Thursday, June 20, 2013

Long-Term Butt Plugging and Edging

Like an All-Day Cock


There were plenty of times when I spent the night with a man who had just fucked me, and a fantasy of mine was to sleep all night with his cock in my ass. But there was the impracticality of what to do with the rest of his body, as well as the fact that a freshly milked cock just doesn't stay hard. Later, I would discover that the solution to that all-night-cock-in-the-ass issue was easily solved. Use a butt plug.

And, in a way, that's part of why I like to wear a butt plug all day, every day. It might not even resemble a hard cock, might not have that fleshy warm feeling, but it sure does a great job of keeping me on the edge. It excites all the right bits in my ass, including keeping the sphincter muscles activated whenever I move, twitch, stretch, stand, sit, walk, or deliberately work my cock into a hard on, on the edge of coming. In the picture to the left, that's my ass with the ring of the Prisms Devi glass plug showing. As I've indicated, the Devi is about six inches (four inches insertable) of beautiful crystal clear glass with an egg-shaped head, with a two-inch diameter, a shaft that's about 3/4 inches in diameter, and a 1.75 inch ring that sits just outside the anus. When I clinch my ass, the ring snuggles up close and hard to my anus, and when I sit, it's pushed close as well. But it's never uncomfortable. Just imagine that when I stand, my butt cheeks close around the ring, but because there are no sharp edges, and it's a fat, rounded circle, it feels very nice.

I also enjoy running my fingers around the anal opening, where the lube is nice and slick, and my anal opening is hot and moist feeling. I use three different kinds of lubes that I switch on a day-to-day basis; my favorite is Rascal anal lube. It's runnier than the other two silicone-based lubes that I use, but for some reason, even when I can feel a BM coming on, the plug usually comes away clean. It doesn't dry out, and as lubes go, it's cheaper than others. I'll have to do a google search of Rascal anal lube and come up with more details.

At any rate, to me, it's all about keeping a plug up my hungry butt and going about my daily routines. I seldom masturbate, but I quite often edge until the precum drips into my shorts.

Here's a guy who reviews the Tantus Severin large plug. I love it when reviewers readily admit that they've tried the products they're reviewing. I also love the way this reviewer lovingly strokes the butt plug he's showing us:

Although I'm partial to my glass plug, which currently causes me zero comfort issues, I think I might like to challenge myself with the Severin.

Saturday, June 15, 2013

Plugged Man on the Street

Man on the Street, Plugged

See if you can find the guy wearing the butt plug in this picture. Proof positive that 33 percent of men are plugged in public (this is of course a tongue-in-cheek statement, no pun intended, either about where my tongue is).


And I hope you enjoy this vid:


I love the way this guy whimpers!


Until next time, keep on plugging!

Monday, June 10, 2013

Straight Men Love Butt Plugging, Too

Heterosexual and Heteroflexible Butt Pluggers

I would like to thank the straight and heteroflexible men who have written to me about this blog, and how the pictures and videos of the men with plugged butts have turned them on. Up until a couple of months ago, I had no idea that straight men liked to use butt plugs. But in creating this blog, one of my goals was to discuss how all men, gay and straight, could benefit from the joys and health-giving properties of using butt plugs. While most men I would dare say only use a butt plug for the duration of a sexual encounter, the benefits from being plugged while having sex are well known: harder ejaculations and good prostate massage.

In fact, though it might not be the first use of butt plugs, I have read that butt plugs were created by doctors who wanted to help men (and women) treat hemorrhoids and the Aneros plugs were made specifically for prostate massage. And as with Viagra, which was first developed for an entirely different purpose, these prostate massagers stimulated much more than the prostate. Over a few decades, butt plugs have been embraced by many men and women as one of the most exciting and desirable of sex toys.

Some of my more experienced users might be able to correct any misconceptions I might inadvertently state here (I have only been plugging seriously for six months, following a years' long hiatius when I used my first butt plug in the nineteen nineties).  But as I like to show here, butt plugs are not only health-giving but they are also erotic, and the pictures presented here are specifically chosen for their erotic imagery, like the male duo in this picture that are obviously enjoying the benefits of both being plugged.

I think most men viewing this picture would want to be the one also receiving the blow job, but then those of us who really love to suck dick would prefer to be the one on the bottom. But everyone benefits from such imagery, no doubt including the photographer. Perhaps he has a butt plug firmly planted in his ass while he snaps this photo.

All photos and vids in this blog come from the Internet, from sites that allow users to repost the vids and pictures.

As regular readers of this blog might be aware, my personal goal is to "live plugged," which means staying plugged continually, 24 hours a day, but my first earnest attempt came to an end in the twenty-first day of my longest plugging. Either my body betrayed me, or I betrayed my body by eating too much of the kinds of food that likes to run through my system; and even though I tried to stay plugged on the twenty-first day, I couldn't. My body went through a tremendous cleansing cycle. Of course I have also said that being plugged 24/7/365 is probably unrealistic, and so I did not view this first interruption as a failure, so much as a time out. I took two days off, and I have to report that last night when I resumed wearing my glass plug, it was sheer heaven. Over time, I must have gotten used to the kinds of sensations I thought I had not gotten used to while staying continuously plugged for twenty days. The intensity of my sphincter being deliciously exercised, again, as well as deeper inside, where I felt the glass sliding around as I moved seemed more intense. And so the count begins again...

Mmmm...mmmm....mmmm...we certainly know what this guy is feeling! Enjoy!


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Thursday, June 6, 2013

Why I Plug

The Physical and the Psychological Thrill of it All

I am of course plugged as I sit here writing this blog. I've had my morning BM and enema, and I'm so clean, I can feel the bulb of the glass plug in my rectum, as well as the constant feel of the sphincter closed around the shaft of the plug. It's a delicious feeling, and if I clinch, it shoots a thrill to my cock, which at the moment is semi hard. That's the physical sensations I feel almost constantly throughout the day. There are times when I don't feel it and actually reach behind me as I'm walking for that little bump of the ring base through my jeans.

But a friend of mine asked me what I thought the psychological need was that makes me want to stay plugged 24/7 (and I hope 365). That's a little more difficult to explain. I remember back on the farm in our family bathroom, being naked before I stepped into the tub and setting a small round mirror on a base on the floor beneath my wide spread legs, so I could get a view of my cock, balls, and ass as it might look to someone who was lying between my legs and looking up. There was just something about the sight of my genitalia and ass from that perspective that got me really hard.

I think most guys are visual when it comes to sex, and they like to fuck with the lights on. I also think it's the visual aspect of a guy's libido that makes ass and cock shots so popular in porn. It is said that the real sex takes place in our heads, and I guess that's the psychological aspect that my friend was talking about. There's just something powerful going on in my head that makes me want to live plugged, every day, every night.

I never had to worry about a place to masturbate when I lived on the farm, and over the course of the eleven years that I lived there, I had jacked off in hundreds of places. The bathroom, the front yard, when my family was gone and I was home alone, the barn where we kept the cows, the haystack, the fields, hiding in the tall corn, and usually as I walked through what we called the "flats," where the land was not prepared for farming and thus had native grasses and shrubbery, where I could walk with my cock out and just masturbate under the clear desert sky and feel the heat of the sun on my cock.

https://youtu.be/IZ24gvXomqI.

Back then, of course, I had erections off and on during the day, and it didn't matter if I was in the living room watching TV with the rest of the family, or sitting at the dining room table eating. Pop! Up came the erection. And of course, to my teenage mind, I thought it would be neat if I could be hard all the time, never mind the difficulty of emptying my bladder. Whacking off was a constant in my life, and as I grew older and went through several short relationships, fucking and being fucked was all that mattered. I somehow made it through college and graduate school, while my over-active libido pulled my focus.

But now that I am in a long-term monogamous relationship with another man, I have another psychological need beyond our sexual relations with each other—and that is simply staying plugged, living plugged, and apparently to tell the world about it as I do here.

I speak mainly to other men, but women know what I mean, too, about the joys of butt plugging. And as always I remind straight men that it's a healthy and self-loving thing to get in touch with your anal needs. They're there. Your prostate is waiting. Use a butt plug to milk your prostate and you will be healthier for it. I'm middle aged, and I still have a healthy prostate. Butt plugging is one of the reasons why.

Monday, June 3, 2013

The Plugging Continues

As Spring Moves Along

I've been plugged continuously now for two weeks and almost two days, 24 hours a day, and I think with this length of plugging time, I've begun to see a kind of routine in my body cycle. As with most people, I suppose the morning presents the busiest time for me in terms of plug maintenance, cleaning, BMs, and giving myself a cleansing enema. I don't really like this part of the day, because my body takes two to three BMs before I feel truly clean, and before the plug settles in my ass the most comfortably. Once this couple of hours is over with, I am totally stimulated as I get to work at my computer. I'm retired and my post-retirement job is a work-at-home situation, which allows for occasional visits to my two favorite sites: Experience Project and Fetlife.

I've met some wonderful men and women there who share my enthusiasm for using butt plugs, and a few of them are into being plugged as much as possible.

The second cycle is my diet and cycling through the waste. I try to eat binding foods (bananas, dry toast, rice, etc.) and lay off fats and too many greens. Of course, I can't resist a good pizza, but even then, I usually keep it to one slice. I eat a light lunch. My recent visit to the doctor (plugged of course) involved checking my cholesterol. It was down from the last visit, so I must be doing something right.

And then there's the rest of my day. I work at my computer job throughout the morning, mostly sitting with short walking breaks, and this allows me to exercise the plug, knowing it's there keeping my sphincter closed around the almost 1-inch shaft, and with the lube, I can feel the egg shaped part of the plug in my ass caressing the lining of my rectum. After lunch, of course (being retired), I like to take a short nap, and as I lie there, I clinch, doing a series of kegels, to the delight of my cock, which then grows hard. In these last two weeks, I've only masturbated three times, and I'm beyond the temptation to remove the plug after I ejaculate. The muscles in my ass throb thereafter for a delicious few minutes as the plug is pulled tight against my anus.

I shower in the afternoons, so that I'm clean and ready for the evening. In these last two weeks that has meant going to parties, dinners out, the movies, all while plugged and secretly enjoying my plug. So, as spring moves along, I'm living plugged and loving every moment of it. It has added a dimension of sensuality to what would be ordinary days.


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I hope you will continue to let me know if you enjoy these entries. All pictures and videos are from the Internet, from sites that invite users to embed them, as I do here in this blog.



Saturday, May 25, 2013

A Milestone on My Journey of Living Plugged

Week One: Plugged 24/7

As I said, I am on a journey to stay plugged all the time, day and night, at home and in public, with as little time out as possible for cleaning my butt plug, taking bathroom breaks, and showering each day. And so it is fitting that I write about my first-week milestone of staying plugged virtually 100 percent of the time. That's a solid 168 hours, from last Saturday at 2 p.m until today, Saturday at 2 p.m. In fact I'm already into my second week by 1 hour...and counting down for week 2.

The plug I used to help me achieve this milestone was the Devi Glass Butt Plug. It's not meant to be an anal stretcher, but it sure is meant to be comfortable, and I can say that right now it's plugged in my ass and feels as comfortable as it did when I started this week-long journey. I'll talk more about the physical aspects of staying plugged in a moment. But here, I'd like to provide the overall description of the Devi plug. It's made entirely of borosilicate glass, non-porous and easily cleaned with soap and water. It can take either water-based or silicone-based lube. It measures 5.75 inches in length, 3.25 inches insertable length, and the bulb is 1.96 inches in diameter. It has a 2-inch diameter ringed handle, which fits like a coin in a slot between the butt cheeks, and so it NEVER irritates, as do the bases of plugs that sit perpendicular to the butt cheeks.

If you note how the head is angled, you can see that if it is inserted with the head toward the prostate, it would be used for a regular masturbation session, allowing men to achieve an intense orgasm. It could also be used wearing it the same direction for fucking a partner. But that position is not good for long-term wear, because a man could not stand post-ejaculation stimulation.

Here is an example of the kind of intensity you can get wearing a plug for a prostate massage:



I wear it with the angled head away from the prostate. To be sure there is still some prostate stimulation that causes me to have some precum in the morning when i wake up and when I'm allowing myself to grow hard by clinching my ass muscles for that delicious cascade of feelings. But during the week, I have to remove my focus on the sexual stimulation so that I can work, drive, and talk to people.  (Of course, sometimes during each of these activities, I can also get a thrill out of know the Devi is there.)

The physical aspects of staying plugged, as you might imagine are having to periodically remove the plug, have a bowel movement, and take a little more time for a quick rectal enema. During this time, when the plug is out and waiting to be cleaned, I will massage my anus with lubed fingers and feel how the plug has left my internal skin feeling so good, especially where the sphincter is located and which has to stretch open both when I gently push the plug in or when I remove it. That is the area, as well that causes intense feeling, almost to the point of pain. But I can say that the "pain barrier" is now the pleasure center, as well, as it attempts to close around the shaft of the plug. When I clinch my muscles, it is this area that is stimulated.

So, during this last week, starting last Saturday, I went to a party of over a hundred people, plugged and secretly enjoying the feeling of the plug as I talked to everyone; had guests over for dinner the following evening; and going out and running errands during the week. I also went to my doctor while plugged for a quick check up—which did not include a prostate exam. Otherwise I would have had to remove the plug, and I wasn't willing to do that. I also went to the grocery store and out to eat several meals. At home I worked in front of my computer, and of course I slept plugged every night. In fact sleeping plugged is now a constant with me, and I have been doing that now for about six months with virtually no night when I wasn't plugged.

There is a product called the MEO 24/7 anal stretcher, which some guys might be interested in. It is meant to be worn permanently as well and I understand that it is comfortable. However, it is also meant to permanently stretch the anus, and the guys who do this step up to larger and larger sizes over the course of time. I will leave you with what has to be a very sexy, graphic, and surprising video of what can be done with the MEO anal stretcher. It is hollow:


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Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Day Four Plugged

Actually Plugged All the Time

So, in about six hours, I will have been plugged continuously for four days and counting...

I don't intend to do a daily update and only talk about reaching each goal. But staying continuously plugged, living plugged, is my goal, and so from time to time I will mention how many days, weeks, months I have been plugged without interruption.

To me staying plugged as a way of life can have some interesting and naughty fun aspects that being unplugged doesn't have. Last Saturday after I had plugged my butt (start of this four-day session), I took a real big chance and went to a party...an outdoor barbecue. There were over a hundred people there and only one bathroom, which I was sure would be occupied most of the time, and if I had a problem, I would be hard put to rectify (no pun intended) the problem. So, I milled through the throng, fully aware most of the time that I was simultaneously talking with someone and feeling my plug. I hugged nieces and nephews, old lady inlaws, and sat on the hard benches and ate barbecue, careful to watch how much I ate, of course. Sometimes I forgot the plug was there, until I moved, and then I was washed over with a cascade of feelings: clinch sphincter, feel the plug being pulled hard against my anus, cock twitching, maybe a slight drip of precum, which in turn probably made my face go all gooney.

I did only stay for an hour, but when I got home, it was TV time with my partner, and then to bed (and slept through the night plugged). On Sunday morning, we had a few of the relatives over for breakfast before they got back on the road, and so I was in the kitchen helping set out food, making coffee, greeting our guests when they arrived, again, hugging someone who had no idea that I was plugged. "I'm wearing a buttplug. How are you today?" (Woops! Did I say that out loud?) I sat down on a rather hard patio chair with a thin cushion, carrying on a conversation, and trying to stay focused on speaking the words, rather than clinching my ass. I do have to say that a hard surface with minimal padding really sends a thrill through my ass, and while talking, I had to avoid setting up a self-fucking rocking motion it felt so good.


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The rest of Sunday was uneventful, other than working on a book that was due back at the publishers, following my editing. And Monday was the same. So I mainly sat in my padded chair at the computer. Here, I have to interrupt to say that I've had to work out a few details that comes with being a living being. I have to accommodate the waste cycle, which for me is not as regular as I would like. And staying plugged means that I also have to do a couple of cleanses during the day. I don't think excessive enemas are healthy on the digestive system, so I rarely do a deep enema that gets water up in the large intestine, and so I use a bulb with a five-inch finger on it to clean only the rectum. That's not where food is digested, and so I don't destroy the healthy, necessary biotic thingies (sorry, I'm too lazy to look it up.

Monday came and went and again, I was at my computer working. And then on Tuesday night, when I had reached 72 hours plugged, I went to a birthday dinner. I was in a real quandary about that, because we went to a seafood restaurant and I've sometimes experience IBS symptoms following a salad or too much cheese, so I ordered rice pilaf and clam chowder. The seats were wooden with no padding, and while I felt no discomfort from my glass plug, my little butt got numb on the bare wood, and so I had to get up quite often to walk around.

And so now it's Wednesday at 9 a.m., which means I have been plugged for...91 hours and counting until 2 p.m., which will complete four days.

Let's end this post with another vid for our straight boys out there who just might consider another benefit of anal play. Yes, honey, I had a tough workout at the gym!"

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Tuesday, May 21, 2013

A Good Start on Living Plugged

Six Months on the Road of Living Plugged


I don't know what drew me back to butt plugs after several years, but one day when I was at the local adult bookstore, shopping for lube, I wandered back to the wall of dildos and butt plugs and ended up buying my first plug in several years. During my absence, the quality and materials in butt plugs had increased tremendously.

I bought a ribbed silicone plug, cone shaped like the traditional plug, and after a few days and a few tries, I finally got it in and immediately ran some errands, kind of like working on a trapeze without a net, because I was out and about, in public and didn't know if I was going to start hurting or need to use the bathroom...and then what would I do? It was kind of foolish to do this my first time out. But I was also ecstatic about being plugged and enjoyed it for awhile.

Yep, I paid for it a little, because it wasn't long before I felt tremendous discomfort and was relieved to get back home and get the plug out. I hadn't been nice to my anus, my skin was too unused to being plugged and I had done it for almost two hours. I should have stayed around the house and used it for about 30 minutes that first time.

Then I got a stainless steel NJOY pure plug, medium, which meant that it was about 1.25 inches in diameter, and I went to town on that one. Except for the base oval flange bothering me after, say, all day, it was extremely comfortable.

Let's pause here for a little video of what some guys are up to:

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Still, I wasn't quite "there" with my quest for a butt plug that I could wear every day and every night. I didn't know that I was going to be one of those guys or gals that was so in love with being plugged that I just didn't want to remove it for any length of time!

And so, dissatisfied with the irritation I got from the steel plug (although it was almoooost comfortable long term, I turned to glass plugs with rings instead of a base, and in the last few weeks (from the last of of April and now through most of May, I have been wearing the Devi Glass Plug. Up until three days ago, I had been plugged more often than not, but then on Saturday afternoon, I plugged in and have been continually plugged through writing this entry—three, 24-hour days, plus 10 hours, going for four days, going for a week...living plugged. I've been on this road for six months, and the only thing that has changed is that I've come back to plugging.

Here's another review from our straight man who loves plugging:

Guys, taking the first step into plugging and exploring the other half of your sexuality (besides whacking your meat) will open up a whole new cascade of mind-blowing orgasms.

Thursday, May 16, 2013

How a Farm Boy Evolved into Living Plugged

Living Plugged

When I was five years old my family moved out into the country so that Dad could take over the farm he owned. When I was born, he was working as a carpenter in town and was leasing out his land. But I guess he got tired of working for wages and wanted to get back to the land. So I grew up as a farm boy.  I didn't mind the new life, and I recall even as young as I was how big our new world seemed, with cotton fields, alfalfa, and grain stretching off into the distance. We also had chickens, cows, pigs, a dog, and several cats. And one of the first eye-opening adventures I had was to see all these animals mating, and early on I saw what a bull's penis looked like, hard and pink and long like a spear as it entered the cows butt (or at least that's where I thought the bull put it). I was only impressed with the length of the bull's penis, but far more impressive was a neighboring farm's horses. Now those things, when hard and long are beautiful specimens of cock. And even though I never saw a horse mate with a mare, I imagined him mounting her the same way the bull mounted the cow, from the back.

Of course, all those fantasies you might have about farm boys and sex are true—at least they were for me and the neighboring farm boys. We took an early and intense interest in sex, our cocks, and wondering what it felt like to fuck. We knew that meant sticking our cocks into something's butt (we didn't know the difference between a vagina and a butt hole back then), but it didn't stop us from trying. One of my friends said he'd tried to fuck his cow, but that her hole was so big, it didn't feel like much; and when the extension service came by to artificially inseminate the cow, he said the guy got his whole arm up to the shoulder into the cow's rear end—our first knowledge of fisting, I suppose.

And so we tentatively experimented on each other. I remember the first time I tried to get a boy's penis in my butt, it was more or less a disaster, but there was enough of a connection that I could tell it would feel wonderful to get it all the way in. We're talking about total freedom to delve headlong into learning how our bodies—but especially our cocks and butts—worked. Whenever another boy and I spent time at either his farm or mine, we'd go out into the desert or into the fields walking or riding our bikes, and I  usually liked to keep my dick out and play with it as we walked. So did other farm boys, and when we got into high school and had keg parties out in the desert near our farms, there was always at least one of us who got his cock out and played with it around the camp fire. There was a lot of talk about fucking girls, but nothing much about fucking each other, except when a couple of guys would secretely experiment on each other. "They say the inside of your mouth feels just like a pussy."

"Yeah?"
"Yeah. Wanna try it?"
And once or twice, I sucked on a guy's dick, which at the time seemed awfully big in my mouth, and I would stop way sooner than he would've wanted me to.

But then there was solo sex, once I learned to jack off, and I wouldn't confine myself to the bathroom at home, where the entire family shared one bathroom. It was neater to get up in the middle of the night and sneak out of the house wearing only my briefs and as soon as I got away from the house, I'd hang them on the handlebars of the bike and ride naked around the cotton fields, and usually have a hand's free cum I was so excited. And it looks like I'm not alone. Here's one of my favorite vids for sheer audacity.



And so, as I grew up, moved away from the farm, I always took care of both my cock and my butt, and years later, I discovered the joy of living plugged. Of course as I write this, I've got a two-inch diameter, six-inch long glass butt plug firmly planted in my ass.