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I Just Love being Plugged!

My Delicious Addiction—for which I make no Apologies

Part of the idea of living plugged, for me, has always been to do a thing that feels sooo good all the time that to not do it is almost inconceivable. It's an addiction, just like people who become addicted to a substance (whether it's food, coffee, or something stronger). And I readily admit that having a butt plug in my ass is an addiction. But unlike an addiction to food or drugs, so far I have yet to find even a scintilla of physical harm in it. It's a sexual addiction, I suppose, like guys who masturbate several hours a day. When I was a teenager, I probably masturbated several times a day, too, although I don't think I ever got sores on my dick from doing so—that would be the true masturbation addict.

Also, being butt plugged leaves my hands free, and I can do it while wearing clothes, which means I can go about my daily routine at home or in public without being affected. Masturbating or being addicted to fucking is just not that hands free, and there's always the possibility that fucking all the time would begin to interfere with your work or your married or partnered life (if the person you're fucking is not your SO). Being butt plugged is not cheating on my husband. We can still have sheet ripping sex. My attraction to him has nothing to do with my butt plug, and it doesn't diminish my sex with him. In fact, it enhances it. Being butt plugged all the time, living plugged 24 hours a day, however, is not inconvenient, but it is kind of like being fucked all the time—only different. Sexual addiction becomes problematic for some people and they go to counseling to help them overcome it. But being butt plugged all the time has so far been without problems.

This is a recent addiction. I had used butt plugs a few years ago, as I have said in other posts on this blog, and even back then, I just wanted to have the plug up my butt all the time. But...there weren't glass and metal plugs back then, and for me, that's the key reason I can stay plugged. There is simply no discomfort, whatsoever, with the egg-shaped mass of glass in my ass and my sphincter being gently stretched open to about 3/4 inches. After almost nine months of using my butt plugs again, and after almost five months of 24-hour plugging, I can still hold an enema as I brush my teeth and get read to take a shower. In other words, I've suffered no loss of bowel control in the least.

I hope readers don't take offense or think I'm knocking other pleasurable addictions, or saying that living plugged is better than being addicted to masturbation. That's not my intent at all. I love visiting the masturbation blogs and watching guys gooning out on beating their meat. I think it's beautiful to watch. But of course some of my time is taken up with writing this blog and scouring the Internet for pics and vids, so if there is a downside to living plugged, it's the time I spend finding the companion pics and vids that go with each blog post. I also hope that women are not offended that this blog is dedicated to men butt plugging and getting all men to get in touch with their anal sensuality. Women are already in touch with their anal side of sexuality, and most women might be glad that there is a blog to try to entice men to get plugged as well; and I hope straight men are not offended that I don't include butt plugged women for their viewing pleasure.

Buttplugging is for older men, too.

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What to Wear with a Butt Plug

I'm Not Talking About a Fashion Statement—Or Maybe I am

I've been having a good discussion with a fellow plugger who, like me, is also a nudist, or at least we both like to hang out where naked people gather—probably not a conventional nudist camp, though, because they're pretty uptight about being naked and sexual, and wearing a butt plug is pretty sexual. For me it's a way to casually edge day and night and occasionally run my finger around the head of my cock and play with the precum. My friend is a bit hesitant about wearing his new Devi Glass Plug while naked, among other people.

Well, here, take a look at his sexy ass with the Devi ring showing. I told him he has a perfectly cute butt, and he should be proud to show it off. Next time I'm among naked people (will only be men or gay-friendly women and men), I will of course wear my plug and won't care who sees it. But since I've only been living plugged for the last nine months, I haven't had a chance to hang out where naked people gather.

Butt...come on, my friend has a great butt and if you're wearing nothing but a smile, accessorize with a great looking plug! Now, no one wants to see my rather old butt, but I can assure you that my butt cheeks are longer than those in this picture and only the crescent of the ring shows, and only when I'm bending forward.

And since I'm plugged day and night, every day, what I wear with a butt plug, when I'm dressed, includes underwear, jeans, slacks, a bathrobe, jeans with the crotch torn open—even a hospital gown when I'm in for a check up. (Yes, I go to my doctor's appointments with my butt plug in place.)

Now, as far as making a fashion statement, I've seen jeweled plugs, plugs with tails, and even a plug for playing puppy-dog, where a little rubber tail like a puppy's sticks out of your butt, and you can get it to wag (kind of) by clinching and wiggling your butt.

Of course, when I'm out in public (restaurants, parties, picnics, movie theaters), I'm just wearing regular clothes and, in none of them that I'm aware of does my butt plug show. It's for my sole secret pleasure.

I thank those who have given me permission to use their photos, and for all other pics and vids that appear in this blog, I get them direct from the Internet in what I assume are public domains and not subject to royalties or copyright...

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Now, once again, as always, I urge all men, young and old, thin and fat, fit or unfit to give the other half of your sexuality a try. It's not just a gay man's thing...really. Use a butt plug. It's really actually good for you, and it does cure hemorrhoids. I have cured mine with my metal and glass plugs. It's wonderful to have a healthy anus again.

Road Blocks along the Plugging Lifestyle Highway

Flu, Colds, and Stomach Viruses are Roadblocks to Staying Plugged

This is not a pleasant subject for people like me who want to stay plugged 24/7, but it's one of the realities of the human body. Sometimes, no matter how much I crave having my butt plugged, I've had to suspend my journey until the ailment passes. This recently happened and I had to go eight long days and nights without plugging my butt.

I wish there were a way to prevent catching a cold or flu or contracting a stomach virus, but there really isn't, unless I want to live shut away in my room, never eat, and never make bodily contact with my mate, or shake hands, or...you get the picture.

So, the first night as I was lying in bed, settling down with my plug firmly in place, I felt a little feverish, had a few body aches and had a hard time getting to sleep. And when I woke up about two in the morning, I rushed to the bathroom, and sure enough, had an unpleasant and loose BM. I washed up, replugged, and went back to bed. In less than an hour, I was up and at it again, and realized I just couldn't replug, so I went back to bed and tossed and turned, feeling uncomfortable and feverish.

The next morning, it was worse, and I knew I was in the throes of a full blown ailment. Every day I hoped the runs would pass and I could be plugged again. I gobbled OTC medications to get rid of the symptoms, doubled down on foods and supplements that would slow the digestion rate and went through my days and nights empty, yet craving having my beautiful glass plug in my ass. After many months of being plugged regularly, I can assure you that I felt empty and distraught. My ass was as raw as hamburger meat, and the best I could do was rub cream into my anus for relief. I think the worst thing about having such an ailment is that it wrecks the anus, and even on the final day, when I felt I could work the plug back in, my anus was very tender and raw. I had spent several minutes massaging the anus, until the rawness felt all right and not tender to the touch. And then I chose a somewhat thicker silicone based lube and worked it in my ass. Then I put a sheen of lube on my glass plug and stood in front of the sink in the bathroom and looked into a mirror behind me as I gently slid the plug into place. Every feeling was intensified, including the new tightness of my anus that had gone eight days without the plug and the shaft keeping my sphincter a little loose. But in a way, it was very pleasant and tennder, and felt so good to feel that pop as the plug got past the sphincter and nestled itself into place. And my rectum and its muscles hugged the plug for joy.

That first night with the plug back into place, as I said, every feeling was intensified and wonderful. It's now been 72 hours plugged, again, and I can resume my journey of living plugged. Yes, there will be other times when I run into roadblocks, but for now I'm back with a plug in my ass.

I get the pics and vids from the Internet, and through permission from my readers to use their pictures.

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Butt Plugs Cure Hemorrhoids

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Living Plugged a Journey Update

Plugged Four Months...

On April 15, 2013, Tax Day in the U.S. when our federal and state taxes were due, I received my  Prisms Devi Glass Plug. The most significant event that day was receiving the glass plug. Two inches in diameter at the widest point with that magic glass ring base has made all the difference. In December of 2012, I bought my first butt plug in several years and tried it out. The results were mixed. It was a 1.5 inch diameter silicone plug and, while it did provide some good feelings, going out in public for the first time and being plugged for about two hours was basically an uncomfortable disaster. So while I began plugging again 8 months ago, my living plugged journey really began in April of this year. The goal? Staying plugged 24/7/365. The reality? Staying plugged almost continually now for four months with only a few days scattered over the last 120 when I just couldn't handle being plugged—always because of my bad eating habits.

So part of my journey has been training myself to eat foods that bind me rather than cause the old green-apple quickstep. I've also experienced times when I'm just plain butt weary. That's my term for what it feels like to plug my butt after multiple enemas in an attempt to get that rectum cleaned out. I discovered that you can overdo the enemas and it causes what I describe as "weary butt." While the plug feels fine in my ass, my butt is a bit overstimulated. During the last 120 days I've learned to ride out that weary butt sensation, until finally all is comfortable and pleasurable.

The longest I went officially plugged 24/7 was a period of twenty days; then on day twenty-one, disaster struck. I went through a period that 21st day, when I just could not stop shitting, so all the enemas accomplished was to give me my first weary butt.Thereafter, I've had to recalibrate the fantasy to the reality, and if I have to go a day here or there without my plug, that's just the reality. But my goal is to live plugged, and I believe that I do.

Some readers might wonder if staying plugged all the time somehow diminishes the thrill of being plugged. For me, it doesn't. I can understand if men only want to be plugged while they have sex or masturbate, as an added boost to the sensations, and then pull the plug so to speak and go about the rest of their day. That's how I used to view using a butt plug. But I can tell you that after four months of living plugged, I need to feel that constant stimulation of the sphincter. It's wonderful to be in a grocery store and pushing the cart and start clinching and feeling the sphincter tighten around that shaft, or to be lying in bed drifting off to sleep and, instead of counting sheep, count kegals.

Over time, I've developed a routine of between five and ten reps of ten clinches each, which I count and hold slowly, beginning with a ten-clinch countdown, each clinch deepening until I feel my cock surge, and then I release. On "ten" I hold the clinch for about ten seconds and then release and begin the second rep of ten. What I've noticed is that the release is slow, almost as if my body has taken over from me and determines how long it will hold the muscles taut. Guys, it's like coming. You know what it feels like when your cock just sort of jerks on its on and you're just along for the ride. That's what my muscles do almost on their own after fifty or a hundred clinches. I make each one deep and hard, and I can guarantee that when you get to fifty, your cock is a foot long and hard as a rock.

And that's just what I do when I'm getting ready to fall asleep. Over these four months I have only jacked off a handful of times and NEVER removed the plug after I'm finished. I haven't run or ridden a bicycle yet, but I have been out in public many times, to the movies,  shopping, going to parties, out to dinner, and each time enjoying the secret of being plugged. Over these past few months, as well, I've begun to really study guys' butts, looking for telltale signs (or prints) of a plug on their jeans. Alas, nothing yet, but I do know that in this town of a hundred thousand people, the local adult novelty store has a wide array of butt plugs, so somebody besides me has to be plugging. The clerks are all helpful and enthusiastic when I go in there just to visit (plugged of course) and get them to show me plugs and lube and talk about sex. I can tell by the way one clerk showed me his favorite lube that he's a plugger. It was almost with reverence that he got the lube on his finger—just a drop—and said I wouldn't need more than that.

So, today, four months and a few days after receiving my Devi glass plug and being plugged continually, I am inspired to continue. Nothing had diminished the feelings I get from feeling my plug inside. I am inspired, too, when I read stories, like the one about the 98-year-old grandfather, who had to ask his granddaughter for help when his glass plug broke. He was embarrassed to ask her to find him a replacement. His story is that he began using a doctor supplied plug back in 1957—fifty-five years ago!—and said that he needed it to help him with bowel movements. It must have been traumatic for him to think of going without his plug, after having used it for over half a century! And I have to think that this man must have enjoyed the feelings of being plugged to have done it so long. Is this story real? I tend to think that it is. I do know that plugs were first invented to help cure hemorrhoids, deal with incontinence, and even prevent wasting sperm—I know, these uses sound ludicrous. But medicine has been ludicrous throughout human history. Thank goodness, though, that someone invented the butt plug.

All pics and vids are from the Internet and I assume they are free for posting...

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Joyous, happy, sexy, fuckin' hot plugging!

Glass and Metal Plugs and Lube

How I Lube My Plug...

With glass and metal butt plugs, a little lube goes a long way. Over the last nine months I have discovered that glass and metal butt plugs don't need nearly as much lube (if it is silicone based) as the more porous silicone plugs. Further, silicone based lube does not get absorbed by the rectal tissue nearly as readily as does water-based lubes. And further, the thinner the lube the better for glass and steel plugs.

When I first started plugging again after several years and several wonderful advancements in butt plug design and materials, I followed the advice of experienced butt plug users who cautioned everywhere to use plenty of lube. The result showed on my underwear, and because I was using a silicone-based lube for my glass and steel plugs, I began to wear briefs and boxers at the same time. The theory was that the briefs would collect most of the excess lube that leaked out around the plug, and the boxers, being less intimate with my ass and looser would absorb the rest. But I saw that after a few days of staying lubed that even the back of my jeans had developed an oily stain than no doubt showed when I was out in public. The stain was subtle but it was there, and when I did laundry, I directly added laundry detergent to the oily stains so that they would come out in the wash.

I also figured that if the stain was just slightly noticeable, I didn't mind if people wondered what had caused it.

Still, I began to experiment. I found that the thicker silicon-based lubes left an oily crust on the base of the butt plug, and required washing the plug more often. And so, when I tried the thinner lubes, which I had been slathering on the plug and on my anus, I realized that almost right away, when I got dressed and went out plugged in public, that much of the lube was immediately transferred to my clothing.

After that, I either just used the lube on my ass or put it only on the plug. My idea was that either way, the lube would be effective in getting the plug past my sphincter, and it did seem to work. I was just as comfortable as I had been when using more lube. The irritation of the plug in my ass never developed, and I could still go hours without relubing. I think this has to do with the way the oily lube adheres to the plug. It just needs to be a very thin film on metal, just a sheen, really, and not in any way a big amount. A little lube truly does go a long way on metal and glass. I would still suggest more lube if you are going to use it like a dildo and move it back and forth in your ass as you masturbate; but when it just used for long-term plugging, it is not necessary to have the lube dripping out of your ass.

Butt Plugged in the Rain

Naked, Plugged, and Dancing in the Rain

In the desert southwest US where I live, one thing is certain, rain is ice cold, unlike rain on the coastal regions of the US in the summer. This has to do with the altitude. Where I live the valley floor is 3500 feet above sea level and the rain clouds therefore form almost a mile above sea level, and up there it is cold. So, a few nights ago, I was lying awake in bed, comfortably plugged as is usual, when a thunderstorm announced itself with loud, long, and angry-sounding thunder, and just a few minutes later, I could hear the rain coming in a downpour.

I got up to check, walking through the hall barefoot and opened the door to the courtyard. There is an awning so I was able to step out onto the tiled floor and immediately I felt the icy wind and spray from the rain, but I had not yet stepped out into the downpour. I was naked, erect, and clinching my plug in my ass, and I thought what the hell.

It's was colder than the first plunge into a non-heated swimming pool. It was bone-chilling cold, and yet the challenge was to just stand in the rain, soaking my skin, and I could feel the rivulets of water running down the small of my back and into my ass crack. And a moment later, I danced around slinging my wet hair and feeling the plug nestle into my ass, causing my cock to leap and become engorged and hard.

But...I don't like to cum. I like to edge, and in the rain it was an intense edging that slithered all over my skin, tickling my lower back, slicking my skin, and no doubt slinging precum into the rain. I know my heart rate must have been elevated and even when I slipped back indoors, it took awhile for me to warm up again and dry off before I lay back on the bed.

That's just what it means to lived plugged every day and every night. I do whatever I do, but I'm plugged while I do it. And as I have said many times here and elsewhere, being plugged all the time adds a sensuous haze to my life, every moment of the day. If I had been sleeping without a butt plug, my naked dancing in the rain would have been wild, but with the added spice of a plug, it was more.

I keep up good cleansing and maintenance on my glass plug, so that it is just as clear and smooth as the day I bought it. It has become so much a part of me, when I have to remove it for more than an hour, it feels like I'm missing something and need it back. And when I finally get it back in I feel content, and ready for whatever comes next...


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My Butt Plug is My Pacifier

Addicted to My Pacifier

On a post on a forum somewhere a guy said that his butt plug was like a pacifier, and I agree. It sounds almost infantile to admit it. I see babies who keep their pacifiers in their mouths all the time, and every once in awhile they suck on them, but they're usually content for the pacifier to just be there. To me, that's how having my butt plug in almost constantly 24/7 is to me. Sometimes I clinch and wiggle and work my kegals, just for the added feelings that delight my ass. But there are other times that I'm just content to have the plug inside just sitting there.

It keeps me in a sensuous haze throughout the day. I mourn having to remove it and leave it out until my body cleanses, on days when I'm irregular. And when I finally get to put my plug back in, I feel content. So my plug is my pacifier. I think I'm in a better mood when I'm plugged, and sometimes I just sit back and sigh with pleasure. To me that's what living plugged is all about. It's not just a temporary masturbation tool. It's a lifestyle choice.

I've also been hesitant to invest in new plugs, now that I've found one that is so comfortable. A two-inch diameter plug is not considered a beginner size, and when I first got my Devi Glass Plug, I thought it was a monster. Well I certainly can't go back to a smaller size. The shaft on this one is almost 3/4 inches in diameter. I also don't think a plug made out of a different material, except maybe for steel, would work for me anymore. I bought a Mood Naughty a few months ago and wore it for a short time only once. I was appalled at the odor, and I suspect that is a problem with most silicone and similarly based materials. With my glass plug, there simply is no odor, and cleaning it is a simple matter of using soap and water. I also like to sometimes set my plug in ice water before re-inserting it. It feels cold and slick as it goes in, quickly warming to my body temperature. But for that first few moments, the cold lends a sensual kick to plugging.

I will eventually try the NJOY 2.0, but it would mainly be for the weight. I'm still not too thrilled about the oval base with sharp edges. Time and again, other guys have said that it remains comfortable to them when they're plugged long term. Unfortunately that is not the case for me. Still...a pound of metal in my butt would certainly feel different and more definite. And if a glass plug that's at least 2.5 inches in diameter came along, with a 1.5 inch shaft, I would give it a try; but really, I want it to have the shape and base of the Devi.

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Male Bonding through Anal Play, Part II

Male Bonding, Part II

This is a short blog post. This is an update of my male bonding through anal play entry. Readers haven't disagreed with the idea that gay and straight men who are into anal play could bond with each other. That is not to say that the straight men would have to "go gay" to bond with a gay partner. But they can sure help each other out, as they do in this video.

My theory? It's probably not worth much, but the unseen man is helping the straight guy with a butt plug, and it looks to me like they're both enjoying the experience. Perhaps it takes a straight guy who is confident of his own sexuality to do this, but hey...makes me hard watching it. And I'll just bet a lot of straight men will enjoy this vid, as well. I also like to note that the plug is left alone and is not used like a dildo. There's an important distinction to be made in their use.


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