The Long-Term Effects of Living Plugged

Seven Months with a Butt Plug in My Ass...

A Living Plugged Friend (hollow MEO 24/7 plug)

I don't wish to misrepresent the actual facts, but I can say that I have virtually had a plug in my ass for at least 200 days and nights, the only breaks were when I had the flu (8 days) and a few partial days here and there when my digestion was just too much to deal with. Unlike some other long-term pluggers, however, I have used the same plug (substituting it for another similar one during one two-week period). So, essentially, I have used the Devi glass plug, with a 2-inch diameter and a ring base, all this time. The long term effects and my perspective have been interesting.

A couple of months into this journey of living plugged, I felt that I was nicely stimulated (mainly the sphincters and the anal opening) every waking hour, which was a delight to feel intensify when I stood up, sat down, bent over, walked, danced, coughed, laughed, or otherwise moved.

After seven months (which is how long it's been now), I get the same feelings, but there's something new going on. The plug has truly become a part of my ass. I never feel any discomfort, but I sure continue to feel the stimulation. Inside, past the sphincter, I do have a slight feeling of fulness, which a lot of butt pluggers describe as one of the thrills. And no...it doesn't feel like I have to shit. I recognize this call of nature when I feel a slight ache in my belly, which I suppose is the large intestine telling me it's time to evacuate. But I go most of the time without any particular feelings beyond my back door.

My routine for staying plugged is very simple. I usually try to have a regular bowel movement shortly after I get up in the morning; and if I'm a little constipated, I just give myself a shallow enema, sit down on the toilet and flush the rectum out. Sometimes, I fill my rectum with plain water and go about the other routines in the bath, including brushing my teeth, shaving, etc., holding the enema inside. I've found that hot water forces me to evacuate very quickly, so I use tepid to cold water. I also read about a guy who plugs while he's holding the water in his rectum. I've tried that once or twice, and it works fine, as well, to clean out the rectum. But you should be aware that deep enemas, which go past the sigmoid colon are mainly used by porn stars to get a very deep, squeaky clean anal channel. Doing this at home on a regular basis would have at least one deleterious effect: flushing the good probiotics in the intestine out and interfering with digestion. That's why I always only talk about the rectum (that first seven inches from the anal opening to the sigmoid colon). And since I know that digestion is taking place in the large intestine throughout the day and night, I've found that I need to slow down the digestion process enough that it doesn't interfere too often with keeping my plug in my ass.

This is only temporary gaping. The anus is quite healthy

Some men have asked about the long-term potential damage to the sphincter and if they will eventually become too lose, causing one to lose bowel control. I've chosen the Devi plug, because the shaft is a little less than 3/4 inches in diameter and while it keeps the sphincters open, it is not too much and only serves to exercise the sphincters. I've claimed that staying plugged actually helps improve the anus in several ways, and one of them has been the complete cure of hemorrhoids—at least in my case. After my bout with the flu, I did have some recurrence of a hemorrhoid, which left a spot of blood on the toilet paper. But when I could I plugged again, and that problem cleared up almost overnight. I used to be a poster boy for the burning, itching, twitching of the Preparation-H commercials, but no longer!

So, the true long-term effects in my case have been nothing short of complete anal health and of course a minute-by-minute thrill of living plugged.



Good plugging!

Male Bonding Through the Use of Butt Plugs

When Mutual Enjoyment of Butt Plugging is Shared

I've often said in this blog that many straight men enjoy butt plugging, and for most men, it's obvious that gays enjoy anal sex. Some do. Some don't. But in a way, when two men can share their enjoyment of butt plugging, it doesn't matter if they're both straight, both gay, or straight and gay. I feel that I have made several straight male friends through our mutual enjoyment of butt plugging. I do also believe that because these men have embraced the anal part of their sexuality, they can appreciate what gay men have known all along. Further, once a straight man can get over the societal taboos that have otherwise prevented him from admitting that he likes anal stimulation, he is not so freaked out about gay men.

I have no interest in having sex with a straight man, but that doesn't mean that we can't enjoy showing each other our plugged butts. There are even times when two straight men or other combination can help one another with deep plugging and anal play. Of course, we can't really know in the videos, whether a guy is really straight, but I've seen overwhelming evidence of straight guys talking about how they love anal sex. I've also read their disclaimers that they're not gay and wouldn't want to have sex with a guy. And that's fine. Sexual porn and sexual fetishes make for some interesting and mutually enjoyable bedfellows (so to speak).

The guy in this picture is probably mutually attractive to both gay and straight men. Gay men, like me, of course, will enjoy his beautiful face, his rigid cock, and his ass. But I've had straight guys tell me that they get turned on by seeing other guys plugging.

And you just know the guy getting serviced by the woman in the next picture is enjoying himself.

But let's not forget about the anal straight guys and the women who love them. It can also be a mutually satisfying pastime for a woman to "peg" her husband or boyfriend.

Butt...I digress. I've been writing back and forth with men who really love being plugged. A couple of them are gay, a few more call themselves "heteroflexible," and some just say they're straight. I'm currently waiting with anticipation of receiving the selfies from my latest straight, butt-plugging friend, but until then, I've found some good pics, as you can see in this post.

Enjoy...

My bet is that these are plugging buddies, though they may not be gay.

Ahhh...just think what this guy is feeling.

In the meantime, I've searched a little every day to bring you the plugging vids and picts that I like. There are sites that feature women, and these are wonderful. Men and women can now equally enjoy plugging; but as the theme of this post suggests, plugging can break down the barriers between men, no matter their sexuality. I think it's a great time to be alive, to be able to share so much lucious sexuality through the magic of the Internet. And so, my search goes on.

Remember that I write this blog while plugged. After plugging now for almost a year, I've struck a balance in my diet and while I sometimes cheat and have foods that cause chaos with my plugging, it doesn't take long to bring it back into alignment. I don't, however, ever see the possibility of wearing one of the hollow plugs out in public.

I get all my vids from the Internet, and the sites thoughtfully provide the embed codes for use by other sites, like this one. Thanks to Gay Demon and BestMaleBlogs, traffic to this site has exploded.

Butt Plugged All the Time....and Still Able to Live Normally

I'm able to stay plugged and still focus on everyday life...

If you're the kind of man, like me, who really wants to live plugged 24/7, you might doubt that you'd be able to concentrate on everyday life, still being able to live "normally" going to work, getting a good night's sleep, doing all the things you normally would do without a butt plug in your ass. I've read that some guys are afraid they won't be able to sleep if they have a butt plug in their ass, or wouldn't be able to concentrate at work, or maybe get caught in a situation where they're unable to take care of the plug for BMs and such while at work.

Some of these are legitimate concerns, but after having been plugged now for at least seven months, I can tell you that you can live normally, concentrate on your work, carry on conversations, and do all the activities you do without being plugged. Of course there are exceptions and there are times when I have to remove my plug. I've covered the more obvious reasons in other posts. But I can assure you that while you never get used to being plugged (there's always that sexual haze of pleasure at every moment in a plugged life), it becomes so routine to feel the plug in my ass, feel the sphincter loosen and tighten as I move that it becomes a chronic awareness and something that you can easily ignore when necessary.

For example, I like to hang out at a local coffee shop and visit with the locals in the small tourist town where I live. People come and go in the coffee shop. I get introduced or greet people I know, have discussions on everything from the weather to literature and art, carry on conversations, drink coffee, and no one is the wiser; but at certain moments while visiting, I just clinch my ass for a moment and enjoy the secret pleasure of being plugged.

When I'm working I can put in several hours without once being distracted by the plug; and yet I know it's there. And when I stand up to take a break, it just lovely. Now, I do work at home, so I'm not faced with the same difficulty of taking care of butt business should it arise, as those of you might, who work in an office or facility where bathroom time is not quite so convenient or private.

Some guys say they carry small zip-lock baggies with lube, just in case their plug dries out. But I would like to suggest that you choose your permanent-wear plug with great care, for material, size, and above all comfort. Glass or steel certainly negates the need for frequent lubing. In fact, I'm almost to the point where I use just a drop or two of lube and can go twelve or more hours without the least bit irritation. I use a plug that is also not overly large in my rectum, leaving room for gas and other buildup. The shape as well is important. No need to repeat the kind of plug I have found that never irritates, and over time, I no longer have the initial kinds of issues with "weary butt" that I used to have when beginning this living plugged journey several months ago.

Living a normal life, while staying plugged is possible and preferable to living a normal life without being plugged—that is, if have a plug in your ass as much as possible is something that interests you. One last detail before I end this post. Yesterday, I overdid the butt plugging porn (see the last video in this post) and got so horny, I just had to masturbate, so I combined that with my shower. I kept the plug in place at shot my load, but I did not remove the plug afterward. A lot of guys want to immediately take the plug out after ejaculating, and thus end their plugging/jackoff session. Keep that plug in, and you will be rewarded with afterglow for several hours, before your prostate, ass, and cock settle back down.

All pics and vids come from the Internet from sites that make it possible to use them elsewhere; or more often, now, fellow pluggers send me pics to use.





Talk about an eager bottom and delicious anal play...sent me to the bathroom to beat my meat!

The Secret World of Butt Plugging

Who secretly wears butt plugs on a daily basis?

Any time you do a google search for butt plugging there are thousands of results that come back for the person to consider. But in a way, finding out the kinds of people who secretly wear butt plugs among their family and friends, out in public and sleep with them is another matter. In the few months that I have been doing this blog and in reading various forums, I have been surprised at statements like these that open discussions:

"I'm a straight guy...and my wife doesn't know I wear a butt plug..."

"I've often wondered...who is wearing a butt plug right now?"

"I'm definitely not gay, but I really like playing with my ass...Is this normal?"

Many men have responded to my blog who like the idea of "living plugged" as I have coined the phrase, and most of these have been straight guys. To be equal about this, even more women, I think, are into butt plugging than men are, but I get the feeling that men are coming around at a rapid rate. And, as I have said, several times, the purpose of this blog is to encourage all men to explore their anal sexuality. It is surprising when I think about it that so many women love anal play, but I understand that if they're being fucked in the vagina when they've got a plug in their ass, the feelings drive them crazy. It's easier to understand about men, because we have prostates, and getting the prostate massaged from the inside often results in ejaculations of a stronger nature than those that come from masturbating our cocks. And so, men who have partners that don't care for anal stimulation have begun to secretly plug without their partners knowing.

So, straight men who are not gay, whose wives or GFs don't like anal have begun to secretly use butt plugs and dildos. But gay men whose partners are not thrilled with anal also secretly wear butt plugs. I'm one of these. My partner of almost 22 years is just not into anal sex, and there's nothing wrong with that. But after many years of not being anal with my partner, I have finally begun to wear a plug every day, every night, everywhere and every when—and I just love it.

Taken all together, then, the secret world of butt plugging includes straight men and women, as well as gay men and, no doubt lesbians. The secret part comes from those who get a thrill from being secretly plugged or feel a need to wear plugs without anyone else knowing. This blog might be a place where secret pluggers can find one another. 

Even though I'm decidedly and proudly gay, I am thrilled to think that straight guys are so comfortable with their masculinity that they not only don't feel threatened by the idea that anal play is somehow "gay" and they don't mind sharing their plugging affection with others. 

Bear in mind that I get pics and vids directly from the Internet. In all cases, those that I use are there for taking, and the sites make embedding vids possible by providing the html codes for it. I do not knowingly "steal" any pictures or vids. Also, this is not a monetized site. I don't do it for the money but for the sheer dedication to plugging and for fun. I also appreciate those men who have sent me pictures of their plugged asses for use here.

Warning: I am Wearing a Butt Plug Under My Clothes

The Secret Sexual Pleasure of Living Plugged...

In some ways, it's no easy feat to live plugged, almost continuously 24/7/365, but I am well on my way to completing my first year plugged virtually all the time. As I've stated before, I began using a butt plug after several years of doing without, and this time, it has turned into both a challenge and a dream to stay plugged day and night, no matter what is going on in my life. I think most of us masturbate in private and have our own little kinks and private pleasures. Discounting those of us who also like to masturbate in public places or engage in exhibitionist activities, I think the majority of men and women do things under their clothing that they like to keep secret, as an added thrill in their day. I'm thinking about men who like to wear panties and frilly underthings, for example, which you'd never expect of, say, a beefy construction worker. And of course, this really has nothing to do with gender identity.

So my secret sexual pleasure is to wear a butt plug all the time, including under my clothing as I go through my day. I'm such an ordinary looking man of middle age that living plugged is really easy to get away with. Just today, I had a nice lunch with my long term partner at a patio restaurant, and we chatted and laughed in the sunlight, visited with the waitress, and otherwise had a very normal time. But there I was enjoying the feel of my Devi Glass Plug firmly planted in my ass. We live in a small village that makes the bulk of its revenue from a world-wide tourist trade, and our house sits right on a very public street in the village, and when I am out on the sidewalk in front of the house, I've got my plug in place, and I greet the visitors as they pass by. Of course, I'm also enjoying the good looking men of every age and watching everyone and wondering what their secret pleasure might also be, including the chance that I strike up a conversation with a fellow butt plugger.

Beyond the village is a moderate sized city, where there is an adult toy and video store, where I get my lube. I order my butt plugs from the Internet. But from going in there and seeing the array of sex toys, including a wide variety of dildos and plugs, I figure that many people in the city and maybe even more like me in the village are secretly plugged under their clothes. In fact, as I have mentioned before, the staff in the adult store seem to be butt plug and dildo enthusiasts, and one male clerk said, "I guess we all wear butt plugs, now." He was surely helpful and focused on showing me exactly what kind of lube worked best in his opinion.

After almost a year, now, the plug has become part of my body. I had earlier said that I'm reminded I'm wearing it whenever I move, whether it is lying down, standing up, sitting, walking. And while this still occurs, my kegels have gotten much stronger and I hold them for longer duration, now, realizing that I'm not doing any damage to my rectum or my sphincter. And when I clinch hard and long, I can feel a kind of two-step surge, from my sphincter tightening around the shaft of the plug then surging into my cock. I could hardly fall asleep last night and brought myself to the precum stage before I finally relaxed and drifted off.

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Enjoy your day!

The Beauty of the Plugged Male Ass

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Frequent Questions from the Internet about Butt Plugging

Q & A on Plugging

I look in on butt plugging discussions as much as I can, sometimes just to participate in the discussions and sometimes to alert men to my blog. This blog is dedicated, as I have said, to getting all men to explore the anal side of their sexuality, which I believe is one of the healthiest things men can do to double their sexual experience with a partner, enhance private masturbation, and a good way to encourage anal physical health, as well, In the Q &A that follows, I have taken what I consider some of the most frequent questions I run into on the internet. I have chosen to put in my two cents on these questions because I often find that there's a great deal of misinformation out there, lack of knowledge, embarrassment (mainly from heterosexual men), and a need for frank and graphic details concerning these questions. But for a moment...all seriousness aside as we ponder this funny little picture of two babies:

 I know, I have a warped sense of humor, but whoever came up with this meme for this picture, my hat's off to you. We know that whoever did at least spends some time thinking about butt plugs. When you "google" the single string "butt plug" you get everything from what we're talking about here to some sort of industrial discussion of things that are called butt plugs, just like we have male and female plumbing parts in the plumbing industry, so learn to focus your search by adding specific additional words to narrow the search.

So here are the questions, followed immediately by my answers. My answers might also be misinformed, so I add that this is based on my experience and listening in on the butt plugging discussions.

Straight men and anal—Is It Normal?

I didn't realize that so many straight men were into anal play until I started reading discussions on butt plugging for men. In many cases, straight men have their wives strap on a dildo, and in a few cases straight men engage in plugging as a private matter. But on the "Is it Normal" site, there is anxiety about whether a man is really straight if he likes to plug or be fucked. I think anal plugging and anal play for straight men is normal. I just wish there wasn't so much anxiety about whether it makes them sort of gay. They should be aware that a lot of gay men are not into anal play, so plugging and anal play are not automatically gay. In my estimation it just feels good, it's not hurting anyone (even if you sometimes have to keep it a secret), and it's as normal for straight men as it is for gay men.

For how long is it safe to wear a butt plug?

This question requires some qualifying statements. But first, my answser. It is safe to wear a butt plug 24/7/365. It's impractical, however, for a variety of reasons. In my experience, I just cannot plug and stay clean if I've got diarrhea, so I don't. But having a plug in my ass almost without a break has never injured me in any way. Now for the qualifications. The butt plug you choose for staying plugged should probably be either glass or steel. Silicone and other materials like that are porous and tend to dry out quicker, you can only use water-based lubes, and the irritation factor is something you have to take into account. With glass and steel, there really is no irritation factor. The second qualification is that you choose a plug that is not too large to accommodate some space in the rectum for gas and fecal matter. You will be extremely uncomfortable if you use a plug that is too long and too large in girth. I can fart around my glass plug to alleviate gas buildup, but I have to unplug, evacuate, clean up and re-plug for BMs. This is just a fact of life. The third qualification is that no part of the plug should cause irritation, and irritation can equal damage. I use a glass plug with a circular base that fits between my ass cheeks like a coin in a slot, not a round base that sits perpendicular to the shaft. The circle base NEVER irritates. The shaft should not be so large that you're stretching out the anal opening in a permanent way. The shaft on my Devi glass plug is not even 3/4 inches. If it was much larger I might find that the sphincter would not readily close. The fourth qualification is there's a difference between going for long-term (permanent) wear and using a butt plug for the duration of a fuck session or masturbation session. Go big and bold if you're into that for the short term; go moderate and sensible in design if you plan to live plugged, as I do.

Wearing a butt plug all day or all night—Is it safe?

Many men don't like to go all day with a plug because they don't want to go into a situation where they might have an emergency, need a bathroom, or feel that if they're at work, they don't get the privacy they need to make adjustments, clean up, or relube. So for that kind of situation, we're talking about "safe" as in non-discovered and embarrassed; but as I said in the previous question it's safe to wear a butt plug 24/7. Some men claim that being plugged at night keeps them awake...yes...well, sure. It makes you horny. But I find drifting off to sleep with a plug in my ass is a pleasant experience.

Who is wearing a butt plug right now?

I am of course wearing a butt plug—right now. This is a question I see pop up on various forums and discussion groups and is probably meant to be answered by those engaged in an ongoing conversation. But I like to ponder this question as I go out in public and look at all the men's butts (Other men can ponder this question and look at women's butts.) At any rate, I like to wonder about this, since I'm as unremarkable in a crowd or out in public as the next guy. I've never seen a hint of a plug showing through clothing, but perhaps that particular wiggle means something, or that hint of a smile?

Who wears butt plugs outside or in public?

Those who stay plugged as much as possible all wear their plugs outside and in public. It goes with the territory, and it adds a delicious bit of secret pleasure to the most mundane things, like standing in line at the grocery story. Who can be bored when you can stand there and stimulate your prostate or sphincter?

How do you keep a plug from falling out?

The best way to keep a plug from falling out when you're walking, standing, or playing tennis is to match the plug to your sphincter size and looseness. If you've stretched yourself out by being greedy with size, you need to choose a plug that has a definite bottom portion that goes past your sphincter, so that once you get the plug in, your sphincter will close around it. The shaft, therefore, should be smaller in diameter than the bulb. The NJOY is a great choice for plugs that won't fall out, even if they're heavy. A dildo, on the other hand is not for keeping in. A plug that is just too small for your experience level is quite likely to fall out, or say be blown out like a rocket if you sneeze and you're standing. Some men wear tight jeans or snug underwear, but the best way to keep a plug in is to choose the right design, and make sure the shaft is not too short, so that the business end pops past the sphincter.

Do you ever feel guilty about wearing a butt plug?

I never feel guilty about wearing one. If I went to church, I suppose I could but then if I did I'd probably enjoy it, instead. Just imagine talking to the pastor after church! But I don't mean to make light of this. It reminds me of the guilt rush I used to have when I first started masturbating. I would feel guilty right after I came and sometimes might even vow to never beat my meat again! But guess what, after awhile, there is no guilt rush. And at my current age, wearing a butt plug is such a pleasure and a never-ending kind of edging experience that I don't come to the end of a session. I read about a guy who admitted that he would buy a few butt plugs and enjoy himself for a few weeks or so, and then feel like he was doing something wrong and throw them all away. Being sexual is a good thing. Masturbating is a good thing. So, by extension living plugged is a good thing. It might be a secret, private thing, too, but then so is masturbation most of the time.

Some guys must have wonderful setups in their houses for sex play—and a lot of privacy—like this one.

So...

Huge butt plug

Glass Butt Plug Enthusiasm

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I Broke My Glass Butt Plug

One Drawback to Glass Butt Plugs...

A couple of weeks ago, while I was giving myself a rectal enema, I made the mistake of placing my glass butt plug on the sink next to me, while I was otherwise occupied squeezing the bulb on my enema  device. I knocked the glass plug to the tile floor and it shattered. Aside from my sudden despair, I was naked and barefoot and had to tread lightly around the broken glass to the toilet. I sat there sadly looking at the pieces of my glass plug, where only moments before it had been a beautiful work of butt plug design.

Of course, I immediately thought of my long unused alternate plugs but nothing would replace the Prisms Devi glass plug, which I had been wearing daily for several months. That is not to say that "living plugged" was temporarily suspended, because I did have my Neptune Blue Glass Plug, which of course I stuck up my butt as soon as I cleaned the glass off the floor. And I've been using that ever since, not quite ready to replace the Devi. The Neptune is only 1.5 inches in diameter, and the shaft is much smaller in diameter, so the sensations are somewhat different than the slight stretching and constant reminder of the 2 inch diameter Devi. I had even been contemplating finding a bigger plug...say 2.5 inches in diameter, but so far, I've been unable to locate one with the same type of circle base as the Devi.

So...my Devi is dead but I will be getting another one. I think I will also get the NJOY 2.0, which is stainless steel, weighs over a pound, and won't break. Instead it would break the tile should I drop it. I also don't get along with the base of the NJOY nearly as well as the glass circle base of both the Devi and the Neptune. But I look forward to the added weight for some extra sensations when it's in my butt.

Meanwhile I have had some responses to "lend me your rears" and a heteroflexible friend of mine was kind enough to send me some pictures of his luscious plugged butt. I believe he is wearing the MEO 24/7 plug in this picture. He tells me that he likes to keep his ass shaved, and I agree. When I'm playing with my ass and fingering my hole, I love the silky smooth feel after a good shave. I will be sharing other pictures in later posts. Don't get greedy for the eye candy, boys. There's plenty more where this came from!

In the meantime, I hope that all men, gay or straight, young or old, tall or short, skinny or fat (I fall into this latter category) will give anal stimulation a try. If you're a beginner, consider the Mood Naughty, which is a good beginner plug, made of silicon and easy to insert with just a bit of fingering before hand. Beginners should use plenty of water-based lube for silicon. And if you're suffering from hemorrhoids, look back at a recent post on this blog "Butt Plugs Cure Hemorrhoids." If you want an extra special thrill that will make you shudder uncontrollably and have a nice anal orgasm, look into the Aneros line of anal plugs.

Here's web-free vid I found that should get you interested:

Straight dude, playing with butt plug:

Living Plugged: The Agony and the Ecstacy

My First How-to Guide to Living Plugged...Butt Plugged, That Is.

I am by far not the expert on staying plugged 24/7/365. But like many of you, that is what I aspire to. I read about a ninety-eight-year-old man who had worn a plug for fifty-five years. He was not the one who wrote this on a health blog; instead his granddaughter had written for information on finding a replacement for him. She was embarrassed to write but did so, anyway, because her dear old granddad had broken his plug and had asked her to help him find a new one. Makes me look at elderly men in a whole new light...is he or isn't he?

At any rate, I was also inspired to write this "how to" post, because I just heard from a man who loves my blog and aspires to living plugged 24/7/365. This guide is for him and for any other guy, gay or straight, who wants to get into staying plugged all the time. It's kind of not for guys who want to stretch their holes in preparation for getting fucked by their gfs or bfs.

The first thing we need to differentiate is between living plugged and using a butt plug to enhance our orgasms. Living plugged is staying plugged all day and all night, day in and day out, while using a butt plug to enhance an orgasm is for short-term sessions, either during sex with a partner or masturbating by oneself. Once you come, you remove the plug and bask in the afterglow of a great ejaculation. No, this is for staying plugged, even after you have masturbated or climaxed and not removing the plug, except for cleanup and maintenance.

Next, the idea of living plugged carries with it a commitment in a way to stay plugged through rough patches and challenges—all in the interest of having this unique experience that adds a sensual haze to one's life throughout the day and night. Yes, it's a continuous edging sexual experience that one wishes to keep going all the time. It's kind of like the teenage boy who wishes he could have an erection all the time (or maybe it was just me when I was a teenager!) We soon learn that once you come, your cock deflates, you put it away, and go about your business, until the next time. Not so with living plugged. You want to have some sexual stimulation all the time, and for me, it's something I never get "used to." There are times when I forget I'm plugged, until I move, sit, stand, walk, bend over, cough, need to pee—and then I get a big smile (inner smile) on my face. "Yep, the plug is still there."

If it's not just your horniness talking, and you really do want to try living plugged, the next thing you need to consider is finding the perfect plug that will allow you to stay plugged 24/7 with NO discomfort from the design of the plug. This is different for each butt, which has to do both with the part that goes inside and the base (the part that stays between your butt cheeks). If your eyes are bigger than your ass, you might have a tendency to choose a plug that is just too big for long-term comfort. Or if you're a conservative person with a tight ass, you might choose a plug that is too small to provide much beyond the initial insertion. And you really don't want to massage the prostate 24/7, so you choose a plug that is not going to keep massaging the prostate and cause discomfort that way. Some plugs are shaped with an angled head. Inserted one way, the head of the plug goes right for the prostate and massages it to orgasm; but if you turn it around, the angled head lies in the rectum away from the prostate, so it isn't massaging it all the time. Two types of plugs (more if you look at all the variations) can be worn one way for immediate prostate massage or worn the other way for long-term plugging. One is the NJOY pure plug and its knock-offs. These are stainless steel. They come in three sizes, and the 2.0 weighs over a pound. The other type of plug with the angled head are the Icicles and the Devi glass plugs with the same shape as the NJOY. there are also silicone versions.

Neptune Blue Glass Plug 1.5 inch diameter, angled head

Again, the plug you choose must be perfect and cause NO discomfort, either inside or outside. Alas, the NJOY's base was a deal breaker for me, although other men have said they have no discomfort from the base, which is oval shaped, but has a rather sharp edge, which dug into my perianal skin and, after about 12 hours began to cause agony from the irritation. When I found the Devi glass plug with a round, donut shaped ring base, I discovered that it lays between my butt cheeks like a coin in a slot, and because it is continually smooth and almost a half-inch thick (with a two-inch diameter) it is absolutely never uncomfortable. However, a guy who wrote in said that the Devi base just sticks out too far for his anal configuration and is pushed in every time he sits down. So for him, the NJOY is perfect.

The perfect plug for you might be made of silicone. I find that having to relube after a short amount of time (water-based) is also a deal breaker, especially if I'm out to dinner and the dryness begins to irritate. There are just times when it's inconvenient to find a restroom and relube. But with glass or steel, the lube doesn't dry up (silicone based lube) and keeps a thin sheen on the plug. I can get up in the morning and run my finger around the inside of my anus and it's still nice and slick, even after sleeping in it all night.

Staying Plugged - Diet.

I've discovered that I can't eat certain types of foods and expect regular, firm BMs. To live plugged 24/7, I really do have to watch what I eat. Lettuce runs through me like shit through a goose, so if I'm going to have a salad with my dinner, I am almost guaranteed a trip to the bathroom shortly afterwards, where I have to clean up, give myself an enema, and stay unplugged for an hour or so. Other foods, like beans and many greens cause gas, so to offset this, I need to also take a gas reducer, or I begin to fill bloated and uncomfortable. I've learned to fart around the plug, but I prefer not to have that issue, so I avoid foods that cause gas and bloating.

Part of my intake of food includes dietary supplements, as well as OTC products that slow down the digestion process, like Imodium AD. Regulating my snacking is also important. Sometimes I just want something between meals, but I try to keep that to a minimum. As you can see part of the commitment of living plugged is a willingness to change your diet and stick to it. I can't depend on too many enemas to keep my rectum cleaned out, because it is possible to suffer "weary butt." There's no reason to make staying plugged unpleasant and un-fun.

Staying Plugged - When Your Body Won't Let You.
The most eye-opening lesson I have learned, after being continually plugged for six months (I also count up to nine months of butt plugging, but not continually) is that sometimes, your body just won't let you. I've had bouts of the runs, when no amount of enemas would alleviate what the body has to do naturally, and one case of a the flu, which made it uncomfortable and messy to try to be plugged. I learned a long time ago, however, from another fellow plugger that you should not feel defeated, as if you have lost some sort of contest. When you have to unplug, unplug. The point is to enjoy living plugged.

The Agony?
I've mentioned a couple: the runs and illness. But listen to your body. Don't stay plugged as if it's something that's required. Nobody is forcing you to stay plugged. No one is going to think less of you if you take a break. It has to be something you love doing. If you feel pain, beyond say the initial pain threshold of getting a plug past the sphincter, just simply stop; give your body a chance to let you know what's causing the pain.

The Ecstacy?

Having a plug in my ass! Seeing a plug in your ass! Knowing we have something in common.

Again, the pictures I use on this blog are from the Internet or from fellow pluggers who send me pictures to post. I have to assume that the Internet pictures are free for the taking, when I encounter no disclaimers that state otherwise. And a new proviso is that I will not kowingly post pictures of underage young men. If you send me pictures to post, please state that you are over eighteen. Also remember that once a picture or vid enters the Internet, it will be there until the end of the Internet, and there's no stopping its spread.

There are more variations of anal toys and sex toys out there that can provide a universe of experiences, and I have tried a lot of them, but nothing speaks to me more than having my butt plugged as I go through my day. I invite others to share their experiences. Life is short, and our sex lives are sometimes even shorter. Find a way to stay sexual! It's a health-giving activity.

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