A Milestone on My Journey of Living Plugged

Week One: Plugged 24/7

As I said, I am on a journey to stay plugged all the time, day and night, at home and in public, with as little time out as possible for cleaning my butt plug, taking bathroom breaks, and showering each day. And so it is fitting that I write about my first-week milestone of staying plugged virtually 100 percent of the time. That's a solid 168 hours, from last Saturday at 2 p.m until today, Saturday at 2 p.m. In fact I'm already into my second week by 1 hour...and counting down for week 2.

The plug I used to help me achieve this milestone was the Devi Glass Butt Plug. It's not meant to be an anal stretcher, but it sure is meant to be comfortable, and I can say that right now it's plugged in my ass and feels as comfortable as it did when I started this week-long journey. I'll talk more about the physical aspects of staying plugged in a moment. But here, I'd like to provide the overall description of the Devi plug. It's made entirely of borosilicate glass, non-porous and easily cleaned with soap and water. It can take either water-based or silicone-based lube. It measures 5.75 inches in length, 3.25 inches insertable length, and the bulb is 1.96 inches in diameter. It has a 2-inch diameter ringed handle, which fits like a coin in a slot between the butt cheeks, and so it NEVER irritates, as do the bases of plugs that sit perpendicular to the butt cheeks.

If you note how the head is angled, you can see that if it is inserted with the head toward the prostate, it would be used for a regular masturbation session, allowing men to achieve an intense orgasm. It could also be used wearing it the same direction for fucking a partner. But that position is not good for long-term wear, because a man could not stand post-ejaculation stimulation.

Here is an example of the kind of intensity you can get wearing a plug for a prostate massage:



I wear it with the angled head away from the prostate. To be sure there is still some prostate stimulation that causes me to have some precum in the morning when i wake up and when I'm allowing myself to grow hard by clinching my ass muscles for that delicious cascade of feelings. But during the week, I have to remove my focus on the sexual stimulation so that I can work, drive, and talk to people.  (Of course, sometimes during each of these activities, I can also get a thrill out of know the Devi is there.)

The physical aspects of staying plugged, as you might imagine are having to periodically remove the plug, have a bowel movement, and take a little more time for a quick rectal enema. During this time, when the plug is out and waiting to be cleaned, I will massage my anus with lubed fingers and feel how the plug has left my internal skin feeling so good, especially where the sphincter is located and which has to stretch open both when I gently push the plug in or when I remove it. That is the area, as well that causes intense feeling, almost to the point of pain. But I can say that the "pain barrier" is now the pleasure center, as well, as it attempts to close around the shaft of the plug. When I clinch my muscles, it is this area that is stimulated.

So, during this last week, starting last Saturday, I went to a party of over a hundred people, plugged and secretly enjoying the feeling of the plug as I talked to everyone; had guests over for dinner the following evening; and going out and running errands during the week. I also went to my doctor while plugged for a quick check up—which did not include a prostate exam. Otherwise I would have had to remove the plug, and I wasn't willing to do that. I also went to the grocery store and out to eat several meals. At home I worked in front of my computer, and of course I slept plugged every night. In fact sleeping plugged is now a constant with me, and I have been doing that now for about six months with virtually no night when I wasn't plugged.

There is a product called the MEO 24/7 anal stretcher, which some guys might be interested in. It is meant to be worn permanently as well and I understand that it is comfortable. However, it is also meant to permanently stretch the anus, and the guys who do this step up to larger and larger sizes over the course of time. I will leave you with what has to be a very sexy, graphic, and surprising video of what can be done with the MEO anal stretcher. It is hollow:

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Day Four Plugged

Actually Plugged All the Time

So, in about six hours, I will have been plugged continuously for four days and counting...

I don't intend to do a daily update and only talk about reaching each goal. But staying continuously plugged, living plugged, is my goal, and so from time to time I will mention how many days, weeks, months I have been plugged without interruption.

To me staying plugged as a way of life can have some interesting and naughty fun aspects that being unplugged doesn't have. Last Saturday after I had plugged my butt (start of this four-day session), I took a real big chance and went to a party...an outdoor barbecue. There were over a hundred people there and only one bathroom, which I was sure would be occupied most of the time, and if I had a problem, I would be hard put to rectify (no pun intended) the problem. So, I milled through the throng, fully aware most of the time that I was simultaneously talking with someone and feeling my plug. I hugged nieces and nephews, old lady inlaws, and sat on the hard benches and ate barbecue, careful to watch how much I ate, of course. Sometimes I forgot the plug was there, until I moved, and then I was washed over with a cascade of feelings: clinch sphincter, feel the plug being pulled hard against my anus, cock twitching, maybe a slight drip of precum, which in turn probably made my face go all gooney.

I did only stay for an hour, but when I got home, it was TV time with my partner, and then to bed (and slept through the night plugged). On Sunday morning, we had a few of the relatives over for breakfast before they got back on the road, and so I was in the kitchen helping set out food, making coffee, greeting our guests when they arrived, again, hugging someone who had no idea that I was plugged. "I'm wearing a buttplug. How are you today?" (Woops! Did I say that out loud?) I sat down on a rather hard patio chair with a thin cushion, carrying on a conversation, and trying to stay focused on speaking the words, rather than clinching my ass. I do have to say that a hard surface with minimal padding really sends a thrill through my ass, and while talking, I had to avoid setting up a self-fucking rocking motion it felt so good.


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The rest of Sunday was uneventful, other than working on a book that was due back at the publishers, following my editing. And Monday was the same. So I mainly sat in my padded chair at the computer. Here, I have to interrupt to say that I've had to work out a few details that comes with being a living being. I have to accommodate the waste cycle, which for me is not as regular as I would like. And staying plugged means that I also have to do a couple of cleanses during the day. I don't think excessive enemas are healthy on the digestive system, so I rarely do a deep enema that gets water up in the large intestine, and so I use a bulb with a five-inch finger on it to clean only the rectum. That's not where food is digested, and so I don't destroy the healthy, necessary biotic thingies (sorry, I'm too lazy to look it up.

Monday came and went and again, I was at my computer working. And then on Tuesday night, when I had reached 72 hours plugged, I went to a birthday dinner. I was in a real quandary about that, because we went to a seafood restaurant and I've sometimes experience IBS symptoms following a salad or too much cheese, so I ordered rice pilaf and clam chowder. The seats were wooden with no padding, and while I felt no discomfort from my glass plug, my little butt got numb on the bare wood, and so I had to get up quite often to walk around.

And so now it's Wednesday at 9 a.m., which means I have been plugged for...91 hours and counting until 2 p.m., which will complete four days.

Let's end this post with another vid for our straight boys out there who just might consider another benefit of anal play. Yes, honey, I had a tough workout at the gym!"

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A Good Start on Living Plugged

Six Months on the Road of Living Plugged

I don't know what drew me back to butt plugs after several years, but one day when I was at the local adult bookstore, shopping for lube, I wandered back to the wall of dildos and butt plugs and ended up buying my first plug in several years. During my absence, the quality and materials in butt plugs had increased tremendously.

I bought a ribbed silicone plug, cone shaped like the traditional plug, and after a few days and a few tries, I finally got it in and immediately ran some errands, kind of like working on a trapeze without a net, because I was out and about, in public and didn't know if I was going to start hurting or need to use the bathroom...and then what would I do? It was kind of foolish to do this my first time out. But I was also ecstatic about being plugged and enjoyed it for awhile.

Yep, I paid for it a little, because it wasn't long before I felt tremendous discomfort and was relieved to get back home and get the plug out. I hadn't been nice to my anus, my skin was too unused to being plugged and I had done it for almost two hours. I should have stayed around the house and used it for about 30 minutes that first time.

Then I got a stainless steel NJOY pure plug, medium, which meant that it was about 1.25 inches in diameter, and I went to town on that one. Except for the base oval flange bothering me after, say, all day, it was extremely comfortable.

Let's pause here for a little video of what some guys are up to:

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Still, I wasn't quite "there" with my quest for a butt plug that I could wear every day and every night. I didn't know that I was going to be one of those guys or gals that was so in love with being plugged that I just didn't want to remove it for any length of time!

And so, dissatisfied with the irritation I got from the steel plug (although it was almoooost comfortable long term, I turned to glass plugs with rings instead of a base, and in the last few weeks (from the last of of April and now through most of May, I have been wearing the Devi Glass Plug. Up until three days ago, I had been plugged more often than not, but then on Saturday afternoon, I plugged in and have been continually plugged through writing this entry—three, 24-hour days, plus 10 hours, going for four days, going for a week...living plugged. I've been on this road for six months, and the only thing that has changed is that I've come back to plugging.

Here's another review from our straight man who loves plugging:

Guys, taking the first step into plugging and exploring the other half of your sexuality (besides whacking your meat) will open up a whole new cascade of mind-blowing orgasms.

Evolving Toward a Plugged Lifestyle

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How a Farm Boy Evolved into Living Plugged

Living Plugged

When I was five years old my family moved out into the country so that Dad could take over the farm he owned. When I was born, he was working as a carpenter in town and was leasing out his land. But I guess he got tired of working for wages and wanted to get back to the land. So I grew up as a farm boy.  I didn't mind the new life, and I recall even as young as I was how big our new world seemed, with cotton fields, alfalfa, and grain stretching off into the distance. We also had chickens, cows, pigs, a dog, and several cats. And one of the first eye-opening adventures I had was to see all these animals mating, and early on I saw what a bull's penis looked like, hard and pink and long like a spear as it entered the cows butt (or at least that's where I thought the bull put it). I was only impressed with the length of the bull's penis, but far more impressive was a neighboring farm's horses. Now those things, when hard and long are beautiful specimens of cock. And even though I never saw a horse mate with a mare, I imagined him mounting her the same way the bull mounted the cow, from the back.

Of course, all those fantasies you might have about farm boys and sex are true—at least they were for me and the neighboring farm boys. We took an early and intense interest in sex, our cocks, and wondering what it felt like to fuck. We knew that meant sticking our cocks into something's butt (we didn't know the difference between a vagina and a butt hole back then), but it didn't stop us from trying. One of my friends said he'd tried to fuck his cow, but that her hole was so big, it didn't feel like much; and when the extension service came by to artificially inseminate the cow, he said the guy got his whole arm up to the shoulder into the cow's rear end—our first knowledge of fisting, I suppose.

And so we tentatively experimented on each other. I remember the first time I tried to get a boy's penis in my butt, it was more or less a disaster, but there was enough of a connection that I could tell it would feel wonderful to get it all the way in. We're talking about total freedom to delve headlong into learning how our bodies—but especially our cocks and butts—worked. Whenever another boy and I spent time at either his farm or mine, we'd go out into the desert or into the fields walking or riding our bikes, and I  usually liked to keep my dick out and play with it as we walked. So did other farm boys, and when we got into high school and had keg parties out in the desert near our farms, there was always at least one of us who got his cock out and played with it around the camp fire. There was a lot of talk about fucking girls, but nothing much about fucking each other, except when a couple of guys would secretely experiment on each other. "They say the inside of your mouth feels just like a pussy."

"Yeah?"
"Yeah. Wanna try it?"
And once or twice, I sucked on a guy's dick, which at the time seemed awfully big in my mouth, and I would stop way sooner than he would've wanted me to.

But then there was solo sex, once I learned to jack off, and I wouldn't confine myself to the bathroom at home, where the entire family shared one bathroom. It was neater to get up in the middle of the night and sneak out of the house wearing only my briefs and as soon as I got away from the house, I'd hang them on the handlebars of the bike and ride naked around the cotton fields, and usually have a hand's free cum I was so excited. And it looks like I'm not alone. Here's one of my favorite vids for sheer audacity.



And so, as I grew up, moved away from the farm, I always took care of both my cock and my butt, and years later, I discovered the joy of living plugged. Of course as I write this, I've got a two-inch diameter, six-inch long glass butt plug firmly planted in my ass.

Down to it

What it looks like

When you get down to it, a butt plug is a simple device, and really, the simpler the design (form follows function), the better the experience. Of course there are plugs with ridges, plugs with tails, plugs that are little busts of people, fists, etc., but the function of a butt plug is to...well...plug the butt. When a good butt plug is in place, there's nowhere for it to go—not in, not out—nothing to do but just keep the sphincter closed around the shaft and to hold the plug itself firmly into place. Plugs are not meant to be dildos and are not intended to be used in an in-out motion. You slide one in, it pops into place, and you're good to go. Literally, with a good plug with a notable difference between the head and the shaft, you could go jogging, play tennis, go hiking, take a stroll, attend a fancy dinner party—or, as one guy put it on Twitter, give presentations on stage.

As we see from this first shot of a plugged male ass, once you put on clothing, it would be more evident that he has an erection than it is that he's wearing a butt plug. As we can also see, the plug fits snugly against the anal opening, and the base is large enough to prevent the plug from disappearing inside.

As one might also imagine, once a butt plug is firmly in place, all sorts of sensations occur simultaneously, from the slight pressure on the prostate and the precum it produces, the feel of the sphincter continually trying to close around the shaft of the plug, the slippery physical sensation as one moves on the whole apparatus, and finally some describe the delicious feeling of fullness. I like all of that, and by wearing a plug continuously throughout the day and night, I get a whole cascade of feelings from even the simplest of movements. Finally, just that threshold of getting past the sphincter before the plug pops into place is a thrill...

Again, for the straight guys who might be wondering what anal play and plugging feels like, I suggest starting right after the morning BM and shower. Get a little lube, not a whole hand full of Crisco, and just run your finger around the anal opening. And for heaven's sake, don't just ram your finger in like the insensitive sports doctor might to check your prostate. Be loving and gentle at first, and once you see how nice it feels in the privacy of your own home, with no one around—by yourself—allow yourself to enjoy these first tentative feelings. Shop online here...

Living Plugged

The Genesis...

I got the idea for this blog from reading a blog titled Living the Butt Plug Lifestyle, which was updated until January 2012. It inspired me to get back into butt plugging. I had done it regularly in the mid and late 1990s, and then fell out of habit. Back then I wore a plug as much as I could, even drove cross country to a wedding wearing it, sleeping in it, and I enjoyed it. But also back then the materials and configuration of the butt plugs were inferior to what is available today. The base on those plugs eventually caused irritation and so wearing them long term wasn't really realistic, without a lot of dedicated pain, which for me took away from the pleasure.

So a few years elapsed and I started looking at today's butt plugs online and I was amazed. I especially like the stainless steel and glass plugs because they are by far the most hygienic and allow the use of silicone-based lubes that don't dry out and don't require re-lubing every couple of hours. As I write this, I have been plugged for more than twenty-four hours. In fact, I'm going for 48 hours. The plug I am wearing right now is called the Neptune Blue Plug (click HERE and be taken directly to the toy store where I bought it. Look for the picture of the blue plug and click). It is six inches long, with an insertable length of four inches. The business end of the plug is egg-shaped with the widest part being 1.5 inches in diameter (easy for intermediate pluggers). Notice that the base is a ring and that the plug is angled. If it is worn forward, pressing on the prostate, it is better for short term use and good prostate stimulation. If the angle part is worn toward the back (as I am wearing it now) it is good for almost endless long-term wear. Of course, in a 24-hour period my body goes through at least two waste elimination cycles, which makes it necessary to remove for BMs and clean-up, which I accomplish with an enema. I also remove it to shower, so that I can get my anus clean. During a shower, I also like to massage the area around the anus.

Many guys use butt plugs with wide necks, so that their sphincters are stretched and they can achieve "gaping." I understand this goal. It helps prepare them for cocks or strap-ons (in the case of straight men) or dildos, the bigger the better. But I wear a butt plug as an end in itself—for the sheer delight and continual edging it allows me. I can clinch my ass muscles and work up a hands-free erection anywhere, any time. Whenever I move, or get up from a sitting position, or walk, or turn over in bed, my plug lets me know it is there. That's my goal, getting that continual stimulation and the cascade of thrills to my butt.