My Butt Plug is My Pacifier

Addicted to My Pacifier

On a post on a forum somewhere a guy said that his butt plug was like a pacifier, and I agree. It sounds almost infantile to admit it. I see babies who keep their pacifiers in their mouths all the time, and every once in awhile they suck on them, but they're usually content for the pacifier to just be there. To me, that's how having my butt plug in almost constantly 24/7 is to me. Sometimes I clinch and wiggle and work my kegals, just for the added feelings that delight my ass. But there are other times that I'm just content to have the plug inside just sitting there.

It keeps me in a sensuous haze throughout the day. I mourn having to remove it and leave it out until my body cleanses, on days when I'm irregular. And when I finally get to put my plug back in, I feel content. So my plug is my pacifier. I think I'm in a better mood when I'm plugged, and sometimes I just sit back and sigh with pleasure. To me that's what living plugged is all about. It's not just a temporary masturbation tool. It's a lifestyle choice.

I've also been hesitant to invest in new plugs, now that I've found one that is so comfortable. A two-inch diameter plug is not considered a beginner size, and when I first got my Devi Glass Plug, I thought it was a monster. Well I certainly can't go back to a smaller size. The shaft on this one is almost 3/4 inches in diameter. I also don't think a plug made out of a different material, except maybe for steel, would work for me anymore. I bought a Mood Naughty a few months ago and wore it for a short time only once. I was appalled at the odor, and I suspect that is a problem with most silicone and similarly based materials. With my glass plug, there simply is no odor, and cleaning it is a simple matter of using soap and water. I also like to sometimes set my plug in ice water before re-inserting it. It feels cold and slick as it goes in, quickly warming to my body temperature. But for that first few moments, the cold lends a sensual kick to plugging.

I will eventually try the NJOY 2.0, but it would mainly be for the weight. I'm still not too thrilled about the oval base with sharp edges. Time and again, other guys have said that it remains comfortable to them when they're plugged long term. Unfortunately that is not the case for me. Still...a pound of metal in my butt would certainly feel different and more definite. And if a glass plug that's at least 2.5 inches in diameter came along, with a 1.5 inch shaft, I would give it a try; but really, I want it to have the shape and base of the Devi.

Nice butt plug...

Male Bonding through Anal Play, Part II

Male Bonding, Part II

This is a short blog post. This is an update of my male bonding through anal play entry. Readers haven't disagreed with the idea that gay and straight men who are into anal play could bond with each other. That is not to say that the straight men would have to "go gay" to bond with a gay partner. But they can sure help each other out, as they do in this video.

My theory? It's probably not worth much, but the unseen man is helping the straight guy with a butt plug, and it looks to me like they're both enjoying the experience. Perhaps it takes a straight guy who is confident of his own sexuality to do this, but hey...makes me hard watching it. And I'll just bet a lot of straight men will enjoy this vid, as well. I also like to note that the plug is left alone and is not used like a dildo. There's an important distinction to be made in their use.


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Plugs versus Dildos

Why Butt Plugs When There Are Dildos?

I think most men and women, when they think of anal play, think in terms of a session of lovemaking, or a session of hot, raw sex that culminates in an orgasm for each person. And if a single session is the goal, then of course I would recommend using a dildo and achieving that fucking action. Women can strap on dildos and fuck their male partner's anus until he cums. In many cases the bigger the dildo the better...right.

But aside from sex play that culminates in orgasm for each partner, there's a whole universe of people who are into extended sex play. In the case of doms and subs, the sex play could be continuous, the sub having to wear chastity and plug even when they go out into public, their day jobs, or out for the evening. In this case, a dildo might not be the best option. In fact I would think that it would become extremely uncomfortable extremely fast (but maybe I'm wrong).  Along with doms and subs, who extend their sex play for hours or days, there are those of use, both men and women, who like to be plugged as much as possible—period—and the goal is not to reach the end of the sex play with an orgasm but to keep extending the length of time that one is plugged. There are all sorts of accouterments that accompany this plugging for some people, but I'm a vanilla plugger and what I like is simply the butt plug, having a plugged butt and edging day and night while I go about my daily/nightly routines. In fact, in the several months that I have been plugging with the goal of staying continuously plugged, I sometimes forget that I have the plug inside as I'm walking along, and I stop and clinch and feel the sphincter closing around the shaft of my plug, and I feel content.

In the past, when I was younger and new to anal play, my goal was to go as big as I could with a dildo and fuck the shit out of myself, always culminating in a wild orgasm that shot to the bathroom ceiling and clung to the lightbulb, where my cum cooked and sizzled (just kidding about that last part). But as I grow older and have plenty of lovemaking and cum with my partner, plugging has become a kind of solo thrill that I do for myself. It's not exactly therapy; it's not exactly a kind of security blanket; it's more like a way to infuse my entire day with the haze of sensuality. I can still function at my job, still be creative, still carry on conversations with people, still help with the dishes at a party, but the point is I do it plugged—everywhere and every when.

That's why I've chosen a moderate sized plug. It never becomes uncomfortable, unless I'm having a gastrointestinal attack of the bean burrito variety, and so I also use a moderate size butt plug that I can carry in my pocket in case I have to remove it in a public rest room. I've had those moments, and I'm not into extreme humiliation, so I choose my plug carefully.

As I always indicate, the pictures and videos for this blog come from the internet. In a sense, however, the vids I include always show the man going for the short term session, rather than the long-term use of a plug. But come to think of it, a video of me wearing a butt plug while I do other things would be kind of boring. I would love to have vids of clothed people in public places wearing plugs...but how would that show my viewers anything? That doesn't stop me from looking at people's butts in the mall, however. I'm always hoping to see that telltale sign of the plug outline.

This is vid of a guy using an Aneros Progasm:

Living Plugged, the Best Days

Some Days Wearing a Butt Plug is Soooo Delicious

By now, readers know that I virtually have my ass plugged as close to 24 hours a day as I can. And the last two days have been no different, except that, as soon as I removed my plug and had my morning BM, I cleaned up and replugged within ten minutes. It was the same for my afternoon "check" to see how things were working in my ass and the same for after my shower. Some readers will know what I'm talking about when I say that each time I removed my plug, it came away clean enough to eat off of. That's been the case for the last 48 hours. I have to attribute it to my diet. And the best thing is, for some reason, kegals during the day and at night have been especially luscious.

I've been spending more time on hard-surfaced patio furniture. I have some out front of my house and can sit and fuck myself by rocking back and forth as people pass by on the sidewalk. I can visit with them, as well, the whole time fucking myself by clinching, and as I said, it's been delicious. Some readers will know what I mean about the secret thrill of wearing a plug and feeling it inside as they go out in public. Last night we went out grocery shopping at one of the Walmarts, where I walked all over the store, and I decided that since things felt so good on my south end that I would squeeze and release as I walked through the store. I know...I must have appeared to "walk funny" or to priss, kind of like Johnny Depp in Pirates of the Caribbean. Just couldn't help it. It felt too damned good.

I really like the way this guy's genitals hang down in this picture.

It made me want to get down on my hands and knees in the fuck-me-from-behind position, and I actually did get down on the floor in that position to look for a few hard-to-see items.

All pictures and vids come from the Internet, except for those that I get direct permission from my readers to use. I'll tell you what is really difficult to find, and that's pictures of guys wearing butt plugs in public, and finding subtle ways for the plug to show, or at least the outline to show. If there are readers who would like to supply such picts or even vids, I would really like to feature them on this blog. This blog is dedicated to getting all men to get in touch with their anal sexuality—gay or straight. It accounts for at least half of the sexual experience and done right, wearing a butt plug as much as possible, you can add a sensuous aura to almost everything you do! Try it.

Let's just say that this guy is into some heavy-duty solo sex:
Latex/Rubber good cum shot.

I'm a Vanilla Plugger

Plugging to be Plugged vs. Plugging to Gape

When I returned to butt plugging in December of 2012, I didn't know where this rediscovered solo-sexual adventure would lead. First, I went through a series of plugs and, for awhile, I settled on the NJOY pure plug medium. Now, it looks like a little guy, and I've moved on to my Prisms Devi glass plug. As I've said in other posts they are both shaped about the same, but there are two differences, besides one being steel and the other glass. The NJOY shaft tapers down to no more that a quarter inch, whereas the Devi's shaft is about 3/4 inch. That does make a bit of a difference; but it doesn't really cause me to "gape" after I remove it. The NJOY has an oval shaped base, the edges of which are a bit sharp and, for me, after about 12 hours begins to irritate my anal opening. The Devi, on the other hand has a circular base and the donut shape is curved all the way around, so it NEVER becomes irritating.

So, I can wear the Devi plug almost constantly without ever feeling the least bit uncomfortable. This led to my quest to live plugged, day and night, and oddly enough, it led me to share this experience with readers of this blog. So, I have been "living plugged" now for seven months and things continue...

I've also come to realize over this time that I'm a vanilla plugger. I'm not into gaping or as some of the pluggers do, questing for a prolapsed rectum, where they can produce a "rose bud." Like vanilla ice cream, however, I do like to occasionally add some toppings and other "spices." Sometimes when my anus is in the pink and I'm very regular (able to keep a clean rectum for many hours), I do like to remove the plug and work my fingers into the rectum, pushing them as deep as I can, and otherwise enjoy the smooth flesh of my anus. I sometimes also think about going a bit bigger than the two-inch diameter Devi. I've been checking into custom plug makers but have yet to sketch a custom design. I think I would be satisfied with a 2.5 inch diameter plug, with a 1.25 inch shaft. That would cause my sphincter to open up another half inch. I've also thought about the weight of the NJOY 2.0, which is over a pound of steel, and I'm told that the weight alone is worth the effort. I can certainly see how this extra spice (a bigger glass plug or a heavier steel plug) would add to my vanilla experience.

I've also come to realize over this past seven months that being constantly plugged 24 hours a day, except for cleaning and maintenance is just not possible. That doesn't mean that I go much longer than a few hours without a plug, unless I'm having a bad day, you know, with the runs or loose bowel. Can't go out plugged in public when having to use a public restroom and no telling what condition the plug will be in when I pull it out. I belong to enough forums to realize that most other pluggers have similar experiences—and I don't really like to talk about it, but it is an issue that I try to address with diet and rectal enemas.

What I find really neat is the fact that I'm not the only guy who likes to stay plugged as much as possible. Some of us really do just plug to be plugged. I can't explain the thrill, but other have said it's like a pacifier (and it is), like a part of their body (and it is) and going unplugged is like losing a limb (and it is).

I use vids and picts taken directly from the Internet. My intention is not to steal any copyrighted images.

Note the gaping and "used" nature of this guy's anus.


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Anal Orgasm for Men

Finger, Cock, Strap-on, Dildo, Butt Plug

I think you see where I'm going with this...

Most men can experience the intense mind-blowing power of an anally-induced orgasm. Women have long written about discovering that their men, even those who are initially opposed to anal play, can be brought around by using a finger in her BFs ass during sex. This is certainly not the same as a doctor doing a proctology exam. It wouldn't do for the doctor to gently ease his finger into his male patient's butt, although it would be better if he did. Our macho, non-submissive-male culture has done a good job of turning most men off anal pleasure. And so, part of the purpose of this blog is to rectify (pun intended) the idea that anal pleasure is something all men should enjoy, without guilt, shame, feeling submissive, or embarrassed.

To avoid the dynamics of complicating this with a partner (male or female), let's begin with a solo experience. I'm mainly speaking to straight men with virgin assholes, rather than gay men, although some gay men are also turned off by anal play.

Start with a finger...
Have a bowel movement, shower, and clean the anus as deeply as you dare with a wash cloth. I think most of us take the time to clean "down there" when we bathe or shower, so touching the back end is not entirely foreign to any man. Now, instead of getting dressed and going out and doing macho things, decide you're going to take time to masturbate before you get dressed. But instead of just laying back and pounding your pole, lay back, put a little lube on your finger, spread your legs (best to raise them to your chest), and allow your butt cheeks to naturally spread open. Begin to lightly apply the lube around your anal opening, and then begin to gently massage that area, focusing your feeling right there, just outside the anal vault. And then start pushing the tip of your finger into the opening. If all goes well (how can you be embarrassed if you're alone?), push the finger in farther and withdraw slowly, push the finger in farther and farther, in a slow steady in and out motion. Almost any man should feel how pleasurable this simple act of fingering himself actually is. Now, you're going on a safari to find that glorious prostate. It's toward the front of your body, not so far in that you can't reach it with your finger. Once your anus goes "zinnng!" you know you've hit the P-spot. Just keep massaging your prostate until you come. Let your body dictate how fast and hard you drive your finger into your ass.

Gay men will move on to a cock; straight men will move on to having the GF use a strap-on, a dildo, or a butt plug...

Stop!

Let's rewind to a time when you're alone and want to further explore anal play by yourself. By now, you've successfully reached an anal orgasm using your finger. But if you want to do some more serious anal play, you either have the choice of using a dildo (sorry straight guys, they usually look like cocks) or a butt plug. I would suggest that if you just want to have an anal orgasm, fucking yourself with a dildo is best. Your session will end when you've ejaculated. Mission accomplished!

If you choose a butt plug, you'll be wanting to extend your anal play into what is called "edging." You don't want to just bring yourself to an anal orgasm within a minute or two. You want to extend that anal pleasure for a few hours. To do this, try to get a butt plug that is simple in design. You don't want to get one that looks like a little fist, a celebrity's head, or has all sorts of bumps and curlycues all over it. The point is to get in into your butt without pain and to keep it in there for awhile. You'll want one that has a shaft that is much narrower than the plug part of the toy. Your sphincter will close around the shaft, and the plug will stay put. Too many plugs don't have enough differential between the bottom of the plug that goes past your sphincter and the shaft. You want one that you can walk around in and not have it slip out. I like to stay naked when I'm home alone, and when I'm into edging with the plug in my ass, I want it to stay put, so I can walk and squirm and dance—anything I can think of to keep the stimulation going, which you notice is centered right around the sphincter and which also stimulates the prostate. the plug to the left is the classic design. I once wore such a plug on a road trip (by myself) and, when I got to the B&B, I slept in it. I stayed horny because I was edging for 24 hours.

Of course our busy schedules preclude spending too much time alone engaging in anal play, and that's where extended butt plug use comes in nicely. If you want to edge all day, you can with a butt plug. You can't with a dildo, unless you're going to start wearing a harness, just to keep the dildo in place as you go about your day; but the simpler the better. Further a dildo, with no shaft that allows the sphincter to close around it is going to become uncomfortable too fast. The butt plug is usually shorter than a dildo, as well, since you'll only be wanting to reach as far as the prostate. Anything past that is kind of wasted (no nerve endings to feel it), and if the plug fills the entire rectum (about seven inches deep) it will also tend to become uncomfortable too quickly.

In conclusion about beginning to explore your anal sexuality, don't push yourself. Do only what feels good and not what causes too much pain. Take it slow, use lube, and do it in private for awhile before you complicate your anal play with a partner or spouse.

A Movie, Popcorn, Cold Drink, and My Buttplug

Butt Plugging to The Lone Ranger

Johnny Depp makes an excellent Tonto, but since the movie was a little too long, a little too odd, my butt plug made it all much more enjoyable.  Since I lived plugged at home and in public I didn't have to do much to prepare for the almost three hour movie except check my cleaned out state before going to the movie. I didn't want to be uncomfortable as I sat there and didn't want to have to take care of any business in the public restroom. It all went beautifully, and I found I could distract myself from parts of the movie that went on a little too long by simply shifting in my seat and clinching, feeling my sphincter close around the shaft and the nice big 2-inch diameter "egg" pushed against the rectal walls.

For long-term plugging, I turn the P-spot angle toward the back, so that my prostate is not continually massaged. That's why I like those angled plugs like the NJOY Pure Plug and my Devi Glass Plug. For me sitting for long periods is more comfortable with the ring, rather than the NJOY oval base, but you have to admit how hot the NJOY looks in a guy's butt. And straight guys might like the way it looks in their GF or Wife's butt. A friend and fellow plugger sent me this hot picture of his NJOY...enjoy! Any of you reading this while you're plugged can just clinch to see how this is feeling in the picture. Now imagine taking your hands and spreading your butt cheeks, as you slowly lower yourself onto a chair or a harder surface and feel that baby get pushed against the sphincter. With my glass plug, which has a 3/4 inch shaft, the sphincter gets a better stimulating effect than the narrower NJOY shaft, but I'm sure there are plugs that guys use for really stretching things out that would add even more intensity to sitting and shifting around.

As far as my goal of living plugged, I said earlier that I didn't intend to keep an update on this blog of how long I could go without breaking my plugging 24/7. I made it to twenty days and three hours, but because of bad food choices I had to back off. I also noticed that I got butt weary from doing too many enemas; so I'm learning as I go. I can stay plugged all day if I watch what I eat the night before and don't eat foods for breakfast that tend to "run" through my system. But another fellow plugger and friend suggested that I not feel like I'd failed in my goal of living plugged even if I did have to take a break now and then. And he's right. Part of living plugged is to enjoy the experience as continuously as possible.

I was also inspired by a post on a health forum the other day. It was from the grandson of a 90 year old grandfather who had to confide in his grandson that his glass butt plug that he'd had since 1958 had broken and he needed another one, because it helped him have bowel movements. Guys, that's 55 years of continual butt plugging! And if you google the history and use of butt plugs, you will see that doctors had devised anal plugs much earlier than you might imagine. So I doubt that the story of the 98 year-old grandfather was made up. I also suspect that the grandfather had to derive a great deal of pleasure from wearing his plug, especially if it was part of his life for 55 years.

Tranny uses inflatable butt plug.

Custom Made Butt Plugs

The Glass Blowing Artists

This is an appreciation shout out to all the artists in the glass blowing arts who help us dedicated butt pluggers create new designs. In the seven months since I've been using metal and glass butt plugs, I have a growing appreciation for the art and dedication it takes from artisans to create beautiful and functional butt plugs. Passion Glass is one of these companies. The link I have provided here takes you directly to the page where you can read about how to submit your butt plug design to the company and what to expect in the creation process. I have personally not used this resource yet, but when I do, I will take the Devi Glass Plug prototype (which is also the same as the njoy pure plug design—except for the base) and have the company attempt to make a larger version. Why mess with perfection (as the Devi Glass plug is perfect) and try to "improve" on it? Well, I could use a 2.25 inch egg and a 1.25 inch shaft. I want a little more stretch of the sphincter.

Even though I still say I'm not into stretching and "gaping" I've found that I do want to expand just a little. Now that I've been plugged almost continuously for several months (no not 24 hours a day), I have days where everything just comes together, when my ass is "in the pink" so to speak, and I feel like I could use a bigger plug inside. If you're just getting started on living plugged, or attempting to, or wanting to keep a plug in your butt as much as possible, what I've discovered is that what used to be the pain barrier—the point where to push it further causes pain and sweating and shaking and frustration—has now become the pleasure center. It's focused right there in the anal opening, and every nerve in my body is quivering with intense pleasure for that extra little push, and I can feel the slick glass going in.

And I would like to push the envelope some days, which is why I would like the same design of glass plug I have now, but just a tad bigger egg and shaft.

Any reader of this blog are welcome to tell the rest of us about his custom made plugs, where he got them, and any other details. Let's not hear from those who had a bad experience. While this might be useful to know, I want to hear from those who were successful in getting a well made custom plug. We all have different tastes in our favorite plugs, and we all have our own desires.


Guys, sit back, relax, and enjoy this hunk for eighteen minutes in a good masturbation session, made better with a classic butt plug:

Farm Boys Revisited

Sowing My Seed

Other than being plugged as I write this, this post isn't about plugging. I'm going to revisit my youth, growing up on a farm. As I said in an earlier post, from my experience most of the farm boys I grew up around were just about as obsessed with sex and their cocks as I was. We were cotton farmers in a hot part of the country, but not the south. As anyone might guess there's farming throughout the U.S. and in the southern part of the state where we had our family farm, my father was friends with the owner of one of the cotton gins. I think back on the two boys from that family and the opportunities I squandered (as far as having sex with boys goes). When our family visited their family (once they moved to a different state) it was quite natural in those close knit farming families that us three boys shared the same bed, and those two boys took advantage of having me in the middle. I helped them jack off, once they had taught me how to do it, and from those visits, even though I learned a lot of misinformation about things sexual jacking off was the best thing I learned.

I literally whacked off everywhere on the farm, and it was a big enough place that I could be alone five minutes after I left the house. So I must've masturbated several times a day, every day and of course had my dick out of my pants almost everywhere I went on the farm. I squirted my cum in the cow barn, the pig pens, the corn bin, the haystack, all around the irrigation pond; I jacked off on the tractor when I was plowing. I came in the irrigation ditch and watched my seed coagulate in the cold water and float downstream toward the cotton fields. I splashed it on the cotton plants, the beans, the corn, on the road between fields. I shot my wad from my bicycle as I rode around the fields or out in the desert. I masturbated in the cotton trailer on the fluffy white cotton, while Dad made the rounds in the cotton picker for another load. And the thing is, so did the other boys on neighboring farms. When we got together for a skinny dip in one of the irrigation ponds, the first thing we did was get hardons and compare sizes. We compared our cut and uncut cocks with each other.

And so it went. Of course, most of the guys had to bring up having sex with girls, which for some reason didn't appeal to me, but it wasn't until I was in high school that i realized I had crushes on boys, and so my jackoff sessions took on a different sort of edge on the farm. But it's true, when you're isolated and everyone is just as ignorant as you are about most things sexual, my fantasies we're not very specific when i realized that sex and boys went together in my mind.

Anyway, my healthy life and body probably sowed a thin layer of cum over all those acres, and it is with fondness that I recall those young teen years on the farm.

There's a rain coming tonight, and it's unusual for this part of the country. Out here in the southwest, when it rains the raindrops are very cold, and it's a real thrill to go out naked and dance in the rain, like it was on the farm; but for that kind of activity, I had to wait until everyone in the house was asleep. I could slip out of my bedroom and sneak off toward the fields. As you might imagine though this was not the usual carefree times, though. The rain could get my father up...we were farmers. You checked on things in a downpour, and could have easily caught me or discovered I wasn't in bed, since he would probably need me to go out with him to make sure we had tarps over things we didn't want to get wet.

Guys, I’m telling you that a butt plug will double your pleasure, whether it’s a good masturbation session by yourself or with a partner. This athletic looking guy has a great ass and it takes the plug hungrily:

How Plugging Contributes to Male Bonding

In Search of the Elusive Male Bond

We all know that guys bond through sports enthusiasm, outdoor activities, testosterone infused activities of any kind, and only guys can really enjoy the stink of the male locker room at halftime. But for some time now, I've been noticing that when a man can get in touch with his anal side—his, not his wife's or GF's—he enters a new realm of potential bonding with other males who are into anal sensuality. I've also noticed with some delight that this anal sensuality can be just as strong and satisfying for straight men as for gay men.

Damn, I'm getting hard just writing about this.

But I digress...

Up until a few months ago, I had no idea that married straight men were ever into anal, other than of course kind of getting off on having their wives or GFs stick her finger up his butt when he's cuming. And during this same time I discovered that straight guys can get so deep into anal activities that some go in for anal dilation and large plugs that make them gape. That's quite a bit further than I think I'll ever get. But I've heard from numerous straight guys because of this blog, and if nothing else, there is a kind of bonding that I feel happening with some of my married and straight male readers.

This has nothing to do with being gay. I'm a proud gay man, so I'm not trying to justify being straight and anal. And I hope that eventually straight guys won't feel that they have to justify their anal activity, while also denying that they're gay. You're straight and love butt plugging? I believe you. Some chat forums overkill on this point. Not here. Here, you're free to just love anal and share it with one another.

That "bonding" thing I began with has everything to do with how two men (one straight, one gay) could share the pleasure and information about anal sensuality—and here plugging our butts! This is also a place for those married straight men who come to see that they're not alone, even if they hide this activity from their wives. Here you're free to explore.

Digression Number Two...

I would love to have a party of gay and straight men, all who come to the party plugged and during the course of the evening we all show one another our plugs, talk about them, discuss what works best, talk about staying clean and staying plugged. Now THAT would be a bonding experience!

Of course I would also like to go to a party where all the guys walk around with their cocks hanging out of their pants...but that's another kind of blog!

This is a longish film, but what I like about it (even though it is staged) is that one of the guys arrives at the cabin already plugged. And of course, he’s ready for action, having stretched his anus during the walk.

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