Living Plugged, Moving into a New Phase

Three-Month Review of the Icicles # 14

In January of 2014 I said that I was trying out the Icicles #14 glass plug. It is shaped exactly like the wonderful Devi Glass plug that I wore 24/7 for ten months, but I wanted a larger shaft for a little more sphincter action. And now, three months into living plugged with the Icicles in my ass 24/7, I can say that this is a new phase in living plugged. While the Devi plug has a substantial shaft of between 1/2 inch and 3/4 inches in diameter, the full one-inch shaft of the Icicles actually makes a great deal of difference in the long term in what it does to the anal opening. The shaft is also long enough that the egg goes fully past the sphincter and the ring stays outside the body.

Even though I love my glass plug, there
is just nothing quite as visually sexy as
a plug with a base like this snuggled
against a man's ass, as well as showing his
metal cock ring

I can still hold an enema while I brush my teeth and get ready for my shower. But having kept the plug in my ass for three months, morning, noon, and night, and only removing it for BMs and enemas, I do have to say that my ass is always loose enough to receive a cock if I wanted. But keep in mind that this is not my intention; I plug for the sheer pleasure of being plugged. The hardness of the glass works my sphincter all day long, and at night the thickness of the shaft keeps me on edge when I'm actually awake and playing with my ass. I can't speak for other men who like to stay plugged as much as possible, but it gives me great pleasure to never forget I've got a hunk of glass inside of me. I heard from a friend and fellow plugger who loves the NJOY 2.0 for the same reason.

To me, living plugged, and now using one with a thicker shaft will be what I wear as I begin my second full year plugged. I believe that I have reached my limit on the size of the egg (the actual plug part) in size. I find that I can pass gas around the plug and so don't ever feel bloated. And because the shaft is thicker, I have experienced accidentally swallowing the plug, base and all, three times—twice while out in public. This is easily remedied, and so I don't freak out thinking the plug is going to disappear into my bowels; I can easily retrieve the ring base, and since the glass is nicely weighted, I can just squat and relax and it moves back down the rectum. Perhaps this is not for the faint of heart, because it can be a scary notion to think a trip to the emergency room will be necessary. But quite seriously, too freshly cleaned from an enema and too much lube is what caused these three incidents. So If I want everything to feel tight and snug, I can use the slightest drop of lube, just for easy insertion
and I don't have to worry about accidentally swallowing the whole plug. If I want to play with pushing the whole kit and kaboodle up my ass as I lay in bed, I just slather on the lube. Makes for a good masturbation session, that way.

In this post I would also like to talk about 24/7 sexuality. Many men probably don't think sexual all day long; many other men masturbate many hours a day; and many men are like me, they love edging and feeling sexual without ejaculating. I probably ejaculate once or twice a month at most, but I stay hard many more hours in a day than I normally would if I wasn't wearing my plug. My shorts are always slightly sticky from pre-cum, and in a sense this is part of the fetish I enjoy about living plugged. Oddly enough, I don't waste a lot of time looking at gay porn, but I love the fact that so many men, gay and straight, are into one kind of sexual fetish or another. I enjoy reading about baters who like to goon out as they say. I enjoy reading about men who love to drink cum, and I absolutely love to watch videos of men sticking things up their asses. I'm kind of amazed at the tool shops they have set up in their homes, by which I mean the array of anal toys, fucking machines, and other equipment.

Both penises are uncut. This is just showing them
separately for comparison.

And finally, I'd like to tell about a guy who calls himself Double Dick Dude. He can be found at: http://www.diphallicdude.tumblr.com. Diphalia is a real condition where a man is born with two penises—most of the time, however, one penis is normal and the other is small and is removed shortly after birth. But DDD has two normal sized, fully functioning penises, and he has graciously come out within the last few months and is willing to answer questions. I've posted one of his pictures here, without asking permission, but wanted to introduce him to my readers, and so I hope he doesn't mind. He will also tell you that he is involved in an exclusive three person relationship, is bisexual, and so one of his partners is a male and the other is a female. He has many other pictures of his two penises to prove they are not fake. He answers questions frankly and honestly, and inadvertently probably feeds our fantasies like nothing else in recent memory.


Not for the faint of heart or tight butt

Wearing a Butt Plug in Public

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Butt Plugging Incident at Olive Garden Restaurant

Butt Plugged in Public...a potential disaster

Before going out to dinner for the evening, I took a hot shower and paid special attention to my multiple enemas to completely clean out my rectum. This by the way is an important aspect of being able to stay plugged for many hours without having to do plug maintenance, and it's extremely important if you're like me and go out plugged everywhere. So I finally lubed up with Aloe Vera Gel (George's Aloe Gel, available through health food stores). I've begun using this gel all the time, rather than silicone based lube. It works well with my glass plug and throughout the night, when I'm in bed, my anal opening is always nice and wet, without dripping.

I want to thank Bear for this
very sexy photo

So I popped the plug in my ass, and I knew my rectum was nice and clean because I felt the egg pop into place and the muscles settle around the plug with a grateful hug. The Icicles #14 has a 1-inch shaft which keeps me stimulated with every movement.

But for some reason the car ride to the restaurant was extremely uncomfortable, and by the time I was walking into the restaurant, it felt like I had to have a BM, which I thought was unlikely, so I sat in the booth, looked over the menu, and then told my partner I needed to use the restroom. I had visions of a real mess on my hands when I got into the restroom, so I first got a couple of paper towels and wet them, so I could carry them into the toilet with me. By then I felt like I was going to explode.

So I pushed my jeans and shorts down around my ankles, sat down, and then with one of the paper towels at the ready, I leaned to the side and placed my fingers into my anal opening, expecting to find the ring on my plug.  It was not there, and for one insane moment I thought I hadn't even plugged. So, digging a little deeper, I felt the ring. It had slipped into the sphincter area and was holding the sphincter open at two inches, rather than the diameter of the shaft at one inch.

A nice gape. Looks like he's ready for anything.

Still, I imagined pulling out a very messy plug...

It came out wet and shining clean, to my relief. What had happened, in fact, was that I was so clean and so ready for my plug that it had worked itself into my rectum and just wanted to keep going. The discomfort came from the ring base sitting where it was. Maybe this falls under the category of too much lube. Anyway, I cleaned a little of the clear gel off my ass and carefully slid the plug back in my butt, making sure that the ring stayed outside the anal opening where it belongs. It felt beautiful as I pulled my shorts and pants back into place, buckled and zipped up, and walked out of the restroom feeling both glad and nicely plugged.

When I sat down in the booth again, I said, "I think the 'Tour of Italy' will be a good choice for me."


"Everything all right?" he asked. "You looked a little distressed earlier."

"Everything's perfect," I said. In fact it was great by then, and I gave my sphincter a little squeeze.

Been looking for this vid for a long time…

Guy Rides Dildo on Washing Machine brought to you by Spankwire

This guy knows what many men know. The anus is a delightful place to play.

Butt Plugged Life and the Men Who Live It

Wearing a Butt Plug for Life

Slowly, over the course of a year, but especially after I started this blog, I've met numerous men who are like me. We wear a butt plug all the time, morning, noon, and night, 24/7. And if not that much, then absolutely as much as possible. I constantly get on forums where men ask if it's safe to wear a butt plug all day, or they ask if anyone has ever gone out in public wearing a butt plug. These are good questions but, eventually, I'd like to see the questioners move on into living-plugged territory about how to maintain a plugged lifestyle, rather than wearing a plug for just a few hours a few days a week.

Can't beat this for looking sexy as hell.

I guess I'm an intermediate wearer, meaning that I've settled on a comfortable 2-inch plug with a 1-inch shaft, made of glass, which I only take out for BMs and enemas. Currently, I'm wearing the Icicles #14 glass anal plug with a circle base that fits between my ass cheeks like a coin in a slot. I can guarantee that you cannot comfortably wear a base that is perpendicular to the plug for constant 24/7 wear. I do have to admit that a plug with a perpendicular base looks the sexiest in a male ass, bar none.

And the men I've been in contact who also live plugged don't wear the perpendicular based plugs either. Some wear and swear by the stainless steel NJOY plugs, which has an oval base, but uses the same long-term-wear principle. The secret of long-term comfort is in the base of the plug. A couple more guys wear the MEO 24/7 plug, and then a few more of us wear either the Devi glass plug (many times on my recommendation) and now me touting the pleasure of the Icicles #14.

He'll be ready for his GF and the strap-on tonight.

In another post I had said that even though the Devi is butt plugging Nirvana and is totally comfortable 100 percent of the time, I had said that I wanted to go just a bit bigger in both the egg and the shaft. As it turns out the Icicles #14 has a bigger shaft, but not a bigger egg, and for right now, probably for the rest of this year, the larger shaft will be fine with me. At my age and digestive condition, I'll never feel "safe" wearing the MEO, because I never know when my digestion will kick in. So I need the plug to plug me.

Butt...the larger shaft on the Icicles does take some getting used to, and it's not 100 percent comfortable because it is challenging the sphincter to stay open at 1-inch all the time. In bed, when I clinch my anus, the sensation is on the edge of painful and extremely intense. I go into a long clinch and my cock just blossoms into an erection. And when I get up after sitting at my computer, I cannot describe the intense feeling of the sphincter moving around the shaft of the plug. Mama! It feels good. And even after all these months, I cannot express how fucking sensual it makes me feel every minute of every day to have my ass plugged. I'm even getting hard just writing this. Yep, I'm addicted. This is a fetish, and it adds to my overall sexuality in ways that just masturbating or getting fucked or fucking cannot complete. You know, once you cum, you settle back down. Staying plugged 24/7 never allows you to settle down completely—and for me that's a good thing.

Here's a straight guy who's trying out a dildo for the first time. This guy is a little on the chunky side, and I have to say he makes me want to cuddle up with him, even though he's straight!


Straight guy’s first time anal…

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The Difference Between Dildos and Butt Plugs

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Icicles #14 Glass Butt Plug

Having a Nice Hunk of Glass in My Ass!

Thanks to the nice French boy who's master
has allowed him to send me a picture of
his nicely plugged ass.

Anyone who has read my blog over the last nine months knows that I have said that the Prisms Devi Glass anal plug is perfect and that I have achieved Nirvana...sexual Nirvana with it in my ass 24/7 and nine months. But in my last post, I said I was trying the Icicles #14 plug to kick my plugging up a notch. Mainly the only difference between the Devi and the #14 is the size of the shaft. The Icicles's shaft is a full inch in diameter. It's like having a hard (albeit rather small) cock up my ass all the time. I've been wearing it now for two weeks, 24/7, except for a couple of hours here and there due to weary butt, or should I say weary sphincter.

For those of you who have gone out and bought the Devi plug on my recommendation, I wholeheartedly still recommend it for overall comfort and very nice sphincter stimulation. In fact, well into my second week of wearing the Icicles plug I had one of those weird moments when I sat down in a wicker chair on my patio one day at lunch. At first I thought I had suddenly got a hard t***rd in my anal opening and so rushed off to the bathroom to pull the plug and clean myself. But when I reached for the ring on the plug it was...not where it should have been. I quickly discovered after pulling the plug out clean as a whistle (to my relief) that the base of the plug had slipped past the anal opening and was stretching my sphincter over two inches. Hence the feeling of suddenly having a ball of t***rd at the anal opening.

Yep, they're having to check the position of their plugs, too.

This meant that my sphincter was a lot looser after wearing the Icicles for almost ten straight days and nights. I also have to say that on that particular day, I was having a very nice plugging session and was really able to slam the plug home that morning with no pain whatsoever. It also gave a nice pop as it slipped past the sphincter and filled up my rectum. So...here is a kind of warning (to me). The one-inch diameter shaft on the Icicles will stretch the sphincter more than the Devi, although I suspect when and if I go back to the Devi, everything will return to normal—at least as normal as it can considering that I am virtually living every day and night with a hunk of glass in my ass. I'm also still loving the hell out of it.

I hope this post's vid isn't a repeat! It's a fun one...

Non-stop Butt Plugging: Kicking it up a Notch

The Secret Thrill of Butt Plugging is in the Shaft

Readers who have kept up with this blog know that I've occasionally talked about wanting to go just a bit bigger, and after ten months wearing the Prisms Devi Glass Plug every day, every night, I've kicked the size of the new glass plug up a notch. The Icicles # 14 glass plug is shaped just like the Devi, but there's one difference: the shaft is a full inch in diameter, whereas the Devi shaft is between a half-inch and 3/4 inches. The egg on both are about the same size, and the donut ring base on each is about the same size. Over this same ten-month period, I have always been thrilled with the sensations that shoot through the sphincter. But kicking the shaft diameter up almost half an inch bigger has done two things: I can feel the sphincters stay stretched out more as I wear it, and the intensity is slightly greater. I've only been wearing this plug since mid morning. It's now mid afternoon, and I have never forgotten I'm wearing this plug. Oddly, it removes just a bit easier, because the differential between the plug and the shaft is not as great on the Icicles # 14 as it is on the Devi, so when I pull the Icicles plug out, there's not quite as much resistance as the sphincter gives way to let the head of the plug come out.

Still, once in place, this plug is not going anywhere, either. I don't consider myself an experienced butt plug user, and as I've also said several times, I'm pretty vanilla. I'm not into ruining my hole nor into accommodating something the size of an eggplant, nor the depth of a baseball bat, and yet because I live plugged morning, noon, and night, I want something that reminds me its there. At least for today, the Icicles #14 fits the bill. the continuous action on the sphincter is the key to enjoying being plugged. You really can't feel the bulb of the plug inside, other than perhaps the fullness that it brings to the rectum. In fact, I can easily fart around the plug, so there's no bloated feeling most of the time, but when there is and farting is not enough to relieve the pressure, chances are it's time for a BM and a shallow enema.

Mmmmm....mmmm....mmmm

I occasionally look in on forums where straight guys (usually) admit to liking anal play, and so I would like to invite some of those guys to let me know if they've ever thought about staying plugged. I know of a few gay and straight guys alike who are into this aspect of butt plugging. It seems to me that there's nothing you have to give up to enjoy this addictive obsession. If you're gay and a bottom, you can just pop the plug out when you're getting fucked. If you're straight or gay and you're a top, you can keep that plug in and shoot across the room or knock holes in your boyfriend's rectum or your girlfriends vagina or butt.

I rarely masturbate to full ejaculation. Staying plugged is kind of like edging 24 hours a day. I'm hard as I write this; but I can go soft for awhile and go rigid again just by getting up from my chair and taking a short walk. With the bigger shaft there's just more there, there. I'll see how it is to sleep in this baby tonight.

This one takes awhile to get to the good naked, butt-plugged bicycle ride, but it’s worth it.

Waking Up Plugged

It's a Thrill to Wake Up in the Morning with a Butt Plug in My Ass

Living plugged 24/7/365 means that I wake up every morning with a butt plug in my ass. It's been there all night, and it's much like waking up with a cock in my ass. The only difference is that this one is still hard. It's like I've been fucked all night and I'm still being fucked. And yes, in the morning there is conflict between having to take a shit or keeping the plug in as long as I can before I remove it for the morning BM.

I usually wait on the BM until I begin to feel like I need to. It's not that the plug feels like I need to take a dump. You begin to know the difference, and right now, for example, I've been up over three hours and have checked on the BM twice...still nothing, so I've replugged and have started my daily work routine.

So I was sitting here plugged, clinching, feeling my cock get hard, and thinking that part of the benefits of living plugged is morning time. Many guys would have masturbated by now, having awakened with morning wood and what feels like a cock up their ass, but I think part of the thrill of waking up plugged is a heightened sense of edging. Oh yeah, I want to go do the dildo fuck motions with my plug, but I resist, instead just enjoying the feeling of my sphincter being exercised, my dick going from half hard to full hard, leaking pre-cum and going back to half hard—all morning long.

It's mornings like this and the intensity of the anal stimulation that makes me want to get a big fat dildo and shove it up my ass. But again, I resist. My 2-inch diameter plug, 3/4-inch shaft is enough. Ahhhh...living plugged all the time. I know a few other guys who swear by it. We enjoy talking about it and showing each other pictures and vids. We talk about having butt plug parties, where everyone shows up wearing a butt plug. Alas, we're scattered throughout the world, so it can only be a virtual party. These are both straight guys and gay guys. Our common sexuality is wearing butt plugs all day, every day.

And so, my day will continue as I turn my attention to my work, leaving this short blog post for your enjoyment, along with a video I hope you like:

unbelievable! Vid movement is a bit shaky, but wait for the end of the vid!

Butt Plugging Highlights for 2013

Butt Plugging Moments in a Year of Plugging My Butt

I bought my first butt plug in December 2012, after giving up plugging fifteen years before. Back then, I had finally tossed my last butt plug, because it was just not comfortable in the anal opening. And then, on a lark in December 2012, I bought a high-tech silicone plug and after few tries successfully got it back in. That was the beginning of what has now turned out to be a memorable year of butt plugging. These are the highlights of 2013.

My friend's MEO with the cork in place inside the plug.

December 2012: I successfully plug and immediately made the mistake of going out in public with it firmly in place. I had to go to return a rental car and then go pick up my own vehicle, which had been repaired following an accident. Standing in line at the car rental place, the plug felt fine, but after about an hour and now waiting at the repair shop, the plug was becoming a bit uncomfortable, and I wasn't sure that I could stand it much longer, but I had made the mistake of going out in public with it in. Once again, I learned that it was something about the material that mainly caused the irritation.

My Friend's MEO. I like his sexy hand on his ass!

January 2013: So my next purchase was the NJOY large stainless steel plug. It was pretty good, comfortable for much longer periods than the silicone plug, and I thought I had found nirvana. I was already trying to stay plugged all the time, but 24 hours was the limit, before that base of the plug began to irritate the anal opening. Most guys swear it's always comfortable.

February 2013: By this time although my hemorrhoids had mainly cleared up using the stainless steel plug, I was still battling the eventual irritation. So I bought the Neptune Blue glass plug. It was unique because the base was a donut that fit between the butt cheeks like a coin in a slot, and I was able to stay plugged much of the time; but I still had to master the digestive issues that plagued me. The hemorrhoids were gone, and I was really, really enjoying going about 12 hours with a butt plug in, then 12 hours with it out. I still had not come up with the notion that I would try to stay plugged 24/7/365, but I was getting close. I spent most of my nights plugged, leaking precum and learning how to get enough sleep, without getting up in the middle of the night and masturbating. It was a lovely lesson to learn.

Although the guy is not wearing this right,
we can see that once it's properly installed,
the thrills and urges would be intense!

March 2013. By now, I was plugged most of the time, layed off masturbating so often, and thinking that I needed just a bit bigger plug. So the search was on, and by the end of March I had found one that was 2.0 inches in diameter, had the Neptune ring base, was angled like the NJOY, and had a shaft of 3/4 inches.

April 2013: After trying and failing to get that monster Devi plug into my ass, I finally gave it the extra shove it needed and it was in. By now, I definitely wanted to live plugged, and my first run of continual 24 hour plugging lasted 21 days, before I had to remove the plug and get over the first serious case of the runs! But the die was cast and after just a couple of days of clean out, the Devi went right back in.

May 2013: On my birthday, May 6, I wrote my first entry of my new blog, Living Plugged. I felt I had a lot to say, not only of my own search for the perfect butt plug (for me) but I wanted to encourage all men, gay and straight, fit and fat, young and old to explore their anal sexuality.

June 2013: I attended my first party while plugged. Of course I had been continually plugged since April, but this was the first time I was going to a party with little chance of plug maintenance should anything happen that I needed to unplug, clean up, and replug. There were well over a hundred people at this party, and the bathroom facilities were busy. There was also food, lots of it, lots of standing around talking to people, lots of sitting, and lots of milling about. I was in heaven. This was plugging Nirvana. I was secretly enjoying every twinge and surge my plug gave me, and I'm sure I had a slurpy smile on my face the whole time, you know the kind of goony look you get when you're slurping something fun and delicious, like cum?

July 2013: The Walmart disaster. I don't know why, but I should have paid more attention to my roiling gut before I went shopping at Walmart. I had probably eaten something that caused lots of gas and some unpleasant liquid. So it was in the bathroom in a stall where I pulled out my plug and had to do a lot of cleanup, with nowhere to casually wash off the plug. There was no lube to re-insert it, and so I had to carry that big lump in my pocket until I got home.

August thru December 2012. Over these months I learned some great enema techniques, diet essentials to slow down the digestion process, and the miracle of Imodium-AD, an antidiarrheal aid. And I can truthfully say that I have lived plugged the vast, vast majority of the time. I will consider April my first full year of living plugged. My beautiful Devi plug is in my ass right now. The sphincter is stretched around the shaft and the base is shoved up against my anal opening. I've got a semi-boner as I write this, and I repeat: ALL MEN SHOULD SHOVE PLUGS UP THEIR BUTTS AND LEAVE THEM THERE! You can go about your daily routines, fuck, suck, sleep, masturbate, and carry on. You'll just be sexually hazed the whole time.

Dildoing his way to an orgasm...



Here's wishing everyone a Happy New Year. I plan to keep my plug in my ass for the second year in a row.

How to Choose the Right Butt Plug for the Right Job

Choose a Butt Plug that Fits Your Needs...and Your Rump

We all know that choosing the right tool for the right job is essential, whether you're a mechanic, a carpenter, a film maker, or a computer programmer. But it is just as important that not all butts are the same, and choosing a butt plug that fits one man's ass might not be the right one for another man's ass. Our asses are as different as our cocks. And what we want from a butt plug is not the same, either. I prefer to just stay plugged, morning, noon, and night, so I don't want to go too large or too small. Another man might want to challenge himself and get the biggest plug ever made into his ass, and I understand where this urge comes from—once you discover the almost limitless joy of anal play.

Some men want to use a plug for a single sex session with his lover or a single JO session when the wife or boyfriend is gone for a few hours. In this case, you might consider several toys to add spice and variety as you go for that all important, mind-blowing climax. Some men will stick just about anything in their asses with the goal of stretching the anus, and some even eventually want to "ruin" their hole. I have no comment on just what it might be that you want from a plug or other device, but an NJOY 2.0 is not going to cause anal prolapse, nor is a giant silicone plug going to be good for long-term wear—that is if you're not seeking to be in pain for the duration.

Basically speaking there are three major materials that butt plugs are made of (don't confuse this with dildos): silicone, glass, and metal. But among these materials the sky is the limit on the shape. A good butt plug that won't shoot out of your ass when you sneeze or slip out when you walk or run has a wide flare just as it meets the shaft. The bases of the plugs also vary. Here are a few of the shapes of butt plugs, each having the three main parts: plug (bulb), shaft, and base:

 

Classic Butt Plug

Devi Glass Plug

Inflatable butt plug

MEO 24/7 Hollow Plug

NJOY 2.0 Stainless Steel Plug (weighs over a pound)

Billed as the World's Most Comfortable Butt Plug

With the exception of the inflatable plug in the selection above, all of these plugs are suitable for going long term, and they are also all suitable (including the inflatable) for masturbation or fuck sessions. But latex and silicone have the disadvantage of requiring frequent lubing, and even though I personally think there's nothing sexier than seeing a large base (like the classic) clinging to the outside of a man's plugged ass, the large base can eventually become irritating. I haven't personally worn the "World's Most Comfortable Plug (the last picture in this list, but I suspect that the rubber shaft and the base would become uncomfortable after a few hours, which then leaves us with the Devi (glass) and the NJOY (stainless steel). Note the base of both of these items. They don't irritate nearly as much as bases that sit perpendicular to the anal opening. Butt...again each man's ass is different. In fact the shape of the plug bulb on all of these is different, and the rectum will certainly also determine the best shape for your ass.

The MEO is not the only hollow plug on the market, but I have a friend who prefers it to all others; but alas, I don't dare attempt to wear a hollow plug!

I will address the Aneros phenomenon in another blog as soon as I learn more about it. There's an entire website devoted to Aneros users, which you might enjoy. It's basically a anal toy design that users swear will provide hands free orgasms, so I would suggest that these devices are not meant to be worn long term.

This guy makes it look easy!