A Change of Pace in Plugging

Today I used lube...

For the first time in over a year, I decided to use a tiny drop of lube for the glass plug, mainly on the shaft, because one of the effects I don't get with dry plugging is having the shaft slip up and down inside my sphincter. With the lube I get that movement every time I stand up or sit down, and it's a kind of different feel than having the plug stay in place in the sphincter. However, I will be going back to dry lubing tomorrow. I've grown used to being solidly plugged without the shaft slipping up and down.

There is also another change of pace on this blog, this particular post, which I probably won't revisit after sharing this with you. I knew that due to some horrible accidents, some men have lost their penises and have had to adjust to life without their male genitals, but I had never heard of men (who do not want to be MtFs) who don't like their genitals and have them removed, leaving only a pee hole. They still consider themselves men and are not transitioning to women. They generally call themselves nullos. I find this fascinating, even as a gay man, because I sure love my cock and balls. But after reading some of their stories, I find I can understand why they do this. They become dedicated bottoms, if their gay, or they accommodate their wives' use of their asses and submissives.

This one does not look "photoshopped"

I also discovered that many of the sites where you find pictures of nullos, someone is just creating them with Photoshop, but after awhile that odd allure is just not very interesting. But the real nullos are both interesting and in short, kind of hot looking to me. So, I've share what I think are real pictures and one video of these men. I found them on the Internet and assume that they are therefore public domain.

Here is another one that is even more convincing to me, and shows more of the abdominal area for you to decide for yourself. Again, I think it's kind of hot looking, even though I wouldn't consider doing this voluntarily.

This is precisely what the first nullo man whose story I read looks like

And here is a vid I found with a nullo using a buttplug. Enjoy!

Nullo male with buttplug:

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The Effects of Butt Plugging

More than just the side effects

Anyone who has ever read about the "dangers" of butt plugging or read advice and tips about using a butt plug will get some grave warnings or advice that is, at best, repeated as if it is tested and based on experience.

The grave warnings include permanently stretched anuses, which leads of course to incontinence. Now, this may possibly be a side effect, if and only if you don't use common sense. There is simply no need (other than the challenge) of getting a watermelon sized butt plug in your ass, especially if you force it in.

The advice and tips include only keeping a plug in place for a few hours at most and to lube frequently. This is good advice if you're going to choose a butt plug made of rubber/silicon. And if you're going to use a plug with a base that doesn't respect your tender anal skin. Those jewel plugs look cute when we see them in pictures, but they're shaped wrong and you will eventually hurt. But I've written frequently about choosing the design of the plug for long-term plugging, so I'm not going to repeat it here. Nonetheless, if you've chosen a well designed plug of the right material and one that does not do violence to your ass, the negative effects of butt plugging for hours, days, weeks, months, and years will be minimal.

So, you can ignore all the grave warnings and you can ignore the tips and advice and really get into the benefits of living plugged.

One of my readers has said that living plugged gives him a sense of well being in body, mind, and soul. This is precisely my own experience, and I've now moved into the seventh month of my third year living plugged. While there are times I can't even feel the plug in my ass, hardly a moment goes by that I don't think of it or at least know without dwelling on it that I've got my plug in place and all is right with the world. The plug is a pacifier, if you want to think of how a baby keeps his sucky in place, or someone who wears a favorite shirt just feels better. The plug is like have someone's arm around your shoulder. And all it takes to elicit a sigh of simple well-being is for me to clinch my ass and feel the plug inside.

I've done everything I'm likely to do in the way of activities, including going out in public, to parties, to dinner, the movies, grocery shopping with my plug in place; others talk about other activities like running, bike riding, etc. with a plug in place, and I can say that being plugged while doing whatever you do enhances that activity.

Unfortunately, thus far, I've been unable to find many vids of men wearing a butt plug in public. It's usually women, and man do they take chances that should be a turn-on to the voyeur in all of us. But I'm sure that the thrill of seeing evidence of someone wearing a butt plug in public is even greater for the one doing it. "Public" many times simply means out in nature or in a toilet somewhere. But then of course, how are you going to show the fact that you're wearing a plug in public if it's invisible beneath your clothes? I suspect that there are far more people wearing plugs in public than we might realize. I live in a fairly small city, and we have a single adult toy store, and yet butt plugs and dildoes abound in this store, so someone has to be buying them and wearing them, and I mean a lot more than you'd think. I like to watch people walking by when I'm out on the street (butt plug in place) and wonder which ones are likely to also be plugged. I'm ordinary looking, and so I know that the next person on the street doesn't have to be a hot bod to be enjoying the thrill of wearing a plug. It could be the little old man shuffling his way into the cafe across the street. It could be the waiter coming up to his table to take his order. It could be the hostess behind the counter who greets him.

The true side effects of living plugged is the utter feeling of bliss that accompanies it. As I write this, my plug is firmly in place, the ring base is pushing against my anal opening, my sphincter is stretched open an inch, and the egg-shaped head of my plug is filling the lower part of my rectum, with just the slightest, but evident pressure on my prostate, and my cock feels that it is on the verge of becoming an erection. This is the physical part that leads to my feeling of well being.

Butt Plugs are Sexy

I like the way butt plugs look when men wear them...

I have to admit that I'm often caught breathless by the beautiful and sexy look of a butt plug in a man's ass.

Totally sexy looking

I also like to see a man obviously enjoying the plugged feeling.

And I like the camera angle that guys go for to create a memorable image...

What are the Long-Term Side Effects of Living Plugged?

The good news is that there are none!

I've virtually had a plug in my ass for two and a half years, day and night. And I've used steel and glass exclusively. These are two materials that are simply unforgiving. They form the rectum and sphincter by hard, unrelenting solidity. Even still, when I remove the plug for cleanup, bowel movements, and enemas, all I really get is temporary stretching. Right after removal, I can get four fingers into the rectum with no problem, but, let's say on a day when I've got the runs and have had to leave the plug out for several hours (this happens very infrequently due to my diet and supplementation) when I insert it again, I have to take it slow and easy, just like the first time.

This means that I have not damaged my sphincter; this also means that my rectum is not permanently opened. One guy, writing about this subject has said that his plug has caused his rectum to be bigger. Again, I'd say two things: one, it is temporary; two, he's using a lot bigger plug than he really needs to use.

The bad news is that it is possible to permanently damage your ass hole, sphincter, and perhaps even the prostate. But if you apply sanity to your plugging and don't violently force a huge plug, fist, or other object into your rectum, the resilience of the marvelous body will return to normal with discontinued use.

I think I could easily go from my two-inch diameter plug to say three inches. I could also widen the shaft, and lengthen the overall plug to amp up the sensations. Butt...I'm not going to, unless NJOY or Icicles come out with the same design of plug (angled head, comfortable ring base) in a bigger size.

There is a pastor (whom I call "Pastor Poop Chute") who likes to go on the religious talk shows and claim that gay men eventually become incontinent and have to wear diapers. Yes, there may be some men (gay or straight) who get so reckless with their rectums that they do permanent damage. None of us need to be that man, and we can engage in delicious anal play from now until we grow old and never damage the rectum, sphincter, or prostate.

Other than possible damage (through reckless and violent plugging) to the butt hole that I've just talked about, I can think of no other issue regarding long-term plugging. I'm not an expert, by any means, but my own experience tells me that plugging, rather than being dangerous, is healthy, precisely because the body is best treated when exercised, from the muscles to frequent milking of the prostate, to keeping the sphincter active. A sedentary lifestyle will cause much more temporary damage (in the way of hemorrhoid) than using a butt plug to keep the sphincter exercised.

Okay, here’s one for heterosexual men and their GFs. Nice!

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Why Men Should Plug Their Butts

Prostate Massage and Cure for Hemorrhoids

These are two reasons why men should plug their butts, at least a few hours a day or a few times a week: prostate massage and prevention of hemorrhoids. One of the most important reasons for men to use a butt plug is to regularly massage and work the prostate on a deeper level than the effect of normal ejaculation. While frequent masturbation or sex culminating in an ejaculation is good for the prostate, there's nothing like a prostate milking to tone up and improve prostate function. Guys, the only way to get to the prostate for a thorough milking is to go in through the anus.

I just couldn't help throwing this
one in here. Let's pretend that he's
that "fluffed" because he's wearing
a butt plug!

Many straight men, fortunately, have discovered the joy of anal stimulation and have hopefully gotten over the idea that if you play with your rectum you're gay. The surprising statistic is that less than half of gay men engage in anal intercourse, so it's not a "gay" thing. I'm not disparaging gay men, since I am a gay man, but I want my straight brothers to use all those delicious nerve endings in the anal opening and get to the prostate from the inside. It's a healthy thing to do, as well as opening up another avenue for sexual enjoyment.

Those who have read this blog know that I personally stay plugged 24/7/365, but that's just my thing. But I can readily attest to the fact that plugging is a healthy and beneficial activity. It DOES cure hemorrhoids or prevents them from occurring in the first place. Of course my experience is with glass and metal plugs, and I cannot attest to whether the porous and somewhat less comfortable rubber plugs will do as good a job on the prevention of hemorrhoids. Before I started plugging regularly, I had hemorrhoids that tortured me most days with unrelenting itching, bleeding, and discomfort. I had tried Tucks medicated pads and that oily Preparation H just to give me some relief. Even wiping after a bowel movement was torture. I had begun to refer to my anus as my "rusty" butt, and though I would have to suffer from 'roids the rest of my life. It wasn't until December of 2012 that I began my tentative journey into living plugged. I started out with a silicone plug that felt good for a couple of hours and then I had to remove it. It was the classic conical shape and stayed put well, but it was just too intrusive and I don't know if it would have cured my "rusty" butt had I been able to keep it in. But I couldn't.

Everything feels better when you're wearing a plug.

My next plug was the NJOY medium and while it was comfortable for a lot longer than the silicone plug, eventually the rather sharp-edged oval base irritate the very tender skin around my anus. By the time April of 2013 came around I had discovered the NJOY-shaped glass plugs, with the exception being the donut or ring base. From the moment I worked the plug into my butt and kept it in, I discovered it was 100 percent comfortable no matter how long I kept it in.

I don't need to chronicle the last two years and 5.5 months that I've lived plugged in this post. But I can say that even with the angled head turned away from my prostate (for long-term wear), I get ample prostate milking throughout the day and night that my prostate is never swollen, and I haven't had not a single hemorrhoid on my anus in the last two years and six months.

This is why I urge all men to plug regularly. You don't have to be someone's slave to initiate the plugging. You don't have to try to live plugged, as I do, nor do you have to be ashamed of the wonderful pleasure and stimulation that plugging can offer. Just do it. You have everything to gain with this activity and nothing to lose. If your male or female partner is averse to anal play, make it a solo activity.

Plugged and ready to go out in public:

Levissklave in Sklavenlevis2 powered by XTube

Solo Sexual Eroticism

Of course, wearing a butt plug

I imagine that almost everyone who reads and enjoys this blog from time to time engages in solo sexual eroticism. Yes, it's the same thing as masturbating in private, but for me the goal is not to climax and end the session by cumming. It's akin to edging, as well, and keeping the sexual waves going as long as you can.

Now, this is exactly what my Icicles #14 butt plug looks
like in my ass, although I really don't know what the
plug in this picture is made of. But note how the ring
base fits between the butt cheeks like a coin in a slot.
It's very comfortable, even sitting.

That's what I'm doing this morning. I had a great night staying erect by a hands free use of my butt plug, just clinching and stretching and otherwise staying too busy to sleep, although I did some of that, too. Last night my plug just felt more "there" than normal, pulled in tightly to my anal opening (plugging dry helped), and it all just carried on into this morning. Following a really hefty evacuation (been slightly constipated for about a day),  I had a fantastic enema that totally cleaned me out from the rectum to my eyeballs, and then I dried my butt and inserted the Icicles #14 glass plug totally dry; once it got started (past the dry skin around the anal opening), it popped in deep and snug.

And then I stayed naked. Did some work in the courtyard, stayed eroticized and tingly. And now, still naked, I'm sitting in my office chair with my butt cheeks spread so that when I sat down, the ring base of my plug forced the plug a little deeper into my rectum, as well as causing the anal opening to be stretched—and stay stretched because I'm sitting on my spread butt cheeks. I hope you get the visual image. The physical sensations are, of course, of being hard plugged, dry plugged, and the sphincter is of course open an inch because of the size of the shaft.

All nerve endings are fully activated. Nope, not going to masturbate. This is just one of those really good-feeling days of living plugged. Whoops! Hold on a second while I get a fingertip of precum and lick it. Mmmmm...next time!

Note how, in the picture to the left, the shaft is an important part of the plugging experience, since the sphincter is not allowed to close completely. This is part of living plugged that is great.

This is long movie, from inserting the butt plug at home and then video of him driving around. He does his best to show that he’s wearing the plug while driving.

Huge Buttplug While Driving powered by XTube

Why I Live Plugged

Is it a thrill, a fetish, or something else?

Quite obviously I haven't always lived with a plug in my ass. First there came a day when I was in a sex shop and wondered about them (about eighteen years ago). Prior to that, I had been playing with my ass using dildos and the closest thing I could get that looked like a real cock. I had been fucked for many years by my male partner and enjoyed the feeling, so it was not a big step to get a dildo. True confessions will reveal that I was no longer with my partner, and my new partner was not into anal, so I was looking for a substitute for the anal fun.

He probably doesn't have a problem
keeping his butt plug in!

The trouble with a dildo was it wouldn't stay in, unless I went to all sorts of lengths to keep it in. So, in a way, that long ago, I had a desire to keep a cock in my ass, but it wasn't quite to the level of a fetish. Nor was I displeased with just sucking my partner's nice cock, and he mine. We enjoyed 69 sex and it was fulfilling...to a point. Which is why, when I bought my first butt plug I wanted that anal thrill.

I bought the classic, which back then was really about all there was. I guess that's why they call it a classic. It was made of rubber, was about 1.5 inches in diameter at the widest point, and it stayed in very well. The humorous suggestion on the box it came in was "go play tennis." It really was that good for staying put. The problem was the base. After a few hours it dug into the skin around my anus and became irritating. I did drive about 800 miles with it in, and that night when I got to my hotel, I slept with it in, and that was the beginning of a desire to go all day and all night with a plug in my ass. If it just weren't for the base.

I know a man who can wear a tunnel plug
without worrying about...you know...
anything escaping while out in public.

After I wore that first plug out, I just never replaced it and went several years without anal play. I got older, my nice hole got hemorrhoids because of my sedentary lifestyle. And then in December 2012, I returned to that same sex shop and bought a new butt plug. The material was greatly advanced from my first plug, and despite my 'roids I enjoyed the feeling of being plugged again. But I experimented with different plugs, eventually finding the NJOY metal plug, laughably small (I think it was the medium) and yet, the base irritated my anal opening skin. Going 24 hours became agony. So for the next several months, all the way through March 2013, I wore a plug as much as I could, but I went hours without, days without, nights without, so I wasn't really "living plugged"—not until I got my first glass plug with the circular (donut-shape) base that fit between my butt cheeks like a coin in a slot. FINALLY I had found a totally 100 percent comfortable plug, and by April 2013 I was finally living with a plug in my ass 24/7 and have been doing so ever since.

Impossibly big gape!

In a way, it's for the thrill, the feeling, the secret pleasure out in public, the feel of being fucked all day and all night, but now two years and  five months in, while the feelings are still there, I can go hours without even thinking about the plug. So more than just the thrill, the feel, the secret pleasure, it's become a fetish...something I don't want to stop doing, something that maybe I NEED to do. Is that what a fetish is? Something that keeps one enthrall? And, I don't think a fetish is harmful, physically or mentally if it doesn't rule my life. I continue to do all things I have always done, including work and socializing. So even if this is a fetish it is not crippling my life.  I truly love my butt plug. I mourn when I have to remove it even for two minutes while I evacuate, clean up and reinsert it. Some mornings when I get up I go as long as I can without answering the call of nature, so to speak. Even writing about this, right now, I'm hard and thrilled and happy to be sitting on my plug. I can feel it stretching my sphincter open, feel my dick half hard, feel the gentle buildup of precum leaking into my shorts. And as I have said in past posts, I don't know how many years I will be living plugged. There will be considerations down the road that might prevent me from doing so. One that seems far off, but inevitable is living in a nursing home, where others will have more access to my body than anyone does at the moment. I might be hospitalized and have to go under anesthesia. I don't think I would want anyone discovering my plug at that point. But for the present, I live plugged because I enjoy it. It is a fetish for which I don't apologize and find nothing wrong with it.

If you're reading this and sometimes think that using sex toys is "wrong" I urge you to give up that idea—as long as you're not inflicting danger on your health, as long as you're doing it because you have control over it.

This guy’s mancunt is really bizarre and for some of you really cool! I'd say this qualifies as a fetish.

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The Right Butt Plug for Long Term Wear

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Still Plugged

Nothing New to Share

To those who access this blog frequently, I haven't posted a blog entry in awhile. The truth is I don't have much new to add about my experiences. But I am still plugged and I'm counting down the months as I approach three years plugged, still seven months away.

Unfortunately, this isn't me. I don't have nearly that
many plugs!

I haven't changed plugs for a long while, since I still love my glass plug. I did plug myself with an NJOY medium one afternoon and found that it was too small, now.

I haven't felt like buying the NJOY 2.0, which is supposed to weigh at least a pound. I'm still doubtful that the oval shaped (and rather sharp edged) base will be as comfortable as my glass plug.

For two nights in a row I brought myself to rock hardness just by clinching my ass muscles, and once the twinge starts to transfer from the ass to the cock, it's only a matter of continuing the clinches to bring my uncut penis to full hardness. And then I stretch back the foreskin, turn over onto my stomach and keep the stretch going. I don't even have to pump my cock to finally cum. Just the intense feeling of my foreskin stretched to excess is enough to let the cum flow.

I wish this were a vid!

The other day I accidentally inserted the plug with the angled head toward the prostate. I usually wear it backwards for the long-term comfort with the head away from the prostate. And so for several hours, I couldn't get over the feeling that my anus was somehow swollen and I wondered at the slight discomfort. When, after a few hours, I finally pulled the plug out, I realized it was in wrong for me. Constant prostate massage soon becomes uncomfortable, for those of you who might be trying to stay plugged all day and all night, as I do.

There's still nothing better to me that living plugged. Of course some days are extremely good and I'm tingled all over the nether regions and getting frequent erections, and sleeping at night is wonderful. I have long since been able to fall asleep easily, even though I'm stimulated.

Hands-free cum while riding a bicycle…

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Keeping my Butt Hole Plugged

A New Dimension in Plugging

I'm not quite this ambitious, but it
obviously gives this guy great
pleasure, just as it does me to
see this.

Over the past two years and almost four months that I've been living plugged, I have gone through several phases in what pleases me most about keeping my butt hole plugged. At first, and for quite a long time, it was the cascade of sensations beginning with my sphincter, moving into the rectum, prostate stimulation, and just an overall feeling of being fucked all day. And for another while, when I kept my plug lubed (glass) it was the odd zing I got quite often each time I stood up or sat down, and the movement of the plug shaft in the opening of the sphincter was absolutely delicious. It was the kind of almost unbearable pleasure of feeling the shaft of the plug move, thus tickling the hell out of my sphincter, and of course feeling the bulb of the plug get pushed deeper inside.

And then, when I started dry plugging, I had to get used to (loved having to get used to) the feelings that came from having the plug inside real tight, pulling the ring base up to the opening of my sphincter and sometimes even causing butt weariness (this too a pleasure). But the latest phase I am going through, still dry plugging, is the absolute feeling that my butt hole is plugged solid.

Just a good prostate massage

Of course it's not quite like having no butt hole, because there is strong feeling associated with having the plug simply inside, and the sphincter so clamped down on the shaft of the plug (which keeps it open about an inch in diameter) that it's like a black hole, it's difficult to even let a fart escape my hole. And yet when I clinch my sphincter muscles, the hard, ungiving glass lets me know it's there doing its job.

Today, as I write this, I've been through about a week of really great plugging, where the plug is just sucked up hard against my anus, and is only prevented from slipping inside by the two-inch diameter ring, the upper arch of which strains my anal opening in a pleasurable way as I sit and write this.

And really, this guy's athleticism and getting into a nice spread legged position to really enjoy fucking himself with a dildo is enjoyable to watch:

One can only assume that when he's finished playing with his various plugs, he'll leave one in and go about his business. I know I would!