a pound! I can't wear it. Note that that oval has a very distinct edge. Unfortunately, that digs into my butt-cheek skin and puts me in agony after a very short few hours. Other plugs? Look for Doc Johnson, but do try to get a long enough shaft so that the head of the plug can get all the way into the rectum and the sphincter can close around the shaft.

2) You may have covered this - which foods are the best binders? Rice? Potatoes? Which are the worst! (I have definitely decided that trail mix presents problems!) I have concluded that the best defense is simply to really clean inside well every morning, so I make time for doing that by getting up a half hour earlier.

If you ever get diarrhea, the foods that are recommended to treat it is dry toast, rice, saltine crackers. They absorb the moisture in the lower intestines and firm up the waste, so that by the time it reaches the rectum the stool is well formed. I also regularly take Immodium AD, but a generic brand like Berkley/Jensen, which is more cost effective. You can get a box of two bottles for a total of 192 caplets for less than...um...ten dollars? If I have eaten too much fat, or other foods that might trigger diarrhea, I take from two to four caplets. Four will actually cause constipation, which is what I go for on a temporary basis, when I want to keep the plug tight in my rectum and mow the grass, walk, run errands, and attend theatre, etc. I do not want to have to worry about taking care of myself in a public restroom with loose stool. But just as important is that I eat a lot of rice-based meals and not much spicy seasonings that you might find in Chinese rice dishes.

I try to avoid too deep of an enema to avoid stirring up the unformed waste past the sigmoid colon. I try to do shallow enemas just inside the rectum, where the plug lives. Around 90 percent of the time, the plug comes out clean when I do my bathroom duties. The point is, if you inject too much water into your intestines, you can expect accidents and surprises if you do not empty out sufficiently.

Notice the tail attached to the plug?

3) Any fun games we can use the Divi's ring for? (The Boss Silicone Stopper Butt Plug #4 also has a cool ring embedded in its base!).

Okay, if you're feeling really adventurous and your intestines are quite deeply cleaned out, and you haven't eaten anything for at least twelve hours, this is what I have done a couple of times and loved it, but it would be very scary and might even require a trip to the emergency room if you don't do it right...

I just love the look of this man's fuckable ass.
You could get your whole fist through there.

I attach a string to the ring base, by folding the string in half (start with a string that's at least 48 inches long), so that you end up with 24-inch long double strand. Loop the string through the ring, by running the loop into the "donut" hole and and wrapping it around the ring, pulling the string back through the loop in the string and pulling it tight, so that you end up with the string dangling from the ring base. And then here is the fun part...insert the plug into your rectum, and when you get to the ring base, keep working it past the sphincter, until the entire plug is inside the rectum. Remember that the ring base is the same diameter as the egg, so it will be easy to get it all inside. You will feel the sphincter close tightly around the entire plug: egg, shaft, and ring. This will leave the twenty-four inches of string outside your body. Now I've only slept with the plug inserted like this, and the idea is that once you are relaxed enough to sleep, the plug will begin its journey on into your body, deeper and deeper. It will travel past the sigmoid colon and on into your intestines. 

I have woken up and felt for the string and realized that most of it is now inside my body, and getting hold of the string is the only thing that will allow me to pull the plug back out. When there is only a couple or four inches of string still outside my anus, I know that the plug has traveled into my intestines at least twenty inches. Since there are very few nerve endings in the intestines, you feel very little, but as you pull on the string, you can feel the plug coming down, closer and closer to the anal opening. By the time you can stick a finger into the rectum and hook it around the ring base, you can play with the sensation of retrieving the "lost" plug.

I cannot emphasize enough that you must absolutely make sure that the string is secure in the ring base and that the string is as strong as twine. You can also tie the dangling string to a cock ring and wear it so you can sleep with confidence.

I love the ring base, because it doesn't get in the way of me sliding my fingers into my anus along the shaft.

You can also attach a furry tail to the ring and run it through a hole in your pants and walk around in public and make people wonder just where the tail is attached. You can get away with a lot of hanky sexual panky by just dressing the part of an animal like it's just a fun thing to do, and yet have that wonderful, beautiful plug riding around in your rectum!

You and your partner can each wear a devi plug and attach them to each other with a long string so that if you walk too far apart, you'll both get a sensation in your butts. You might even lay naked on the bed and have a tug of war and see who can hold the plug inside while simultaneously pulling your partner's plug out. If anything, this will arouse you both and you'll fuck like monkeys, once one of you wins the tug of war.

There are now two vids below. One involves closeups of inserting various butt plugs.

Waning Ability

I'm still living plugged, but I've lost my ability to come up with anything more, for now for new posts.

Guys, both gay and straight; women both gay and straight—all of you who like to wear a butt plug either occasionally or all the time as I do. I apologize for not keeping up with my posts, but I can't think of anything new. It could also be that I'm awfully busy these days, since I am now getting local clients where I live to help them with their communications—that is their commercial applications, and it's rather intense.

Just know that at any given time of the day or night, while I'm at home behind closed doors, I'm naked and plugged; when I'm out in public, I'm plugged.

This is not me, here, but I kind of like it, because this man looks much older than what I visualize as my readers, much older than me, as well, I think, and it inspires me to see him obviously enjoying himself.

One day I will post again.

Everyone stay safe with the virus that is lurking in our midst.

Love to all my fellow pluggers!

Reynolds