Waking Up Plugged

The pleasures of tossing and turning to go to sleep, and then waking up plugged...

It just doesn't get any better than this.

I sleep naked and plugged outside the covers with a slight breeze from the fan blowing over me. Right there, that's three positive ways to feel stimulated on many levels. 1) I'm a nudist, so being naked is always a pleasure (ok, unless it's frigging cold), and sleeping naked is as good as swimming naked. 2) Sleeping outside the covers allows the breeze to tickle the hairs all over my body, keeping the skin alive and alert to caresses. 3) Being plugged in bed means that every movement causes a cascade of feelings in the anus, the groin, and in my cock; so I get pleasure from tossing and turning during the night.

But I do eventually get to sleep, because before I know it, I am waking up from a restful night's sleep—even if getting to sleep is like having participated in an orgy of edging solo. How much more restful and beautiful is spending part of the night having sex before drifting off? And then there's that first moment of consciousness, and then that twinge in the butt, as I feel my sphincter(s) caress the plug. And the hard-on I wake up to needing to piss. All this is a pleasure.

Simple anal fingering technique for anal
masturbation

There are two themes that run through my blog about living plugged, and the pictures and videos I choose to include reveals both of them. First, men (gay or straight) can enjoy the sheer pleasure of anal play (male anal masturbation). Straight men are taught (implied, maybe) that to get in touch with the anal side of sexuality is too "gay", but that couldn't be further from the truth. Anal sexuality is at least half of the pleasure any man can enjoy from sex, and just maybe, fucking the prostate from inside the rectum is more powerful than when it is just used in the act of penetrating a partner and leaving it untouched while it does it's business. We've seen the work that massaging the prostate with an Aneros can do for a man, gay or straight, and this leads me to the second theme running through my blog about living plugged.

This plug show that the plug doesn't have to be
inserted deep to massage the prostate. The
prostate is just a finger depth away.

This second theme has to do in part about "living plugged". Why do I want to keep a plug in my rectum as much as possible? Why did I decide after inserting a plug in my ass for the very first time back in the 1990s that I never wanted to take it out? Prior to that I had bottomed in my relationships as much as I topped. And in fact, I did everything and enjoyed it. I also loved to suck cock. But all that is beside the point: what is it about wearing a butt plug that is different from just having sex for an hour here and there and then going empty the rest of the time?

I don't really understand it. But why do I like to keep a butt plug in my rectum? For one thing, I feel content from being washed in endorphins in the brain when I'm plugged. Every little tug on my rectum from the plug, every squeeze of my butt muscles, all that sets off a stream of endorphins. It's not an overwhelming endorphin bath to say the least, but it's enough to amp up my outlook on the day as I go about my business.

For example, just yesterday, I joined the neighbors outdoors on my street while we ate watermelon and visited for a couple of hours. I was plugged. I assumed they were not, and it wasn't just my little "secret" pleasure that made it pleasurable (although many pluggers do get real pleasure from being secretly plugged). It was the contentment of the plug in my rectum as I did such an ordinary thing. "Living Plugged" is the whole point of this blog and one I lay before all men, gay or straight. But just as important, maybe, is the whole idea of anal sexuality for all men. Staying plugged all the time is probably not nearly as practical for most men who still work and are out and about a lot more than I am. But at least all men can discover the joy and deep pleasure of anal penetration for moments or hours, in play with a partner or as part of a solo sex session. Dildos have their place, sure, as substitute cocks, but butt plugs are designed to stay put once they are inserted. And I KNOW that most men engage in self-sex regularly, when the wife or boyfriend is away and we have some private time. I don't mean to leave women out of this discussion, but for the most part, women are already much more in touch with their sexuality than men are. And I have to say it, straight men quite often deny themselves half of their sexuality by not exploring their rectum and anal masturbation.

One of Those Nights

Edging...to completion?

This is one of those nights that I just can't leave my dick alone while I've got the plug in my ass. It's hot down here in the deep south even for the end of May...90 something. I don't run the AC at night but I do have a fan moving the air around over the bed. I'm lying on top of the covers and my entire naked body is available to me to caress, my plugged ass to play with by sticking my finger in the crack and running my fingers around the ring base (the only part of the plug that is not sunken into my rectum). A quick note, the ring base is not as intrusive as those plugs with a big rectangular base that virtually covers the entire anus. The ring base (see my ass at the top right of this page) allows me to slip my fingers into the rectum, and play with the shaft and feel the tightness of the sphincter as it also closes around my fingers. It's hot and moist in there. If I keep this up, as my dick hardens and throbs, I just don't know if I can hold off coming.

I don't want to. I like edging, which is why I wear a butt plug 24/7/365—or as close to that as I can get. After six years of plugging, I know it's impossible to stay permanently plugged, so I just accept that there are times when I have to go without it. But this is one of those nights when I'm solidly plugged, my naked body feels fine as I caress it, and I'm keeping a semi-hard cock in between it getting hard and throbbing. I have to back off, and then return to squeezing the head of my cock, feeling my sphincter close around the butt plug shaft, with each squeeze.

I'm also calling this movie night. I found a 32 minute video of a guy who rides a 14-inch-long, 3-inch diameter dildo, going up and down, his ass swallowing the whole thing down to the base, and he keeps this up without once removing it. So sit back and relax. Stuff your ass with your own plug and follow along, feeling something similar to what he must be feeling as you watch. 

I'm Back!

I'm back after a years' long hiatus.

That's right, guys and my women friends, I took a long break from writing in my blog. The last three years have been busy, exciting, time-consuming, and just plain energizing. I now live in the deep south and have discovered that the people here are just not what you might think about southerners! And the gay couples and the hunks with bubble butts leave me wondering if southern men know about the joy of living plugged? I bet they do. In the small town where I live, there are three adult sex toy stores all within 15 miles of me. I've only been to one, but yes...they do know about butt plugs aplenty.

Anyway, now that this will be my first of many new posts, I hope that some of my old friends will discover that I'm open for business again. I can't promise to post weekly but it all depends on how many clients I have for my real job who need my help. I work at home, so it's going to be a little odd. First of all, I stay butt naked and only put on clothes when clients show up or when I have to go outdoors for the newspaper or run errands. Rest assured, however, that even if I have to be clothed to run errands or even to deal with clients in my home, chances are I'm wearing my beautiful Devi glass plug, pictured above. It's the same plug I'm wearing in my logo picture, also above and to the right of the page.

I'm wearing it right now, and as I sit here, I've pulled my butt cheeks apart so that the ring base is in positive contact with the chair bottom and is pushing the plug deeper into my rectum while at the same time being prevented from going past the sphincter because of the ring base. My sphincter is likewise strained and causes an explosion of feeling while I sit here. My cock is throbbing with the beat of my heart, and precum is leaking into my foreskin, which I can occasionally dip my finger into for a tasty drop on my tongue.  Note that the plug on the left also has a ring base, and what makes these the very most comfortable plugs is that the base fits between the butt cheeks like a coin in a slot. True enough however that the huge bases on some plugs look kind of sexy, but for a long-assed wearing session, the ring base is the best.

I'm glad summer-like weather has come to visit, because it means I can sleep atop the covers all night long and play with my butt and cock as the slight breeze from the overhead fan tickles my naked skin.

Mmmm...just wow.

In my rush to get back to this blog, I collected a few images to include and a video, but in the coming weeks I hope to include vids and images that practically make me cum just looking at them. I really love closeups the the male genitalia, bare naked and raw. I love the way cocks look all red and swollen from hours' long edging sessions. I'm not a big fan of ruined man cunts, but I like to show them for variety, and it usually shows just how big a plug can actually go into a man's rectum. However, if you do plugging as I do for the positive benefits to the anus (like curing hemorrhoids) it's possible to derive negative consequences when the rectum, anus, and sphincter is treated too brutally. Nice cock, but not how subtle his plug base is in this picture, and yet it's providing him the kind of pleasure that all men can have if they can just get past the idea that anal play is just for gay men like me. Straight men have just got to join those of us who love our butts and our holes, and a backdoor to the prostate.

I hope you enjoy the video for this post, and please let me know if you're a returning friend in the comments section! This is the famous NJOY Pure Plug. It's quite well designed and the Devi plug echoes the design.

The Deep Pleasure of Weary Butt

What is Weary Butt? Why is it pleasurable?

I'll just bet this guy will get "weary butt"!

Anyone reading this blog will eventually discover that I virtually live with a plug in my ass 24/7/365 and have been doing so since late 2013. Over these past four years, I have only written about "weary butt" in context to times when being plugged sometimes makes my butt feel weary. You know the feeling...everyone is weary at times. But "weary butt" is caused by wearing a plug and working it inside your ass a little more than enthusiastically than usual, or maybe for some during a long session where you stretch your ass with bigger and bigger plugs, for the sheer pleasure of it and afterwards your butt feels worn out for a while.

Guys who read this blog will also know what it's like to fuck or masturbate over the course of a day a lot more than usual, and maybe having a very tired (but extremely good feeling) cock that continues to throb after fucking or masturbating several times in a few hours. This continual throbbing that is slow to subside can also occur inside the butt. I get it sometimes when I have to do aggressive enemas to get myself cleaned out. After that, when I ram the plug back in my ass, I have weary butt and can feel the muscles throbbing, slowly subsiding. The plug during these times feels more present and I cannot forget for even a moment that I've got my Icicles #14 in my ass.

I can also imagine (although I've never had one) that the steel plugs that weigh more than a pound inside the ass might eventually cause weary butt from the sheer weight, constantly sitting on the inside of the sphincter and trying to come out. It won't of course, because of the size of the head vs. the slender shaft, and the way the sphincter is always trying to close when not "in use."

In this post, I'd like to talk about why I finally not only got used to occasional weary butt but have learned to enjoy it a great deal. It's like edging the cock. You know the feeling if you edge for hours or even all night or all day. The cock gets so hot (feverish) and sensitive that when you touch it after a while, it feels like you're just on the verge of a cum explosion, and the end for many after edging is to finally give in to the urge to masturbate to completion. That's what weary butt is for me, these days, like I've been edging my ass and the sphincter is throbbing and the prostate is thoroughly massaged and I'm on the edge of a cum explosion. But with edging the butt, I just let the pleasure of the feeling continue until it subsides. I don't cum very often. I prefer to keep myself on edge, so that when I go out in public with my butt plugged, it's just a private feeling for myself.

Now, I'd also like to assert that getting to the point of weary butt and what you've been doing to the inside of the rectum is very healthy, because you've worked those muscles and the flesh in your ass so that there's plenty of health-giving blood flow throughout the entire region.

Here's a really hot plugging, ass-fucking, gape inducing session...

Revisiting WHY butt plugs cure hemorrhoids

Can a butt plug really cure hemorrhoids?

Yes.

I was plagued with hemorrhoids after spending my entire adult working life sitting behind a desk. I also know from being told that truck drivers, for example, are prone to hemorrhoids, because they also do a lot of sitting. But after four years of living plugged 24/7/365, I haven't had a single hemmie.

If we had a tiny camera to show us what the anal opening (that scrunched up little pucker) is doing throughout the day, we would of course see that it opens and closes to allow turds to pass out of our bodies (or cocks to slide in), but more importantly, we would see that simply walking is going to cause that anal opening area to move and scrunch, and we also have muscles that we can contract that also cause some movement on the sphincter. Sitting all day would just cause that area to be scrunched up with no healthy movement. But another important point is to look closely at the anus opening on the left. See all that wrinkled skin? If you don't clean yourself thoroughly every day and during the day, guess what? It's going to collect waste matter, allow a perfect environment for bacteria and that will just exacerbate the problem.

The classic butt plug is so-called because of
its shape.

Some of my readers follow this blog looking for answers to their own hemorrhoids, and I thought their questions were important. First, I don't think it's necessary to be plugged 24/7/365. That's just my own delicious fetish. I remember that even when I tried my first plug over 20 years ago, the first thing I ever thought about was keeping the plug in my ass, because it felt so good.

And I tried, oh how I tried, but back then plugs were just these rubber things that look like the "classic" plug. I soon discovered I could easily sleep in this first plug, but I couldn't wear it for long once I was up and moving around. The problem was always the base. It was a rounded  thing like a stopper against my anal opening and no matter how soft the base was or how thick or how thin, it eventually dug into my anal opening skin between my butt cheeks. And eventually I just gave up using a butt plug at all. That was until 2013 when I eventually bought the icicles (after trying the modern classic and other plugs). My ass with the Icicles inserted is in the upper righthand corner of this blog post. That's my ass and it's sporting what I call the donut-shaped ring base that fits between my butt cheeks like a coin in a slot. It's fairly thick, smooth glass and it NEVER hurts.

Not only that, but the top of the ring (attached to the shaft) slips into the anal opening a little when I'm sitting and comes out a little when I stand, so it provides some massaging of the anal opening. But the glass plug has a shaft that's about 1.5 inches long, is about 3/4 inches in diameter and even when I'm sitting it holds the sphincter open, as the sphincter tries to close, and walking causes all kinds of cool movement. Thus the anal opening and sphincter are constantly being massaged. That is the key to reversing the effects of the hemorrhoids...blood flow, movement, massage, all done with such a smooth object there's never any discomfort. The Icicles is curved as well, I stick it in my butt with the curved head away from my prostate. Otherwise, I'd be getting a prostate massage all day long and that can be a bit uncomfortable after a while.

Because the butt plug works on the sphincter and the anal opening throughout the day the massage effect does wonders for eventually bringing the anal opening back to health, as if you're leading an active life and not a sedentary one. Of course, I am meticulous about enemas and cleanliness, as well. And, I have to say, if I have a bout of the runs or have eaten food that wants to go through me faster than normal, I have no qualms about going without my plug for the duration. Diet plays an important part too in keeping me regular. No lettuce for me. I make up for my greens with other vegetables. I also eat a high fiber diet, which helps to bulk up the waste and elimination is clean. And even though we call it a butt PLUG, it won't plug the hole and things can get messy.

Here's a simple video of a man inserting a butt plug...

Anal Stretching and Ruined Holes

While this is not for me, I enjoy looking at impossibly large butt plugs in guys' holes...

The rush of feeling on the sphincter must be intense!

I like to use my Icicles Glass plug absolutely dry (it'll get moist inside the rectum, anyway, but it won't be lubed at all), which means I get extreme intense feeling of the sphincter, putting a kind of stress on it that maybe stretching does, a kind of hurts so good kind of feeling that makes me want to sit down on hard surfaces and rock back and forth to get that sphincter action. It's the kind of feeling that for the first couple of hours, the dry-plug effect doesn't go away and keeps me gently hard, and all I have to do to re-ignite the horniness is just pay attention to how it feels. I can currently feel my anal opening and the sphincter kind of throbbing, feel my cock engorging with blood, and a simple contraction of my ass muscles ties the two feelings together, with a surge of feeling all down in that area.

I also currently have my cock and balls hanging out of my pants, just covered with  the shirttails, and I can walk outside near the sidewalk of my house and know that just a puff of wind might reveal my cock to anyone passing by. No...I'm not brave enough to take a walk down the street with my cock showing, at least not during the day. But also being plugged adds to the thrill. The precum builds up under my foreskin, and of course I don't let that go to waste. I just dip my finger into my foreskin and get the precum on my finger. I like to suck on it or wipe it on my lips.

But I digress. Anal stretching and ruined holes. I like to see them. I've featured one guy's ruined ass on this blog in the past, so a good thumb through of this blog site archives will reveal him. You will have no doubt when you see his ass, opened and gaping so clearly that you could fist him and not even touch the sides of his anus.



And here is a simple act of anal masturbation with a rod and bumps that got me so hard I nearly gave in to beating my meat, but I didn't want to go that far. I wanted it to last:

I'm Back and Still Plugged

After Four Years of living plugged...

I can still say that I need that plug in my ass all day, all night, 24/7/365.

Cute Kid, nice big butt, love the look of that
plug jammed in there, too.

I apologize for my long hiatus from posting in this blog. As I indicated in my last blog in July 2016, I moved halfway across the country, and it has taken me this long to get settled, to meet new friends, acclimate myself to an entirely different cuisine than my body was used to and I have to say that staying regular is the key to staying plugged. Otherwise there can be nasty and quite embarrassing public crises.

Those of you who have followed me in the past might want to know how I have managed to keep up the enthusiasm for living plugged. After all, it makes sense that like a hot bath, once you've sat in it for awhile, you get used to the heat, and then the heat slowly cools. And that is exactly what has happened to staying plugged. I got used to it and haven't discovered any new angles to write about. It's just there in my ass, so I really haven't had anything new to add to such a post as this. I'm as used to having a plug in my ass as I am to having a cock. And you know that you never get tired of your cock. I still haven't found the very best enema equipment, and of course ideally it would be some sort of hook-up in the shower, where you could slowly push a long flexible hose past the sigmoid colon and on into the small intestine and keep the warm water flowing the deeper you go (never soapy—you don't want to kill the good bacteria). There's an excellent adult toy shop near me, and I have visited a few times, and I finally got around to buying a large plug. But try as I might, I've never been able to get that sucker in, and so I've stuck with my glass plug.

Nice, clean, hairless, naked ass with just that simple
ring announcing what's in his ass. Nice shot to include the
cock ring. But I also like an ass with curly-hair, right up
to the opening.

Nor have I bought an NJOY Pure Plug 2.0. Now that would fit, but I still don't think I could keep it in without discomfort, but only because of the base oval, with the rather sharp edge that digs into the skin of my butt cheeks. I was hoping, and still do that NJOY would eventually improve on that one niggling problem. To me, though, the way the NJOY looks in a man's ass is just about the sexiest look I can think of. You know what he's got stuck in his ass by the simple, clean ring on the outside. And from what I've read the NJOY 2.0 is a pound of steel, so you know what kind of thrill he's getting having that thing inside, the weight, the fullness, and almost zero chance that it's going to come out accidentally because of the very narrow shaft.

I'm glad to see that in my absence from posting that the blog still gets dozens of hits a day.

Here's a hairy-ass with steel plug play:

I Moved Halfway Across the Country

I stayed unplugged, until now...

Because I was under a lot of stress, packing, moving, unpacking, and getting used to a different kind of food that I'm used to, I had to stay unplugged. It is obvious that the body states can interfere with the pleasure of plugging, and a different kind of food can make a difference. So, rather than fighting it, I just stayed unplugged. In fact, the stress was so high that I only masturbated once, and that was at night on my front porch. I was naked, except for a t-shirt, and it was time to mark my territory in my new house. I've masturbated on every new car I've ever bought as well, a kind of claiming it as mine.

But since that masturbation, I have been remarkably un-horny. But this morning, a little over a month to the day that I moved in, my body said it was time to re-plug. I was a bit hesitant, but after an enema that didn't produce much, I barely lubed my ass opening and plugged dry. I allowed for the anal shrinkage that had occurred over the past month, and I took it slowly. There was very little pain, and once the plug popped past my sphincter, I drove my plug home where it belongs.

It feels great to be plugged again. I'm getting hard. I have opportunities in my new home to stay naked, as well as to be naked in my back yard without much fear of the neighbors seeing me. I now live in a lush, green environment, and my back yard is very private. Now that I'm plugged, I can wander around in my yard with my cock out of my pants and play with my dick and masturbate if I want, which I will.

This is a short post. It's just to celebrate my return to living plugged. I hope everyone has missed my posts!

Huge plug in man’s ass:

92mm Plug

Butt Plug in Public, Reprise

Public Butt Plugging is the Most Popular Topic

After almost a half-million hits on this blog, it is evident that most of you are interested in and often like to wear a butt plug in public. Living plugged means that I do it in public every day when I'm out and about town. Sometimes I don't even think about what I'm doing. It just is, but I don't quite ever forget that I'm wearing a plug, and I like to look around at all the people, men and women, and wonder who else just might be wearing a plug. From what I gather from the porn sites I visit with the search tag butt plug, it seems that women, more than men wear butt plugs. And this is also born out in the fact that women use sex toys almost twice as much as men do.

But I've been vindicated time and again on this blog to meet men who love to plug, play with their asses, and quite a few straight men can freely enjoy anal stimulation, as much as gay men do. In fact, some of the wildest anal pluggers who get deeply involved in extreme plugging and anal play are straight men. Good for you!

But, back to public plugging. Most times, it's a little private secret that pluggers have about the fact that they're out and about with a plug firmly embedded in their butts. It's a secret thrill, and maybe that's part of the overall thrill of doing it. It is for me. I've been traveling frequently for the past year, and I can tell you when I stop for gas off the Interstate and go into a busy travel center, I'm super aware of my plug, and it gives me a thrill to feel the plug as I navigate through the men's restroom, stand at the urinal next to some guy and take a piss, as he is doing and toward the end, clinch my ass to feel the plug, or to be seated in a truck stop coffee shop, clinching my butt plug, deep, and watch the asses of the guys as they walk by...are they plugged? I like to think that some of them are.

What'cha think? Southern Good Ole Boy?

I've been traveling to the deep South in the last few months, and it's fun to see that even there they have roadside adult stores. In fact, I think I read that the South is one of the largest consumers of gay porn of all the states. So even in a state, where you might think that there's a great deal of religious suppression, it's not enough to deter many people from sex toys.

So yeah, even traveling long hours by car, I live plugged, and get a thrill each time I stop for gas and mingle among the travelers, sit in a restaurant and feel my lovely plug, tight in my ass, and even when I'm travel weary, I enjoy the interaction with the clerk at the motel I stop at for the night, bone weary though I may be, I enjoy feeling my plug, now hot from my body heat.

Traveling for hours, I can also tell you that the plug gets kind of road weary and grungy (though not with fecal matter), just being in my ass in the same position for so many miles. I enjoy pulling it out in the motel room and running my fingers around inside my ass, because it is so gaping and accessible. And I enjoy giving the glass plug a nice hot bath with soapy water, cleaning up my rectum with a good flush enema, then kissing the plug and putting it back in my ass where it belongs as I lie in the strange bed for that night and fall asleep.

Being plugged in public all the time has moments when I might be talking to someone and suddenly realize I'm plugged, grin inwardly, and keep on talking. I've been to the doctor plugged, hair salon, grocery store, the theater, restaurants, parties, barbecues. I sit on hard surfaces, soft surfaces, lean against the walls with my plug, and in each instance the sensations are different.

On the Road Again!

Took another trip plugged...

I wouldn't be revisiting this subject, if it wasn't for the progress I made on this second 1200 mile trip plugged. I don't remember if I talked about the weary butt I got traveling butt plugged on the first trip, where things became a bit uncomfortable after a few hours on the road, so that I had to stop, walk around, or actually go into a restroom and do a little massaging on my anal opening. Driving plugged for 800 miles did tend to cause discomfort after a long while.

On this second trip, I experienced a lot less discomfort, and it might have been that I was more aware of getting in a good enema before I left and then watched what I ate, as well as keeping the plug moist with aloe, more than I normally would have, since I love the dry plugging sensation.

And after I arrived at my destination on the afternoon of the second day of travel, and through the six days I was there, I was able to stay plugged. On the last trip I had to take a break from plugging, since my digestive system simply did not cooperate. Again, I watched what I ate a lot more on this second trip. Duh...of course keeping the digestive tract free of digesting food is the key. And the kinds of foods that are digesting is also paramount. Stay a little constipated, then flush it out the next time you do an enema.

I also noticed, after driving for about 300 miles before using a restroom and removing the plug for clean up and re-insertion, the plug (but especially the wide shaft) caused me to gape a lot more than it does at home, where I get up and walk around a lot more. Sitting in the same position in the car with my foot on the gas, and sinking into the seat at a certain position, must cause the bulb on the plug and the shaft to sit at such an angle that it stretches the sphincter open. For example, when I stopped for gas and used the restroom to check, after I pulled the plug out, I was gaping about three finger widths. Well, maybe "gaping" is not correct, because the sphincter was closed, but when I moistened the ass with a little aloe and played with my ass, while sitting on the toilet, I was loose enough to easily slide three fingers into the anal opening.

Another effect is that the inside of my rectum was a lot softer, and when I pushed the plug back into place there was a decidedly more intense feeling, as the flesh closed around the bulb and the sphincter closed around the shaft. Gave me a hardon as I walked back out into the store area of the truck stop, freshly re-plugged and ready to get back on the road.

Further...the return trip and another 1200 miles was the best ever. I simply did not need to remove the plug anywhere along the drive, and by the time I walked into my home after eight hours that day, I did not remove the plug. I didn't remove it until the next day, so I must have gone 24 hours plugged without the usual 5-10 minute break to clean and maintain the plug.

Here's a video I just discovered. This guy takes the longest dildo I have ever seen, and it makes you wonder where on earth it goes inside his body!

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