Thursday, October 24, 2013

Friday, October 18, 2013

I Broke My Glass Butt Plug

One Drawback to Glass Butt Plugs...

A couple of weeks ago, while I was giving myself a rectal enema, I made the mistake of placing my glass butt plug on the sink next to me, while I was otherwise occupied squeezing the bulb on my enema  device. I knocked the glass plug to the tile floor and it shattered. Aside from my sudden despair, I was naked and barefoot and had to tread lightly around the broken glass to the toilet. I sat there sadly looking at the pieces of my glass plug, where only moments before it had been a beautiful work of butt plug design.

Of course, I immediately thought of my long unused alternate plugs but nothing would replace the Prisms Devi glass plug, which I had been wearing daily for several months. That is not to say that "living plugged" was temporarily suspended, because I did have my Neptune Blue Glass Plug, which of course I stuck up my butt as soon as I cleaned the glass off the floor. And I've been using that ever since, not quite ready to replace the Devi. The Neptune is only 1.5 inches in diameter, and the shaft is much smaller in diameter, so the sensations are somewhat different than the slight stretching and constant reminder of the 2 inch diameter Devi. I had even been contemplating finding a bigger plug...say 2.5 inches in diameter, but so far, I've been unable to locate one with the same type of circle base as the Devi.

So...my Devi is dead but I will be getting another one. I think I will also get the NJOY 2.0, which is stainless steel, weighs over a pound, and won't break. Instead it would break the tile should I drop it. I also don't get along with the base of the NJOY nearly as well as the glass circle base of both the Devi and the Neptune. But I look forward to the added weight for some extra sensations when it's in my butt.

Meanwhile I have had some responses to "lend me your rears" and a heteroflexible friend of mine was kind enough to send me some pictures of his luscious plugged butt. I believe he is wearing the MEO 24/7 plug in this picture. He tells me that he likes to keep his ass shaved, and I agree. When I'm playing with my ass and fingering my hole, I love the silky smooth feel after a good shave. I will be sharing other pictures in later posts. Don't get greedy for the eye candy, boys. There's plenty more where this came from!

In the meantime, I hope that all men, gay or straight, young or old, tall or short, skinny or fat (I fall into this latter category) will give anal stimulation a try. If you're a beginner, consider the Mood Naughty, which is a good beginner plug, made of silicon and easy to insert with just a bit of fingering before hand. Beginners should use plenty of water-based lube for silicon. And if you're suffering from hemorrhoids, look back at a recent post on this blog "Butt Plugs Cure Hemorrhoids." If you want an extra special thrill that will make you shudder uncontrollably and have a nice anal orgasm, look into the Aneros line of anal plugs.

Here's web-free vid I found that should get you interested:

Straight dude, playing with butt plug:




Thursday, September 26, 2013

Living Plugged: The Agony and the Ecstacy

My First How-to Guide to Living Plugged...Butt Plugged, That Is.


I am by far not the expert on staying plugged 24/7/365. But like many of you, that is what I aspire to. I read about a ninety-eight-year-old man who had worn a plug for fifty-five years. He was not the one who wrote this on a health blog; instead his granddaughter had written for information on finding a replacement for him. She was embarrassed to write but did so, anyway, because her dear old granddad had broken his plug and had asked her to help him find a new one. Makes me look at elderly men in a whole new light...is he or isn't he?

At any rate, I was also inspired to write this "how to" post, because I just heard from a man who loves my blog and aspires to living plugged 24/7/365. This guide is for him and for any other guy, gay or straight, who wants to get into staying plugged all the time. It's kind of not for guys who want to stretch their holes in preparation for getting fucked by their gfs or bfs.

The first thing we need to differentiate is between living plugged and using a butt plug to enhance our orgasms. Living plugged is staying plugged all day and all night, day in and day out, while using a butt plug to enhance an orgasm is for short-term sessions, either during sex with a partner or masturbating by oneself. Once you come, you remove the plug and bask in the afterglow of a great ejaculation. No, this is for staying plugged, even after you have masturbated or climaxed and not removing the plug, except for cleanup and maintenance.

Next, the idea of living plugged carries with it a commitment in a way to stay plugged through rough patches and challenges—all in the interest of having this unique experience that adds a sensual haze to one's life throughout the day and night. Yes, it's a continuous edging sexual experience that one wishes to keep going all the time. It's kind of like the teenage boy who wishes he could have an erection all the time (or maybe it was just me when I was a teenager!) We soon learn that once you come, your cock deflates, you put it away, and go about your business, until the next time. Not so with living plugged. You want to have some sexual stimulation all the time, and for me, it's something I never get "used to." There are times when I forget I'm plugged, until I move, sit, stand, walk, bend over, cough, need to pee—and then I get a big smile (inner smile) on my face. "Yep, the plug is still there."

If it's not just your horniness talking, and you really do want to try living plugged, the next thing you need to consider is finding the perfect plug that will allow you to stay plugged 24/7 with NO discomfort from the design of the plug. This is different for each butt, which has to do both with the part that goes inside and the base (the part that stays between your butt cheeks). If your eyes are bigger than your ass, you might have a tendency to choose a plug that is just too big for long-term comfort. Or if you're a conservative person with a tight ass, you might choose a plug that is too small to provide much beyond the initial insertion. And you really don't want to massage the prostate 24/7, so you choose a plug that is not going to keep massaging the prostate and cause discomfort that way. Some plugs are shaped with an angled head. Inserted one way, the head of the plug goes right for the prostate and massages it to orgasm; but if you turn it around, the angled head lies in the rectum away from the prostate, so it isn't massaging it all the time. Two types of plugs (more if you look at all the variations) can be worn one way for immediate prostate massage or worn the other way for long-term plugging. One is the NJOY pure plug and its knock-offs. These are stainless steel. They come in three sizes, and the 2.0 weighs over a pound. The other type of plug with the angled head are the Icicles and the Devi glass plugs with the same shape as the NJOY. there are also silicone versions.

Neptune Blue Glass Plug 1.5 inch diameter, angled head
Again, the plug you choose must be perfect and cause NO discomfort, either inside or outside. Alas, the NJOY's base was a deal breaker for me, although other men have said they have no discomfort from the base, which is oval shaped, but has a rather sharp edge, which dug into my perianal skin and, after about 12 hours began to cause agony from the irritation. When I found the Devi glass plug with a round, donut shaped ring base, I discovered that it lays between my butt cheeks like a coin in a slot, and because it is continually smooth and almost a half-inch thick (with a two-inch diameter) it is absolutely never uncomfortable. However, a guy who wrote in said that the Devi base just sticks out too far for his anal configuration and is pushed in every time he sits down. So for him, the NJOY is perfect.

The perfect plug for you might be made of silicone. I find that having to relube after a short amount of time (water-based) is also a deal breaker, especially if I'm out to dinner and the dryness begins to irritate. There are just times when it's inconvenient to find a restroom and relube. But with glass or steel, the lube doesn't dry up (silicone based lube) and keeps a thin sheen on the plug. I can get up in the morning and run my finger around the inside of my anus and it's still nice and slick, even after sleeping in it all night.

Staying Plugged - Diet.
I've discovered that I can't eat certain types of foods and expect regular, firm BMs. To live plugged 24/7, I really do have to watch what I eat. Lettuce runs through me like shit through a goose, so if I'm going to have a salad with my dinner, I am almost guaranteed a trip to the bathroom shortly afterwards, where I have to clean up, give myself an enema, and stay unplugged for an hour or so. Other foods, like beans and many greens cause gas, so to offset this, I need to also take a gas reducer, or I begin to fill bloated and uncomfortable. I've learned to fart around the plug, but I prefer not to have that issue, so I avoid foods that cause gas and bloating.

Part of my intake of food includes dietary supplements, as well as OTC products that slow down the digestion process, like Imodium AD. Regulating my snacking is also important. Sometimes I just want something between meals, but I try to keep that to a minimum. As you can see part of the commitment of living plugged is a willingness to change your diet and stick to it. I can't depend on too many enemas to keep my rectum cleaned out, because it is possible to suffer "weary butt." There's no reason to make staying plugged unpleasant and un-fun.

Staying Plugged - When Your Body Won't Let You.
The most eye-opening lesson I have learned, after being continually plugged for six months (I also count up to nine months of butt plugging, but not continually) is that sometimes, your body just won't let you. I've had bouts of the runs, when no amount of enemas would alleviate what the body has to do naturally, and one case of a the flu, which made it uncomfortable and messy to try to be plugged. I learned a long time ago, however, from another fellow plugger that you should not feel defeated, as if you have lost some sort of contest. When you have to unplug, unplug. The point is to enjoy living plugged.

The Agony?
I've mentioned a couple: the runs and illness. But listen to your body. Don't stay plugged as if it's something that's required. Nobody is forcing you to stay plugged. No one is going to think less of you if you take a break. It has to be something you love doing. If you feel pain, beyond say the initial pain threshold of getting a plug past the sphincter, just simply stop; give your body a chance to let you know what's causing the pain.

The Ecstacy?
Having a plug in my ass! Seeing a plug in your ass! Knowing we have something in common.

Again, the pictures I use on this blog are from the Internet or from fellow pluggers who send me pictures to post. I have to assume that the Internet pictures are free for the taking, when I encounter no disclaimers that state otherwise. And a new proviso is that I will not kowingly post pictures of underage young men. If you send me pictures to post, please state that you are over eighteen. Also remember that once a picture or vid enters the Internet, it will be there until the end of the Internet, and there's no stopping its spread.

There are more variations of anal toys and sex toys out there that can provide a universe of experiences, and I have tried a lot of them, but nothing speaks to me more than having my butt plugged as I go through my day. I invite others to share their experiences. Life is short, and our sex lives are sometimes even shorter. Find a way to stay sexual! It's a health-giving activity.

Really hot homemade plug:


Saturday, September 14, 2013

I Just Love being Plugged!

My Delicious Addiction—for which I make no Apologies

Part of the idea of living plugged, for me, has always been to do a thing that feels sooo good all the time that to not do it is almost inconceivable. It's an addiction, just like people who become addicted to a substance (whether it's food, coffee, or something stronger). And I readily admit that having a butt plug in my ass is an addiction. But unlike an addiction to food or drugs, so far I have yet to find even a scintilla of physical harm in it. It's a sexual addiction, I suppose, like guys who masturbate several hours a day. When I was a teenager, I probably masturbated several times a day, too, although I don't think I ever got sores on my dick from doing so—that would be the true masturbation addict.

Also, being butt plugged leaves my hands free, and I can do it while wearing clothes, which means I can go about my daily routine at home or in public without being affected. Masturbating or being addicted to fucking is just not that hands free, and there's always the possibility that fucking all the time would begin to interfere with your work or your married or partnered life (if the person you're fucking is not your SO). Being butt plugged is not cheating on my husband. We can still have sheet ripping sex. My attraction to him has nothing to do with my butt plug, and it doesn't diminish my sex with him. In fact, it enhances it. Being butt plugged all the time, living plugged 24 hours a day, however, is not inconvenient, but it is kind of like being fucked all the time—only different. Sexual addiction becomes problematic for some people and they go to counseling to help them overcome it. But being butt plugged all the time has so far been without problems.

This is a recent addiction. I had used butt plugs a few years ago, as I have said in other posts on this blog, and even back then, I just wanted to have the plug up my butt all the time. But...there weren't glass and metal plugs back then, and for me, that's the key reason I can stay plugged. There is simply no discomfort, whatsoever, with the egg-shaped mass of glass in my ass and my sphincter being gently stretched open to about 3/4 inches. After almost nine months of using my butt plugs again, and after almost five months of 24-hour plugging, I can still hold an enema as I brush my teeth and get read to take a shower. In other words, I've suffered no loss of bowel control in the least.

I hope readers don't take offense or think I'm knocking other pleasurable addictions, or saying that living plugged is better than being addicted to masturbation. That's not my intent at all. I love visiting the masturbation blogs and watching guys gooning out on beating their meat. I think it's beautiful to watch. But of course some of my time is taken up with writing this blog and scouring the Internet for pics and vids, so if there is a downside to living plugged, it's the time I spend finding the companion pics and vids that go with each blog post. I also hope that women are not offended that this blog is dedicated to men butt plugging and getting all men to get in touch with their anal sensuality. Women are already in touch with their anal side of sexuality, and most women might be glad that there is a blog to try to entice men to get plugged as well; and I hope straight men are not offended that I don't include butt plugged women for their viewing pleasure.

Buttplugging is for older men, too.

Hands-free cum with electro plug and e-stim-2




Wednesday, September 11, 2013

What to Wear with a Butt Plug

I'm Not Talking About a Fashion Statement—Or Maybe I am

I've been having a good discussion with a fellow plugger who, like me, is also a nudist, or at least we both like to hang out where naked people gather—probably not a conventional nudist camp, though, because they're pretty uptight about being naked and sexual, and wearing a butt plug is pretty sexual. For me it's a way to casually edge day and night and occasionally run my finger around the head of my cock and play with the precum. My friend is a bit hesitant about wearing his new Devi Glass Plug while naked, among other people.

Well, here, take a look at his sexy ass with the Devi ring showing. I told him he has a perfectly cute butt, and he should be proud to show it off. Next time I'm among naked people (will only be men or gay-friendly women and men), I will of course wear my plug and won't care who sees it. But since I've only been living plugged for the last nine months, I haven't had a chance to hang out where naked people gather.

Butt...come on, my friend has a great butt and if you're wearing nothing but a smile, accessorize with a great looking plug! Now, no one wants to see my rather old butt, but I can assure you that my butt cheeks are longer than those in this picture and only the crescent of the ring shows, and only when I'm bending forward.

And since I'm plugged day and night, every day, what I wear with a butt plug, when I'm dressed, includes underwear, jeans, slacks, a bathrobe, jeans with the crotch torn open—even a hospital gown when I'm in for a check up. (Yes, I go to my doctor's appointments with my butt plug in place.)

Now, as far as making a fashion statement, I've seen jeweled plugs, plugs with tails, and even a plug for playing puppy-dog, where a little rubber tail like a puppy's sticks out of your butt, and you can get it to wag (kind of) by clinching and wiggling your butt.

Of course, when I'm out in public (restaurants, parties, picnics, movie theaters), I'm just wearing regular clothes and, in none of them that I'm aware of does my butt plug show. It's for my sole secret pleasure.

I thank those who have given me permission to use their photos, and for all other pics and vids that appear in this blog, I get them direct from the Internet in what I assume are public domains and not subject to royalties or copyright...

Classic butt plug use


Another classic butt plug used for anal play


Now, once again, as always, I urge all men, young and old, thin and fat, fit or unfit to give the other half of your sexuality a try. It's not just a gay man's thing...really. Use a butt plug. It's really actually good for you, and it does cure hemorrhoids. I have cured mine with my metal and glass plugs. It's wonderful to have a healthy anus again.

Thursday, September 5, 2013

Road Blocks along the Plugging Lifestyle Highway

Flu, Colds, and Stomach Viruses are Roadblocks to Staying Plugged


This is not a pleasant subject for people like me who want to stay plugged 24/7, but it's one of the realities of the human body. Sometimes, no matter how much I crave having my butt plugged, I've had to suspend my journey until the ailment passes. This recently happened and I had to go eight long days and nights without plugging my butt.

I wish there were a way to prevent catching a cold or flu or contracting a stomach virus, but there really isn't, unless I want to live shut away in my room, never eat, and never make bodily contact with my mate, or shake hands, or...you get the picture.

So, the first night as I was lying in bed, settling down with my plug firmly in place, I felt a little feverish, had a few body aches and had a hard time getting to sleep. And when I woke up about two in the morning, I rushed to the bathroom, and sure enough, had an unpleasant and loose BM. I washed up, replugged, and went back to bed. In less than an hour, I was up and at it again, and realized I just couldn't replug, so I went back to bed and tossed and turned, feeling uncomfortable and feverish.

The next morning, it was worse, and I knew I was in the throes of a full blown ailment. Every day I hoped the runs would pass and I could be plugged again. I gobbled OTC medications to get rid of the symptoms, doubled down on foods and supplements that would slow the digestion rate and went through my days and nights empty, yet craving having my beautiful glass plug in my ass. After many months of being plugged regularly, I can assure you that I felt empty and distraught. My ass was as raw as hamburger meat, and the best I could do was rub cream into my anus for relief. I think the worst thing about having such an ailment is that it wrecks the anus, and even on the final day, when I felt I could work the plug back in, my anus was very tender and raw. I had spent several minutes massaging the anus, until the rawness felt all right and not tender to the touch. And then I chose a somewhat thicker silicone based lube and worked it in my ass. Then I put a sheen of lube on my glass plug and stood in front of the sink in the bathroom and looked into a mirror behind me as I gently slid the plug into place. Every feeling was intensified, including the new tightness of my anus that had gone eight days without the plug and the shaft keeping my sphincter a little loose. But in a way, it was very pleasant and tennder, and felt so good to feel that pop as the plug got past the sphincter and nestled itself into place. And my rectum and its muscles hugged the plug for joy.

That first night with the plug back into place, as I said, every feeling was intensified and wonderful. It's now been 72 hours plugged, again, and I can resume my journey of living plugged. Yes, there will be other times when I run into roadblocks, but for now I'm back with a plug in my ass.

I get the pics and vids from the Internet, and through permission from my readers to use their pictures.

Straight guy with butt plug



Monday, August 26, 2013

Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Living Plugged a Journey Update

Plugged Four Months...

On April 15, 2013, Tax Day in the U.S. when our federal and state taxes were due, I received my  Prisms Devi Glass Plug. The most significant event that day was receiving the glass plug. Two inches in diameter at the widest point with that magic glass ring base has made all the difference. In December of 2012, I bought my first butt plug in several years and tried it out. The results were mixed. It was a 1.5 inch diameter silicone plug and, while it did provide some good feelings, going out in public for the first time and being plugged for about two hours was basically an uncomfortable disaster. So while I began plugging again 8 months ago, my living plugged journey really began in April of this year. The goal? Staying plugged 24/7/365. The reality? Staying plugged almost continually now for four months with only a few days scattered over the last 120 when I just couldn't handle being plugged—always because of my bad eating habits.

So part of my journey has been training myself to eat foods that bind me rather than cause the old green-apple quickstep. I've also experienced times when I'm just plain butt weary. That's my term for what it feels like to plug my butt after multiple enemas in an attempt to get that rectum cleaned out. I discovered that you can overdo the enemas and it causes what I describe as "weary butt." While the plug feels fine in my ass, my butt is a bit overstimulated. During the last 120 days I've learned to ride out that weary butt sensation, until finally all is comfortable and pleasurable.

The longest I went officially plugged 24/7 was a period of twenty days; then on day twenty-one, disaster struck. I went through a period that 21st day, when I just could not stop shitting, so all the enemas accomplished was to give me my first weary butt.Thereafter, I've had to recalibrate the fantasy to the reality, and if I have to go a day here or there without my plug, that's just the reality. But my goal is to live plugged, and I believe that I do.

Some readers might wonder if staying plugged all the time somehow diminishes the thrill of being plugged. For me, it doesn't. I can understand if men only want to be plugged while they have sex or masturbate, as an added boost to the sensations, and then pull the plug so to speak and go about the rest of their day. That's how I used to view using a butt plug. But I can tell you that after four months of living plugged, I need to feel that constant stimulation of the sphincter. It's wonderful to be in a grocery store and pushing the cart and start clinching and feeling the sphincter tighten around that shaft, or to be lying in bed drifting off to sleep and, instead of counting sheep, count kegals.

Over time, I've developed a routine of between five and ten reps of ten clinches each, which I count and hold slowly, beginning with a ten-clinch countdown, each clinch deepening until I feel my cock surge, and then I release. On "ten" I hold the clinch for about ten seconds and then release and begin the second rep of ten. What I've noticed is that the release is slow, almost as if my body has taken over from me and determines how long it will hold the muscles taut. Guys, it's like coming. You know what it feels like when your cock just sort of jerks on its on and you're just along for the ride. That's what my muscles do almost on their own after fifty or a hundred clinches. I make each one deep and hard, and I can guarantee that when you get to fifty, your cock is a foot long and hard as a rock.

And that's just what I do when I'm getting ready to fall asleep. Over these four months I have only jacked off a handful of times and NEVER removed the plug after I'm finished. I haven't run or ridden a bicycle yet, but I have been out in public many times, to the movies,  shopping, going to parties, out to dinner, and each time enjoying the secret of being plugged. Over these past few months, as well, I've begun to really study guys' butts, looking for telltale signs (or prints) of a plug on their jeans. Alas, nothing yet, but I do know that in this town of a hundred thousand people, the local adult novelty store has a wide array of butt plugs, so somebody besides me has to be plugging. The clerks are all helpful and enthusiastic when I go in there just to visit (plugged of course) and get them to show me plugs and lube and talk about sex. I can tell by the way one clerk showed me his favorite lube that he's a plugger. It was almost with reverence that he got the lube on his finger—just a drop—and said I wouldn't need more than that.

So, today, four months and a few days after receiving my Devi glass plug and being plugged continually, I am inspired to continue. Nothing had diminished the feelings I get from feeling my plug inside. I am inspired, too, when I read stories, like the one about the 98-year-old grandfather, who had to ask his granddaughter for help when his glass plug broke. He was embarrassed to ask her to find him a replacement. His story is that he began using a doctor supplied plug back in 1957—fifty-five years ago!—and said that he needed it to help him with bowel movements. It must have been traumatic for him to think of going without his plug, after having used it for over half a century! And I have to think that this man must have enjoyed the feelings of being plugged to have done it so long. Is this story real? I tend to think that it is. I do know that plugs were first invented to help cure hemorrhoids, deal with incontinence, and even prevent wasting sperm—I know, these uses sound ludicrous. But medicine has been ludicrous throughout human history. Thank goodness, though, that someone invented the butt plug.

All pics and vids are from the Internet and I assume they are free for posting...

Aneros Progasm3


Joyous, happy, sexy, fuckin' hot plugging!


Saturday, August 17, 2013

Glass and Metal Plugs and Lube

How I Lube My Plug...

With glass and metal butt plugs, a little lube goes a long way. Over the last nine months I have discovered that glass and metal butt plugs don't need nearly as much lube (if it is silicone based) as the more porous silicone plugs. Further, silicone based lube does not get absorbed by the rectal tissue nearly as readily as does water-based lubes. And further, the thinner the lube the better for glass and steel plugs.

When I first started plugging again after several years and several wonderful advancements in butt plug design and materials, I followed the advice of experienced butt plug users who cautioned everywhere to use plenty of lube. The result showed on my underwear, and because I was using a silicone-based lube for my glass and steel plugs, I began to wear briefs and boxers at the same time. The theory was that the briefs would collect most of the excess lube that leaked out around the plug, and the boxers, being less intimate with my ass and looser would absorb the rest. But I saw that after a few days of staying lubed that even the back of my jeans had developed an oily stain than no doubt showed when I was out in public. The stain was subtle but it was there, and when I did laundry, I directly added laundry detergent to the oily stains so that they would come out in the wash.

I also figured that if the stain was just slightly noticeable, I didn't mind if people wondered what had caused it.

Still, I began to experiment. I found that the thicker silicon-based lubes left an oily crust on the base of the butt plug, and required washing the plug more often. And so, when I tried the thinner lubes, which I had been slathering on the plug and on my anus, I realized that almost right away, when I got dressed and went out plugged in public, that much of the lube was immediately transferred to my clothing.

After that, I either just used the lube on my ass or put it only on the plug. My idea was that either way, the lube would be effective in getting the plug past my sphincter, and it did seem to work. I was just as comfortable as I had been when using more lube. The irritation of the plug in my ass never developed, and I could still go hours without relubing. I think this has to do with the way the oily lube adheres to the plug. It just needs to be a very thin film on metal, just a sheen, really, and not in any way a big amount. A little lube truly does go a long way on metal and glass. I would still suggest more lube if you are going to use it like a dildo and move it back and forth in your ass as you masturbate; but when it just used for long-term plugging, it is not necessary to have the lube dripping out of your ass.