I'm Not into Scatology

But a fact of life in living with a butt plug in my rectum is having to deal with the brown stuff...

In other words, I don't really like having to deal with bowel movements, but it is a natural part of being a physical being (in a human's case another mammal on this planet). But there it is. And I don't like the occasional times when I have to deep clean my butt plug. I use a boroscilicate plug (laboratory grade glass), which is strong and dependable, but which will shatter into a million pieces if I drop it onto a hard tile floor. I don't fear that my butt plug will suddenly break from the pressure of me wearing it and moving around freely, even running or playing tennis, riding a bicycle, or sitting on hard surfaces. I prefer this because of two strong reasons. First, cleanup is easy and thorough, and if I want I can sterilize the plug in the dishwasher. I could microwave it if I wanted a hot plug going into my ass (I don't). The point is the borosilicate material is ideal for butt plugs. The best, though I've never found a perfectly designed butt plug in metal is medical grade stainless steel. The second reason glass or steel is best is because, unlike silicon plugs, my plug does not absorb butt odors, shite odors and does not stain over time. 

Back before glass and steel plugs, and really before silicon plugs, I actually had a rubber plug that I wore all the time, or as long as I could stand it before it rubbed my anal opening raw or irritated it. It was a flesh pink when I first got it, but it became a kaleidoscopic pattern of colors in the pink to tan spectrum, and it began to peel away like old skin. It was a sad day when I threw it into the trash, and it was actually ten or so years before I found the newer plugs and kept trying out the various materials and designs until I happened onto the Devi plug (or the Icicles #14) which I have now had for ten years. I've got a back up one in case I drop the one that now resides in my rectum. 

I know that many guys who are into wearing plugs have a much wider range of sizes and styles than I do. But once my plug is slammed home in my rectum, and it's so comfortable with or without lube that I can actually forget it's there, I see no reason to keep messing with the plug or changing it out or stretching my anus. I'm not training to take big cocks. Even when my husband and I were living in the same state, rather than this new arrangement where our jobs keep us apart, we never had anal sex. We just 69-ed and drank each other's cum. In fact, for at least four years when I started living plugged, he had no clue that I was plugged when were were sucking each other off in bed. He has an even greater aversion to anal than I ever had. No. I'd rather keep a hard glass plug in my rectum than have a man's cock in my ass. I know...it's unimaginable when you might live for getting fucked. I don't. I live for having a plug in my rectum, for an entirely different universe of reasons, other than sex and ejaculation.

In this blog in other posts in the comments, I've discussed the idea with at least one of my readers that I no longer have to remove the plug even after I masturbate and ejaculate. My anus throbs for awhile after I cum, but I've incorporated that feeling into my edging. I edge, as I have said 24/7/365. Much of it is subconscious, of course, since even for hours at a time, I forget that I'm plugged...really...and actually have to feel the bit of ring that sits just between my butt cheeks. Or of course, I can squeeze my muscles and feel the sphincter close around the one-inch-diameter shaft.

This is one of those nights when I couldn't get to sleep. I worked in the yard for four days straight and have been hitting the sack around 9 or 10, which I did tonight, as well. But my libido kicked in, as I tossed and turned feeling the plug in my rectum and my cock twerking like it was performing on America's Got Talented Cock. So I got up, took a piss outdoors in the dark between my house and my neighbor's house, and turned my computer back on. I decided I'm going to ramble.

I think back to when I was a pre-pubescent kid and learned to masturbate from an older boy. I didn't have any "jizz" when I reached a climax, but I sure "got the feeling" that he talked about when he showed me how to jack off. After that, I was a fiend, and decided that every time I had to piss I would also jack off afterwards, and in the months that followed I experimented with places, positions, and standing over a hand-held mirror and watched myself from below my balls. And then when I started getting semen, I probably coated every square acre of the farm I grew up on with my cum. You have total freedom on a farm and can get away with jacking off while you're driving a tractor or walking the row-beds and chopping weeds, or skinny dipping in the irrigation pond. And correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems like every farm boy I ever knew was into their cocks and taking them out and playing with them when we were together, and sometimes even experimenting with sex with each other, before most of them finally got girl friends. 

I simply wouldn't trade growing up on a farm for anything in the world, despite the many lonely days, even during the summer when we were expected to work the farm with our dads and forego those summers just playing, with no real jobs as teenagers. I had work to do every day of the year on the farm. We had crops and cows, and chickens, and pigs, and rabbits that had to be attended to. We also had dogs and cats, and despite having sisters, I was the only son, and so I had to work as soon as I got home from school. My sisters did, too, of course, but it was mostly household duties.

So when I was a teenager and on into college and even in the military, sex meant fucking to completion with a partner for the momentary reward of the ejaculation and the throbbing as I emptied my semen, either into my lover's mouth or ass or the yard or my chest. It wasn't until I was with my last lover that I lived in two sexual worlds. One was with him and our having sex and the other was my invisible sexuality with my dick and what I did with it under my clothes. Before the joy of wearing a butt plug, then living plugged, my most secret thing was to wear a cock ring as much as I could. Yes, my cock was often swollen and deliciously sore. But as soon as my secret sexuality involved the butt plug, my focus migrated to my anal parts and my backside. It's not that I like my cock any less than I always have; it's just that being plugged is a deep-seated psychological drenching of pheromones in my brain on a constant basis; my feeling of well being is much much stronger than my feeling of doubt and worry, and no matter what is going on in my life, part of me is always at peace and feeling joy and a bit horny.

And if you're younger than fifty and you fear that you will lose your sexuality as you grow "old" I will tell you that, if anything, it increases, you just have to be open to other ways of getting satisfaction. Being plugged is the most effective way I have ever discovered. 

I enjoy the secret pleasure of being plugged in public and visiting with neighbors and having dinner with friends, or being in meetings among my fellow workers (although this is not frequent as I now work at home).

HEMORRHOIDS CAN BE DEVASTATING AND PAINFUL

And you have a choice or three on how to cure them... 

 

I suffered for many years with hemorrhoids, but they were only mildly bloody, mostly itchy and made me afraid that I had come to the end of my anal-sex life. From the time I entered college until the end of my career as a writer-editor in a corporate setting, I lived a sedentary lifestyle. Oh yes, I still worked in the yard for hours at a time, I still was active within certain bounds. I walked a lot, rode a bicycle, swam, and did other things that probably counteracted my desk job. 

But at one point, I simply felt my anal-sex life was over because it hurt to be fucked or was at least very unpleasant. Even clean up after bowel movements was painful and never very efficient. I had to use hemorrhoid creams and wipes along with other methods. I was, however, never as bad off as say truck drivers or my boss at work who eventually had little rubber bands placed around his hemmies, so that they eventually necrophied and fell off. I would think that would feel like little teeth, but that's another post altogether.

And I have to say I am recently aware of someone who is essentially a truck driver who had hemorrhoids so bad, he had to have surgery. He was bleeding and so much so that he had to have infusions of iron. Which made him sick. And he also said that the surgery was the most painful post-op experience of his life. I also happen to know that this person is not great on diet and is also sick a lot with other things. But aside from a change in diet and supplemental exercise, his options were surgery—or what I would never propose to him—wearing a butt plug.

I did not realize back when I started wearing a butt plug and experimenting with materials and sizes and shapes that doctors had invented butt plugs (anal probes, whatever) for precisely the reasons that people should wear the modern equivalents...doctors claimed that anal probes could alleviate stress and depression...and...wait for it...hemorrhoids. 

I can attest to the undeniable fact that wearing a butt plug regularly (once I had settled on the glass egg with the thick shaft and the ring base) is what cured my hemorrhoids. Period. My anus and the opening is now as nice and pink and healthy as it was when I was a teenager, and god only knows that I can keep a plug in my ass all day and all night and have not suffered from hemorrhoids for at least ten years. Getting to the point where you can wear a plug even with hemorrhoids has the most to do with material. For goodness sake do not try to wear a silicon plug. No matter how smooth it may feel it is not as good as glass or metal (medical grade stainless steel). And when you first get started use a lot of lube, but don't just use motor oil or something. (Just kidding there). Use a body safe lube.

Revisiting Living Plugged Blog Entires

 And also viewing comments I might have missed...

It's enjoyable for me, Pluggedbutt, to go back over all my Living Plugged posts. For one thing I usually find a few comments from viewers I didn't know I had gotten. If you're as busy as I am as a writer of Internet content (most of which has nothing to do with my personal solo-sexual life), it's difficult to keep up with this blog. But I can guarantee you that it's the most enjoyable and inspiring blog that I do. Viewers (other men—gay and straight—and women) make me happy. I am not aware of ever having gotten a bad comment from anyone. And for that I am thankful. But it does tell me that those of us who have discovered the joy and satisfaction of using butt plugs simply want to share the joy. This is in fact why I have written this blog. I want to encourage anyone with an anus to include it in your sexuality. Many spiritual teachings, but perhaps especially those from India and far eastern countries know the creative aspect of our human sexuality. 

In this post, I'm bringing back some of my absolute favorite images from past posts...

Some Western countries with fundamentalist religions and proscriptive teachings about the evil of the human body are doing themselves and their followers a disfavor. In fact, doing great harm. So it is always especially gratifying to me to read comments from straight dudes on this blog who readily admit to even being turned on by other men using their dildos and buttplugs. 

It is why I have tried to make the largest percentage of the pictures I include all about the butt plug. Sometimes (I apologize for not doing more), I use pictures of women also plugged, and I am certain that it would get more straight dudes to view this blog. But the real purpose for me is to get men to quit feeling guilty about have an ass hole and to use it for their own benefit.

Live plugged. Live by always staying in touch with your body when you are also alone. When you do make love and have sex with a partner, what you might have learned when you're solo-sexing can carry over to your coupled sex life. 

I love all the photos I have found on the internet that I've used in this blog, and when I go back over the old posts and reread them, my breath sometimes catches at the beauty of many of the images.

I'm a little frustrated with the fact that, over the last ten years, many of the videos I have uploaded simply go away. And for those of you who love viewing the videos I have found on butt plugging and the real physical aspects of working a plug, a dildo, or a fist into your ass, be aware that some sex sites simply do not allow me to embed videos into my blog posts. 

Xhamster is one of them, but do check out Xhamster.com; I have to use Pornhub almost exclusively for embedded videos, but I'm glad that I get some very high-quality videos from that site. It's huge and I appreciate that Pornhub encourages bloggers like me to embed their videos into my posts. 

Depending on if you tell me you enjoyed this reprise of photos, I might continue working my way through the older photos to show again.

 

 

 

Letting the plug travel into the guts and leave the anal opening behind...

 You must tie a strap around the base, though

It's a scary feeling to shove the plug completely past the sphincter (head, shaft, and base) and have the sphincter close tightly with the butt plug inside. Never do this without an adequate length of  leather strap or other cord tied to the plug and a length of strap remaining outside the anus. Otherwise, if you fall asleep, the plug will just travel deeper and deeper into the rectum, on into the sigmoid colon and make its way high up into the gut. If you don't have a strap on the plug, you will be making an emergency-room visit.

Nor would I depend on the base being the right design to ensure that the strap doesn't come off, which is why I use a ring base. I can loop the strap inside and around the donut so that it doesn't require even tying.

See the picture of my butt plug in the upper right hand corner of this page. Yup, that's my butt and my Icicles #14 glass plug showing. I'm writing this, because today, I'm allowing the whole plug to reside in my rectum. I've used a long loop of material to tie to the ring base. This is a different sort of plugging that I've occasionally done, just to see how deep the plug will go and to confidently leave it there, until I get the feeling that I might need to have a bowel movement—trying to anticipate acting before it becomes a struggle to get the plug out clean. Oh, yes, if you live plugged you will also have to simply learn the facts of life and deal with the brown stuff occasionally.

I know, I've seen lots of videos where guys stick apples and oranges and bottles and other things in their asses and allow the sphincter to close around them, and there is probably some safety to the idea that with enough lube and an ass where you can easily insert your own fist if need be, you can just grab that apple and bring it out in your hand—if you have to. I simply don't have that loose of an ass, nor do I want one. But it's fascinating to see guys doing this. Others have gone to the emergency room with crosses and guns and kids' dolls stuck in the ass. And we all know where drug mules store the drugs they're being paid to smuggle out of one country and into the next.

But I digress. I like the feeling of letting the entire plug travel around and sight see in my gut. There really isn't much feeling once the thing is buried deep, however. It's just the enjoyment of an edge of danger (spelled embarrassed) added to plugging.

Living Naked

 Besides Living Plugged

When you're alone and work from home, you can pursue your personal bliss, so now that the weather is warm in the final days of spring 2022, I virtually stay naked and plugged all day and night, except when I go out. I put on a minimum amount of clothing and stay plugged. But yeah, I eventually settle into work, even though I sometimes get all pre-cummy after I get out of bed and go immediately for the coffee, playing with my cock and plugged ass. 

Living alone when I follow my bliss, it is a solo-sexual edging kind of thing, which I intensify sometimes in the afternoon if I lay down for a nap. Unfortunately I don't live in an area that is readily private to go biking like this guy does. Doesn't matter, I've done things like this before, depending on where I've lived. I've even taken extended, naked strolls through my neighborhood in the middle of the night, running through the sprinklers that come on in the city park near my house, and one time even passing another guy on the street at two in the morning, me naked and swinging, exchanging hellos and both of us looking back as we pass, him not quite believing what he has just seen.

 

I've never swam with a butt plug in my ass, but it sure looks fun. You need to get near the last half of the video.

 

Keep Mixing It Up

 What I mean by mixing it up is all about using different techniques to stay cleaned out verging on constipation, and the amount of lube, plug material, and diet.

I'm heading into 36 hours non-stop plugging. Understand that I usually give myself a break between evacuations, cleanup, and sometimes showering without a plug. But this time, I've unplugged for bowel movements about four times in the last 36 hours and wiped or douched and immediately replugged with no more than five or ten minutes during this process. 

What has changed? Just one thing. I'm still eating the same foods, still doing minimal cleanup, doing enemas a bit, but just to see if the water comes out clear. If it does back in goes the plug. I have been taking around two antidiarrheal, 2 mg tablets in a 24-hour cycle. The picture is of a generic brand of Imodium that I take, which contains exactly the same ingredients as the much more costly name brand. "Lopermide HCL" is the ingredient. I ordered this product from Life Sciences Pharmacy. This bottle contains 300 tablets. You go buy the same name brand product and you will pay around $6 for 12 tablets. I think I paid around $17.00 US for 300 tablets with this generic brand.

I'm monitoring my plugging in four-hour increments. At the end of four hours I walk around, squeezing my rectal muscles, sticking my butt out, and otherwise exercising my anus to see if I have to evacuate, or if it feels like I have to.  The one thing I have changed over this past few days is the amount of generic Imodium I'm taking. The product literature says not to exceed 4 tablets in 24 hours, so I've limited my intake to only 2 tablets in 24 hours. I've also researched this "Lopermide HCL" for long-term effects and, essentially, there are none. I've always had a busy, noisy gut and many foods give me gas, but with a change in diet years ago and watching the intake of certain leafy green vegetables, along with cutting out gas-causing vegetables, I now have a quiet gut. I've eliminated cokes and other sodas almost exclusively. I only drink a soda with an occasional hamburger when I go out to eat. I usually also cut my burger and other meal in half and take the rest home. 

You do what you have to do, just recognize that living plugged involves keeping your rectum plugged and that you have to share it with times when you evacuate waste. There's no way around this. You can wear a wedding band without ever taking it off, and it is made from material that the skin will accommodate without any side effects. You can't wear a carnival ring you might have won at a carnival because they're made out of inferior material. That's the same principle I use with my plugs: either metal or glass. Silicone is just not there yet as a material that won't affect your body in some way. But you decide; how much are you willing to give up to stay plugged as long as possible? If you have to constantly relube a silicone-based plug and you don't mind doing it, then that is perfectly fine. Just make sure that you're using high quality material, no matter which one it is.

My body would not accommodate silver metal in my rectum. But it doesn't have a problem with medical grade stainless steel. And Borosilicate glass is the best (for me), because it is strong, cleans up well, and never deteriorates. It is the type of glass that cookware is made of and can be vessels for food in an oven. It's great for cold and hot play.

As I have said many times, but which always comes back to me every day and every night, but especially in the warmer months, I am truly living my solo sexual bliss at home. During the warmer weather I stay butt naked in the house, slip out the back door into the back yard when the leaves on the bushes around the perimeter block views of me standing outside and taking a hands-free piss, masturbating in the sunlight (usually not to completion), and doing a few small jobs completely naked, and yes plugged. At night I feel more emboldened and can even go outdoors beyond the back yard.

In other places where I have lived I have actually taken night-time naked walks in my neighborhood. I don't do that here in the South, however, where people do seem to be a lot more modest at least about nudity. For example I went to the emergency room some months back with a constant pain in my stomach. Neither the nurses nor the doctor wanted me to change into a hospital gown (you know, like the one that you wear and your butt is exposed?) They kept me fully dressed and put monitoring patches on my skin on my chest and abdomen without allowing the nurse, or whoever, to actually see my skin!!! I would have very willingly disrobed and let it all hang out and I did in other states where only a minority of people actually go to church every Sunday. But not so, here, so I don't take naked strolls in my neighborhood, here in the South.

For me being naked and plugged is a non-stop solo-sexual experience that gives me blissful feelings of well-being and happiness, no matter what other shit hits the fan of life. I readily and unabashedly admit that I have always been a sexualized person. Even as a child I wanted to go naked, to the great shock and consternation of my mother, whom I no doubt freaked out when I asked her if I could go outside and play naked.

Growing up on a farm, I witnessed sex in their own way from every variety of animal we had on the farm, including pigs, cows, horses, dogs, rabbits, and cats—chickens? Not so much. The horses have the best looking, huge dongs on any animal, and they will develop a hard-on just standing in the field. So will I. On the farm I used to walk around with my dick out and play with myself, and I would do it in front of my cousins when they visited me or I visited them. We all knew not to tell our parents. Years later it was funny to hear one of my elderly aunts and my father laughing about the time that they got into a pissing contest, on who could pee into the spout of a teapot. My father obviously won that bet. They laughed pretty hard about that particular memory...but hey, humans and animals all have their sexuality, whether it's on display or hidden from everyone but our partners, and even then most of us have our own further hidden sexuality that we just don't share readily with anyone. That is why I love living alone right now. I would of course jump at the chance to live with my husband again, but we're working in different states and that's not going to change any time, soon. I also will not cheat on him, and so solo sexuality is the best solution to any of that. 

Naked

Plugged

Edging

Nothing else need interfere with that, and I can still get all my work done with very good concentration. I'm a self-employed person, and I work at home. I occasionally have clients come for long-term sessions when a project is coming to completion. I'm dressed during those times, but more than likely also plugged and secretly enjoying myself.

 

Balls Deep

My Butt Plug is My Pacifier

 The main reason why I live plugged...

My butt plug is my pacifier, quite literally, and has a lot of the same comfort giving features that a baby gets from a pacifier. My plug has butt feel, just as a pacifier satisfies mouth feel. Some users describe this as a comfortable feeling of fullness, but I never quite got that description. It's not like a load in your bottom that you need to get rid of, so maybe "fullness" not quite a good description of why a butt plug is comforting to wear. Now, of course, I am talking about wearing a plug as many hours in a day/night as I possibly can. I don't "use" a butt plug to fuck myself with, but on the other hand, it is a lot like have a dick in my butt that doesn't get soft like a dude's cock after he comes in my ass. 

 

I think a lot of men who like to be fucked would prefer to keep the cock in their asses after sex, but a real flesh cock will deflate and slip out, even if both men agree to try to keep the cock in the ass after climax. It is an unachievable fantasy. But you take a plug and you can sleep with it in your ass all night long, get up the next morning, take a dump and stick it right back in and wear it throughout the day. It's especially nice to walk around with a plug in my rectum. While it moves with my body and my body accommodates its never relenting hardness, the action on the prostate and the sphincter keep things interesting.

 

But even as I'm drifting off to sleep, and I'm clenching my ass to get the feeling in both my sphincter and my cock (the waves of nerve tingling) I want to sing a butt plug lullaby to myself, because it really is a unique and indescribable pleasure that fosters a feeling of well being. As I wake up in the morning, the first thing I enjoy is feeling the plug inside. Taking a piss with a plug in my rectum is also nice. Sometimes I step outside and masturbate for a little while just to enjoy the morning erection and to play with and the challenge to actually piss through the hard on.  Can't be done, but it's fun to try. I don't usually complete to ejaculation. While that can be intense I prefer to keep the horniness going, and yes it is being horny.

 

But living plugged and feeling the hard slick glass plug fill my rectum,  to keep my sphincter forced open, is the main reason I live plugged. I truly never want to take it out for even an instant. It is so much a part of my psychological make up after having it in me for ten years I actually mourn having it out for more than a few minutes at a time. If I have to go several hours during the day with it out, I crave getting it back in when I can, and I always sleep much better and much deeper with the plug in my rectum at night.

 

I absolutely love my butt plug, my portable cock, my pacifier, and the fact that I can do it all the time in a crowd in a restaurant, in the stores on the streets, in the post office in my car during rush hour, among friends at a party, even with my husband of thirty years (alas we're living in different states right now due to work)——and nobody knows. I've only shared the fact that I am wearing a plug with strangers who are of course gay like me. I'm usually met with indifference, so I know that they don't know the pleasures of living plugged. My goal is for this post to be viewed a million times and it's getting close. I'm the most enthusiastic butt plugger man you will ever meet, but I am always glad to read other like me who live plugged, and my hat is off to those who have been doing it for thirty years or more...

 

How to Keep Plugging

 And simply when you have to rest...

There are now three videos in this post and the last one I have placed here is the best edging video I have ever seen. You get a cum shot near the end around 7:30, but it's the edging session and the guys articulation of what he's feeling that makes this vid so enjoyable. Also remember that living plugged as I do is edging constantly.

I've been plugged now for ten solid years. Today, I'm going to share the varied techniques I have learned to stay plugged. They are physical in nature and require an intimacy with your body state from day to day.

My purpose is to stay plugged 24/7/365, to make edging without cumming the basic state I'm in throughout the day and night. I occasionally masturbate to completion for a little added enjoyment and of course to keep the pipes working. But for me, simply living every moment with a plug in my rectum is the goal.

Yes, I have to remove the plug shortly after getting up in the morning. As I write this it is now 6:30 a.m. and I have been up since 4:30—two hours and I'm still plugged. I'm sitting down on the plug and it is being driven deeply into my rectum, and what I feel is my sphincter tight around the shaft of the plug and a vague sense of fullness in my rectum. I don't yet feel the need to evacuate my bowels. I was careful yesterday to eat less than normal and eat foods that do not set my guts in motion (in plain language, no gas, no farts). So food consumption is one of the things I've learned to control. Eat plenty of fiber, like bran. I don't take fiber supplements. They tend to cause gas.

Now, once I get up and am moving around (later this morning) I will pay attention to my body, specifically if the upper sphincter is being pressured by waste wanting to move down into the rectum. The "upper sphincter" is above the rectum, which is the last bit of gut before the anal opening. It only opens when the body says it is time to evacuate. So movement and activity are usually good ways to wake up the system after a night of rest. Yesterday, I was naked and plugged and I crawled around on the floor on all fours and stuck my rear end out and felt the plug as I clenched my kegels. This is a body position I like to be in to feel my plug. 

Once I defecate, I actually clean my shallow anal opening with a wipe tissue (the kind you can buy in any grocery store in the personal care aisle) that I've sprayed with hydrogen peroxide on then put a bit of lotion on the wipe. If the wipe goes into my rectum easily and I withdraw it and it is clean, then I go ahead right then and re-insert the plug. Pay attention to your body, if you get the vague feeling that you're not completely evacuated, your body will tell you. This is another technique for staying plugged (a rather clean evacuation and just a bit of shallow anal clean up)

Keep in mind that the rectum is usually empty of feces. It only receives waste from the upper gut when it is time to evacuate. Your body will tell you when it is time. Pay attention to it!

I've included this picture because I just love the visual of one cock buried in the rectum of another man.

But now let's say that after re-plugging shortly after removing the plug, I can go another few hours with the plug in place, I will of course go ahead at some point and eat my breakfast (bran or rice or yogurt and fruit with berries and nuts). I avoid protein rich foods like meat and fats and bread in the morning. Those items are sure to cause an active gut and require a mid-day bowel movement. 

If that is the case then after I defecate I already know I'm going to have to give myself a shallow enema. I might leave the plug out while I shower and go for a little while, staying naked and attuned to my body, after the enema and shower, and generally at most an hour after removing the plug I re-insert it and go about the rest of my day plugged. If I have errands in town, I ALWAYS remove the plug do a bit of detective work inside my rectum, use another wipe to check for anything that needs to be cleaned and re-insert the plug. At this point, I can tell if this is going to be a lasting plugged period and I won't be caught off guard in a store and have to do an emergency clean up in the men's room.  

So the enema clean up is another technique I use to continue plugging. My choice is to avoid eating very much at all during the day when I am out and about and active. I prefer being plugged to getting some sort of food pleasure by snacking. If I drink anything it's usually coffee or water. I've banned sodas from my diet now for several years except for the occasional Coke with a hamburger. 

So the techniques I use constantly throughout the day or week or longer period is watching the food I eat, doing either a shallow or enema clean up after defecating,  and trying to stay closer to constipated rather than the opposite. I regularly take an anti-diarrhea tablet usually in the morning when I get up. I've been taking them for ten years. I have seen no long-term issues with it. BUT I buy a generic brand with the same ingredients as Immodium because it's much cheaper.

Solely for your viewing pleasure. Watch to the end when he stick the plug inside his rectum without a trace... And here's an impossibly huge dildo that I wonder just how far in he can get it. It's a delicious 16 minutes long...

An amazing Dildo Fuck

I really love watching this guy get so much pleasure out of his anal self-fuck with a dildo

I've been spending the afternoon naked, plugged, and watching anal gay porn. I'm so horny now, and I thought I'd whip out this post for you guys who really like anal. Women, too, and straights, as well.

 

Let's all get naked and plug!!

 

 

Be sure to look past this first video...There's more.

This guy is very very calm about get a slow, steady fuck from a fuck machine.

Lifetime Living Plugged

 How Close Can You Get...

to being plugged for a lifetime?

The answer is the earlier you start, the longer you can live plugged, and while some people might ask why would you want to, the answer is because it's the healthiest thing you can do for your body. This includes digestive function, your anus opening health (never having hemorrhoids),  keeping your sphincter healthy and strong, (if you're male) keeping your prostate milked, and living with a sense of well being and sexual fulfillment. If you're a woman...all the above except for the prostate. I do applaud straight people who have gone anal for much of their sexuality. Just think how better off women would be if they did not accidentally get pregnant and have to deal with being an unplanned parent. I'm not advocating anything for intentional child bearing and raising a family. I applaud that, too.

Body Shame and Sex Shame

Unfortunately, we don't live in a world where sexuality, nudity, and body love are encouraged. Instead, worldwide, but perhaps mostly in the U.S., good old religion and social shame has kept us feeling guilty about anything having to do with our bodies, when it's paired with our most important sexual selves. And that's why I would like to see people start out young, get in touch with their anal area, as readily as they get involved exploring their penises and vaginas. When prepubescent people become privately interested in their sexuality and need information, parents should feel responsible for guiding them in their exploration without judgement. Just answer your children's questions frankly, as explicitly as is necessary without overburdening them with graphic details, and do it with love and leave it at that.

Keep it Out in the Open...No, really

Make butt plugs available in your household, right along with those ubiquitous shower enema systems. You'd be right in assuming that people have been taking care of their digestive issues forever by giving themselves enema. It's a useful process. (However, never use soap of any sort, nor chemicals. Basically use water like a bidet does. I go through periods of time when I simply don't do enemas. During those times, my digestion is at maximum peak performance and my evacuations are clean and I know my rectum is clear. BTW, the rectum stays empty until your body is ready to evacuate waste. You don't go around carrying a load in your rectum. The waste stays higher up in your gut as nutrients and other stuff is used by the body. When it is time, then the waste (and it is waste, which is why you're body is getting rid of it) moves down the gut and comes a calling on the rectal sphincter to open up and get ready to transport waste out of the body. This is not the anal-opening sphincter at all. That is why you can wear a plug and you don't feel like you have to shit. That's different and that is higher up in your system. 

Oh, yes, you get a full feeling when you're plugged, but it's a very nice comfort feeling, and with the sphincter staying closed around the shaft of the plug, it gets plenty of good blood flow action that prevents 'roids from forming. That's a major benefit of plugging.

When a child grows up in a household where he/she sees items they don't recognize, there will come a time when they want to know what something is for. If they ask, give them a name for it, so if they happen onto your collection of butt plugs, sex toys, give them only the answers they might be ready for at the time. Again, don't overburden them with too much information, too graphically, but don't berate or embarrass them for asking. 

I can recall as a kid,  when the neighbor boys introduced me to "jacking off" I did it to completion sitting next to them, but since this was before I had reached puberty, I didn't have any ejaculate, but I sure "got the feeling" the climax that the boys were teaching me to reach. After that, beating my meat to completion was a daily, and in some cases hourly occupation. I can't speak to what girls went through because my sisters never told me. Now, on my own, during these sessions, I also had ghostly feelings in my butt that I had no idea what they were, except when I reached climax my sphincter went to town contracting and relaxing, as the "feeling" shot through my entire genitalia system. The finger in the bath was next, along with smooth handles on objects within easy reach. 

Had I been lucky enough to have a parent who kept butt plugs, I could have discovered the joy of living plugged at an earlier age, and I could have also discovered the way to keep my rectum clean and the food I ate to keep my gut quiet. My household did have the enema bag openly displayed in the bathroom. Many years later I exchanged emails with a man who told me how he had gotten started with wearing a butt plug, and it was precisely because his father had given him enemas as a child. As he put it, he was then free to play with his nice, clean rectum. On his own, he discovered the perfect objects that he could use as a makeshift butt plug, even if he didn't have a word for it. All a parent needs to do is to not hide sexuality from their children. That doesn't mean a parent needs to initiate any discussion of sexuality with their children but to keep the doors open when their children ask questions. Nothing is more disrespectful to a child than to freak out when they ask their innocent questions and then causing the child distress and embarrassment and also feeling shame for just asking. 

I am against sexualizing children, but I am an advocate of being willing to talk about their questions when they arise. 

I feel that if you start out living plugged at an early age, you will have a full lifetime of personal joy and you will never feel so achingly lonely and left out when you don't have a partner, nor anxious and distraught if you don't automatically get a sex partner, of whatever description that might be. 

While I am in a long-distance relationship, but even when we were living together, I maintain a personal sexuality (as I'm sure he does) with masturbation and other activities. Now that I am living alone, of course, I stay naked as much as possible and plugged. It's called edging. And it's the essence of living plugged.

Wear a plug that is comfortable for you during the day, when you walk and sit and go shopping or out to dinner. I've had readers tell me that they find the devi glass plug with the ring base too uncomfortable to sit on (or the Icicles #14). They tell me that they now use the stainless steel Njoy or even silicone plugs. The bottom line is whatever makes your bottom happy.